They don't need to know about that.
HR is not your friend.
no actually this is one case where you might want to inform HR, depending upon the org.But you don't inform HR when you haven't even gone on a date, so the original comment was still weird
Im one of the more hesitant people here regarding age gaps when the younger party is pretty young, but 20s mingling with 30s is not weird or questionable whatsoever. You know that.
Go pull this shit somewhere else
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First advice, don't take relationship advice from CE (or give it very little weight). I've noticed a lot of people here are out of touch, or speak upon the subject they know very little about.
But, if you want to listen to me, age at this range doesn't matter much. You either get jealousy from other people, or people initializing women. She also doesn't want to fling, so just having a friends with benefit thing is out of the question. This leaves if you see yourself in a longer term relationship with her. You mentioned you don't have a lot of things in common, so that can make it a bit difficult. But you don't always have to relate to someone else that way and share all the same interests. My partner doesn't play games at all, while I played them throughout my life. Consider your chemistry with each other and if it works.
Workplace relationships can become messy, that is true, but I've also seen sooooo many people find lasting relationships, and got married with coworkers. You may have to be extra careful there. But honestly, from your shit coworkers, the fact that you were thinking of leaving your job anyways, and the lack of interests, it may not work out. On the flip side, if you were planning on leaving, you could take more of a risk here, so if it fails and things get awkward at work, you were already one foot out of the door. So this is a tough one.
Never got that "You should NEVER" date anyone that works for the same company as you" thing, as if a corporation should have power over who you talk to during your free time.Five bucks says it was probably just a way for corpos to control their workers.
Five bucks says it was probably just a way for corpos to control their workers.
From CE Discord. Proof that KhlavicLanguage (Saffran) is purposely trolling CE
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[Image]Jeez, even the Discord is filled with, well, discord? i can't imagine engaging in all that stuff in real time.
This guy's exist is long overdue.
It's your topic, and people have the choice whether or not to engage with what you're putting out here. So yeah, no need to apologize for asking for advice and insight.
Jeez, even the Discord is filled with, well, discord? i can't imagine engaging in all that stuff in real time.
It's your topic, and people have the choice whether or not to engage with what you're putting out here. So yeah, no need to _apologize for asking for advice and insight.@will_1231
Jeez, even the Discord is filled with, well, discord? i can't imagine engaging in all that stuff in real time.
I get it, I've dated coworkers at a few of my jobs. It's 100% not worth it.This
potential post-break up awkwardness aside, work never stays at work, and your personal life never stays personal. its a recipe for making things toxic.
without reading the topic:But if there is a chance it will work out, and not trying makes you question "what if" the rest of your life
I get it, I've dated coworkers at a few of my jobs. It's 100% not worth it.
potential post-break up awkwardness aside, work never stays at work, and your personal life never stays personal. its a recipe for making things toxic.
But if there is a chance it will work out, and not trying makes you question "what if" the rest of your lifeThe way I see that particular question is that if youre both that sure this is actually going to work out one of you should be willing to find somewhere else to work. That presumes youre literally working in the same job area. Someone in accounting and another in operations doesnt count.
Actually the discord is generally more chill. There are only a couple people that cause issues. KhlavicLanguage isn't even usually there, and we all told him to fuck off
I guess I should give a quick update: after talking a bit more, I asked her out today. She said 'yes' pretty much immediately. Well boys and girls, I have no idea what's gonna happen next, but for what it's worth I regret nothing. Come what may.
I guess I should give a quick update: after talking a bit more, I asked her out today. She said 'yes' pretty much immediately. Well boys and girls, I have no idea what's gonna happen next, but for what it's worth I regret nothing. Come what may.Congrats! It may or may not be disaster but you won't wonder "what if?"
I guess I should give a quick update: after talking a bit more, I asked her out today. She said 'yes' pretty much immediately. Well boys and girls, I have no idea what's gonna happen next, but for what it's worth I regret nothing. Come what may.Some lessons must learned the hard way I suppose. Or you'll be a lotto winner, either way good luck!
Yikes.
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I guess I should give a quick update: after talking a bit more, I asked her out today. She said 'yes' pretty much immediately. Well boys and girls, I have no idea what's gonna happen next, but for what it's worth I regret nothing. Come what may.I hope things work out well for you! I know it didn't for me when I had a similar co-worker fling.