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This happened to my brother, except she's not the woman of his dreams. She's a controlling, hateful, selfish punk. She had over 100 people from her side at the wedding, but was furious because she thought my brother had invited too many people from his family. It was our parents, me(best man), my cousin, my aunt, and my uncle, 6 total.
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Zikten posted...

I am 36 and same except I no longer care. I don't remember when I stopped caring. some time in the past 5 years. some part of me snapped and I just no longer have any drive to get a girlfriend. it would just bring more stress to my life anyway. so fuck it. I'm a monk without the God part. I'm fine as long as I have my games and my tv and my cat

I'm the opposite. I didn't care at all until I turned 30ish. Then it started weighing on me. Now it's become this big thing I'm fixated on, and I hate it.
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Yes, please.
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Yeah, I do.
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We took in a pair of boxer/Pittbull puppies from a girl who couldn't keep them. We named them Rough and Tumble. Rough was very smart, and was always escaping the back yard. Whenever we'd catch her trying to find a place to escape we'd say 'Hey! No!" in a stern voice. She'd come back inside and hide her face in the corner like she was ashamed. It was both adorable and sad.

Tumble on the other hand was dumb, and felt no shame. She couldn't escape unless Rough showed her how.
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Having my guts crushed in a car wreck when I was 9. Actually, the actual crash didn't hurt, I guess I was in shock. It was the following week filled with such intense pain I couldn't stand it. I couldn't eat, drink or sleep the entire time. The only reason I survived is because of IV drips I got from the frequent trips back to the hospital and they said I was simply dehydrated. Turns out my intestines had been severed, and crushed, and had developed gangrene. I was told that the recovery after my surgery would be extremely painful, but honestly, compared to the pain I'd been in it felt like heaven.

I'll still get random pains from that today(25 years later). They're extremely painful, almost as bad as the pain from back then. They tend to happen every few weeks and completely cripple me until they pass. Any kind of movement makes it worse, I made the mistake once of forcing myself to the bathroom and peeing during a mild episode and I thought I was just going to die. Walking to the bathroom made it awful, then actually peeing intensified it so much. I literally passed out from the pain trying to get back to my room. It's bad sometimes, but I just have to wait it out.
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Yeah, they assume if you're decent looking that you're automatically confident, and strong. That if you're alone it's because you chose to be that way. When you show hoe broken and weak you are, they assume it's just an attention seeking tactic or that you're actually a horrible person who doesn't deserve anyone.
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There isn't anybody.
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wwinterj25 posted...

You know it's odd that folk wish they have things out of life such as GF, kids and w/e but really folk only want these things in the hope that these things will make them happy. In reality though these things come with there own problems so perhaps they won't make you happy.

And now I feel like a scumbag for wondering if a relationship helped him be happier.
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Possibly dumb/pathetic question... Does being with someone help you feel better about yourself? I mean, I know it wouldn't solve any problems or anything, but it helps though right?
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Congrats, and good luck. I hope things work out for you. Also, I wouldn't really worry about the religious part unless things start getting serious, and even then as long as you both respect each other's views without trying to change them it should be fine.
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quinntotheflinn posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

ProtoManSPx posted...

Hairy-man posted...

I wish I was hot

I wish I had the confidence that came with even average people.

@KogaSteelfang Stop with the self-pity. You've had a bad past. We get it. But it's time to move on and become the man you were always supposed to be, one who knows that he's hot as hell and can get whoever he wants.

Every bad thing your dad said about you was wrong. I hope you know that.

He's been proven right time and time again. Even now, just by saying I wish I were more confident I managed to annoy you and have you ask me to stop. I won't bother you again.
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Zeus posted...

Tropic_Sunset posted...

Zeus posted...

Oh no! Koga's spirit of self-defeatism has possessed Tropic's body! Quick, get the holy water!

I don't feel defeated...

Would anyone tell me I'm wrong? I feel more like I'm understanding. Besides, who cares if I'm unattractive? I can still do things not related to physical attractiveness. I can't be a model but I never wanted to be anyway, I wanted to tell stories and make games.

But you're looking for pointless self-assurance even after people have repeatedly told you that you look fine. If you aren't possessed by Koga, wtf is going on?

Nice to see I'm still just as big of a joke here, even after rarely posting and not mentioning any negative stuff about myself. :/
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SkynyrdRocker posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

I've only had the one, and it wasn't even real. We were dared to kiss each other, so we did. Just a quick one knows on the lips, barely even made contact. Was 12 then, and was naive enough to think her willingness meant she was interested in me. The next time I saw her she was with some other guy who ended up getting her pregnant like 3 months later. :/

The fuck, a 12 year old got pregnant?

She might've been 13, I don't really recall. But yeah, she got pregnant the following summer.
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I've only had the one, and it wasn't even real. We were dared to kiss each other, so we did. Just a quick one knows on the lips, barely even made contact. Was 12 then, and was naive enough to think her willingness meant she was interested in me. The next time I saw her she was with some other guy who ended up getting her pregnant like 3 months later. :/
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ProtoManSPx posted...

Hairy-man posted...

I wish I was hot

I wish I had the confidence that came with even average people.
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I need to befriend someone who cares enough to force me to be social and go out. I need help.
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Yeah.
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I'm not sure I'll still be around, tbh.
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@Nayr
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Eat More Beef posted...

It's a weird phenomenon to me, but I kind of understand it.

I think incels lack those certain social genes. Like, they can't read a room/body signals. Have a hard time determining subtleties in someones speech that is either inviting or isn't.

It's tough, as getting and honing those skills does take time, but more importantly, it takes a basic understanding/function if it. Some of us have that, some of us don't.

As for the more aggressive incels/nice-guys, i think they're just bitter and shitty people.

I just never learned the social skills needed to befriend/date people. I was basically kept as a prisoner in my home by my dad, I did go to school but I was bullied and an outcast. I didn't really start interacting with people until my 20's and that's when I realized how terrifying it is to interact with people. I was diagnosed with social anxiety and depression, but medication doesn't give social skills or help get a girlfriend.
God, I hate myself so much. I don't understand how someone can manage to become this pathetic... yet I've managed somehow.
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You're probably piece of shit with no personality.

don't even leave their house or if they do don't even approach women.

You can be a good looking dude and have friends and work and still get no girlfriend ever just because you don't have the right social instincts for intimacy and whatnot.

These are all me. I know I complain about it a lot, but it's 100% my fault. I'm so useless lol.
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The worst would probably have to be the bee incident. There was an old dog house out behind our house, and some hornets built a huge nest inside. I had no idea a they were in there. My brother and I were playing, I don't recall my exact age, around 7ish I think though, which put my brother at the 9/10 age. He knew the hornets were in there, and tricked me into going inside the dog house. I remember spotting the hive over the door and being too afraid to move. They were agitated, but not attacking yet. I started crying and asked my brother for help. Instead he kicked the whole thing over. I was swarmed by the bees and almost died from them. I was hospitalized(obviously). Luckily, I think the actual attack was blocked from my memory, I don't remember anything after he kicked it, not even being in the hospital.
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Yeah, always.
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Yeah, sorry. I decided to go ahead and try to get in. Sorry if it caused any trouble.
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Leanaunfurled posted...

4h7NtschAsfE

Join session to get invite to squad.

I just quit for the night a while ago, I might start up again to get into the squad, if that's ok. I wanted to try partying earlier, but didn't want randoms or to blindly invite people.
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Yeah, I like him.
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Been playing most of the day, had it set to private. Now I can't get back into the discord lol.
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Extreme jealousy/envy
That's my rating.
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That certainly feels like a big part of it. I'm guessing that's just the part I focus on most though. I'm unfit to date anyone anyway, it'd be unfair to them to give me a shot.
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I just woke up.
My stomach is cramping which is what woke me up.
Browsing distracts me until the cramp goes away.
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I've thought about it, yeah.
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I love my mom. I feel like she's the only person whose ever cared about me. We get along really well most of the time too, but when we don't we really really don't.

I feel nothing towards my dad. I guess I should despise him, but I really just don't care much. I mean, I definitely don't like him, but it's far from hatred. I do think I'd feel something if he died, but I don't think I'd be torn up over it.
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It doesn't. If I were getting messages from interested women I wouldn't feel like such a failure. I think I ended up with 3 messages after a year on okcupid and tinder, aside from the bots anyway.
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anth0ny posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

I talked to one today. I asked for Monster Hunter, she asked me to pre-order God of War.

dude i think you were in

Noooo! I was so close! How can I be so blind?!
I could've had God of War ready to go...
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I talked to one today. I asked for Monster Hunter, she asked me to pre-order God of War.
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Stupid wingdrake hides. That was the last thing I did was collect those. So annoying lol.
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Far-Queue posted...

My son helped. He picked a female and insisted she have orange hair.

Looks like black Rikku.
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CarefreeDude posted...

I'm waiting for the eventual discovery that someone here has a legitimate micropenis and gets made fun of and harassed for a circumstance of birth he had no control over.

PythonKid, right? I remember.
*cries*
I remember.
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Leanaunfurled posted...

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He had an allowance for doing chores, but he kept refusing to do the chores and threw the money away. Like he'd literally ball it and throw it out. So he stopped getting an allowance and now uses that as an excuse to not do his chores.

Sounds like someone shouldn't get gifts until they get their shit together. Urrghh I'm sorry man. I'm sitting here getting pissed off on your behalf. I have a really low kid threshold though so >_>

It's ok, I've had 17 years of watching him to acclimate to his behavior. It's just still annoying sometimes. I'm gonna force him to let me play this week end though, he has portable games to play or watch Netflix on the PS3 instead.
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Well, we talked some about our lives and such. So maybe?
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He had an allowance for doing chores, but he kept refusing to do the chores and threw the money away. Like he'd literally ball it and throw it out. So he stopped getting an allowance and now uses that as an excuse to not do his chores.
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Yeah, he seems like a really cool guy. Really friendly, kind, and helpful.
The only complaint I could make is that he talks a lot about sex, which isn't really a bad thing, just sometimes it can be kind of irritating(from anyone, not just him).
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Leanaunfurled posted...

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Just as I figured, as soon as my cousin gets home from school he starts hinting that he wants to play. So I quit and hand him the controller, and he turns it off to put it on Netflix... He can watch Netflix in the other room. >_>

Regardless, I'd be tempted to punt him out of a window. <_<

lol
That's just how he is. He acts excited for something, until he gets it, then he refuses to play it for like 6 months. I got him Fire Emblem Warriors for Christmas, he played it once, only past the first battle. Same thing with Monster Hunter Generations, he waited like 7 months before he started playing it. I'm just going to stop getting him anything.
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Just as I figured, as soon as my cousin gets home from school he starts hinting that he wants to play. So I quit and hand him the controller, and he turns it off to put it on Netflix... He can watch Netflix in the other room. >_>
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Do it.
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Aw yeah, just got home and it's installing now.
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