Current Events > okcupid/Tinder/online dating /regular dating general topic VIII

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My tinder date for tonight is struggling to find a place to leave her son


...I didn't know she even had a son -_-

This chick just blocked me on everything cuz I read her message a few hours ago and didn't respond, it wasn't really something to respond to. We've hung out plenty and bonded quite a bit. What a fucking weirdo. I'm guessing I'm supposed to chase after her or something.
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mrtopgoon327 posted...

This chick just blocked me on everything cuz I read her message a few hours ago and didn't respond, it wasn't really something to respond to. We've hung out plenty and bonded quite a bit. What a fucking weirdo. I'm guessing I'm supposed to chase after her or something.

Move on

Red flag

Etc
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Why do I feel gross using this shit
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teepan95 posted...

Maeiv posted...

Got a date tonight but have a horrible feeling I'm going to get stood up

That's just the anxiety talking, try to ignore it!

Well, the date went....okay.

The chemistry wasn't there. Something felt off all night.

Oh well, onto the next
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Maeiv posted...

teepan95 posted...

Maeiv posted...

Got a date tonight but have a horrible feeling I'm going to get stood up

That's just the anxiety talking, try to ignore it!

Well, the date went....okay.

The chemistry wasn't there. Something felt off all night.

Oh well, onto the next

What does chemistry feel like
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emblem boy posted...

Maeiv posted...

teepan95 posted...

Maeiv posted...

Got a date tonight but have a horrible feeling I'm going to get stood up

That's just the anxiety talking, try to ignore it!

Well, the date went....okay.

The chemistry wasn't there. Something felt off all night.

Oh well, onto the next

What does chemistry feel like

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emblem boy posted...

Maeiv posted...

teepan95 posted...

Maeiv posted...

Got a date tonight but have a horrible feeling I'm going to get stood up

That's just the anxiety talking, try to ignore it!

Well, the date went....okay.

The chemistry wasn't there. Something felt off all night.

Oh well, onto the next

What does chemistry feel like

Meshing well with someone. Feeling comfortable in their presence/demeanor/vibe, sense of humor and way of thinking that may not necessarily be the same but it works together. Shit like that
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emblem boy posted...

What does chemistry feel like

halloween girl

damn ive never felt so connected with someone and be able to talk with for hours on end and endless text conversations

i just dont get why she didn't feel the same way :[
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Matched with a hot ass asian chick on bumble

watch her not message me
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Where do you guys like to go to as like second dates
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emblem boy posted...

Where do you guys like to go to as like second dates

if i really clicked with her the first time

somewhere fun
like amusement park, bowling, mini golf and maybe food/drinks after.
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Just thought about backsliding and texting halloween girl


someone should slap me. I stopped myself though

I feel like if I did message her, her response would be "Im sorry im seeing someone right now."
which would hurt like a bitch.

i'd rather avoid that and pretend she doesnt exist.
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bruh
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gna647 posted...

Just thought about backsliding and texting halloween girl


someone should slap me. I stopped myself though

I feel like if I did message her, her response would be "Im sorry im seeing someone right now."
which would hurt like a bitch.

i'd rather avoid that and pretend she doesnt exist.

lol
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Coolppl Owns posted...

bruh

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So I'm gonna to bowling with her tomorrow.

I don't want to hype this thing up and excite myself over nothing, but maybe I should think about it so I can be prepared. Trying to "play it cool" hasn't worked for me so far when it comes to girls.

After our first meeting we hugged when we left. If tomorrow goes well, should I try to initiate a kiss? I know it's something that I should just play by ear, but based on my past, if I don't make a conscious effort to make a move, I'm not going to do anything.

So if a kiss were to happen, and it were to escalate... What then... Should I buy condoms for my place? I don't even know how to put these things on.

Guys, I'm gonna fuck it all up tomorrow.
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emblem boy posted...

So I'm gonna to bowling with her tomorrow.

I don't want to hype this thing up and excite myself over nothing, but maybe I should think about it so I can be prepared. Trying to "play it cool" hasn't worked for me so far when it comes to girls.

After our first meeting we hugged when we left. If tomorrow goes well, should I try to initiate a kiss? I know it's something that I should just play by ear, but based on my past, if I don't make a conscious effort to make a move, I'm not going to do anything.

So if a kiss were to happen, and it were to escalate... What then... Should I buy condoms for my place? I don't even know how to put these things on.

Guys, I'm gonna fuck it all up tomorrow.

Buy condoms now, should always have them. They are cheaper online too. I get mine off amazon.
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mrtopgoon327 posted...

emblem boy posted...

So I'm gonna to bowling with her tomorrow.

I don't want to hype this thing up and excite myself over nothing, but maybe I should think about it so I can be prepared. Trying to "play it cool" hasn't worked for me so far when it comes to girls.

After our first meeting we hugged when we left. If tomorrow goes well, should I try to initiate a kiss? I know it's something that I should just play by ear, but based on my past, if I don't make a conscious effort to make a move, I'm not going to do anything.

So if a kiss were to happen, and it were to escalate... What then... Should I buy condoms for my place? I don't even know how to put these things on.

Guys, I'm gonna fuck it all up tomorrow.

Buy condoms now, should always have them. They are cheaper online too. I get mine off amazon.

They show up in a regular Amazon brown box right?
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emblem boy posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

emblem boy posted...

So I'm gonna to bowling with her tomorrow.

I don't want to hype this thing up and excite myself over nothing, but maybe I should think about it so I can be prepared. Trying to "play it cool" hasn't worked for me so far when it comes to girls.

After our first meeting we hugged when we left. If tomorrow goes well, should I try to initiate a kiss? I know it's something that I should just play by ear, but based on my past, if I don't make a conscious effort to make a move, I'm not going to do anything.

So if a kiss were to happen, and it were to escalate... What then... Should I buy condoms for my place? I don't even know how to put these things on.

Guys, I'm gonna fuck it all up tomorrow.

Buy condoms now, should always have them. They are cheaper online too. I get mine off amazon.

They show up in a regular Amazon brown box right?

Yes, very discrete
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Already posting pics online? Damn you younger people move fast.
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Went on a date last night with this cute white chick
I think I was a bit too pushy though


It went well at first, got drinks and talked for like 2 hours. Then walked around and got food so the buzz could go away.

Went back to my place, chilled and listened to music and played this card game. Then made out on my couch


Here's the pushy part: asked her if she wanted to take it to my room, she said she had to go soon. But i continued making out with her on my couch, she was on top of me at this point.

Then she said she really has to leave now. Walked her to her car, and she kissed me goodbye and told me we should do this again etc. idk if that ended poorly or if I'm overthinking.


Also I feel like an idiot because I'm not completely over Halloween chick and I don't feel any emotion with any of these girls I'm seeing. Idk if I should just take a break.
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So na-tu-raaaaaal

gna647 posted...

Went on a date last night with this cute white chick
I think I was a bit too pushy though


It went well at first, got drinks and talked for like 2 hours. Then walked around and got food so the buzz could go away.

Went back to my place, chilled and listened to music and played this card game. Then made out on my couch


Here's the pushy part: asked her if she wanted to take it to my room, she said she had to go soon. But i continued making out with her on my couch, she was on top of me at this point.

Then she said she really has to leave now. Walked her to her car, and she kissed me goodbye and told me we should do this again etc. idk if that ended poorly or if I'm overthinking.


Also I feel like an idiot because I'm not completely over Halloween chick and I don't feel any emotion with any of these girls I'm seeing. Idk if I should just take a break.

In what world is that a bad date
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gna647 posted...

Went on a date last night with this cute white chick
I think I was a bit too pushy though


It went well at first, got drinks and talked for like 2 hours. Then walked around and got food so the buzz could go away.

Went back to my place, chilled and listened to music and played this card game. Then made out on my couch


Here's the pushy part: asked her if she wanted to take it to my room, she said she had to go soon. But i continued making out with her on my couch, she was on top of me at this point.

Then she said she really has to leave now. Walked her to her car, and she kissed me goodbye and told me we should do this again etc. idk if that ended poorly or if I'm overthinking.


Also I feel like an idiot because I'm not completely over Halloween chick and I don't feel any emotion with any of these girls I'm seeing. Idk if I should just take a break.

It went fine.
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emblem boy posted...

So I'm gonna to bowling with her tomorrow.

I don't want to hype this thing up and excite myself over nothing, but maybe I should think about it so I can be prepared. Trying to "play it cool" hasn't worked for me so far when it comes to girls.

After our first meeting we hugged when we left. If tomorrow goes well, should I try to initiate a kiss? I know it's something that I should just play by ear, but based on my past, if I don't make a conscious effort to make a move, I'm not going to do anything.

So if a kiss were to happen, and it were to escalate... What then... Should I buy condoms for my place? I don't even know how to put these things on.

Guys, I'm gonna fuck it all up tomorrow.

The best thing to do is to just do it. As you continue, even if things fail with her, it will get easier and easier. You gotta learn to read vibes and body language and shit. When I go for it I kinda know beforehand I already can, that doesn't mean I always succeed, but I'm not really used to being rejected. If you're rejected it doesn't mean she doesn't like you either, she may not want to kiss so soon for whatever reasons.

Maybe she's concerned about her breath because what she had for dinner, or she wants to see if you're gonna see her again after not kissing you, all kinds of possibilities and she still might go inside after, texting in her group chat wit all her girlfriends about how she met this charming young lad emblem boy and is thinking about giving it up to you soon young bruh. If you don't feel an opening during the date, save it for the end of the date when you hug goodbye and grab her chin in a smooth manner and adjust her head to kiss you as you move in.
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Albel-Nox posted...

Why is this dude kissing his sister?

I... I wasn't trying to trigger a Tauros.

But, she does look like my sis now that you mention it.



No?

It's always awkward when you match two different girls on tinder and you find out that they're friends from their photos.
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my gf moved in a few days ago
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JustMyOpinion posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

gna647 posted...

Just thought about backsliding and texting halloween girl


someone should slap me. I stopped myself though

I feel like if I did message her, her response would be "Im sorry im seeing someone right now."
which would hurt like a bitch.

i'd rather avoid that and pretend she doesnt exist.

lol

I think I see how this is gonna go once she's single if he's still single.

She's single right now
She's not really committed to anyone and she told me she's not looking for anything with anyone.


She keeps telling me I was just bad timing to her, whatever the hell that means.

But I kinda stalked her Tumblr and she has posts there about a guy she likes.

So it's probably not bad timing at all, she's just not into me as much as I am into her. I mean we made out once. Maybe she was just....bored.

We were friends for a while but I told her it's not working out
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gna647 posted...

JustMyOpinion posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

gna647 posted...

Just thought about backsliding and texting halloween girl


someone should slap me. I stopped myself though

I feel like if I did message her, her response would be "Im sorry im seeing someone right now."
which would hurt like a bitch.

i'd rather avoid that and pretend she doesnt exist.

lol

I think I see how this is gonna go once she's single if he's still single.

She's single right now
She's not really committed to anyone and she told me she's not looking for anything with anyone.


She keeps telling me I was just bad timing to her, whatever the hell that means.

But I kinda stalked her Tumblr and she has posts there about a guy she likes.

So it's probably not bad timing at all, she's just not into me as much as I am into her. I mean we made out once. Maybe she was just....bored.

We were friends for a while but I told her it's not working out

A lot of people "aren't looking" and it changes the instant they find someone they like.
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Has anyone here had a lot of success with Tinder? I'm thinking about using it
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Blue_Inigo posted...

Has anyone here had a lot of success with Tinder? I'm thinking about using it

It's ok. I've had about VIII dates off it.

Blue_Inigo posted...

Has anyone here had a lot of success with Tinder? I'm thinking about using it

You have to be an above average looking dude to get any matches. If you're not, then save yourself the time and energy.

Damn. Which dating app should I use then?
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I don't recommend any, unless you're hot. It becomes a waste of time, when you could be using that time to meet women IRL where it's much, much easier.

Tauros posted...

I don't recommend any, unless you're hot. It becomes a waste of time, when you could be using that time to meet women IRL where it's much, much easier.

This

Gotta be above average
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gna647 posted...

Tauros posted...

I don't recommend any, unless you're hot. It becomes a waste of time, when you could be using that time to meet women IRL where it's much, much easier.

This

Gotta be above average

I disagree. I am average looking and I have gone on plenty of dates via tinder/bumble, and have gotten laid several times.

Even if most of using tinder is a waste of time at least you are still trying. Sitting at home on your phone not using tinder isn't gonna help the situation.
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Met for the second time last night, it was pretty cool. Went bowling, walked around talking, had some food, drinks, and danced at different bars and stuff.

Ended up holding hands towards the end as we were walking to our cars. Didn't kiss.. but we texted when we got home and she said she'd have liked it if we had.
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billcom6 posted...

gna647 posted...

Tauros posted...

I don't recommend any, unless you're hot. It becomes a waste of time, when you could be using that time to meet women IRL where it's much, much easier.

This

Gotta be above average

I disagree. I am average looking and I have gone on plenty of dates via tinder/bumble, and have gotten laid several times.

Even if most of using tinder is a waste of time at least you are still trying. Sitting at home on your phone not using tinder isn't gonna help the situation.

emblem boy posted...

Met for the second time last night, it was pretty cool. Went bowling, walked around talking, had some food, drinks, and danced at different bars and stuff.

Ended up holding hands towards the end as we were walking to our cars. Didn't kiss.. but we texted when we got home and she said she'd have liked it if we had.

As someone who never assumes a girl wants to kiss me - if you are holding hands during the date it is a pretty safe assumption she would be okay with you kissing her.
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idk you can just tell tbh

like last time i kissed a girl she kept looking at me



Halloween girl just straight up kissed me though :[
ughh im seriously considering just messaging her. I miss her.
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bruh
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billcom6 posted...

gna647 posted...

Tauros posted...

I don't recommend any, unless you're hot. It becomes a waste of time, when you could be using that time to meet women IRL where it's much, much easier.

This

Gotta be above average

I disagree. I am average looking and I have gone on plenty of dates via tinder/bumble, and have gotten laid several times.

Even if most of using tinder is a waste of time at least you are still trying. Sitting at home on your phone not using tinder isn't gonna help the situation.

There's already been studies done on this: The top 80% of women are competing for the top 20% of men. The odds are simply against the average dude. To actually score off there and be average, you have to be really lucky, and/or settle for not so attractive women.

Albel-Nox posted...

billcom6 posted...

gna647 posted...

Tauros posted...

I don't recommend any, unless you're hot. It becomes a waste of time, when you could be using that time to meet women IRL where it's much, much easier.

This

Gotta be above average

I disagree. I am average looking and I have gone on plenty of dates via tinder/bumble, and have gotten laid several times.

Even if most of using tinder is a waste of time at least you are still trying. Sitting at home on your phone not using tinder isn't gonna help the situation.

Dude, you've posted your pics on here. You're definitely attractive.

billcom6 posted...

emblem boy posted...

Met for the second time last night, it was pretty cool. Went bowling, walked around talking, had some food, drinks, and danced at different bars and stuff.

Ended up holding hands towards the end as we were walking to our cars. Didn't kiss.. but we texted when we got home and she said she'd have liked it if we had.

As someone who never assumes a girl wants to kiss me - if you are holding hands during the date it is a pretty safe assumption she would be okay with you kissing her.

Ya, I regret not going for it.
I'm really starting to like her.
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emblem boy posted...

billcom6 posted...

emblem boy posted...

Met for the second time last night, it was pretty cool. Went bowling, walked around talking, had some food, drinks, and danced at different bars and stuff.

Ended up holding hands towards the end as we were walking to our cars. Didn't kiss.. but we texted when we got home and she said she'd have liked it if we had.

As someone who never assumes a girl wants to kiss me - if you are holding hands during the date it is a pretty safe assumption she would be okay with you kissing her.

Ya, I regret not going for it.
I'm really starting to like her.

Fucking nerd, I said if not before definitely by the end of the date. What the fuck bro
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EB isn't used to this, he'll know what to do on the next date
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