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Coolppl Owns 09/07/17 11:55:48 AM #51:	HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... Wait. Are you the guy who made a topic a couple weeks back about how you were still in love with your ex-wife, and were thinking about breaking it off with your current fiancé? I've seen my ex since then a few times. Actually been texting all morning. We are both just trying to move on with out lives but are still really compatible and talk a lot. I've been telling her about my fiance and mines argument about her being fat talking about serious relationship issues about your fat fiance with your ex and the wedding's next month y tho this is never going to work out and i'm pretty sure you know it --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:886185203] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Wait. Are you the guy who made a topic a couple weeks back about how you were still in love with your ex-wife, and were thinking about breaking it off with your current fiancé?</quote> I've seen my ex since then a few times. Actually been texting all morning. We are both just trying to move on with out lives but are still really compatible and talk a lot. I've been telling her about my fiance and mines argument about her being fat</quote> talking about serious relationship issues about your fat fiance with your ex and the wedding's next month y tho this is never going to work out and i'm pretty sure you know it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 11:55:59 AM #52:	NeoShadowhen posted... So it was you. You didn't mention in that topic that she was fat. What the hell happened? Weren't you going to talk to your brother or something? I thought we'd convinced you to break off this engagement. Now she's going to think it's because she's fat. I did talk to my bro. He works in global sales and has meet thousands of people. He said my ex wife was "bad for me, but good for me, if you know what IO mean". He also said she is one of the worst people he knows and is a manipulator. He could be right but she was pretty hot so her spell was powerful. He told me you don't meet many women like my current fiance and she was a top ten girl. But then again his wife is kid of fat too but she did have three kids. However by bro doesn't mind a fat wife because he doesn't mind cheating on her in other countries when he's gone on business. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185210] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>So it was you. You didn't mention in that topic that she was fat. What the hell happened? Weren't you going to talk to your brother or something? I thought we'd convinced you to break off this engagement. Now she's going to think it's because she's fat.</quote> I did talk to my bro. He works in global sales and has meet thousands of people. He said my ex wife was "bad for me, but good for me, if you know what IO mean". He also said she is one of the worst people he knows and is a manipulator. He could be right but she was pretty hot so her spell was powerful. He told me you don't meet many women like my current fiance and she was a top ten girl. But then again his wife is kid of fat too but she did have three kids. However by bro doesn't mind a fat wife because he doesn't mind cheating on her in other countries when he's gone on business.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 11:56:53 AM #53:	C7D posted... Dietician and sleeve gastrectomy surgery. After watching her diet for months and not losing any weight even when weighing her food and counting every calorie, we got her in touch with a metabolic specialist. As it turns out, her metabolism was totally screwed up due to a number of things. He got her on the right track, ultimately requiring surgery. Now that's some serious shit. I don't think this is the same issues she has. I think she's a closet eater. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185263] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>C7D posted...</cite> <quote>Dietician and sleeve gastrectomy surgery. After watching her diet for months and not losing any weight even when weighing her food and counting every calorie, we got her in touch with a metabolic specialist. As it turns out, her metabolism was totally screwed up due to a number of things. He got her on the right track, ultimately requiring surgery.</quote> Now that's some serious shit. I don't think this is the same issues she has. I think she's a closet eater.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MACisBack 09/07/17 11:57:29 AM #54:	IMO All you see is the turn but not the road ahead. --- "There is wife assisted suicide. Get married and every day you die a little more" -teltec http://i.imgur.com/8snn2TX.jpg <cite>MACisBack posted [p:886185299] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>IMO All you see is the turn but not the road ahead.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 11:57:53 AM #55:	KILBOTz posted... HypnoCoosh posted... I've been telling her about my fiance and mines argument about her being fat you should end it with your fiancé then. this isn't something you should talk about with your ex. I don't know we have a kid together so we still talk about our lives. It's helpful to care about the other person since we have a vested interest in our daughter. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185320] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>KILBOTz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>I've been telling her about my fiance and mines argument about her being fat</quote> you should end it with your fiancé then. this isn't something you should talk about with your ex.</quote> I don't know we have a kid together so we still talk about our lives. It's helpful to care about the other person since we have a vested interest in our daughter.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mister_Spyker 09/07/17 11:59:04 AM #56:	HypnoCoosh posted... voldothegr8 posted... There's no way this happened or you'd be single right now. Why not. Why are we not allowed to be honest with our significant others? We have this fucked up idea that we have to not be honest because of other peoples feelings. I think it's important to be honest about our feelings. There's a difference between being honest and being rude. You are being extremely disrespectful to the woman you say you love, if I knew a man was talking like that to a daughter of mine, I'd want him kicked out of our family. You can say things and be extremely honest, that doesn't hurt people's feelings. Now when you lack tact and are completely blunt and selfish then you don't deserve her or anyone else. Look at you, you want her to get in shape because you want her body to look good to you. That is horribly selfish and honestly disgusting. Learn some respect. --- Dear lord, Spyker just ripped his entire life apart in nothing more than a few paragraphs. Ouch... - RexSilver <cite>Mister_Spyker posted [p:886185393] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>voldothegr8 posted...</cite> <quote>There's no way this happened or you'd be single right now.</quote> Why not. Why are we not allowed to be honest with our significant others? We have this fucked up idea that we have to not be honest because of other peoples feelings. I think it's important to be honest about our feelings.</quote> There's a difference between being honest and being rude. You are being extremely disrespectful to the woman you say you love, if I knew a man was talking like that to a daughter of mine, I'd want him kicked out of our family. You can say things and be extremely honest, that doesn't hurt people's feelings. Now when you lack tact and are completely blunt and selfish then you don't deserve her or anyone else. Look at you, you want her to get in shape because you want her body to look good to you. That is horribly selfish and honestly disgusting. Learn some respect.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 09/07/17 11:59:53 AM #57:	HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... So it was you. You didn't mention in that topic that she was fat. What the hell happened? Weren't you going to talk to your brother or something? I thought we'd convinced you to break off this engagement. Now she's going to think it's because she's fat. I did talk to my bro. He works in global sales and has meet thousands of people. He said my ex wife was "bad for me, but good for me, if you know what IO mean". He also said she is one of the worst people he knows and is a manipulator. He could be right but she was pretty hot so her spell was powerful. He told me you don't meet many women like my current fiance and she was a top ten girl. But then again his wife is kid of fat too but she did have three kids. However by bro doesn't mind a fat wife because he doesn't mind cheating on her in other countries when he's gone on business. Yeah what guy would mind that. (Kidding) Seriously fuck cheaters I hate them and they should just die~ But anyway! CE is stupid. Of course they'd tell you to go to your ex wife. Never date an Ex I don't care how much has changed. You now have that old baggage and what new comes up. You can't truly "start over" and someone will eventually bring up the old baggage. --- I-I really needed this~~ Time to stomp some faces!!! <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:886185443] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>So it was you. You didn't mention in that topic that she was fat. What the hell happened? Weren't you going to talk to your brother or something? I thought we'd convinced you to break off this engagement. Now she's going to think it's because she's fat.</quote> I did talk to my bro. He works in global sales and has meet thousands of people. He said my ex wife was "bad for me, but good for me, if you know what IO mean". He also said she is one of the worst people he knows and is a manipulator. He could be right but she was pretty hot so her spell was powerful. He told me you don't meet many women like my current fiance and she was a top ten girl. But then again his wife is kid of fat too but she did have three kids. However by bro doesn't mind a fat wife because he doesn't mind cheating on her in other countries when he's gone on business.</quote> Yeah what guy would mind that. (Kidding) Seriously fuck cheaters I hate them and they should just die~ But anyway! CE is stupid. Of course they'd tell you to go to your ex wife. Never date an Ex I don't care how much has changed. You now have that old baggage and what new comes up. You can't truly "start over" and someone will eventually bring up the old baggage.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:00:19 PM #58:	Coolppl Owns posted... this is never going to work out and i'm pretty sure you know it Maybe. I would be so much happier if she just got her ass in shape. Everything else in the relationship is pretty healthy and standard. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185472] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote>this is never going to work out and i'm pretty sure you know it</quote> Maybe. I would be so much happier if she just got her ass in shape. Everything else in the relationship is pretty healthy and standard.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:01:04 PM #59:	MACisBack posted... IMO All you see is the turn but not the road ahead. You could be right. But I've learned you can't predict life anyhow so I'm focusing on how to make life more manageable and better for me and my daughter now. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185504] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>MACisBack posted...</cite> <quote>IMO All you see is the turn but not the road ahead.</quote> You could be right. But I've learned you can't predict life anyhow so I'm focusing on how to make life more manageable and better for me and my daughter now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leight_Weight 09/07/17 12:03:00 PM #60:	Here's what you do Tell her you left your cellphone upstairs. Ask her to go get it. When she's about 3/4 of the way up the steps say "Oh darn it hey it's in my pocket." When she's halfway back down, say "Crap you know what it really is upstairs." Rinse and repeat multiple times per day --- "Every man dies, but not every man truly lives." <cite>Leight_Weight posted [p:886185609] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Here's what you do Tell her you left your cellphone upstairs. Ask her to go get it. When she's about 3/4 of the way up the steps say "Oh darn it hey it's in my pocket." When she's halfway back down, say "Crap you know what it really is upstairs." Rinse and repeat multiple times per day</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz 09/07/17 12:03:26 PM #61:	HypnoCoosh posted... KILBOTz posted... HypnoCoosh posted... I've been telling her about my fiance and mines argument about her being fat you should end it with your fiancé then. this isn't something you should talk about with your ex. I don't know we have a kid together so we still talk about our lives. It's helpful to care about the other person since we have a vested interest in our daughter. but you still have feelings for your ex. it just doesn't seem fair to your fiancé. --- http://i.imgur.com/O3syCWD.gif http://i.imgur.com/k3YiBdG.gif <cite>KILBOTz posted [p:886185632] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KILBOTz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>I've been telling her about my fiance and mines argument about her being fat</quote> you should end it with your fiancé then. this isn't something you should talk about with your ex.</quote> I don't know we have a kid together so we still talk about our lives. It's helpful to care about the other person since we have a vested interest in our daughter.</quote> but you still have feelings for your ex. it just doesn't seem fair to your fiancé.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:03:31 PM #62:	Mister_Spyker posted... HypnoCoosh posted... voldothegr8 posted... There's no way this happened or you'd be single right now. Why not. Why are we not allowed to be honest with our significant others? We have this fucked up idea that we have to not be honest because of other peoples feelings. I think it's important to be honest about our feelings. There's a difference between being honest and being rude. You are being extremely disrespectful to the woman you say you love, if I knew a man was talking like that to a daughter of mine, I'd want him kicked out of our family. You can say things and be extremely honest, that doesn't hurt people's feelings. Now when you lack tact and are completely blunt and selfish then you don't deserve her or anyone else. Look at you, you want her to get in shape because you want her body to look good to you. That is horribly selfish and honestly disgusting. Learn some respect. I already had this conversation with her before though. And she's rude because if she doesn't want to change just say so because I have a right to know what to expect from her in this regard if I'm devoting my life to her. I told her it's not fun for me walking around resenting her because she is fat and doesn't try. I'm not happy and was being honest I have the right to do so and she needs to make up her mind. Fat and alone or healthy and happy in a relationship. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185637] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mister_Spyker posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>voldothegr8 posted...</cite> <quote>There's no way this happened or you'd be single right now.</quote> Why not. Why are we not allowed to be honest with our significant others? We have this fucked up idea that we have to not be honest because of other peoples feelings. I think it's important to be honest about our feelings.</quote> There's a difference between being honest and being rude. You are being extremely disrespectful to the woman you say you love, if I knew a man was talking like that to a daughter of mine, I'd want him kicked out of our family. You can say things and be extremely honest, that doesn't hurt people's feelings. Now when you lack tact and are completely blunt and selfish then you don't deserve her or anyone else. Look at you, you want her to get in shape because you want her body to look good to you. That is horribly selfish and honestly disgusting. Learn some respect.</quote> I already had this conversation with her before though. And she's rude because if she doesn't want to change just say so because I have a right to know what to expect from her in this regard if I'm devoting my life to her. I told her it's not fun for me walking around resenting her because she is fat and doesn't try. I'm not happy and was being honest I have the right to do so and she needs to make up her mind. Fat and alone or healthy and happy in a relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sktgamer_13dude 09/07/17 12:04:00 PM #63:	This happened. --- http://i.imgur.com/jWVrg9U.gif http://i.imgur.com/g2efUtT.jpg http://i.imgur.com/5dOwhaP.jpg http://i.imgur.com/LVdqu8J.gif Go Cougs and M's #DI4B <cite>sktgamer_13dude posted [p:886185665] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>This happened.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Sonic 09/07/17 12:04:00 PM #64:	HypnoCoosh posted... I'm writing her an email. It's harsh as fuck but the truth. I need to know if she can be dedicated to lose weight or not. Because I'm not gonna be married to a woman I'm not sexually attracted to and staring at other woman all the time. This email is going to be the make it or break it. Hooboy. Incidentally, a rather..."full" woman got in touch with me over eHarmony. I could definitely go for losing some weight myself but this woman is punching well above my weight class. I'm not sure how I feel. --- DorkLink said I could borrow his signature so I did (see below): <cite>Solid Sonic posted [p:886185666] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>I'm writing her an email. It's harsh as fuck but the truth. I need to know if she can be dedicated to lose weight or not. Because I'm not gonna be married to a woman I'm not sexually attracted to and staring at other woman all the time. This email is going to be the make it or break it.</quote> Hooboy. Incidentally, a rather..."full" woman got in touch with me over eHarmony. I could definitely go for losing some weight myself but this woman is punching well above my weight class. I'm not sure how I feel.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RuthlessBadger 09/07/17 12:04:01 PM #65:	Tbh this is a failed marriage waiting to happen. End it now before your daughter gets attached. You have to think about her happiness too. --- I am ManWithGun/ToonLink <cite>RuthlessBadger posted [p:886185667] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Tbh this is a failed marriage waiting to happen. End it now before your daughter gets attached. You have to think about her happiness too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:05:46 PM #66:	LittleRoyal posted... Yeah what guy would mind that. (Kidding) Seriously f* cheaters I hate them and they should just die~ But anyway! CE is stupid. Of course they'd tell you to go to your ex wife. Never date an Ex I don't care how much has changed. You now have that old baggage and what new comes up. You can't truly "start over" and someone will eventually bring up the old baggage. Yes we get that we can't be together. What we had is over and gone. But we still care about each others well being and try to be there for emotional and moral support. I can talk to my ex and she can talk to me we will likely always have that relationship. As for my brother is wife is muslim and she doesn't seem to care that he cheats on her because he makes good money and bought her a huge house etc.. etc.. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185752] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah what guy would mind that. (Kidding) Seriously f* cheaters I hate them and they should just die~ But anyway! CE is stupid. Of course they'd tell you to go to your ex wife. Never date an Ex I don't care how much has changed. You now have that old baggage and what new comes up. You can't truly "start over" and someone will eventually bring up the old baggage.</quote> Yes we get that we can't be together. What we had is over and gone. But we still care about each others well being and try to be there for emotional and moral support. I can talk to my ex and she can talk to me we will likely always have that relationship. As for my brother is wife is muslim and she doesn't seem to care that he cheats on her because he makes good money and bought her a huge house etc.. etc..</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DreadedWave 09/07/17 12:06:02 PM #67:	None of this happened. --- https://i.imgur.com/E6BqEBZ.jpg <cite>DreadedWave posted [p:886185768] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>None of this happened.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:07:44 PM #68:	KILBOTz posted... but you still have feelings for your ex. it just doesn't seem fair to your fiancé. Honestly I know it was only a few weeks ago I was struggling with my feelings on that. But I can say that I might always care for her but I know we will never be together again. I've made that conclusion in my head and heart. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185854] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>KILBOTz posted...</cite> <quote>but you still have feelings for your ex. it just doesn't seem fair to your fiancé.</quote> Honestly I know it was only a few weeks ago I was struggling with my feelings on that. But I can say that I might always care for her but I know we will never be together again. I've made that conclusion in my head and heart.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 09/07/17 12:08:12 PM #69:	HypnoCoosh posted... LittleRoyal posted... Yeah what guy would mind that. (Kidding) Seriously f* cheaters I hate them and they should just die~ But anyway! CE is stupid. Of course they'd tell you to go to your ex wife. Never date an Ex I don't care how much has changed. You now have that old baggage and what new comes up. You can't truly "start over" and someone will eventually bring up the old baggage. Yes we get that we can't be together. What we had is over and gone. But we still care about each others well being and try to be there for emotional and moral support. I can talk to my ex and she can talk to me we will likely always have that relationship. As for my brother is wife is muslim and she doesn't seem to care that he cheats on her because he makes good money and bought her a huge house etc.. etc.. What's that have to do with being Muslim? If she pretends not to notice, that isn't cool of her it's just sad and seems more like she truly is hurting --- I-I really needed this~~ Time to stomp some faces!!! <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:886185868] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah what guy would mind that. (Kidding) Seriously f* cheaters I hate them and they should just die~ But anyway! CE is stupid. Of course they'd tell you to go to your ex wife. Never date an Ex I don't care how much has changed. You now have that old baggage and what new comes up. You can't truly "start over" and someone will eventually bring up the old baggage.</quote> Yes we get that we can't be together. What we had is over and gone. But we still care about each others well being and try to be there for emotional and moral support. I can talk to my ex and she can talk to me we will likely always have that relationship. As for my brother is wife is muslim and she doesn't seem to care that he cheats on her because he makes good money and bought her a huge house etc.. etc..</quote> What's that have to do with being Muslim? If she pretends not to notice, that isn't cool of her it's just sad and seems more like she truly is hurting</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HaVeNII7 09/07/17 12:08:45 PM #70:	Just cheat on her lol --- PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7 <cite>HaVeNII7 posted [p:886185892] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Just cheat on her lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:10:15 PM #71:	RuthlessBadger posted... Tbh this is a failed marriage waiting to happen. End it now before your daughter gets attached. You have to think about her happiness too. I don't know it's not so easy. My daughter is now in school by the house. I can't afford the place alone. We both are on the mortgage. etc.etc.etc.. I'm being genuine when I say all I want is her to loose some weight and get in shape. I'm feeling a lack of sexual attraction because of her body and was honestly disgusted when she was eating toast with butter and salt.... 4 pieces just because... gross. If she can be healthy and fit I think we have a good shot . --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886185954] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>RuthlessBadger posted...</cite> <quote>Tbh this is a failed marriage waiting to happen. End it now before your daughter gets attached. You have to think about her happiness too.</quote> I don't know it's not so easy. My daughter is now in school by the house. I can't afford the place alone. We both are on the mortgage. etc.etc.etc.. I'm being genuine when I say all I want is her to loose some weight and get in shape. I'm feeling a lack of sexual attraction because of her body and was honestly disgusted when she was eating toast with butter and salt.... 4 pieces just because... gross. If she can be healthy and fit I think we have a good shot .</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RuthlessBadger 09/07/17 12:12:22 PM #72:	You think you have a good shot? Didn't you just say you can't live life on maybes or some shit? If everything you said is true you need to leave her. Even if she gets in shape you still have your ex lurking around and eventually that will fuck with her head. --- I am ManWithGun/ToonLink <cite>RuthlessBadger posted [p:886186064] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>You think you have a good shot? Didn't you just say you can't live life on maybes or some shit? If everything you said is true you need to leave her. Even if she gets in shape you still have your ex lurking around and eventually that will fuck with her head.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:13:42 PM #73:	LittleRoyal posted... What's that have to do with being Muslim? If she pretends not to notice, that isn't cool of her it's just sad and seems more like she truly is hurting Well I could be wrong but based on being around her family I've noticed that the women put up with being treated like crap and the guys can do basically anything they want. It's a cultural thing. Even the children the boys can do no wrong and can do what they want but the girls are held to a crazy standard. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186135] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>What's that have to do with being Muslim? If she pretends not to notice, that isn't cool of her it's just sad and seems more like she truly is hurting</quote> Well I could be wrong but based on being around her family I've noticed that the women put up with being treated like crap and the guys can do basically anything they want. It's a cultural thing. Even the children the boys can do no wrong and can do what they want but the girls are held to a crazy standard.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 09/07/17 12:14:02 PM #74:	This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss? <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:886186149] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:14:38 PM #75:	HaVeNII7 posted... Just cheat on her lol I don't even think she would care. She told me before the an emotional affair is worse than a physical affair to her. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186182] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HaVeNII7 posted...</cite> <quote>Just cheat on her lol</quote> I don't even think she would care. She told me before the an emotional affair is worse than a physical affair to her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:15:48 PM #76:	RuthlessBadger posted... You think you have a good shot? Didn't you just say you can't live life on maybes or some shit? If everything you said is true you need to leave her. Even if she gets in shape you still have your ex lurking around and eventually that will fuck with her head. The doesn't live by us. I hardly ever see her only when it's exchanging our daughter on some odd circumstance or something with school. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186236] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>RuthlessBadger posted...</cite> <quote>You think you have a good shot? Didn't you just say you can't live life on maybes or some shit? If everything you said is true you need to leave her. Even if she gets in shape you still have your ex lurking around and eventually that will fuck with her head.</quote> The doesn't live by us. I hardly ever see her only when it's exchanging our daughter on some odd circumstance or something with school.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YourDrunkFather 09/07/17 12:16:08 PM #77:	Lol, no wonder someone's already divorced you --- One bourbon,one scotch,one beer <cite>YourDrunkFather posted [p:886186249] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Lol, no wonder someone's already divorced you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shadowplay 09/07/17 12:16:21 PM #78:	Isn't the TC RomneyLost? I guess one fat person with high amounts of estrogen is enough, lol. --- I make a topic in Final Fantasy 12 to ask if Tifa! They said no Tifa. Hardness gone!-gandob <cite>Shadowplay posted [p:886186259] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Isn't the TC RomneyLost? I guess one fat person with high amounts of estrogen is enough, lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StraightMACLIN 09/07/17 12:17:05 PM #79:	Imagine believing this fake ass tryhard story. --- http://imgur.com/kuTKb3n <cite>StraightMACLIN posted [p:886186293] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Imagine believing this fake ass tryhard story.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 09/07/17 12:17:33 PM #80:	HypnoCoosh posted... Plus I went through a divorce There's a shock --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:886186320] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote> Plus I went through a divorce</quote> There's a shock</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:17:53 PM #81:	NeoShadowhen posted... This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss? Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186343] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss?</quote> Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MutantJohn 09/07/17 12:18:59 PM #82:	Shadowplay posted... Isn't the TC RomneyLost? I guess one fat person with high amounts of estrogen is enough, lol. This is actually believable, unlike TC's story --- "Oh, my mother; oh, my friends, ask the angels, will I ever see heaven again?" - Laura Marling <cite>MutantJohn posted [p:886186392] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>Shadowplay posted...</cite> <quote>Isn't the TC RomneyLost? I guess one fat person with high amounts of estrogen is enough, lol.</quote> This is actually believable, unlike TC's story</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 09/07/17 12:20:07 PM #83:	HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss? Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her. Oh. I didn't realize the initial affair that started the whole mess was with her boss. What kind of work was it? Was he older? I was more asking about her current relationship, which I believe you mentioned last topic. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:886186439] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss?</quote> Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her.</quote> Oh. I didn't realize the initial affair that started the whole mess was with her boss. What kind of work was it? Was he older? I was more asking about her current relationship, which I believe you mentioned last topic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HaVeNII7 09/07/17 12:22:10 PM #84:	Wouldn't everyone here want their partner to be straight up and blunt about how their feeling? I would. If I ever start gaining weight I really hope my wife tells me I need to lose the fucking flabs. I agree with TC when he says people are too afraid of hurting feelings nowadays. --- PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7 <cite>HaVeNII7 posted [p:886186556] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Wouldn't everyone here want their partner to be straight up and blunt about how their feeling? I would. If I ever start gaining weight I really hope my wife tells me I need to lose the fucking flabs. I agree with TC when he says people are too afraid of hurting feelings nowadays.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:23:00 PM #86:	NeoShadowhen posted... HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss? Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her. Oh. I didn't realize the initial affair that started the whole mess was with her boss. What kind of work was it? Was he older? I was more asking about her current relationship, which I believe you mentioned last topic. Yes the current guy she's dating she's also working for. However she just had her second interview today at a new place. I've been urging her to get a new job for months and months because the guy she's dating is just using her. Yeah the affair dude was like 12 years older or so same with the guy she's dating. Obviously she has some issues but I hope she gets herself into a good spot soon. I do hope for the best for her. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186615] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss?</quote> Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her.</quote> Oh. I didn't realize the initial affair that started the whole mess was with her boss. What kind of work was it? Was he older? I was more asking about her current relationship, which I believe you mentioned last topic.</quote> Yes the current guy she's dating she's also working for. However she just had her second interview today at a new place. I've been urging her to get a new job for months and months because the guy she's dating is just using her. Yeah the affair dude was like 12 years older or so same with the guy she's dating. Obviously she has some issues but I hope she gets herself into a good spot soon. I do hope for the best for her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 09/07/17 12:23:11 PM #87:	HaVeNII7 posted... Wouldn't everyone here want their partner to be straight up and blunt about how their feeling? I would. If I ever start gaining weight I really hope my wife tells me I need to lose the fucking flabs. I agree with TC when he says people are too afraid of hurting feelings nowadays. Nowadays? I don't think human feelings suddenly became a thing 5 years ago --- Posted with GameRaven 3.2.2 <cite>Blastia posted [p:886186624] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HaVeNII7 posted...</cite> <quote> Wouldn't everyone here want their partner to be straight up and blunt about how their feeling? I would. If I ever start gaining weight I really hope my wife tells me I need to lose the fucking flabs. I agree with TC when he says people are too afraid of hurting feelings nowadays.</quote> Nowadays? I don't think human feelings suddenly became a thing 5 years ago</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 09/07/17 12:25:14 PM #88:	HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss? Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her. Oh. I didn't realize the initial affair that started the whole mess was with her boss. What kind of work was it? Was he older? I was more asking about her current relationship, which I believe you mentioned last topic. Yes the current guy she's dating she's also working for. However she just had her second interview today at a new place. I've been urging her to get a new job for months and months because the guy she's dating is just using her. Yeah the affair dude was like 12 years older or so same with the guy she's dating. Obviously she has some issues but I hope she gets herself into a good spot soon. I do hope for the best for her. Just one more question. How old were you and her when: You met Got married Had kid She had affair Now <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:886186736] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>This might be a touchy subject, but did you get a DNA test in regards to your daughter? Wasn't one of the issues with your ex that she cheated on you? Although, I'm not even sure if want to know. What a fucked up scenario. Does your ex have any desire to regain custody of your daughter? Is your ex still banging her boss?</quote> Daughter way predates the ex's affair. And she's definitely my daughter there's no doubt about that. No that affair with her boss only last a month before I figured it out and everything went to shit. We have split custody but I have her more like 60/40 because the ex is always busy with something and asking me to take her.</quote> Oh. I didn't realize the initial affair that started the whole mess was with her boss. What kind of work was it? Was he older? I was more asking about her current relationship, which I believe you mentioned last topic.</quote> Yes the current guy she's dating she's also working for. However she just had her second interview today at a new place. I've been urging her to get a new job for months and months because the guy she's dating is just using her. Yeah the affair dude was like 12 years older or so same with the guy she's dating. Obviously she has some issues but I hope she gets herself into a good spot soon. I do hope for the best for her.</quote> Just one more question. How old were you and her when: You met Got married Had kid She had affair Now</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:25:15 PM #89:	JustMyOpinion posted... HaVeNII7 posted... Wouldn't everyone here want their partner to be straight up and blunt about how their feeling? I would. If I ever start gaining weight I really hope my wife tells me I need to lose the fucking flabs. I agree with TC when he says people are too afraid of hurting feelings nowadays. You can be blunt without being a jerk. I think the jerk part came from having to have the conversation multiple times. I approached it with ease before the best I could and each time I get stressed because it's unfair I have to feel like the jerk. If she wants to be fat and happy she should just say so. That way I can decide what's important to me. Maybe I can be happy with her being fat or maybe I can't but I would like to know where she stands on the subject. No BS either commit to losing weight or accept being overweight. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186740] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HaVeNII7 posted...</cite> <quote>Wouldn't everyone here want their partner to be straight up and blunt about how their feeling? I would. If I ever start gaining weight I really hope my wife tells me I need to lose the fucking flabs. I agree with TC when he says people are too afraid of hurting feelings nowadays.</quote> You can be blunt without being a jerk.</quote> I think the jerk part came from having to have the conversation multiple times. I approached it with ease before the best I could and each time I get stressed because it's unfair I have to feel like the jerk. If she wants to be fat and happy she should just say so. That way I can decide what's important to me. Maybe I can be happy with her being fat or maybe I can't but I would like to know where she stands on the subject. No BS either commit to losing weight or accept being overweight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:26:41 PM #90:	NeoShadowhen posted... Just one more question. How old were you and her when: You met - I was 24 and she was 22 Got married - I was 27 she was 25 Had kid - I was 30 she was 28 She had affair - I was 35 she was 33 Now - I'm 37 now and she's 35 --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186817] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote> Just one more question. How old were you and her when: You met - I was 24 and she was 22 Got married - I was 27 she was 25 Had kid - I was 30 she was 28 She had affair - I was 35 she was 33 Now - I'm 37 now and she's 35 </quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sami1000 09/07/17 12:28:49 PM #91:	LittleRoyal posted... JustMyOpinion posted... You sound like a jerk. Why would you even ask that? Don't expect people to change. If you don't like the way they are then just leave. There are other people out there that will be good with your daughter and make good money. What the fuck fairy tale do you live in? Nobody is perfect for anybody else. If you care enough about someone, you change something for them. If she values you more than her weight(moreso, more than being fat and eating when she wants), she will at least try. Likewise if she said "you're almost perfect but you're overly blunt and rude af." Well if you value her more than you're rudeness you'd change (well chances are you'd not change, you seem narcissistic though I could be wrong. So you'd probably defend yourself and start a fight over changing for someone you supposedly love) I'm here learning things to be the perfect wife for my husband. When I get that close to someone I'll change some things for him if he doesn't like certain things that are within my realm of control. Except I won't get fat for someone if he has a fat fetish because I reall value being healthy and liking how I look I thought it was all about accepting your partner as he/she is, not changing that person to match your dream partner. --- What's cooler than werewolf? Wereman! <cite>Sami1000 posted [p:886186948] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound like a jerk. Why would you even ask that? Don't expect people to change. If you don't like the way they are then just leave. There are other people out there that will be good with your daughter and make good money.</quote> What the fuck fairy tale do you live in? Nobody is perfect for anybody else. If you care enough about someone, you change something for them. If she values you more than her weight(moreso, more than being fat and eating when she wants), she will at least try. Likewise if she said "you're almost perfect but you're overly blunt and rude af." Well if you value her more than you're rudeness you'd change (well chances are you'd not change, you seem narcissistic though I could be wrong. So you'd probably defend yourself and start a fight over changing for someone you supposedly love) I'm here learning things to be the perfect wife for my husband. When I get that close to someone I'll change some things for him if he doesn't like certain things that are within my realm of control. Except I won't get fat for someone if he has a fat fetish because I reall value being healthy and liking how I look</quote> I thought it was all about accepting your partner as he/she is, not changing that person to match your dream partner.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:29:53 PM #92:	Sami1000 posted... I thought it was all about accepting your partner as he/she is, not changing that person to match your dream partner. This is kind of what I'm boiling it down to. If that's who she is she just needs to say this is me take it or leave it. I have a right to know so I can decide if I'll be happy or not. Seems reasonable to me. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886186996] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sami1000 posted...</cite> <quote>I thought it was all about accepting your partner as he/she is, not changing that person to match your dream partner.</quote> This is kind of what I'm boiling it down to. If that's who she is she just needs to say this is me take it or leave it. I have a right to know so I can decide if I'll be happy or not. Seems reasonable to me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
C7D 09/07/17 12:31:53 PM #93:	Sami1000 posted... LittleRoyal posted... JustMyOpinion posted... You sound like a jerk. Why would you even ask that? Don't expect people to change. If you don't like the way they are then just leave. There are other people out there that will be good with your daughter and make good money. What the fuck fairy tale do you live in? Nobody is perfect for anybody else. If you care enough about someone, you change something for them. If she values you more than her weight(moreso, more than being fat and eating when she wants), she will at least try. Likewise if she said "you're almost perfect but you're overly blunt and rude af." Well if you value her more than you're rudeness you'd change (well chances are you'd not change, you seem narcissistic though I could be wrong. So you'd probably defend yourself and start a fight over changing for someone you supposedly love) I'm here learning things to be the perfect wife for my husband. When I get that close to someone I'll change some things for him if he doesn't like certain things that are within my realm of control. Except I won't get fat for someone if he has a fat fetish because I reall value being healthy and liking how I look I thought it was all about accepting your partner as he/she is, not changing that person to match your dream partner. Your spouse should love you enough to strive to please you. Your weight does not define who you are. It does typically define sexual attraction though. My wife lost weight for me. I gain muscle for her. <cite>C7D posted [p:886187108] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sami1000 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>You sound like a jerk. Why would you even ask that? Don't expect people to change. If you don't like the way they are then just leave. There are other people out there that will be good with your daughter and make good money.</quote> What the fuck fairy tale do you live in? Nobody is perfect for anybody else. If you care enough about someone, you change something for them. If she values you more than her weight(moreso, more than being fat and eating when she wants), she will at least try. Likewise if she said "you're almost perfect but you're overly blunt and rude af." Well if you value her more than you're rudeness you'd change (well chances are you'd not change, you seem narcissistic though I could be wrong. So you'd probably defend yourself and start a fight over changing for someone you supposedly love) I'm here learning things to be the perfect wife for my husband. When I get that close to someone I'll change some things for him if he doesn't like certain things that are within my realm of control. Except I won't get fat for someone if he has a fat fetish because I reall value being healthy and liking how I look</quote> I thought it was all about accepting your partner as he/she is, not changing that person to match your dream partner.</quote> Your spouse should love you enough to strive to please you. Your weight does not define who you are. It does typically define sexual attraction though. My wife lost weight for me. I gain muscle for her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 09/07/17 12:33:02 PM #94:	HypnoCoosh posted... LittleRoyal posted... What's that have to do with being Muslim? If she pretends not to notice, that isn't cool of her it's just sad and seems more like she truly is hurting Well I could be wrong but based on being around her family I've noticed that the women put up with being treated like crap and the guys can do basically anything they want. It's a cultural thing. Even the children the boys can do no wrong and can do what they want but the girls are held to a crazy standard. Oh that. Yeah it's ridiculous that people can see this stuff exist and say sexism is dead --- I-I really needed this~~ Time to stomp some faces!!! <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:886187176] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>What's that have to do with being Muslim? If she pretends not to notice, that isn't cool of her it's just sad and seems more like she truly is hurting</quote> Well I could be wrong but based on being around her family I've noticed that the women put up with being treated like crap and the guys can do basically anything they want. It's a cultural thing. Even the children the boys can do no wrong and can do what they want but the girls are held to a crazy standard.</quote> Oh that. Yeah it's ridiculous that people can see this stuff exist and say sexism is dead</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 09/07/17 12:36:38 PM #95:	Okay. I think I have the whole picture now. You should proceed as follows: - Breakdown and explain how you were being so blunt because you're genuinely concerned for her health. Cite something you dig up online about risks of obesity that you recently came across. Throw your daughter into the mix while you're at it. - Explain how you're equally concerned about your own health. Commit yourself to wanting to adopt a healthy lifestyle with her, including diet and exercise. Have a stick up your ass about maintaining this lifestyle from this day foward. - Try not to be so blunt in the future. Tact is useful. Get married to the new one and cut back on communicating with your ex outside of things having to do directly with your daughter. - Punch your brother in the dick for fucking around on his wife. Cheating wrecked your last marriage. It might as well have been him plowing your ex. Best of luck. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:886187372] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>Okay. I think I have the whole picture now. You should proceed as follows: - Breakdown and explain how you were being so blunt because you're genuinely concerned for her health. Cite something you dig up online about risks of obesity that you recently came across. Throw your daughter into the mix while you're at it. - Explain how you're equally concerned about your own health. Commit yourself to wanting to adopt a healthy lifestyle with her, including diet and exercise. Have a stick up your ass about maintaining this lifestyle from this day foward. - Try not to be so blunt in the future. Tact is useful. Get married to the new one and cut back on communicating with your ex outside of things having to do directly with your daughter. - Punch your brother in the dick for fucking around on his wife. Cheating wrecked your last marriage. It might as well have been him plowing your ex. Best of luck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
littlebro07 09/07/17 12:40:43 PM #96:	TC, do you exercise and eat healthy? If not then you won't convince her to do it. --- http://i211.photobucket.com/albums/bb289/volcaitlin/gifs/dancning.gif <cite>littlebro07 posted [p:886187580] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote>TC, do you exercise and eat healthy? If not then you won't convince her to do it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:43:00 PM #97:	NeoShadowhen posted... Okay. I think I have the whole picture now. You should proceed as follows: - Breakdown and explain how you were being so blunt because you're genuinely concerned for her health. Cite something you dig up online about risks of obesity that you recently came across. Throw your daughter into the mix while you're at it. - Explain how you're equally concerned about your own health. Commit yourself to wanting to adopt a healthy lifestyle with her, including diet and exercise. Have a stick up your ass about maintaining this lifestyle from this day foward. - Try not to be so blunt in the future. Tact is useful. Get married to the new one and cut back on communicating with your ex outside of things having to do directly with your daughter. - Punch your brother in the dick for fucking around on his wife. Cheating wrecked your last marriage. It might as well have been him plowing your ex. Best of luck. Good post. My brother and his wife have their own relationship. Different things work for different people. I dont' condone it but it's not my place to judge them. I wrote her an email all morning and I'm gonna proof it one more time for accuracy and send it. I'm not taking the healthy approach on the physical sense. I'm taking the health approach from the "happy" sense". We all have the right to be happy and we owe it to ourselves to discuss and issue that keeps either of us from being happy. I'm all for compromise but she needs to know how I feel and what will make me happy and vice versa. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886187693] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Okay. I think I have the whole picture now. You should proceed as follows: - Breakdown and explain how you were being so blunt because you're genuinely concerned for her health. Cite something you dig up online about risks of obesity that you recently came across. Throw your daughter into the mix while you're at it. - Explain how you're equally concerned about your own health. Commit yourself to wanting to adopt a healthy lifestyle with her, including diet and exercise. Have a stick up your ass about maintaining this lifestyle from this day foward. - Try not to be so blunt in the future. Tact is useful. Get married to the new one and cut back on communicating with your ex outside of things having to do directly with your daughter. - Punch your brother in the dick for fucking around on his wife. Cheating wrecked your last marriage. It might as well have been him plowing your ex. Best of luck.</quote> Good post. My brother and his wife have their own relationship. Different things work for different people. I dont' condone it but it's not my place to judge them. I wrote her an email all morning and I'm gonna proof it one more time for accuracy and send it. I'm not taking the healthy approach on the physical sense. I'm taking the health approach from the "happy" sense". We all have the right to be happy and we owe it to ourselves to discuss and issue that keeps either of us from being happy. I'm all for compromise but she needs to know how I feel and what will make me happy and vice versa.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:45:29 PM #98:	littlebro07 posted... TC, do you exercise and eat healthy? If not then you won't convince her to do it. Absolutely. I like to run, lift, and work a heavy bag. I'm pretty active. That's the one thing that really got me was when we were first dating I would send her pics and thought maybe she would be like damn this guy is really in shape I need to step my game up. It just never happened. And because she's so lazy I'm finding myself less motivated these days. I just don't want to go down that road. I won't do down it. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886187831] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>littlebro07 posted...</cite> <quote>TC, do you exercise and eat healthy? If not then you won't convince her to do it.</quote> Absolutely. I like to run, lift, and work a heavy bag. I'm pretty active. That's the one thing that really got me was when we were first dating I would send her pics and thought maybe she would be like damn this guy is really in shape I need to step my game up. It just never happened. And because she's so lazy I'm finding myself less motivated these days. I just don't want to go down that road. I won't do down it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HypnoCoosh 09/07/17 12:51:41 PM #100:	JustMyOpinion posted... It's pretty unrealistic to expect your tale of your wife losing 100 pounds for you to be anywhere near the norm. It's a huge ask and when TC is saying his wife is depressed I doubt his line of thinking where he might not wanna stick around is helping. He can leave if he wants, but I'm pretty sure being supportive would help. He should exercise with her, cook healthy meals for two, etc, etc. All she has to do is commit. I'll be everything she needs. But she hasn't committed yet. She's addicted to carbs, butter and salt. She's gonna have to make some hard changes and unless she's in it to win it I don't want to waste my time. I already helped her lose 20 lbs once and she just bounced right back. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:886188181] in So I told ... [t:75750309]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>It's pretty unrealistic to expect your tale of your wife losing 100 pounds for you to be anywhere near the norm. It's a huge ask and when TC is saying his wife is depressed I doubt his line of thinking where he might not wanna stick around is helping. He can leave if he wants, but I'm pretty sure being supportive would help. He should exercise with her, cook healthy meals for two, etc, etc.</quote> All she has to do is commit. I'll be everything she needs. But she hasn't committed yet. She's addicted to carbs, butter and salt. She's gonna have to make some hard changes and unless she's in it to win it I don't want to waste my time. I already helped her lose 20 lbs once and she just bounced right back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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