Current Events > I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life

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Drasilor posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

Why would you go back to your date's apartment after dinner if you dont want to have sex?

Maybe she thought they would just talk lol.

With a dick in her mouth? I would assume that's hard to do
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Drasilor posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

Why would you go back to your date's apartment after dinner if you dont want to have sex?

Maybe she thought they would just talk lol.

Why is that ridiculous? Her dinner got cut short, so she didn't get much time to actually talk with the guy.

I've gone back to girl's apartments after a date just to extend the conversation longer over another drink or two. These things are not abnormal.
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KingCrabCake posted...

Drasilor posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

Why would you go back to your date's apartment after dinner if you dont want to have sex?

Maybe she thought they would just talk lol.

With a dick in her mouth? I would assume that's hard to do

Well....she managed to mumble.
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"I gave him non verbal cues, like putting his dick in my mouth". Lmfao.

And of course you have white knights on CE defending her.
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COVxy posted...

Drasilor posted...

Zodd3224 posted...

Why would you go back to your date's apartment after dinner if you dont want to have sex?

Maybe she thought they would just talk lol.

Why is that ridiculous? Her dinner got cut short, so she didn't get much time to actually talk with the guy.

I've gone back to girl's apartments after a date just to extend the conversation longer over another drink or two. These things are not abnormal.

It's not wise, as shown here. Not defending him, but it's not smart to go alone to someone's house who you just met that night if you dont plan on banging.
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Pulling away and mumbling? How about tell him No and leaving. Fucking hell the world is full of absolute spanners.
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lubmelubyou posted...

Pulling away and mumbling? How about tell him No and leaving. Fucking hell the world is full of absolute spanners.

Because he was intimidating ;_;
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And people wonder why any man might go MGTOW
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Damn, from the title I was expecting this to be a funny story of a date between TC and Aziz.

Drasilor posted...

lubmelubyou posted...

Pulling away and mumbling? How about tell him No and leaving. Fucking hell the world is full of absolute spanners.

Because he was intimidating ;_;

Hes about as intimidating as a box full of kittens
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I read this entire topic after reading an article that was different than the one TC posted. I read the article from the OP after reading the topic, and it's a lot more detailed than the first article I read. I have a lot of mixed feelings on this situation. This makes me uncomfortable:

I wasnt really even thinking of that, I didnt want to be engaged in that with him. But he kept asking, so I said, Next time. And he goes, Oh, you mean second date? and I go, Oh, yeah, sure, and he goes, Well, if I poured you another glass of wine now, would it count as our second date? He then poured her a glass and handed it to her. She excused herself to the bathroom soon after.
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AlCalavicci posted...

I read this entire topic after reading an article that was different than the one TC posted. I read the article from the OP after reading the topic, and it's a lot more detailed than the first article I read. I have a lot of mixed feelings on this situation. This makes me uncomfortable:

I wasnt really even thinking of that, I didnt want to be engaged in that with him. But he kept asking, so I said, Next time. And he goes, Oh, you mean second date? and I go, Oh, yeah, sure, and he goes, Well, if I poured you another glass of wine now, would it count as our second date? He then poured her a glass and handed it to her. She excused herself to the bathroom soon after.

This may also influence my reaction. People on the politics board originally read a shortened version as well and had similarly crappy reactions to CE, but a few actually changed their mind with more info.

https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355
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I hate to explicitly call someone a liar on this type of thing, but Aziz doesn't strike me as the kind of guy who could realistically "force" most people to do anything. He COULD be a total scrapper behind closed curtains, but nothing in public image gives it much credit.
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Here's the thing

I totally believe Aziz is a creep and pushy.

But the thing is, people need to learn to tell someone to fuck off. I don't buy for a second that anyone would be threatened by him enough to blow him twice and let him eat their monkey.
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https://media.thetab.com/blogs.dir/279/files/2018/01/gettyimages-902439412_1024.jpg

lol, imagine feeling threatened by this face.

darkbuster posted...

I hate to explicitly call someone a liar on this type of thing, but Aziz doesn't strike me as the kind of guy who could realistically "force" most people to do anything. He COULD be a total scrapper behind closed curtains, but nothing in public image gives it much credit.

Plus, he's not even accused of doing that.

There's no allegation of force being used ever.
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This woman had consensual oral sex THREE FUCKING TIMES and there are people still arguing in her favor that she was assaulted? Would you please get your heads out of your anuses and never vote again? Please?
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lol. I wonder if she could have overpowered him?
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MrBobGray posted...

This woman had consensual oral sex THREE FUCKING TIMES and there are people still arguing in her favor that she was assaulted? Would you please get your heads out of your anuses and never vote again? Please?

this

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"non-verbal cues" is her expecting him to be a mind reader. Why didn't she tell him no and leave?

RECON64bit posted...

"non-verbal cues" is her expecting him to be a mind reader. Why didn't she tell him no and leave?

She had his dick in her mouth....twice
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"But he kept asking, so I said, Next time. And he goes, Oh, you mean second date? and I go, Oh, yeah, sure, "

She so didn't want him
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the constant fingers in her mouth sounds akward af lmao, but as far as blame goes her claims are pretty fucking stupid thanks to her giving him head twice & letting him go down on her. he wasn't physically forceful by the sounds of it, just overly persistent.

annoying? sure. assault? nah.

she had ample time to get up and leave throughout the night, so I'd say this one is on her.
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Like, I really really can't get over how bullshitty this is.

I don't think anyone is denying the fact that Aziz was being a creep and being pushy.

But this isn't fucking high school. he isn't the only way you're getting home, or anything like that.

Just fucking leave.
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so she let him eat her and she gave him head and only got pissed when he pulled out the condom? she could've just left...or like..not given him head...
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I bet he had a tiny dangus iykwim
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He wanted her to open her bobs and vegine
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Here's a solution: Just leave.
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Why something like this is even being brought to the press and made public instead of it being handled by the 2 adults? I don't fucking know
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AlCalavicci posted...

I read this entire topic after reading an article that was different than the one TC posted. I read the article from the OP after reading the topic, and it's a lot more detailed than the first article I read. I have a lot of mixed feelings on this situation. This makes me uncomfortable:

I wasnt really even thinking of that, I didnt want to be engaged in that with him. But he kept asking, so I said, Next time. And he goes, Oh, you mean second date? and I go, Oh, yeah, sure, and he goes, Well, if I poured you another glass of wine now, would it count as our second date? He then poured her a glass and handed it to her. She excused herself to the bathroom soon after.

I don't think this is that disturbing. It's his style of smooth talking humor. He was probably cracking jokes and she was laughing the whole time.
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the guy looked like a creep. not surprising

TheoryzC posted...

Why something like this is even being brought to the press and made public instead of it being handled by the 2 adults? I don't fucking know

#metoo
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I really liked this article in the Atlantic about it: https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2018/01/the-humiliation-of-aziz-ansari/550541/
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Honesty at this point it is safer to the get call girls with signed contracts (if you are star) No questions at all. Everyone know what is going on up front.
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She isnt just complaining about wine. Shes showing how he doesnt care for her or ask her before doing what he wants
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hortanz posted...

The next time Grace saw Ansari was when she watched him at the Golden Globes, where he declared his support for the fight against sexual assault and harassment by wearing a Times Up pin on the red carpet.

Just lol. Another one of these fucks.
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LittleRoyal posted...

She isnt just complaining about wine. Shes showing how he doesnt care for her or ask her before doing what he wants

Did she ask for the other type of wine and he said no?
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cjsdowg posted...

LittleRoyal posted...

She isnt just complaining about wine. Shes showing how he doesnt care for her or ask her before doing what he wants

Did she ask for the other type of wine and he said no?

From what I gather the point was that hes not asking her and does what he wants.

Not saying that makes him bad (the second half of the story does). Just saying why I think she said it
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Imagine conflating a bad date with sexual assault. Isn't this article the entire definition of slut shaming?

I'm definitely not a fan of this guy and wouldn't care at all if he crashed and burned, but her story sounds like such a nothing sandwich. Like she never once told him NO?
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They ordered lobster. You're supposed to have white wine with lobster. Aziz is a food and wine afficiando so he knows this. He would want to treat her properly with dinner.
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KazumaKiryu posted...

I'm definitely not a fan of this guy and wouldn't care at all if he crashed and burned, but her story sounds like such a nothing sandwich. Like she never once told him NO?

She couldn't..she had his dick in her mouth
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Raikuro posted...

Imagine conflating a bad date with sexual assault. Isn't this article the entire definition of slut shaming?

I think it's the opposite of slut shaming.
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Why the fuck does it keep being comedians?

Hexenherz posted...

Raikuro posted...

Imagine conflating a bad date with sexual assault. Isn't this article the entire definition of slut shaming?

I think it's the opposite of slut shaming.

Well, man-slut shaming. I never really think of slut as a woman-exclusive word.

I was expecting this to be a variant of the "I saw [celebrity] at a grocery store" copy pasta >_>
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He was making the choices? And yet women claim to want a confident man.

This woman wouldn't have been happy no matter what happened. If he cured AIDS during their date, she'd be bitching about him not curing cancer.

I have seen people comparing pestering a women for sex to getting them drunk. I have been a support of this movement, but come on. While I don't think pestering a girl is the best way to get some. To compare that with "getting" a girl drunk or something like that is crazy.
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That aggressive nature that dishonest woman is trying to paint Aziz, just does not fit how an Indian man would respond when courting a white woman.

That's why that dishonest woman had to send him a text the next day saying she was not comfortable and then screenshoting it to use well over a year later. That's called blackmail.
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