I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.
This is also very selfish, though
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legendarylemur posted...
butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:
I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.
This is also very selfish, though
An ultimatum isn't selfish. It's more of a necessity in these kinds of situations
He's not wrong though. To say you'd only be ok with ffm threesomes is selfish. If he were to be ok with all threesomes, ya know ffm/mmf threesomes at an equal amount than it would be fair. ffm threesomes are more geared towards a mans fantasies than a womans typically.
I guess I should have explained, my girlfriend is bi, and has dated/slept with women. ---