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TopicSo, milk?
Trialia
07/08/19 12:55:59 PM
#9
Red_Frog posted...
Trialia posted...
why do you people insist on the word "refrigerator" when you abbreviate most everything else??

We don't. Most of the time it's a fridge.

Hmm, I never seem to see that in writing from people in North America, but good to know, I guess.
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TopicSo, milk?
Trialia
07/08/19 12:55:20 PM
#8
captpackrat posted...
Trialia posted...
None of those options fit my green-top semi-skimmed.


Would that be like 1% milk? While it is available in the US, it's less common than whole, 2%, and skim. In fact, I'd never even heard of it until some time in the 1990s.

Not quite.

Whole milk is 3.6% here, about 3.25% in the US, and our semi-skimmed is about 1.5 to 1.8% (skimmed being 0.3%).

Semi-skimmed is the most popular kind of milk in the UK, actually, by a margin of about 36%. Most people I know find 1% & skimmed too thin-tasting to drink unless they're on a diet - only about 6% of Brits ever even buy skimmed milk in a given year - though why they taste so noticeably different - and to me they do - I really couldn't say.
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Topicquit my new job at walmart
Trialia
07/08/19 8:50:18 AM
#67
mooreandrew58 posted...
KeijiMaedaTiger posted...
Zeus posted...
The US doesn't have space for good faith applicants with all of the people it has mooching off the system. Like I've said before, my brother used to live in an apartment building where maybe 2/3s the residents were on Section-8, with many having off-book incomes including dealing drugs right in the building.


Even with what I consider a good reason I was hesitant to apply because I didn't want to be a moocher. I dunno maybe I'll try again with the backing of a lawyer.


Yeah ive qualified for food stamps and probably even welfare a few times in life would never take it though. Id just swallow my pride and ask for help from family. They care about me and dont mind helping. Average taxpayer doesnt know nor care about me.

See, this is the problem. If the situation is anywhere near what it is over here, the general public believe there are way more "moochers" than there really are. Here, that's definitely the case - roughly 95 to 98% of calls to the welfare fraud line have proved to be malicious or mistaken (and largely malicious).

Not only that, but the amount of money that would be paid out if everyone eligible applied for the benefits they could get is higher, for this country, than the amount currently being paid out to genuine and false claimants alike, because so many people who need the help are discouraged from applying because of the stigma that the government, media & general public between them have created about welfare recipients, and because the process has been deliberately made especially difficult for anybody who has the slightest problem applying unaided (which is most people, because after all, the benefit is there for people who are sick or disabled, and often both!).

If your family can afford to support you, good luck to you. I wouldn't go through the process if I'd had a choice (I didn't - all my family have the same genetic & inherited disability, unluckily for us since it's of 50% heritability). It's a mental and emotional grinder, frankly.

As for people with off-book incomes, given how little many people actually get in disability allowance, some struggle to survive without finding ways to either cut corners or make extra. I don't necessarily blame them for that, depending on what it is that they're doing. Mostly, I blame the government for not being willing to make the amount enough to live on, here at least. I don't know how much you get in the US, but here the local authority want fully half of mine just to cover my 9 hours of basic and low-quality home-care per week, which makes getting by very difficult.

If what you believe is that they're not disabled at all, my guess is that you haven't a lot of experience with just what it takes to get through even the application process, let alone actually end up getting SSDI or PIP. Most of them probably don't want to talk about whatever condition they claimed for, and frankly I don't mention all of mine to my neighbours, either. But the fraud & error rate for PIP in the UK is less than 2% (even by the government's own figures, & they have incentive to make it look as bad as they can).
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Topicwhat do most girls prefer bad bois or good bois
Trialia
07/08/19 8:41:25 AM
#24
*eyeroll* This "girl" (I'm 33 ffs, not to mention genderfluid, so I wouldn't call myself a "girl" in either direction, even when femme) prefers women to either, personally.
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TopicSo, milk?
Trialia
07/08/19 8:38:12 AM
#4
Krazy_Kirby posted...
wrong board

Hardly, since "milk" is today's poll and we have discussed them on this board (and not the "real poll(!)" board) before this. Get over it.
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TopicHow often do you go to the doctor? Why?
Trialia
07/08/19 8:36:24 AM
#37
ParanoidObsessive posted...
Zeus posted...
And, for whatever reason, I also stopped during the Matt Smith era.

It's because the writing sucked.

CTLM posted...
They completely wasted the next Dr (Peter Capaldi) with awful writing and shows. It was just one bad episode after another for the most part. I liked him though and his portrayal.

This is where I sort of am. I liked Matt Smith as the Doctor. I like Peter Capaldi as the Doctor. I don't even entirely mind Jodie Whittaker as the Doctor, though it feels like they handled every aspect of that situation in the worst possible way, ensuring there was going to be backlash.

The real problem is that the writing has been getting progressively worse and worse ever since Steven Moffat took over, and despite a lot of people hoping things would get better after Moffat left, it seems like Chris Chibnall is just making things even worse.

It doesn't matter whether or not I like a given actor as the Doctor, if I don't like any of the stories they're in.

Basically, they took 8 years to utterly kill any interest I once had in a show I'd previously been a fan of for almost 30 years.

At this point, even if they got a new showrunner, a new Doctor, and the scripts radically improved, I doubt I'd even bother trying to get back into it again.



Wrong thread, guys.

If you're going to rant about Doctor Who, make another. =P Though to some extent I agree (re. Chibnall, who should never have made showrunner).

Besides which, whatever you think of Matt's acting in that role, the guy himself is a sweetheart (I've met him a few times now).

Now, non-fictional medical doctor thread?

I just got a message from one of the GPs at my practice poking me to get my morphine dosage reviewed - again. I think she misread the review due date on my record, since it says July 7th 2020. But if I don't do it today, she won't issue my weekly repeat, and I need that. Sigh.
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TopicSo, milk?
Trialia
07/08/19 8:31:43 AM
#1
None of those options fit my green-top semi-skimmed, because apparently that's not much of a thing wherever the person who made that poll happens to live (I'm guessing the US, based on terminology?).

... That said, I also technically don't have a refrigerator either - I use a tabletop electric cooler, thanks to my gf having stepped in & shipped it to me when my fridge-freezer decided to give up the ghost last midsummer, and why do you people insist on the word "refrigerator" when you abbreviate most everything else??

So... how 'bout the rest of you? Anything else that doesn't fit?
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TopicHow often do you go to the doctor? Why?
Trialia
07/07/19 9:25:03 AM
#32
Given I have multiple chronic health problems, both mental and physical, and am a 90%-to-full-time wheelchair user... less than most people would probably expect me to.

Most of the time, my prescriptions continue as usual, even the weekly one for my pain meds, unless I need to get something altered or have my annual check on them. I have physiotherapy exercises I do at home & see the physio at my local hospital every 2 to 3 months or so, but I see my GP maybe 3 or 4 times a year unless we've got something specific in the pipeline (like now I need to make an appt with him to talk about an MRI scan he sent me for) or they request to see me.
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TopicDo you find it hard to find female nerds/gamers/etc.?
Trialia
07/07/19 8:15:17 AM
#9
ESMWjot posted...
Especially ones you consider attractive?

I find this being a topic on Twitter a lot, and I can see arguments on both sides of it...

Hahaha no.

As I am a gamer (& a qualified web & graphic designer + freelance proof-reader & editor) who can in some wise be considered female (by sex if not by gender, as I'm non-binary), and the sibling of a female gamer, I often interact with geek groups/culture in my area & enjoy that.

That being the case, I'm acquainted with plenty of attractive women (both objectively attractive & specifically attractive to me) who are part of the groups or know people who are. (I even taught a session on crafting basic jewellery at the last local Girl Geeks BarCamp I attended, that was fun & attracted quite a few femme participants...) Unfortunately for me, like the composition of the wider population, so many are hetero and/or aren't polyamorous. Sigh.

...

As for this "arguments on both sides" rubbish though, why do you guys seem to expect a higher proportion of women in the gaming community to be physically attractive, whether to you or in general, than you seem to expect of the population at large? If you're attracted to say, 15% of women who commute using the same bus you take, or whatever, why complain when you find 15% or less of women local to you who also play video games to be of your physical type or whatever?

It's a mixture of probability theory & profound silliness. Not to mention ego, because gods forbid the women you find hot not be attracted to you in return... *smh* No, don't get me started, I might start screaming and I need my sleep. Later.
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TopicObjectively whats the most you ever spend on something?
Trialia
07/07/19 7:58:18 AM
#55
LOLIAmAnAlt posted...
Trialia posted...
LOLIAmAnAlt posted...
Car...No! Wait!
COLLEGE

College isn't a physical item, I don't think it counts under OP's criteria.

Diploma then

Fair enough.
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TopicObjectively whats the most you ever spend on something?
Trialia
07/06/19 11:52:45 PM
#53
LOLIAmAnAlt posted...
Car...No! Wait!
COLLEGE

College isn't a physical item, I don't think it counts under OP's criteria.
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TopicIs "because I don't want to" ever an acceptable reason?
Trialia
07/06/19 11:51:18 PM
#23
ParanoidObsessive posted...
Solid Sonic posted...
Is "because I don't want to" ever an acceptable reason?

Either for refusing to try something or not doing something that might be beneficial or positive.

I would argue that "Because I don't want to" is one of the most acceptable reasons for anything, ever.

No one should ever feel obligated to do anything solely because of peer pressure, cultural expectations, or out of an abstract assumption that personal "self-actualization" requires everyone to be a modern Renaissance Man who tries everything and experiences as much as possible.

"I don't want to" is almost always rooted in deeper motivation. "I don't want to... because this is similar to something I've already tried before and didn't like." "I don't want to... because I am a sapient being and able to use inductive reasoning to predict that I won't like something even without direct personal experience." "I don't want to... because the idea just makes me feel uncomfortable." "I don't want to... because time is finite and there are other things I'd rather be doing." "I don't want to... because I don't actually like you and don't want to do things with you." Whether or not you actually vocalize what your deeper motivations are, they're almost always there.


Exactly this.
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Topicquit my new job at walmart
Trialia
07/06/19 8:33:42 AM
#62
KeijiMaedaTiger posted...
I have tried getting on disability but have been shot down twice. Even though I would have gotten a free visit or two if the mental ward had a punch card reward system.

*smh* See, this is what I don't get about the US disability system. The UK system is nothing short of awful for the most part (deliberately so, because the govt want as few people claiming as possible), but having been admitted to the mental health unit or sectioned is damn near a "gimme" for at least the lowest rate of daily living support. You'd struggle if you weren't on meds or anything, but being sectioned is something they can't whitewash & their previous screwups have led them to be a lot more cautious in accepting people who might potentially be a risk to others (which is basically how they view being sectioned), in my experience.

*smh* N/m. The more I hear of the US and the systems with which I'd have to interact over there, the more grateful I am that I never said yes when my ex asked me to move to FL to live with her.
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Topicquit my new job at walmart
Trialia
07/06/19 8:27:44 AM
#61
Zangulus posted...
DiScOrD tHe LuNaTiC posted...
jayzeppo posted...
I will never do that job again. I want to be nice to people I like, not because I'm being paid to be.

I couldn't stand having to pretend I was interested in a person's whole life story when in reality I just wanted them to gtfo.

Retail employees are not therapists.

LOL, you think I listen? I just let 'em ramble as I work.


When I worked at AOL and was training for cancelations we were told just let them vent. They just want someone to listen to them.

Half of the people calling to cancel already had, and had been Gamed and were calling to yell about the fact theyd been charged for the past 2.3 years and not realized it.

Yeah. Theres no amount of listening or cajoling I can say to make them happy at this point. Especially once I tell them I can only refund 3 months and the other 2 years worth of charges they didnt catch theyre fucked out of.

Hmm. That kinda sucks.

I contacted Amazon UK customer service a couple of years back to query my LoveFilm (DVD rental) service status, as it was saying in one place that I had no discs at home and in another that I had two. (I did have two, that I'd had for 2 years & hadn't got round to returning due to being mostly housebound with lousy agency caregivers.) The staff member who spoke to me looked at my account & realised I'd been paying subs for 2 years without actually using the service, and refunded me those charges on the spot. Which was pretty cool of her.
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TopicHow old are you
Trialia
07/06/19 8:21:34 AM
#17
LinkPizza posted...
Other than Zeus, Im still the oldest in this topic. Where are all the old people...

LOL, hardly, Link!

I'm 33... appropriately, also my current user level ;)

Also, why even have this topic, since the PotD asks the same question on a regular basis & you could just hunt down the latest few & go by those?
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TopicIs "because I don't want to" ever an acceptable reason?
Trialia
07/06/19 8:19:21 AM
#14
PMarth2002 posted...
Yes.

You only live once, and life is too short to waste it on doing things that you don't want to do on the off-chance that you might like it.

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TopicWhat name do you go by?
Trialia
07/06/19 4:49:33 AM
#49
LOLIAmAnAlt posted...
Trialia posted...
but it isn't my birth name

...ralph?

Oddly enough, that was my sister's late godfather's name.

But no. A variant/diminutive form of C/Katherine, if you must know. I dropped that name when I was 16 (combination of bullying & having been named after a parental ex, ugh!).

Nowadays my legal first name is a kind of sideways-short for my middle name, a nickname acquired by way of a toddler who couldn't say the version of it that his mother used (Dria).
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TopicWhat name do you go by?
Trialia
07/06/19 4:39:36 AM
#48
Zangulus posted...
Nichtcrawler X posted...
Zangulus posted...
I also have a Taco Bell name. A name for restaurants and other establishments because almost everyone fucks up my real name.


You mean people misspell your name when they write it down? I know the annoyance.


Not just misspell it. But also completely put it wrong, like not even close to anything I said.

Lol, this is why I quit going by Xauhquia. If someone could say it they couldn't write it, and vice versa... *g*
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TopicWhat name do you go by?
Trialia
07/05/19 10:17:51 PM
#40
LinkPizza posted...
Ask if you have any questions...

Complicated! The name I go by is my legal first name, but it isn't my birth name. Not sure whether to click present option or past option applicable. *g*
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TopicObjectively whats the most you ever spend on something?
Trialia
07/05/19 7:01:20 PM
#50
Dynalo posted...
Zeus posted...
Oh, you got a platform bed?


Yup. And it's already really high off the ground (the bed also has drawers beneath it), so a box spring would have made it lethal to fall out of bed <_<

Zeus posted...
Just out of curiosity, do you remember the name/model?


I do not, but I may be able to find it.

That's what we call a cabin bed, in the UK.
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TopicBaby goat!
Trialia
07/04/19 1:38:40 PM
#9
captpackrat posted...
I called the goats over to the house to get some treats this afternoon, then I saw a tiny little face peeping from inside one of the goat shelters.

Say hello to little Lokai.

M5RX49Y

Oh my life, that teeny face...! &hearts;

The illumination of their eyes is more than a bit creepy, but goodness gracious, the rest of that mini person... *swoon of oversaturation of teh qte!*
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TopicObjectively whats the most you ever spend on something?
Trialia
07/04/19 1:23:27 PM
#36
hypnox posted...
What was the item and why did you spend so much on it?


Well, the single most expensive item in my home (that isn't part of the fittings installed by the landlord, I've no clue what the boiler etc cost) is my present electric wheelchair, a Sunrise Medical Salsa R-squared model - nicknamed "Ripley" (ask my brother!) - which has segmented powered tilt, Jay custom back for spinal support, padded calf support, padded & adjustable winged headrest, and swing-out footplates. All in all, she cost something around 6,500, brand new.

I don't know the precise figure because, mercifully(!), my local NHS mobility centre funded it for me. I'd never have been able to afford it without that! My first powerchair was a
secondhand Invacare Harrier Plus I found on eBay, and even that cost me a cool 650. That's one of the things that frustrates me most about needing a powerchair: people with mobility needs are essentially a captive market, so manufacturers rip us off for whatever figure they like, with absolute impunity.

Why spend so much on my expensive item? Well, in this case I'd've thought the answer fairly obvious! =P
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TopicEA Games feelings are hurt from being perceived as the bad guys all the time
Trialia
07/04/19 10:26:48 AM
#4
RedPixel posted...
"Unfortunately, when we make mistakes on games, the world knows about it because it's of a size and scale."


Lol bullshit... mistakes that are as big as EA's are easily avoidable if you're a developer who sees video games as art-- not the


True enough.

Guessing I'm not the only one here hearing the sound of tiny violins?
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TopicWhat's the longest you played a game(excluding sleep)?
Trialia
07/04/19 1:30:52 AM
#50
TheWitchMorgana posted...
when Breath of the Wild came out i played it from launch at midnight until around 7:30am that morning and passed out for the whole day

Lol, sounds like me the day Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire first came out.

I went to the midnight release party in the nearest town in my witch costume. After that, I had to wait until about 7AM for the first bus back to my village, so I spent the whole time just sitting reading. I finished it in 6 hours 30 minutes for 636 pages (UK 1st edition), so about a page & two-thirds per minute, I think?

I was 14 at the time, so don't knock it =P
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TopicAfter many years, I have finally found a copy of Eternal Sonata
Trialia
07/04/19 1:19:15 AM
#10
DeltaBladeX posted...
Thanks for the offer, but I'll decline. You hold onto the game yourself. Shipping is expensive.

Well, good luck to you!

You're right, though: shipping costs have basically demolished the book-swapping sites I used to use because now it costs more to mail even a mass-market paperback than it does to buy a brand new copy, for most books, which defeats half the purpose of swapping instead of buying new copies. :( It's an eco nightmare, and frankly no postal service should be allowed to rip off customers the way Royal Mail, USPS & many others do.
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TopicAfter many years, I have finally found a copy of Eternal Sonata
Trialia
07/04/19 1:05:34 AM
#8
DeltaBladeX posted...
Trialia posted...
What region do you need?

English PAL copy for 360, or any region English PS3 copy since that wasn't region locked.

That's good. I'll PM you, all right?
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TopicAfter many years, I have finally found a copy of Eternal Sonata
Trialia
07/04/19 12:39:02 AM
#4
DeltaBladeX posted...
I bet it is. I just never seem to have money when I see it. This was the first time I could actually pick it up and what do you know, useless copy.

What region do you need?
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TopicWhat's the longest you played a game(excluding sleep)?
Trialia
07/02/19 9:45:51 PM
#38
Excluding sleep? I can only guess at that, but I think something around 200 hours (FF13 on a 100% run, alternating with bouts of Minecraft). It helps that I sleep on my living room couch anyway, and have a tendency to get through my grinding in games while I'm sort of half-awake. ;D

Not excluding sleep, my longest gaming run was 52 hours. I know that was an FF game too, but for some reason I can't recall now whether it was VIII, IX or XII - I do think one of those. I was still a teenager when I did that. Couldn't now, not with chronic fatigue as a factor! But *excluding* sleep is for lightweights, lol. Unless you're disabled.
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TopicPick the game I try to finish next.
Trialia
07/02/19 8:28:39 PM
#9
Voted for Oddworld. As far as the Shakespeare's concerned, it's better to see the plays performed rather than just reading them - that is, after all, the use for which they were created.
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TopicHow often do you change your smoke detector batteries?
Trialia
07/02/19 8:26:52 PM
#19
Well, not *quite* whenever it starts beeping as I'm not physically capable of that. But that's when I call out my housing association to help do it.
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TopicHow many consoles do you have hooked up to your television set at the mo'?
Trialia
07/01/19 11:53:32 AM
#74
3 just now - PS2, PS3 and 360 - not counting the Android, given I can cast the screen to the TV when I'm gaming on that. I switch in my SNES classic & MegaDrive as & when I feel like it, no real need to swap in the PS1 unless the PS2 breaks down. (Which it might eventually, being 20 years old.)
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TopicI have a 1 bed flat (600ft2), can I keep an indoor cat?
Trialia
07/01/19 10:15:45 AM
#47
Sure you can, so long as it's not a Maine Coon. A 1br upper-floor apartment is fine for a normal-sized cat so long as you're not a hoarder & you're careful about not letting them out onto outside windowsills or balconies. I had an indoor cat for 7 years & she was entirely happy in my previous 1br & current 2br places. She liked to sit on the windowsills inside & watch the world through the glass, but she was scared of traffic so she never wanted to go out there.
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TopicDo you have AC where you live?
Trialia
07/01/19 6:58:38 AM
#16
Alternating current is normal in the UK, air conditioning is not. The rest... probably!
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Topic"It was necessary to restrict her chest."
Trialia
06/25/19 11:19:07 PM
#5
JOExHIGASHI posted...
It's extremely devastating to me. Boobs should be unfettered

I bet you don't have to put up with the resulting backache, though, do you? =P
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TopicAll the hours girls spend on makeup is time guys spend on video games etc
Trialia
06/24/19 11:47:29 AM
#17
Rolling my eyes so very hard at this topic...!

I hardly ever wear make-up even when I'm in high femme mode, unless I'm cosplaying. ETTO, but I prefer not to clog my pores with crap like foundation, and my complexion does much better for the lack of it. 5 minutes for lip balm or occasionally gloss, 10 or 15 to handle my hair because it's down to my hips, and that's about it.

I don't waste time with make-up that I could spend on gaming, and nor do the majority of female or feminine non-binary/genderqueer people I know who game regularly. This whole ridiculous topic is based on a fallacy. And a profoundly sexist one at that. If you think only women ever wear make-up, you're mistaken.
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TopicBetween what time do you usually go to bed?
Trialia
06/24/19 2:42:35 AM
#18
My sleeping patterns are all over the shop. I voted 3 to 6am since that seems most common, but marginally. Today/tonight it looks like it'll be the 6am-12pm spot, as I've not slept yet and it's 0740 where I am.
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TopicDo you like Minecraft?
Trialia
06/19/19 12:12:02 PM
#11
I do think it has a lot to do with how creative you can be without being handed a map. So to speak. I find the game fairly addictive.
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TopicSaw a person on Twitter claiming they identify as bisexual and non-binary.
Trialia
06/18/19 12:26:34 PM
#48
PMarth2002 posted...
as I understand it, pansexual means attraction to non-binary people as well as cis-men/women, while bisexual means just means you're attracted to cis-men/women.

Basically. (I'm non-binary, asexual & femromantic (emotionally but not physically attracted to feminine people).)
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TopicDaughter is such a weird word
Trialia
06/14/19 5:02:48 PM
#30
Solipsistic.
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TopicAre the Final Fantasy games actually good?
Trialia
06/14/19 5:11:26 AM
#31
FrozenBananas posted...
If this topic is an example of anything, it shows that literally everyone has their own opinion and not a single FF is better than another.

Just play them for yourself and stop listening to others

That's mostly true. Some are of objectively better quality, in some ways - graphics, of course. But if regarded as samples of the time at which they were made, they're interesting even if you don't play them.

I played my first DR games when I was twelve (VII, & shortly after, VIII). I've pretty much been hooked ever since, though I wasn't keen on VII to begin with & it's still among my less preferred replays. The only one I haven't been interested in playing, even including the MMOs which just aren't so much my thing, is XV. (And that seems to have been proved reasonable in the time since its release for more than just my original reasons.) I'd say my top 3 in terms of gameplay, narrative & characters are probably V, IX and XII. I'm currently working on getting the platinum for XIII...

It really is a decide-for-yourself thing, but most people who like JRPGs at all agree the FF games are, as a series, definitely among the better of the genre.
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TopicAccording to the Pew, I'm one of 6% of Americans, ages 18 to 24, to not use
Trialia
06/12/19 12:55:04 AM
#32
MrMelodramatic posted...
Lokarin posted...
Yes, I use YouTube.

But I'm sure that 6% is people under the age of 3 and over the age of 100

Its 6% of people between the ages 18 and 24

faramir77 posted...
I use YouTube. I don't use Netflix though.

I Netflix on the daily

I have to wonder whether most of the 6% are Amish &/or Mennonite.
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TopicWhat is the age at which death is no longer that sad?
Trialia
06/11/19 6:54:14 AM
#31
_AdjI_ posted...
OhhhJa posted...
_AdjI_ posted...
It's not really an age thing. It's more a matter of whether or not they feel they've lived enough of a life and can go happily. Dying before that is sad because you feel like they didn't get to finish living.

It's extremely rare for people to go to their grave completely fulfilled in life. Even people in their 80s and 90s


Yes, but you can be okay with dying without feeling completely fulfilled. There's considerable middle ground between "good enough" and "that's everything I could have ever wanted to do."

Well, quite. I get frustrated sometimes with the "western" way of thinking about death as something to be evaded at all cost, no matter how old you are. I suppose it may be partly to do with how few people who think that way truly believe in any form of reincarnation, but. (I'm a Gaia-theorist, personally, & that ties into how I think of it.)

I had a friend who completed suicide at just 17, whose life was so clearly and painfully cut short before they'd really had a chance at achieving happiness and getting beyond the pain, but I also had a friend who passed away from terminal illness in their 30s who, when in hospice approaching the end, felt like they were happy with going, that they'd set free all their remaining ties to the world and were no longer sad to leave it, they were looking forward to the next step and to finding out if there's anything after. So it really does depend very much on the individual and their approach to both life and death.

For my part... I'm in pain every day. I like being alive, on the whole, but I don't have the same kind of dread of my own death that so many people around me seem to have. I think it does have a lot to do with my beliefs and how many of my loved ones have already died in so many different ways. I'd probably be at peace with it, nowadays, but I wouldn't seek it out.
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TopicWHO now declares 'Gaming Disorder' as a Disease...
Trialia
06/09/19 4:01:05 AM
#16
Noop_Noop posted...
so wait, gaming is now a disorder, but gender identity disorder is no longer a disorder?

WHO is a fucking joke

You are.

You did just forget your closing question mark, right?...

*opens ignore list to make space*
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TopicWho is your favorite Final fantasy villain?
Trialia
06/07/19 5:59:23 AM
#62
Gunsandredroses posted...
Caius. Fight me.

I don't know, I don't really feel that. I mean, if it hadn't been for Yeul and his grief for her/them, would he have become what he did? I think that's more a case of Break the Haughty, so I pity him too much to rate him that highly as a villain. I guess I kinda feel similarly about all the ones who became that way through trauma.

As for the person who said Lavos, though, isn't this supposed to be an FF poll? That means no Chrono Trigger, awesome as Lavos was =P
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TopicMy cyan/light blue wig comes today!!!!
Trialia
06/07/19 5:54:23 AM
#24
wolfy42 posted...
Cool! I like that color better then mine actually, and it also leaves your face/forehead open, mine is the same length all the way around so I have to move it to the side to see. It's cool, but uncomfortable, and hard to wear.

Well, you can trim wigs... I'd possibly think about taking it to a shop that sells them to ask them to do it, though. They might ask you to pay a nominal charge for it, but from what you say it could be worth it. And thank you!

I really should take more wig pictures... I have a beautiful knee-length Gothic-Lolita-style one somewhere here that's about the same colour as Lightning's hair, and so soft you'd believe it was real to touch it...
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TopicTransgenders in sports: a poll
Trialia
06/07/19 5:51:11 AM
#74
Nichtcrawler X posted...
Decoy77 posted...
You were born with XY or XX, you will always be that. Doesn't matter how you feel. As much as the left likes to say "feels trump facts" that is not actuate, sorry to hurt your feelings.


People just need to understand sex and gender are 2 different things and when it comes to sport and the like, only sex matters, gender is irrelevant.

Not to mention the fact that there are more biological variants than just XX and XY... Klinefelter syndrome, Turner syndrome... Google those, Decoy. Educate yourself.
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TopicTransgenders in sports: a poll
Trialia
06/07/19 5:48:43 AM
#73
JoeDangIt posted...
Either everyone should be lumped together or sports should be divided into categories based on performance, take gender and sex out of the equation.

This.
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TopicTransgenders in sports: a poll
Trialia
06/07/19 5:48:28 AM
#72
Ye gods, the biological ignorance of this thread.

Also, I'm non-binary, if we're doing the "full disclosure to asshats" deal. I know what's offensive and what isn't. This thread is reminding me very clearly just why my ignore list is topped out. I do wish the ignore function still applied in instances where people on it are being quoted.

"Transgenders" is neither accurate nor polite as a term. Just because you're lazy and don't care to acknowledge that we are all people and that you would not appreciate being called "cisgenders" if anybody did that, doesn't give you a free pass to act like a prat without consequence. As for its being "accepted in [...] the trans community", just to clarify, are you trans yourself? I have already said I'm gender-nonconforming, and I've never once seen that word mentioned among my friends & acquaintances when it wasn't someone objecting to it.
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TopicActress's anal cancer linked to her husband (PSA announcement)
Trialia
06/07/19 5:39:25 AM
#30
Here in the UK it's become pretty much routine to offer girls the HPV vaccine, usually done through their secondary school at age 12, without charge - the NHS usually absorb all the costs of any kind of medical treatment for anyone 16 or under, or up to 19 if still in full-time education. (The routine alters slightly for trans people, of course, but usually if you have a vag you'll be offered it whatever your gender identity).

Most people in this country with vaginas at least know HPV can cause cervical cancer, & we get routinely tested for it during Pap smears (we just call them "smear tests" here) every 3 to 5 years (they alter the frequency of reminders based on age as it's a lot less likely you'll get certain kinds of gynaecological cancers after menopause). We don't have to pay for those either. There are reasons our childhood and maternal mortality rates are so much lower than those in the US, and this is one of them. :(
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