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Vermander
04/17/18 6:33:31 PM
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Guess she has romantic feelings for her friend, but not sexual attraction.

So Ive gotta shut this down right?
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divot1338
04/17/18 6:34:03 PM
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Yes.
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Wedge Antilles
04/17/18 6:34:04 PM
#3:


Bail out
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WSM Piru
04/17/18 6:34:12 PM
#4:


Lmfao if you think there is no sexual attraction.
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Kolibri X
04/17/18 6:34:12 PM
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I don't know, its your life.
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Ushiromiya
04/17/18 6:35:32 PM
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Vermander
04/17/18 6:35:41 PM
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WSM Piru posted...
Lmfao if you think there is no sexual attraction.


Im not stupid.

I mean our relationship is over, in any real adult sense anyways.
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Letron_James
04/17/18 6:35:43 PM
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Dont

Unless shes down fo3 ffm threesums, and even then just keep.her as a pocket pussy
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KiwiTerraRizing
04/17/18 6:36:14 PM
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Shes already getting more poles than a tent factory
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Irony
04/17/18 6:36:21 PM
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Dump her
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HashtagTartarus
04/17/18 6:36:55 PM
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Tell her that the only "open" relationship you'll have is you opening your asshole, and then shit on her.
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Vermander
04/17/18 6:37:08 PM
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Letron_James posted...
Dont

Unless shes down fo3 ffm threesums, and even then just keep.her as a pocket pussy


That is about how I mathematically view this.
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Vermander
04/17/18 6:43:11 PM
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This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.
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AceAttorneyist
04/17/18 6:47:41 PM
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Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.


Soooo what did she say to that?
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Trayvon
04/17/18 6:49:27 PM
#15:


just break up with her in your.mind (don't tell her)

then just have her for sex
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chill02
04/17/18 6:49:35 PM
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Wedge Antilles posted...
Bail out

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Joenage
04/17/18 6:50:07 PM
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What did she say for you to make the threesomes comment?
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Arcanine2009
04/17/18 6:53:42 PM
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You gotta pull a Negan and shut that shit down
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MrK3V
04/17/18 6:54:24 PM
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She's disinterested, and is too scared to break up with you.
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Vermander
04/17/18 6:56:08 PM
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AceAttorneyist posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.


Soooo what did she say to that?


She said that isnt what I want

Trayvon posted...
just break up with her in your.mind (don't tell her)

then just have her for sex


I honestly need to not be a shitty human being here.
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Esrac
04/17/18 6:56:32 PM
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MordecaiRocks
04/17/18 6:57:01 PM
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Do it, then hook me up
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stoltenberg11
04/17/18 6:58:58 PM
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Vermander posted...
She said that isnt what I want

she just want to bang whoever she wants. if youre cool with that then do it but if you aren't then dump her. she's probably gonna bang whoever it is anyway unless she ugly. how old is she anyway
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Esrac
04/17/18 6:59:07 PM
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Vermander posted...
AceAttorneyist posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.


Soooo what did she say to that?


She said that isnt what I want

Trayvon posted...
just break up with her in your.mind (don't tell her)

then just have her for sex


I honestly need to not be a shitty human being here.


Yeah. Of course it isn't what she wants. She wants the license to bang other dudes while you wait for her back at home.
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Howl
04/17/18 7:01:44 PM
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Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.


That was stupid of you. What you should have said was "I'm cool with it as long as you are cool with me fucking other women. If you don't wanna be in a real relationship we can just mess around and you'll do you and I'll do me."

That way you have the power to walk away without her being able to rationalize a way in which you're guilty and blame you for it. Also it leaves the door open for still being able to fuck her which is always a plus.

What you did was give her the power in the relationship to decide how things will proceed with you. Now she'll blame you and still fuck other guys at the same time and try to paint you as the bad guy and will probably even shut down the potential for maintaining a friends with benefits scenario in the future.
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Vermander
04/17/18 7:03:45 PM
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Howl posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.


That was stupid of you. What you should have said was "I'm cool with it as long as you are cool with me fucking other women. If you don't wanna be in a real relationship we can just mess around and you'll do you and I'll do me."

That way you have the power to walk away without her being able to rationalize a way in which you're guilty and blame you for it. Also it leaves the door open for still being able to fuck her which is always a plus.

What you did was give her the power in the relationship to decide how things will proceed with you. Now she'll blame you and still fuck other guys at the same time and try to paint you as the bad guy and will probably even shut down the potential for maintaining a friends with benefits scenario in the future.


So, leave basically?
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thronedfire2
04/17/18 7:06:06 PM
#27:


Honestly if I had a girlfriend and she asked that itd probably be over. Even saying no Id never be able to trust her fully, cause if she wants an open relationship shes already most likely got someone in mind to hook up with

Unless she did it already and was hoping youd say yes and get her off the hook
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Orthopox12
04/17/18 7:06:13 PM
#28:


The moment you say yes to something like this shes not your girlfriend anymore shes everyone's girlfriend.
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Howl
04/17/18 7:07:10 PM
#29:


Vermander posted...
Howl posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.


That was stupid of you. What you should have said was "I'm cool with it as long as you are cool with me fucking other women. If you don't wanna be in a real relationship we can just mess around and you'll do you and I'll do me."

That way you have the power to walk away without her being able to rationalize a way in which you're guilty and blame you for it. Also it leaves the door open for still being able to fuck her which is always a plus.

What you did was give her the power in the relationship to decide how things will proceed with you. Now she'll blame you and still fuck other guys at the same time and try to paint you as the bad guy and will probably even shut down the potential for maintaining a friends with benefits scenario in the future.


So, leave basically?


Yes by setting the stage that you know it's over but you're still willing to entertain the idea of fucking her even if you aren't in a relationship that puts the pressure on her to want to try and keep you instead of the other way around where you're trying to convince her to stay.
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mattnd2007
04/17/18 7:07:49 PM
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Yeah GTFO of there.
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Smashingpmkns
04/17/18 7:09:35 PM
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This kinda shit only works out if that's exactly what you want. To fuck other people and still be able to fuck her. You should leave if that's not what you want.
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bknight
04/17/18 7:12:10 PM
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Only if she let's you put it in the butt. If she let's you do that already then it's time to try a DP yo, good luck.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
04/17/18 7:12:12 PM
#33:


You should only get into open relationship if she's into lesbians
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Howl
04/17/18 7:12:31 PM
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Never try to convince a woman woman to stay basically it will never work. If she really cared enough about you you would never have to try and convince her. Your relationship is over if she's asking to fuck other guys. That's the really sad reality of the situation. How you proceed though will affect the way your relationship with her post-breakup goes. Do you want an all-out war where you both hate each other and make each other miserable? Or do you still want to think of her as someone you loved but it just didn't work out 5 years from now?
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DeadSite
04/17/18 7:12:40 PM
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Open it up unless you're a beta bitch
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legendarylemur
04/17/18 7:13:00 PM
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If a girl I really loved said some shit like this to me, I'd probably freak the fuck out. I would not take it well whatsoever, and we'd probably break up on the spot
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Vicious_Dios
04/17/18 7:13:14 PM
#37:


See ya.
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myztikrice
04/17/18 7:13:24 PM
#38:


Where'd you meet a girl who thought could ask that?
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Orthopox12
04/17/18 7:15:26 PM
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You shouls open it up then lay pipe all over her family and friends.
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Lost_All_Senses
04/17/18 7:19:24 PM
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Wtf. Did dude just say to surgically remover her pussy for personal use?
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AlCalavicci
04/17/18 7:22:30 PM
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I have a hypothetical question for you guys.

What if (as a male) my girlfriend said to me that she was bi, and that she wanted to have an open relationship where she could have sex with other females, but she would never do a threesome?

And what if I, as the male, has no interest in sex with any other female one-on-one?

So basically I guess my question is, do you think it's a problem for a man to let his girlfriend sleep around with other females?
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WorkingclassBro
04/17/18 7:25:47 PM
#42:


AlCalavicci posted...
So basically I guess my question is, do you think it's a problem for a man to let his girlfriend sleep around with other females?

Not at all, unless she's thinking about breaking up with you to be with girls full time.
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smoke_break
04/17/18 7:27:10 PM
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Not going to sugarcoat it, she's probably already fucking the "friend." Just wanted to do it with a clear conscience.
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Howl
04/17/18 7:28:33 PM
#44:


smoke_break posted...
Not going to sugarcoat it, she's probably already fucking the "friend." Just wanted to do it with a clear conscience.


This
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Yazarogi
04/17/18 7:29:16 PM
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You're done. Unless you can handle an "open" relationship like... you're comfortable enough with your twos relationship (which you're clearly not by making this topic) so... yea you're done. End it, or let her end you.
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legendarylemur
04/17/18 7:29:56 PM
#46:


WorkingclassBro posted...
AlCalavicci posted...
So basically I guess my question is, do you think it's a problem for a man to let his girlfriend sleep around with other females?

Not at all, unless she's thinking about breaking up with you to be with girls full time.

This. Not gonna lie, I'd probably find it interesting more than anything, but if she's leaving me, that's obviously a dealbreaker
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AlCalavicci
04/17/18 7:30:51 PM
#47:


legendarylemur posted...
WorkingclassBro posted...
AlCalavicci posted...
So basically I guess my question is, do you think it's a problem for a man to let his girlfriend sleep around with other females?

Not at all, unless she's thinking about breaking up with you to be with girls full time.

This. Not gonna lie, I'd probably find it interesting more than anything, but if she's leaving me, that's obviously a dealbreaker


Would you feel the same way about her sleeping with other guys, if she assured you that she was not going to leave you?
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Akagami_Shanks
04/17/18 7:31:15 PM
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yeah she's already with the friend, or heavily considering it. You're just vindicating her with a reply.
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HiddenLurker
04/17/18 7:35:17 PM
#49:


Stick a fork in your relationship cause it is done.
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legendarylemur
04/17/18 7:35:52 PM
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AlCalavicci posted...
legendarylemur posted...
WorkingclassBro posted...
AlCalavicci posted...
So basically I guess my question is, do you think it's a problem for a man to let his girlfriend sleep around with other females?

Not at all, unless she's thinking about breaking up with you to be with girls full time.

This. Not gonna lie, I'd probably find it interesting more than anything, but if she's leaving me, that's obviously a dealbreaker


Would you feel the same way about her sleeping with other guys, if she assured you that she was not going to leave you?

No lol. I'd freak out. Fuck that shit
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