Poll of the Day > So I was dancing at a club

(+) Yeah! (+)

Its a club Im in, but not a dance club.

Well I was dancing about having a good time
And someone saw me and joined in xD
It was fun and weird and more and more people started dancing and we were just having fun

But eventually...someone totally smacked my bootie

And idk if it was on purpose or not
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It was probably , accidental but check if the club has a cctv and if so file a report and let the cops figure it out
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Nothing new getting your arse smacked in a club. It's guys who tend to do it to me though but it's clearly a joke and the odd occasion it happens. I also enjoy dancing randomly with people. Hell I've gone over to a few girls and just danced randomly with them too. I can't dance at all but hey we are all drunk so nobody cares.
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wwinterj25 posted...

Nothing new getting your arse smacked in a club. It's guys who tend to do it to me though but it's clearly a joke and the odd occasion it happens. I also enjoy dancing randomly with people. Hell I've gone over to a few girls and just danced randomly with them too. I can't dance at all but hey we are all drunk so nobody cares.

Uhh. Being touched sexually while its not clearly unwanted or unwarranted shouldnt be treated as normal by society by any means
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LittleRoyal posted...

Uhh. Being touched sexually while its not clearly unwanted or unwarranted shouldnt be treated as normal by society by any means

I'll decide that. If I have no issue with it being done to me because I simply have no issue with it when it's clearly a joke. Obviously it's up to others how they act and I personally don't go around smacking peoples arse but I'm not one to get hot and bothered over banta. Even more so in a club full of drunk people.
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Being drunk isnt an excuse to assualt or Harrass someone

Secondly, you cant be drunk in a club...
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LittleRoyal posted...

wwinterj25 posted...

Nothing new getting your arse smacked in a club. It's guys who tend to do it to me though but it's clearly a joke and the odd occasion it happens. I also enjoy dancing randomly with people. Hell I've gone over to a few girls and just danced randomly with them too. I can't dance at all but hey we are all drunk so nobody cares.

Uhh. Being touched sexually while its not clearly unwanted or unwarranted shouldnt be treated as normal by society by any means

No, it's not. And I'm not defending it. But that's what clubs are right now; drunken shitfests with sloppy-ass people who will find any excuse to get physical with a woman.

Do I engage in such behavior? Absolutely not. Do I condone it? Absolutely not. But it shouldn't come across as a surprise if you get your ass smacked in a dark and crowded moshpit.
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Probably just a douche.

LittleRoyal posted...

Being drunk isnt an excuse to assualt or Harrass someone

Best get the cops in and file a complaint quick. Hell I'm surprised you haven't done that already with the amount of folk who even dare to look at you.

LittleRoyal posted...

Secondly, you cant be drunk in a club...

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ImmortalityV posted...

It was probably , accidental but check if the club has a cctv and if so file a report and let the cops figure it out

Rofl
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LittleRoyal posted...

Being drunk isnt an excuse to assualt or Harrass someone

Secondly, you cant be drunk in a club...

This is why nobody believes you're a real account.
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Umm, all clubs are sanctioned by the university and they will be disbanded if people are drinking there, so maybe some do but its definitely not allowed in any of them.
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lol
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Doesn't matter if people were just bouncing in the club, some booty is gonna get smacked. That's the environment. jk

I think there a communication error. I believe LittleRoyal means school club. And everyone else is talking about about clubs, like where you go to drink and dance. Either that, or she's talking about the same type of club, but one run by the school.

Also, while drinking isn't a reason to do whatever, there are many people who don't care. Like when it's clearly a joke like wwinterj25 said, or just because people know it's just a drunk group of people like Muffinz0rz said... You should do or say something if it bothers you, though. But some people, like myself, don't care...
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LinkPizza posted...

I think there a communication error. I believe LittleRoyal means school club.

Oh. I guess I missed that. Yeah in a school club where everyone is apparently sober then that's understandable. The question is did the TC do anything about it?
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Oh school club. Sorry didnt know Id need to specify that I dont really think of any other clubs except like, a bat.

Well no I didnt do anything about it. Im the one who started dancing and idk if it was on purpose or not it just bothered me
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Ohhhhhhhhhh I thought you meant like a rave, not like, chess club
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pics
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So today, we've identified boner boy and grope girl. What a day!
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Muffinz0rz posted...

Ohhhhhhhhhh I thought you meant like a rave, not like, chess club

Well it isnt a chess club...
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LittleRoyal posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

Ohhhhhhhhhh I thought you meant like a rave, not like, chess club

Well it isnt a chess club...

That's why said like chess club
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Idk it wasnt very much like chess...
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LittleRoyal posted...

Idk it wasnt very much like chess...

ok
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LittleRoyal I want to apologize for the way you were treated that day and how you are being treated in this topic. What is happening is the equivalent of mental groping and I demand the moderators step in to defend a fellow icoyar supporter.
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Stop
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LittleRoyal posted...

Stop

Stop what, friend?
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LittleRoyal posted...

Stop

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It's always funny when one alt tells another to stop, to avoid being outed as an alt.

FYI: Too late.
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ImmortalityV posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

Stop

Stop what, friend?

Youre most likely just making fun of situations that happened to me.
This particular one was more bothersome but it happens all the time.
But if I told real stories, ones that had me really scared or really emotionally hurt at the time, and you did this it would be a complete mockery.

Or you arent.

And you are just pretending to get it. But you dont.
And if you just act like that you most likely never will.
And people who dont try and dont want to understand are all awful whicher side theyre in.
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SunWuKung420 posted...

It's always funny when one alt tells another to stop, to avoid being outed as an alt.

FYI: Too late.

Just because we both are in love with icoyar does not make us the same person. I am pretty sure LittleRoyal is a female right? I am the epitome of manliness. Which saddens me because if only I was more feminine I could sort of please Icoyar's ultra heterosexual desires
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I dont like that creep. Stop speaking for me, you boar
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ImmortalityV posted...

SunWuKung420 posted...

It's always funny when one alt tells another to stop, to avoid being outed as an alt.

FYI: Too late.

Just because we both are in love with icoyar does not make us the same person. I am pretty sure LittleRoyal is a female right? I am the epitome of manliness. Which saddens me because if only I was more feminine I could sort of please Icoyar's ultra heterosexual desires

Are you in love with Nathan?
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LittleRoyal posted...

ImmortalityV posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

Stop

Stop what, friend?

Youre most likely just making fun of situations that happened to me.
This particular one was more bothersome but it happens all the time.
But if I told real stories, ones that had me really scared or really emotionally hurt at the time, and you did this it would be a complete mockery.

Or you arent.

And you are just pretending to get it. But you dont.
And if you just act like that you most likely never will.
And people who dont try and dont want to understand are all awful whicher side theyre in.

I can never understand (empathize ) with what you are going through. I have had my butthe grabbed and slapped before but I never cared because it is where poop comes out.
Also I do not have to put up with toxic masculinity like you do
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Stop and just let me discuss my issues with adults. Or let me complain once in a while.
Clearly you dont understand the issue with what happened.

You are making a joke of what happened and what I feel

And youre acting like its the worst thats happened to me when Im a woman growing up in this world. So obviously worse by far has happened. And you dont get it
And beyond that, you dont get WHY its a problem
And you just want to act like a child and make a joke of it

Find somewhere else to do it.
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LR what's your favorite movie, let's watch it rn
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LittleRoyal posted...

Stop and just let me discuss my issues with adults. Or let me complain once in a while.
Clearly you dont understand the issue with what happened.

You are making a joke of what happened and what I feel

And youre acting like its the worst thats happened to me when Im a woman growing up in this world. So obviously worse by far has happened. And you dont get it
And beyond that, you dont get WHY its a problem
And you just want to act like a child and make a joke of it

Find somewhere else to do it.

I never made a joke of your plight, and I demand you analyze my posts and retract where you called icoyar a creep.
This is a public forum and you are damaging his reputation posting stuff like that.
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Yes you are. Everyone can see it. So leave me alone now
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LittleRoyal posted...

Yes you are. Everyone can see it. So leave me alone now

I never did. I said I could not empathize with you being violated despite being violated by women myself because I didn't care.
I said I could only sympathize with you and pity you then you threw a digital tantrum
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My issue comes from men like you who would rather make fun of people, even in the less dire situations, than try to understand the situation or understand how often it happens

When you sit around making jokes we make no progress and society wont change. Women will keep getting hurt
And youll keep laughing about it
And you wont care

Youre part of the problem
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LittleRoyal posted...

My issue comes from men like you who would rather make fun of people, even in the less dire situations, than try to understand the situation or understand how often it happens

When you sit around making jokes we make no progress and society wont change. Women will keep getting hurt
And youll keep laughing about it
And you wont care

Youre part of the problem

He's still really young, I think. Just ignore him.
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Unwarranted groping is never enjoyable.

People who grope unwarrantedly are not nice people.

People who've been groped unwarrantedly, that act like they are the first victim of "the groping", and want to chastise "gropers" (stop unwarrantedly grabbing peeps), should feel a sense of pride that they were deemed gropable. Many people wish someone would grope them.

We really need an effective way to determine if groping is appropriate. Like some human mating rituals. Do they even exist?
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LittleRoyal posted...

My issue comes from men like you who would rather make fun of people, even in the less dire situations, than try to understand the situation or understand how often it happens

When you sit around making jokes we make no progress and society wont change. Women will keep getting hurt
And youll keep laughing about it
And you wont care

Youre part of the problem

So men are the oppressors and women are all the poor victims, and I need To Check My PRIVELEGE Because You Want THE Guy Who Slapped Your Poop SHOOT crucified?

Oh and forgive the autocorrect but my phone is having trouble
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SunWuKung420 posted...

Unwarranted groping is never enjoyable.

People who grope unwarrantedly are not nice people.

People who've been groped unwarrantedly, that act like they are the first victim of "the groping", and want to chastise "gropers" (stop unwarrantedly grabbing peeps), should feel a sense of pride that they were deemed gropable. Many people wish someone would grope them.

We really need an effective way to determine if groping is appropriate. Like some human mating rituals. Do they even exist?

Yes. But in other countries, normally...
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LinkPizza posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

My issue comes from men like you who would rather make fun of people, even in the less dire situations, than try to understand the situation or understand how often it happens

When you sit around making jokes we make no progress and society wont change. Women will keep getting hurt
And youll keep laughing about it
And you wont care

Youre part of the problem

He's still really young, I think. Just ignore him.

I am older than you kids I bet. I am 24, respect your elders brah
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SunWuKung420 posted...

People who've been groped unwarrantedly, that act like they are the first victim of "the groping", and want to chastise "gropers" (stop unwarrantedly grabbing peeps), should feel a sense of pride that they were deemed gropable. Many people wish someone would grope them.

Are you serious? Are you one of those guys that says its okay to catcall and say perverse things to women because we wish girls would be direct or ask us out! So its totally fine and an honor to be degraded and sexulaized?

Because some guys have told me that
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ImmortalityV posted...

LinkPizza posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

My issue comes from men like you who would rather make fun of people, even in the less dire situations, than try to understand the situation or understand how often it happens

When you sit around making jokes we make no progress and society wont change. Women will keep getting hurt
And youll keep laughing about it
And you wont care

Youre part of the problem

He's still really young, I think. Just ignore him.

I am older than you kids I bet. I am 24, respect your elders brah

He looks younger, but he possibly 24. I know I look younger, too. Either way, you're still a kid...
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ImmortalityV posted...

LinkPizza posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

My issue comes from men like you who would rather make fun of people, even in the less dire situations, than try to understand the situation or understand how often it happens

When you sit around making jokes we make no progress and society wont change. Women will keep getting hurt
And youll keep laughing about it
And you wont care

Youre part of the problem

He's still really young, I think. Just ignore him.

I am older than you kids I bet. I am 24, respect your elders brah

I'm 25

GOML
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I got a Eat Sleep Rave Repeat vibe reading the original post.
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LittleRoyal posted...

Are you serious? Are you one of those guys that says its okay to catcall and say perverse things to women because we wish girls would be direct or ask us out! So its totally fine and an honor to be degraded and sexulaized?

It's inherently not degrading when the "aggressor" considers it a good thing. Unless of course you grade yourself higher than the rest of us.
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