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DepreceV2 07/08/20 5:58:47 PM #1: |
I dont understand the anger. There are plenty of reasons why men dont want to but the number 1 reason far and away is that men dont want to take care of another mans children. Seems pretty reasonable but a lot of women, not all, seem to get offended to hear this for some reason.
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 5:59:21 PM #2: |
Probably because it's not all that reasonable.
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Dark_SilverX 07/08/20 5:59:52 PM #3: |
They need to understand that their children is in the way of the relationship.
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MrResetti 07/08/20 6:01:04 PM #4: |
I think I could go for it if I'm over 35 and the dad is completely out of the kid's life.
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DepreceV2 07/08/20 6:01:24 PM #5: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Probably because it's not all that reasonable. How is that not reasonable? --- Nothing until I think of a new Sig 6/3/20 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Balrog0 07/08/20 6:02:10 PM #6: |
I wouldn't do it myself but then I've never been single at age when it's common for when to have children. Maybe it'd be different if I were single in my 30s though I doubt it
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Drug_Smoker 07/08/20 6:02:22 PM #7: |
Those women should have thought about their futures before they sinned in the first place.
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:03:27 PM #8: |
DepreceV2 posted...
How is that not reasonable?They're the mother's children too. If the father didn't take responsibility, that's not a particularly "masculine" thing to do, but stepping up is. If you love the mother, you love the kids. --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flockaveli 07/08/20 6:03:39 PM #9: |
How many women would date single fathers?
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darkbuster 07/08/20 6:04:09 PM #10: |
Most modern women aren't used to rejection, especially with all the confidence boosts from online dating.
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R1masher 07/08/20 6:04:33 PM #11: |
Was this a dr Phil episode I missed?
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Chicken_Butt 07/08/20 6:04:59 PM #12: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Probably because it's not all that reasonable.Are you insane? :^) --- Cluck. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:05:30 PM #13: |
Chicken_Butt posted...
Are you insane? :^)Probably. --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DepreceV2 07/08/20 6:05:32 PM #14: |
The23rdMagus posted...
They're the mother's children too. If the father didn't take responsibility, that's not a particularly "masculine" thing to do, but stepping up is. If you love the mother, you love the kids. You do realize that Im talking about dating Single Mothers right? I highly doubt you have fallen in love with a Single Mother before dating unless she is a coworker or something --- Nothing until I think of a new Sig 6/3/20 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DepreceV2 07/08/20 6:06:13 PM #15: |
Flockaveli posted...
How many women would date single fathers? Asking the real questions --- Nothing until I think of a new Sig 6/3/20 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dreamscissors 07/08/20 6:06:15 PM #16: |
Flockaveli posted...
How many women would date single fathers?That don't have children? Not many. In my past experience of being a single father and trying to date I encountered a lot of women who were very unreasonable when it came to understanding that my child and my responsibilities as a parent come first and I couldn't be available for a date at short notice. --- p-m ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:06:39 PM #17: |
DepreceV2 posted...
You do realize that Im talking about dating Single Mothers right? I highly doubt you have fallen in love with a Single Mother before dating unless she is a coworker or somethingJust thinking a few steps ahead in terms of why it could be a dealbreaker. --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 07/08/20 6:07:39 PM #18: |
Female privilege, they think they're entitled to another man to fill the gap
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:08:33 PM #19: |
voldothegr8 posted...
Female privilege, they think they're entitled to another man to fill the gapWe think we're entitled to an "unspoiled" conquest. --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 07/08/20 6:10:11 PM #20: |
I'd be perfectly fine dating a single mother. I understand that their child will always come first and that there'd have to be room for the kid in the relationship too. My only issue would be if they're not open to having another kid, just because I want one of my own eventually.
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voldothegr8 07/08/20 6:10:49 PM #21: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Nah bro it has nothing to do with vagina status --- Oda break tracker 2020- 5 (5) | THE Ohio State: 13-1 | Oakland Raiders: 7-9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:11:11 PM #22: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
I'd be perfectly fine dating a single mother. I understand that their child will always come first and that there'd have to be room for the kid in the relationship too. My only issue would be if they're not open to having another kid, just because I want one of my own eventually.Agreed. I'm not insistent on being the absolute most important person ever in someone's life. --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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garan 07/08/20 6:11:29 PM #23: |
darkbuster posted...
Most modern women aren't used to rejection, especially with all the confidence boosts from online dating. That mostly. The female sex is used to being the ones who get to pass judgement on their potential suitors, having that turned back on them isn't fun. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:11:53 PM #24: |
voldothegr8 posted...
Nah bro it has nothing to do with vagina statusSure it does. It's already been "claimed" with another man's trophy, right? --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Balrog0 07/08/20 6:12:13 PM #25: |
I just don't want to be around or deal with kids, that's why I'm not planning on having one
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voldothegr8 07/08/20 6:13:09 PM #26: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Nah it's mostly the raising kids part --- Oda break tracker 2020- 5 (5) | THE Ohio State: 13-1 | Oakland Raiders: 7-9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:13:42 PM #27: |
voldothegr8 posted...
Nah it's mostly the raising kids partWhat's wrong with raising kids? --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 07/08/20 6:15:09 PM #28: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Nothing if that's what you're into, a lot of people aren't into it though --- Oda break tracker 2020- 5 (5) | THE Ohio State: 13-1 | Oakland Raiders: 7-9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Chicken_Butt 07/08/20 6:15:36 PM #29: |
I can't speak for anyone else, but I would never want to raise another man's kids. It's my blood or nothing.
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:15:46 PM #30: |
Chicken_Butt posted...
I can't speak for anyone else, but I would never want to raise another man's kids. It's my blood or nothing.Why not? --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Chicken_Butt 07/08/20 6:17:16 PM #31: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Why not?Because I don't want to. What of it? --- Cluck. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blue_Dream87 07/08/20 6:17:23 PM #32: |
As someone who dated a single mom, I think it's reasonable at an early age to not want to date them. In my experience they typically want to settle down and focus their life around kids/family (absolutely nothing wrong with that and if I dated another mom, I'd want her to be that way). However not everyone is looking for that in a relationship, everyone is at their own place in life where they can evaluate what they want from a relationship and their boundaries.
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The23rdMagus 07/08/20 6:17:39 PM #33: |
Chicken_Butt posted...
Because I don't want to. What of it?Just wondering if there was a particular reason. --- ~Drewnami~ A beacon of Light from a burning screen. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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inloveanddeath0 07/08/20 6:19:24 PM #34: |
I really dislike most kids so I'm not ever having children. That includes this scenario
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Anteaterking 07/08/20 6:21:28 PM #35: |
I understand not wanting kids in your life, etc. but the emphasis on "some other MAN's children" is bizarre to me. Are you guys against adoption?
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Doom_Art 07/08/20 6:21:29 PM #36: |
Ehhh I don't want to be a dad at this stage of my life.
Not that by dating the mom I would supplant the kids biological dad of course, but if I were seriously involved with the mom I would need to know the kid, enforce rules on the kid, and put up with any crap involving the kid if I were around. I would see the kid as an unwelcome addendum to the relationship. It's not fair to myself, the mom, or the kid. So I just avoid it altogether. Though I'm still fairly young so most single women in my range are still childless. Haven't encountered many single moms yet. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SaltyWet 07/08/20 6:21:30 PM #37: |
I don't even want my own kids to raise.
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Doom_Art 07/08/20 6:22:08 PM #38: |
Anteaterking posted...
but the emphasis on "some other MAN's children" is bizarre to meYeah that's really fucking weird --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 07/08/20 6:23:01 PM #39: |
If the father has shared custody youll probably never know at first. Shell just plan to meet you when she doesnt have the kids. If she has sole custody though, yeah, its going to come up.
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EndOfZangoose 07/08/20 6:26:00 PM #42: |
Doom_Art posted...
Yeah that's really fucking weirdHow is that weird? Its normal for people to want to raise their own flesh and blood instead of another persons. that itself doesnt mean that they are against adoption. How did you two jump to that conclusion? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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B-Factor 07/08/20 6:26:01 PM #43: |
The23rdMagus posted...
Speak for yourself. Some dudes just want partners at the same stage of life as them. --- Meh. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZeroX91 07/08/20 6:27:33 PM #44: |
The23rdMagus posted...
We think we're entitled to an "unspoiled" conquest.No I just dont wanna raise a kid that will hate me for no god damn reason. --- 2 to the 1 from the 1 to the 3, a fitting end for a monster like me. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 07/08/20 6:28:13 PM #45: |
RedWhiteBlue posted...
animalBringing animal biology into discussions about 21st century human relationships is always fucking wacky RedWhiteBlue posted... Plus, the kid will always come firstI mean if you married a woman and had a child with her this would still be true. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Poop2 07/08/20 6:30:13 PM #46: |
what women are mad about this?
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Doom_Art 07/08/20 6:31:05 PM #47: |
EndOfZangoose posted...
How is that weird?The emphasis on it being another man's kid is always the part that creeps me out It reads like a non-sexual version of a fear of being cuckolded --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZeroX91 07/08/20 6:32:03 PM #48: |
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...you would think but no --- 2 to the 1 from the 1 to the 3, a fitting end for a monster like me. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dark_SilverX 07/08/20 6:32:37 PM #49: |
Doom_Art posted...
Yeah that's really fucking weirdNot really. --- Maketh thy Countries Greateth Again don't compare games to feces -- if you've an opinion worth mentioning, do so civilly ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Anteaterking 07/08/20 6:33:30 PM #50: |
EndOfZangoose posted...
How is that weird? Its normal for people to want to raise their own flesh and blood instead of another persons. Adoption is raising someone else's "blood" instead of your own. The obsession with bloodlines is also archaic. This isn't a feudal monarchy. It's just a weird hang up about her having had sex with someone else in the past like if there weren't kids it would mean she was a virgin. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 07/08/20 6:34:47 PM #51: |
ZeroX91 posted...
No I just dont wanna raise a kid that will hate me for no god damn reason. That reminds me of a funny story, my single buddy who is 50ish dated a lady a few years back. Her 16 year old son came home one day when he wasn't supposed to be home and interrupted their banging. He punched my buddy in the nuts lmao. --- Oda break tracker 2020- 5 (5) | THE Ohio State: 13-1 | Oakland Raiders: 7-9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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