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One I'm not sure if I should meet or tell to **** off, she's pretty but last time we were supposed to meet up she ghosted me the day of. I ignored her afterwards, today she messaged like nothing happened, I acted the same way but I have too much pride to meet someone like that

emblem boy posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

I have no apps because they are distracting from life which is chaotic right now but I put up a new pic on insta and now I have 4 dates lined up in the next week :/

How

they slid into the DM

girls that I had old tinder connections from or we met and things slowly fizzled out :/

I have no apps because they are distracting from life which is chaotic right now but I put up a new pic on insta and now I have 4 dates lined up in the next week :/

Edit: this sounds way too much like I'm bragging

emblem boy posted...

I wasn't trying to make fun. I'm legit asking about what happened to all the other girls he's being going on dates with. He's always going on a new date that lasts 1 or 2 then it stops

Welcome to online dating, when you fuck up, you aren't given another chance. The next match is one more swipe away. Both guys and girls are guilty of this.

April fools day girl makes the most sense

Gives a guy a kiss on the cheek once and he's on a video game forum 1 year later still talking about her

JustMyOpinion posted...

gna647 posted...

I keep blocking her and unblocking her to see what she's up to.

This isn't working entirely. :(

Will you ever grow a spine?

**** seriously, this is the 5th 500 post topic that you've been talking about the same girl

Things ended with the greatest girl I had ever touched on July 1st, she was pure perfection in my eyes. I think about her every fucking day but I know it's in the past, I'll hit her up in 6 months if things go off then good, if not, I lost but I accept that. I've told myself I will either patch things up with her or find someone that makes me forget she exists

wait OKC removed who viewed you???? I only ever messaged girls that viewed my profile first

Tinder boost is amazing. Had premium for a month. Dropped a boost downtown toronto and I had 120 matches LOL in an hour

My parents are indian and she knows nothing about indian culture and I did NOT want to kiss her

Not bad for an on the spot lie

gna647 posted...

I noticed most of the girls I've been with were bigger than me

Taller or heavier. Either or. I've only slept with one girl that was tinier than me and I think I prefer it

Idk it's cause a handful of these girls catfish on tinder cause most look different IRL.

Every girl I've been with is smaller than me, this one girl I met was 5'10 (I'm 6) and I felt she was too big (she also didn't smell good). She liked me, as I was dropping her off, I went for a hug, she went for a kiss. I turned my head as fast as i could and she only got half my lip. I had to come up with bs on the spot and I told her "kissing a girl on a first date is considered bad luck in my culture"

My tinder date for tonight is struggling to find a place to leave her son


...I didn't know she even had a son -_-

Albel-Nox posted...

gna647 posted...

Blocking Halloween chick on everything is the greatest thing I've ever done


I already feel myself getting over it and I have two dates lined up

XD

Just in time for next halloween

EnragedSlith posted...

It's been almost five months since I got dumped by a woman I thought I was settling down with, and I still feel so bloody inadequate. I do pretty damn well for myself by most standards and get plenty of attention, but it's like a drop in a leaky bucket. Even largely making peace with how abnormal it was, I don't get how I'm supposed to feel better when she keeps popping up in my dreams. I wake up and it's like I need to smoke a pack.

Can't even chase women in this mood. Already mentioned getting with a girl I should've clicked with otherwise, but just wasn't there for it. Fucking sucks, man.

Been there and very recently :(

Stay strong man

Coolppl Owns posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Hate that it's me again posting another date story (4 days, 4 dates, last one for a bit, life gets busy again)

The one I met yesterday was different, she was very open with all the guys on that app she hooked up with, it was a hefty number. She was cool and pretty, a tad boring and not as great as her pics. I was thinking of not messaging but I decided I should because she was nice. She messaged back saying she really liked me and wants to see me again

how do you feel about this high body count

I always said I wouldn't let it affect me if a girl had been with 1 guy or 100 guys (or even no guys), it's all about how they get along with me. That said I do find I usually hit it off best with girls with a lower count and more strict on who they let in. I have nothing going on right now. Met a girl the day before yesterday who is older than me by 11 years and is an an open relationship with a girl, and now this one who says she likes me but is conflicted on what she wants. I don't have much interest in either but until I find something I like, why not.


Condoms are definitely being used

Hate that it's me again posting another date story (4 days, 4 dates, last one for a bit, life gets busy again)

The one I met yesterday was different, she was very open with all the guys on that app she hooked up with, it was a hefty number. She was cool and pretty, a tad boring and not as great as her pics. I was thinking of not messaging but I decided I should because she was nice. She messaged back saying she really liked me and wants to see me again

DeroIin posted...

I matched with a girl that lives 2 miles away. What do CE?

send dick pics

So I matched a girl on bumble last night and we met today. I thought her profile said 27 but it really said 37 (I'm 26). Anyways I met up and she looked worse (pics like a bombshell but in reality she is just cute) than her pics and old, I asked her age and she said "37 like my profile", I checked and I was mistaken

She told me she is bi with a girl friend and any guy she is with would be an open relationship. Could be a good arrangement until I find something else, we kissed at the end

EnragedSlith posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Had a date, we talked well, she lived close. We talked about game of thrones for a good hour, so that was good

Only issue...she wasn't that good looking, much better in pics :/

Happens, man, sucks.

I feel bad, nice girl. I like her personality but I care about physical attraction and it's just not there

Had a date, we talked well, she lived close. We talked about game of thrones for a good hour, so that was good

Only issue...she wasn't that good looking, much better in pics :/

ReggieBush09 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Went on a date last night. Never been so bored. she was cute but we had nothing in common. She was one of those "only I talk and you listen" people. I didn't even bother messaging her after but I don't think she cared for me either

at least you're on a date with someone at least your trying to be social

as for me nobody would even agree to date me or be romantic with me in anyway

if you can get someone to date you that's huge.

seems like women only wanna hurt me....make me feel like I don't deserve anything.

Take a step back, see what you think you are doing wrong and what they may not like and try to change it?

JustMyOpinion posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Went on a date last night. Never been so bored. she was cute but we had nothing in common. She was one of those "only I talk and you listen" people. I didn't even bother messaging her after but I don't think she cared for me either

I wonder how people like that decide if the date was bad or not since they don't even let the other party participate.

I'm actually pretty talkative and usually end up being slightly more talkative than who I am with but this girl was me, me, me.

meh

Went on a date last night. Never been so bored. she was cute but we had nothing in common. She was one of those "only I talk and you listen" people. I didn't even bother messaging her after but I don't think she cared for me either

justaguy3492 posted...

Is 18 too young for a Tinder match? I'm 25 and my settings are at 21-31, but this girl did the whole "not really 21 actually 18" thing. Problem is she's pretty cute... Is 18 too young?

26 here, I have my settings from 18-55+ lol

In Canada 18 is legal

You get blocked for 2 reasons: you are obnoxious or the person is hurt and deosn't want to see you and what you are doing. We broke up, I never messaged her again, a week or so later I was blocked on every app

Coolppl Owns posted...

gna647 posted...

I think it's weird after you block her off everything it's almost like she doesn't exist



:(


I still have urges to search her up

backsliding is bad

Much easier when you are the one that is blocked ^_^

EnragedSlith posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Boo_Guy posted...

Damn, no wonder. You could be a model.

aha, tried modelling, hated it. Don't have those kind of looks anyways. Every one I worked with was scrawny

Say whatever you want, but I'm tagging you as Adonis

LOL

To the guy who got ghosted, try to plan a date for 3 or so days from the current date. Long planned dates have a lower chance of panning out. This girl on tinder is down to meet not this friday but next, I said sure but I doubt it'll happen

I wish I could get any girl I wanted. Usually I lose every girl I wanted lol

Boo_Guy posted...

Damn, no wonder. You could be a model.

aha, tried modelling, hated it. Don't have those kind of looks anyways. Every one I worked with was scrawny

gna647 posted...

Latina I slept with is liking my pics again

after going quiet for a month. I think she's looking for round 2 which I would be up for since she was the best sex.


But she's kinda getting fat now >___>

Aha I had a similar experience with a latina, amazing sex but also got fat. Still for me the difference between regular sex and amazing sex isn't so big that it makes up for her crappy personality qualities

Boo_Guy posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

I don't see why not, one guy talked about the same girl for 8+ months, you guys should have better stories than that

The girl I met on the weekend is already asking me out. She was a little dry but cute enough, I'm cool with this. Only had things go to shit with the woman of my dreams on July 1st.

Also I have dates set up for thursday, sunday and monday

Jesus, how attractive are you?

These are the pictures I have. Don't know if they show up or you have to click. Have a date for Friday as well now aha. Have a free-er week might as well hit them up

http://imgur.com/a/JJFwx

http://imgur.com/a/ZzWXF

http://imgur.com/a/unocT

http://imgur.com/a/frYIu

I don't see why not, one guy talked about the same girl for 8+ months, you guys should have better stories than that

The girl I met on the weekend is already asking me out. She was a little dry but cute enough, I'm cool with this. Only had things go to shit with the woman of my dreams on July 1st.

Also I have dates set up for thursday, sunday and monday

Coolppl Owns posted...

Halloween girl where are you

trick or treating another man's....

Mods purged it quick because half the 400 post topic was one guy crying about Halloween girl

Went on a date yesterday. She was my age (26) but she looked like she could be 36, still cute. She's been texting me though. I felt we had nothing in common but hey she's cute so why not

vbty3 posted...

She's just cutting you off like gna should be doing. It expedites the recovery process and allows her to move on.

Yeah I respect it. I thought we left on decent terms but I feel like crap for letting her down. Things went wrong all at the end

Tanoomba posted...

She's probably asshurt and is trying to get to you emotionally. Stay strong.

It was a strange break up, I honestly don't want her to be hurt. I think time heals all, nothing I say will. I can't say anything anyways, I am blocked on everything

A girl and I broke up on July 1st. We never messaged again. Today she blocked me on every social media.

She took it hard?

I've heard in general girls tend to block you if you are annoying or it hurts emotionally. I definitely didn't annoy her

Since everyone is posting their love stories I'll post mine

For the last 3 months I saw 3 girls, 2 from tinder and one from OKC. Anyways I was ready to cut ties with 2 when 1 became stable. I obviously liked 1 more than the others but we also had the least compatible circumstances. Last weekend I lost all 3 to different circumstances -_-

I downloaded pof, tinder and bumble and had a date on sunday, she was cute, we didn't connect that well in my opinion but we still text. I have another date Wed and maybe on the weekend.

BreezyExcursion posted...

more than likely going to go exclusive with my current girl

haven't looked at dating apps for the last three weeks anyway

That's the best way, if you find something solid, don't get greedy.

Coolppl Owns posted...

you're still talking about halloween girl

WHY

LMAO, I come into this topic randomly once in a while, read halloween girl and leave

Redownloaded tinder/bumble/pof/happn yesterday, have a date this coming saturday already ^_^

I know OKCupid is good too but anything else worth a shot?

Anything beyond tinder, bumble, okc, pof worth trying?

Monolith1676 posted...

POF is dead. Spammed by spam acounts.

hate that shit so much

Uhhh so I've been off the apps for a bit because I feel like I have a solid roster of girls I see often.

Anyways the one girl I liked the most and had raw sex for the first time told me a "funny" story. It was intended to make me laugh but she told me about how the guy she used to have sex with before me tried killing an STI by putting lysol on his thing and complaining about it burning...I told her I'm getting tested right away, she got mad that I implied she is dirty :/

I4NRulez posted...

I hate when i match with a girl on Tinder or something and they start pushing for my phone number or IG.

When i tell em no they just ghost me. I really dont trust those people

They think your pics are vague and want to see more and get an accurate picture of what you look like

I used tinder, okc, pof, bumble for a month and now....uhhhh

I went from nothing to pseudo dating 3 girls. All 3 are great, all 3 I met for the first time around the same time and now I think I am soon reaching the point where I need to make an ethical decision -_-

Meta Ridley from metroid prime? Omega ridley?

Downloaded tinder again but still on the fence.

Met a girl last night and it went real well, didn't have sex but a makeout session. Apparently she was the lifeguard at pool I used to go to and she remembered me

TheGoldenEel posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Add grandpa, mom, dad and psycho brother into this list. I know I should stop talking to her as I am starting to get the impression that realistically she can't be with a non muslim, all her stories hinted at it and she dodged the question but I dont feel like we are that close, seems like a FWB scenario...with no WB -_-

hey at least you know now

my situation was like a bait and switch, her grandma was on an extended vacation for like the whole first month we were dating, so she'd sleep over all the time

then the grandma got back and she had to go home every night. there was no curfew or anything but she just had to be there when her grandma woke up at like 5am or whenever old people get up

Hey 5am isn't too bad, I'd want a girl to be gone by then aha

TheGoldenEel posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Deleted tinder/bumble/pof/okcupid/happn

Feels good actually, felt stressful actually, I counted that I could match on average 6 or 7 girls on tinder a day. Also have a few girls I am talking to,don't want to be that guy that is talking to a billion girls but every girl has the same profile online.

Actually getting super close to this one arab girl, she has heavily hinted she wants to have sex but she lives close to the end of my range (50km), doesn't drive and lives with family who is strict and wants her home by a specific time. So I would need to go pick her up, bring her back to my place, have sex then take her back home -_-

my ex lived with her (religious) grandma who needed her back home every night

was frustrating as fuck, like dating back in high school. she only lived a few miles from me too

Add grandpa, mom, dad and psycho brother into this list. I know I should stop talking to her as I am starting to get the impression that realistically she can't be with a non muslim, all her stories hinted at it and she dodged the question but I dont feel like we are that close, seems like a FWB scenario...with no WB -_-

Also does not help that she is super hot and considerably better than her pics, I was considering not even meeting her but one of her pics looked super nice. I said why not and was completely shocked by how hot she is

Deleted tinder/bumble/pof/okcupid/happn

Feels good actually, felt stressful actually, I counted that I could match on average 6 or 7 girls on tinder a day. Also have a few girls I am talking to,don't want to be that guy that is talking to a billion girls but every girl has the same profile online.

Actually getting super close to this one arab girl, she has heavily hinted she wants to have sex but she lives close to the end of my range (50km), doesn't drive and lives with family who is strict and wants her home by a specific time. So I would need to go pick her up, bring her back to my place, have sex then take her back home -_-

I dont understand bumble, first few days I always got a few matches then nothing, so I realized the trick is quickly jump in, mash right for a few days, talk to the hot ones, get numbers, delete account and repeat. Tinder truly is the best of the apps, best selection and girls are more down to meet. With pof or OKC you have to talk for a bit before girls think about meeting you but with tinder (and to some extent bumble), I can usually successfully ask out a girl in 4 days (I find this number works best for me)

One of them is selling brand new persona for almost half price here in Canada. what could go wrong?

Feedback thing has nothing, just says new and just launched