1. Naturally, her child will always be the number one priority. You come 2nd. Your schedule and your time together will always revolve around the child. Theres no honeymoon phase. Freetime to travel and hangout will be always be a challenge.

2. You cannot raise the kid like you would your own. Sometimes kids need decipline. If the kid acts out, theres little you can do. This is a serious obstacle to overcome in a relationship. The mother will always be the final arbitrator.

3. Baby daddy drama. They get jeoulous when other men raise their kids.

4. Even if you work things out and you bond with the kids, in the event of a breakup, the pain of a breakup multiplies. Not only do you break up with your gf, but you break up with the kids you bonded.

Just get a gf with no kids. Theres plenty of women that turn 21 every year.

I don't get why Women get mad that Men don't want to date Single Mothers

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