Current Events > okcupid/Tinder/online dating /regular dating general topic VIII

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Blue_Popo
07/29/17 1:26:34 AM
#101:


Had a date, we talked well, she lived close. We talked about game of thrones for a good hour, so that was good

Only issue...she wasn't that good looking, much better in pics :/
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EnragedSlith
07/29/17 4:11:49 AM
#102:


Blue_Popo posted...
Had a date, we talked well, she lived close. We talked about game of thrones for a good hour, so that was good

Only issue...she wasn't that good looking, much better in pics :/

Happens, man, sucks.
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Blue_Popo
07/29/17 10:56:57 AM
#103:


EnragedSlith posted...
Blue_Popo posted...
Had a date, we talked well, she lived close. We talked about game of thrones for a good hour, so that was good

Only issue...she wasn't that good looking, much better in pics :/

Happens, man, sucks.


I feel bad, nice girl. I like her personality but I care about physical attraction and it's just not there
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emblem boy
07/29/17 9:46:34 PM
#104:


Nothing substantial from her tinder bio that makes for a good opener.

Gimme something random to start off with guys
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vbty3
07/29/17 9:49:44 PM
#105:


Just go to r/tinder and try one of those.
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Blue_Popo
07/29/17 9:55:20 PM
#106:


So I matched a girl on bumble last night and we met today. I thought her profile said 27 but it really said 37 (I'm 26). Anyways I met up and she looked worse (pics like a bombshell but in reality she is just cute) than her pics and old, I asked her age and she said "37 like my profile", I checked and I was mistaken

She told me she is bi with a girl friend and any guy she is with would be an open relationship. Could be a good arrangement until I find something else, we kissed at the end
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DeroIin
07/30/17 12:12:27 AM
#107:


I matched with a girl that lives 2 miles away. What do CE?
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Blue_Popo
07/30/17 1:09:39 AM
#108:


DeroIin posted...
I matched with a girl that lives 2 miles away. What do CE?


send dick pics
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emblem boy
07/30/17 8:46:50 PM
#109:


Is there a time period where if you didn't message someone you matched with, you just shouldn't go back and try to? Like a couple weeks? A month?
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Maeiv
07/30/17 8:49:37 PM
#110:


emblem boy posted...
Is there a time period where if you didn't message someone you matched with, you just shouldn't go back and try to? Like a couple weeks? A month?


I usually just message a day after I match with someone.

Message them at any time. Doesn't hurt.
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Blue_Popo
07/31/17 12:27:15 PM
#111:


Hate that it's me again posting another date story (4 days, 4 dates, last one for a bit, life gets busy again)

The one I met yesterday was different, she was very open with all the guys on that app she hooked up with, it was a hefty number. She was cool and pretty, a tad boring and not as great as her pics. I was thinking of not messaging but I decided I should because she was nice. She messaged back saying she really liked me and wants to see me again
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Albel-Nox
07/31/17 12:30:15 PM
#112:


Got two numbers that night I posted that pic.

One just hit me back.
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Coolppl Owns
07/31/17 12:37:41 PM
#113:


Blue_Popo posted...
Hate that it's me again posting another date story (4 days, 4 dates, last one for a bit, life gets busy again)

The one I met yesterday was different, she was very open with all the guys on that app she hooked up with, it was a hefty number. She was cool and pretty, a tad boring and not as great as her pics. I was thinking of not messaging but I decided I should because she was nice. She messaged back saying she really liked me and wants to see me again


how do you feel about this high body count
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Blue_Popo
07/31/17 1:25:24 PM
#114:


Coolppl Owns posted...
Blue_Popo posted...
Hate that it's me again posting another date story (4 days, 4 dates, last one for a bit, life gets busy again)

The one I met yesterday was different, she was very open with all the guys on that app she hooked up with, it was a hefty number. She was cool and pretty, a tad boring and not as great as her pics. I was thinking of not messaging but I decided I should because she was nice. She messaged back saying she really liked me and wants to see me again


how do you feel about this high body count


I always said I wouldn't let it affect me if a girl had been with 1 guy or 100 guys (or even no guys), it's all about how they get along with me. That said I do find I usually hit it off best with girls with a lower count and more strict on who they let in. I have nothing going on right now. Met a girl the day before yesterday who is older than me by 11 years and is an an open relationship with a girl, and now this one who says she likes me but is conflicted on what she wants. I don't have much interest in either but until I find something I like, why not.


Condoms are definitely being used
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dragnmaninferno
07/31/17 1:39:13 PM
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maoriwarrior
07/31/17 1:39:37 PM
#116:


Met mine on POF, and married her.
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EnragedSlith
07/31/17 2:48:56 PM
#117:


It's been almost five months since I got dumped by a woman I thought I was settling down with, and I still feel so bloody inadequate. I do pretty damn well for myself by most standards and get plenty of attention, but it's like a drop in a leaky bucket. Even largely making peace with how abnormal it was, I don't get how I'm supposed to feel better when she keeps popping up in my dreams. I wake up and it's like I need to smoke a pack.

Can't even chase women in this mood. Already mentioned getting with a girl I should've clicked with otherwise, but just wasn't there for it. Fucking sucks, man.
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Blue_Popo
07/31/17 3:43:56 PM
#118:


EnragedSlith posted...
It's been almost five months since I got dumped by a woman I thought I was settling down with, and I still feel so bloody inadequate. I do pretty damn well for myself by most standards and get plenty of attention, but it's like a drop in a leaky bucket. Even largely making peace with how abnormal it was, I don't get how I'm supposed to feel better when she keeps popping up in my dreams. I wake up and it's like I need to smoke a pack.

Can't even chase women in this mood. Already mentioned getting with a girl I should've clicked with otherwise, but just wasn't there for it. Fucking sucks, man.


Been there and very recently :(

Stay strong man
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gna647
07/31/17 3:51:16 PM
#119:


Blocking Halloween chick on everything is the greatest thing I've ever done


I already feel myself getting over it and I have two dates lined up
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emblem boy
08/01/17 12:05:01 AM
#120:


Im potentially meeting up with a girl from tinder later this week. It's see if it happens. Second time meeting a girl from tinder this year/ever.
I'm keeping my expectations low though
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Albel-Nox
08/01/17 12:21:24 AM
#121:


gna647 posted...
Blocking Halloween chick on everything is the greatest thing I've ever done


I already feel myself getting over it and I have two dates lined up

XD
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Blue_Popo
08/01/17 11:09:17 AM
#122:


Albel-Nox posted...
gna647 posted...
Blocking Halloween chick on everything is the greatest thing I've ever done


I already feel myself getting over it and I have two dates lined up

XD


Just in time for next halloween
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DeroIin
08/01/17 11:48:18 AM
#124:


How do y'all arrange meet ups so easily? I've literally only had 1 tinder date in 18 months, out of 100s of matches probably
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Tanoomba
08/01/17 11:50:37 AM
#125:


DeroIin posted...
How do y'all arrange meet ups so easily? I've literally only had 1 tinder date in 18 months, out of 100s of matches probably

Be sexy as fuck?
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BreezyExcursion
08/01/17 12:00:58 PM
#126:


gna647 posted...
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New female coworker couldn't stop staring at me all today at work.

Every time we looked at each other I gave her a devious grin, and/or a finger collapse wave.

It was so fucking fun.

Side note: One of my neckbeard employees was cock blocking the whole time damn near. They were the same race, but not my race.

Guess the race.


Asian

self insertion cuck fantasy
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gna647
08/01/17 1:53:11 PM
#127:


Girl 1 wants to go hiking

Girl 2 just told me she's in San Diego until the 3rd and wants to get drinks Friday


Doing good right now


Also hanging with another chick that boxes as well this semester. Told her I'd show her around town. We've sparred before actually lol
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Albel-Nox
08/01/17 5:03:03 PM
#128:


BreezyExcursion posted...
gna647 posted...
Albel-Nox posted...
New female coworker couldn't stop staring at me all today at work.

Every time we looked at each other I gave her a devious grin, and/or a finger collapse wave.

It was so fucking fun.

Side note: One of my neckbeard employees was cock blocking the whole time damn near. They were the same race, but not my race.

Guess the race.


Asian

self insertion cuck fantasy

What?
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Albel-Nox
08/01/17 11:05:24 PM
#129:


hd4Zphb

She's pretty average. But I haven't smoked in days so right now she's a solid 8.5.

Can't wait.
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billcom6
08/02/17 11:36:56 AM
#130:


Well I am now in a very strange mood.

So last year I hung out with this girl. We never "dated" but it is the closest I have ever come to a relationship so I still have a lot of emotions tied up with her. We hung out like every weekend for like 3 months, then basically for no reason (as far as I know) we stopped hanging out. We would still talk but she would always make excuses for not seeing me. I haven't seen her in 7 months, and while I would talk to her randomly she basically ignored my messages so I haven't really said anything to her in over a month.

Anyways I was going to a concert last night that was sold out. She texted me asking if I could get her in somehow. I told her I couldn't but if she wanted to hang out after let me know. She never responded back.

So basically she texted me when she wanted something after ignoring me for an extended period of time then went right back to ignoring me.

So now I feel like old wounds (of being dropped and ignored for no reason) have opened up again because of no fault of my own.
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Coolppl Owns
08/02/17 12:10:32 PM
#131:


billcom6 posted...
Well I am now in a very strange mood.

So last year I hung out with this girl. We never "dated" but it is the closest I have ever come to a relationship so I still have a lot of emotions tied up with her. We hung out like every weekend for like 3 months, then basically for no reason (as far as I know) we stopped hanging out. We would still talk but she would always make excuses for not seeing me. I haven't seen her in 7 months, and while I would talk to her randomly she basically ignored my messages so I haven't really said anything to her in over a month.

Anyways I was going to a concert last night that was sold out. She texted me asking if I could get her in somehow. I told her I couldn't but if she wanted to hang out after let me know. She never responded back.

So basically she texted me when she wanted something after ignoring me for an extended period of time then went right back to ignoring me.

So now I feel like old wounds (of being dropped and ignored for no reason) have opened up again because of no fault of my own.


and now you never talk to her again
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dragnmaninferno
08/02/17 2:01:00 PM
#132:


Coolppl Owns posted...
billcom6 posted...
Well I am now in a very strange mood.

So last year I hung out with this girl. We never "dated" but it is the closest I have ever come to a relationship so I still have a lot of emotions tied up with her. We hung out like every weekend for like 3 months, then basically for no reason (as far as I know) we stopped hanging out. We would still talk but she would always make excuses for not seeing me. I haven't seen her in 7 months, and while I would talk to her randomly she basically ignored my messages so I haven't really said anything to her in over a month.

Anyways I was going to a concert last night that was sold out. She texted me asking if I could get her in somehow. I told her I couldn't but if she wanted to hang out after let me know. She never responded back.

So basically she texted me when she wanted something after ignoring me for an extended period of time then went right back to ignoring me.

So now I feel like old wounds (of being dropped and ignored for no reason) have opened up again because of no fault of my own.


and now you never talk to her again

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MTRodaba2468
08/02/17 11:20:55 PM
#133:


dragnmaninferno posted...
Coolppl Owns posted...
billcom6 posted...
Well I am now in a very strange mood.

So last year I hung out with this girl. We never "dated" but it is the closest I have ever come to a relationship so I still have a lot of emotions tied up with her. We hung out like every weekend for like 3 months, then basically for no reason (as far as I know) we stopped hanging out. We would still talk but she would always make excuses for not seeing me. I haven't seen her in 7 months, and while I would talk to her randomly she basically ignored my messages so I haven't really said anything to her in over a month.

Anyways I was going to a concert last night that was sold out. She texted me asking if I could get her in somehow. I told her I couldn't but if she wanted to hang out after let me know. She never responded back.

So basically she texted me when she wanted something after ignoring me for an extended period of time then went right back to ignoring me.

So now I feel like old wounds (of being dropped and ignored for no reason) have opened up again because of no fault of my own.


and now you never talk to her again

Agreed.
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emblem boy
08/03/17 12:05:56 AM
#134:


Just got home from meeting a girl on tinder. We got drinks and ended up talking for about 3 hours, and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. Exchanged numbers afterwards even.
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teepan95
08/03/17 8:30:20 AM
#135:


When you snap someone, is it considered rude to not reply straight away? Or is it like texting, where it's not an issue?
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dragnmaninferno
08/03/17 8:42:52 AM
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teepan95
08/03/17 9:54:47 AM
#137:


'How was the exam?'

The 'good luck' snap I sent earlier got a whole-hearted response
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DeroIin
08/03/17 12:51:57 PM
#138:


emblem boy posted...
Just got home from meeting a girl on tinder. We got drinks and ended up talking for about 3 hours, and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. Exchanged numbers afterwards even.

I think it went well.


Wait you got her number while on the date and not while you were messaging her on tinder?
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emblem boy
08/03/17 1:00:22 PM
#139:


DeroIin posted...
emblem boy posted...
Just got home from meeting a girl on tinder. We got drinks and ended up talking for about 3 hours, and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. Exchanged numbers afterwards even.

I think it went well.


Wait you got her number while on the date and not while you were messaging her on tinder?


Yep.
Didn't exchange numbers on tinder, but we coordinated where we'd meet and stuff. I know it's usually best to get the number fast so it's more "real" and less chance of them ghosting, but ehh. She seemed willing to meet so I was less worried.

Either way, I view her asking for my number afterwards as a good sign.
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Coolppl Owns
08/03/17 1:06:23 PM
#140:


emblem boy posted...
DeroIin posted...
emblem boy posted...
Just got home from meeting a girl on tinder. We got drinks and ended up talking for about 3 hours, and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. Exchanged numbers afterwards even.

I think it went well.


Wait you got her number while on the date and not while you were messaging her on tinder?


Yep.
Didn't exchange numbers on tinder, but we coordinated where we'd meet and stuff. I know it's usually best to get the number fast so it's more "real" and less chance of them ghosting, but ehh. She seemed willing to meet so I was less worried.

Either way, I view her asking for my number afterwards as a good sign.


Good stuff EB!
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emblem boy
08/03/17 1:59:25 PM
#141:


Coolppl Owns posted...
emblem boy posted...
DeroIin posted...
emblem boy posted...
Just got home from meeting a girl on tinder. We got drinks and ended up talking for about 3 hours, and we both seemed to enjoy ourselves. Exchanged numbers afterwards even.

I think it went well.


Wait you got her number while on the date and not while you were messaging her on tinder?


Yep.
Didn't exchange numbers on tinder, but we coordinated where we'd meet and stuff. I know it's usually best to get the number fast so it's more "real" and less chance of them ghosting, but ehh. She seemed willing to meet so I was less worried.

Either way, I view her asking for my number afterwards as a good sign.


Good stuff EB!


I shouldn't feel the need to like text her a lot right? Apart from making plans.
I know every girl is different, but I'm horrid when it comes to texting and tend to not be emotional or I try to "play it cool"
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billcom6
08/03/17 2:34:37 PM
#142:


The timeless struggle of texting a girl enough so you stay connected vs texting her too much that you become annoying.
The only thing I overthink more than that is analyzing girls emoji usage.
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emblem boy
08/03/17 2:36:06 PM
#143:


billcom6 posted...
The timeless struggle of texting a girl enough so you stay connected vs texting her too much that you become annoying.
The only thing I overthink more than that is analyzing girls emoji usage.


Man, don't even get me started on emojis. Are guys supposed to use them or not? I hear different things. Girls love emojis, but does apply to both them and the guy using it?
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teepan95
08/03/17 2:36:24 PM
#144:


billcom6 posted...
The timeless struggle of texting a girl enough so you stay connected vs texting her too much that you become annoying.

I struggle with this too, except it's not just limited to texting, but also Snapchat etc

emblem boy posted...
billcom6 posted...
The timeless struggle of texting a girl enough so you stay connected vs texting her too much that you become annoying.
The only thing I overthink more than that is analyzing girls emoji usage.


Man, don't even get me started on emojis. Are guys supposed to use them or not? I hear different things. Girls love emojis, but does apply to both them and the guy using it?

I always thought yes, but I really don't know
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billcom6
08/03/17 2:41:24 PM
#145:


I use emojis every so often, but I more think about like "she has sent me like three blushing emojis in the last 15 minutes, what does that mean????"
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teepan95
08/03/17 2:41:50 PM
#146:


I get whales and ladybirds and stuff <_<
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Maeiv
08/03/17 2:59:17 PM
#147:


Got a date tonight but have a horrible feeling I'm going to get stood up
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emblem boy
08/03/17 3:18:35 PM
#148:


billcom6 posted...
I use emojis every so often, but I more think about like "she has sent me like three blushing emojis in the last 15 minutes, what does that mean????"


Means she wants the D.

Or she's just happy/nuetral/excited/nervous/etc, who knows.
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teepan95
08/03/17 3:19:58 PM
#149:


Maeiv posted...
Got a date tonight but have a horrible feeling I'm going to get stood up

That's just the anxiety talking, try to ignore it!
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LLKoolJosh
08/03/17 3:31:13 PM
#151:


emblem boy posted...
billcom6 posted...
The timeless struggle of texting a girl enough so you stay connected vs texting her too much that you become annoying.
The only thing I overthink more than that is analyzing girls emoji usage.


Man, don't even get me started on emojis. Are guys supposed to use them or not? I hear different things. Girls love emojis, but does apply to both them and the guy using it?

I use them all the time. Especially poop emoji and toilet emoji.
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