Dissident_77 posted...
But if there is a chance it will work out, and not trying makes you question "what if" the rest of your life
The way I see that particular question is that if youre both that sure this is actually going to work out one of you should be willing to find somewhere else to work. That presumes youre literally working in the same job area. Someone in accounting and another in operations doesnt count.
But if neither of you were even willing to do that to be together, it wasnt that serious.