I have no updates for now, and considering how this board works, this topic will probably be closed before anything significant happens. I just wanted to say thanks again and I appreciate the concern. I'm well aware of how things can take a turn for the worse, and I'm trying to approach this as realistically as possible so I don't set myself (or her) up for disappointment.
For now I, I'm just trying to figure out where I'll take her. I am so fucking bad at planning these kinds of things out.