Poll of the Day > I met the husband!

(+) Yeah! (+)

He seems like an okay dude and I think he likes me too

he was really upset though plus his dog LOVED me I think that hurt his feelings

she lured me though I didnt know her family was gonna even be there

Meeting your gf's husband is always awkward

JOExHIGASHI posted...

Meeting your gf's husband is always awkward

it was insanity I was afraid for my life!

she found me this morning and after just fooling around in the park for a while she said she wanted me to come to her place, I assumed she just meant a little hideaway spot but no she took me not far away at all to this nice fucking house

she goes right in and tells me to come on so I absolutely fucking do and we pass some people sleeping(and this BIG dog comes up to me so excited and happy we are friends immediately) and I follow her into a room and then people are waking up and theres yelling and they all want to know who the fuck I am

i didnt know what to do I just told them my name and said I would go outside I did not mean to be disrespectful

this middle aged Asian man comes out and talks to me tells me I cant just come in like that because they have dogs I could have been bit. There is no way that dog would bite me it was SO HAPPY to see me

he tried to tell me a lot of things but I just wanted to get out of that situation so I asked if she would be safe there and thats when he was like Im her husband, he didnt call me an idiot but his tone implied that he thinks it

she has 10 grand in a bank account though and is asking me to move into a 3 bedroom apartment with her

bout to make some things happen here

Kinda confused by what I just read.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/5/50bad1be.jpg

Nichtcrawler-X posted...

Kinda confused by what I just read.

how

why

EvilResident posted...

Yea wtf? Confused

by what

what doesnt make sense

wasn't sure if Id see her again but she came out and found me last night, talked to me and my friends for a while and laid down with me for a few hours then she went back home

will see if its true but she claims they are divorcing, she is asking me to live with her in a 3 bedroom

who am I to deny her what she wants

VampireCoyote posted...

how

why

At best I can read it as your girlfriend showing of her affair partner to her husband, which is definitely weird behaviour.

stuff like this happens way more often than yall realize

Nichtcrawler-X posted...

At best I can read it as your girlfriend showing of her affair partner to her husband, which is definitely weird behaviour.

it was to show how much she likes me. She has not brought any other guys there Im the only one, and I know that freaking Gary and this guy Chris Brown have been trying to court her she keeps making them buy her things

she is beautiful and seems to like me just for me being me she doesnt try to get anything else from me she keeps bringing me gifts(last night she brought a bunch of dragonfruit)

so if she is serious about the apartment then I dont know what to do. She says she wants to get clean and if she means it I think it could really work and Ive helped other women get through their detox periods out here so I know some things already

Isnt TC someones alt? Mead, right?

I wonder how I got off his blocked list

Probably gonna get back on it now xD

I regularly remove people from blocked especially if I I dont remember why I was hurt by them or had beef, cause people and circumstances are always changing you never know, a flipped coin will eventually land on its edge

Mead was like 6 personalities ago but yeah that is a former name of me

If I was gonna make things up I would think of cooler stuff, my disorder makes me think that every situation I am in is awesome and super cool, I cant help it I see the brightest side of every situation and opportunities at every turn

it causes me to lead a very adventurous, dynamic, and problematic lifestyle

VampireCoyote posted...

She has not brought any other guys there Im the only one

Do you not identify as a woman anymore?

Zareth posted...

Do you not identify as a woman anymore?

gender nonconforming

i respond to all pronouns but my favorite is it

VampireCoyote posted...

i respond to all pronouns but my favorite is it

Make sure you tell people that because a lot of people would assume it's offensive.

Holy shit its the other girl but I had to stand up to her ex

he was in her face so threatening had her back up against a chain link fence pressed into it she was scared and crying I had to tell him to get the fuck away from her it really seemed like he was gonna hit me he kept rearing back his fist but I just stayed sitting and told him that he isnt going to do anything to me and to leave

it was scary but it made me feel cool

VampireCoyote posted...

by what

what doesnt make sense

The part where someone brought a homeless person to their house with their family sleeping, introduced that person to their husband that they are divorcing, and said they have 10 grand in a bank account and want the homeless person to move into a 3 bedroom apartment with them. So I guess pretty much all of it.

If my wife behaved this way I'd be advocating for a 72 hour involuntary psychiatric hold because that's not behavior that makes sense.

hockey7318 posted...

The part where someone brought a homeless person to their house with their family sleeping, introduced that person to their husband that they are divorcing, and said they have 10 grand in a bank account and want the homeless person to move into a 3 bedroom apartment with them. So I guess pretty much all of it.

If my wife behaved this way I'd be advocating for a 72 hour involuntary psychiatric hold because that's not behavior that makes sense.

Also, the wife is an addict that has sex with homeless people in public places then brings them home.

hockey7318 posted...

The part where someone brought a homeless person to their house with their family sleeping, introduced that person to their husband that they are divorcing, and said they have 10 grand in a bank account and want the homeless person to move into a 3 bedroom apartment with them. So I guess pretty much all of it.

If my wife behaved this way I'd be advocating for a 72 hour involuntary psychiatric hold because that's not behavior that makes sense.

they are already divorcing, before she even found me

yeah Im homeless and she knows it, still loves me and wants me to live with her now for her next life chapter

SunWuKung420 posted...

Also, the wife is an addict that has sex with homeless people in public places then brings them home.

she wants to get clean and Im going to help her through detox Ive done it before with girls out here they need help

10k in the bank and wants to rent a 3br in what I'm imagining is LA or San Francisco is only like 4 months worth of rent, lol.

ItIsSoOver posted...

That's just because this is the fakest shit ever.

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure mead would never lie or anything, it's just that depending on what he wants out of a situation he might change the story - at least that's how he put it.

I only do that at like office places to get what I want

everyone on the street knows I dont make shit up Im usually the one that grills people to get them to stop lying about shit

SunWuKung420 posted...

10k in the bank and wants to rent a 3br in what I'm imagining is LA or San Francisco is only like 4 months worth of rent, lol.

she has a lot more money coming her way and even if it only lasts a month then itll be worth it to just have a safe private place to do all the things that we do for a while

VampireCoyote posted...

she wants to get clean and Im going to help her through detox Ive done it before with girls out here they need help

It is a sweet plan, but that rarely is a good foundation for a relationship.

why yall antagonizing mead during his homeless arc, this the only good shit PotD has gotten in years

Heya Mead/VC (Still think of you as Mead sorry).

Sounds like you have been homeless for awhile (I have not been on here much the last few years). I'm curious if you have a car you live out of or anything? I have thought off and on about buying a van and setting it up to live in. Getting a couple Jackerly power stations so I can run my laptop non-stop, running of just my cell phone for internet and using YMCA or Planet Fitness for showers.

Mainly have not done so because it's alot of work, and i'm comfortable enough where I am, even if it's not exactly great (live on steamboat island so never see people unless I drive 30-40 minutes into town....which I rarely do).

Just seems like you got things figured out so you can post on here etc, and would love to her how you do it. Not sure if i'll ever get the energy up to actually do something like that myself, but if I didn't have to pay rent, I could eat out alot more, travel and do some fun things, and you know, just basically live instead of endlessly watching shows, reading books, playing video games and mainly scrolling through reels on facebook lol.

My life is kinda sad. I was homeless from 16-17 when I joined the Air Force, and lived on rooftops. Sadly that seems like much greater times than my last few years. Pretty sad when being homeless seems like such a step up in your life.

TheSlinja posted...

why yall antagonizing mead during his homeless arc, this the only good shit PotD has gotten in years

It really has been a while since anything interesting has happened. Everyone is old and boring now I guess

pics

Everything I just read is very concerning and overall strange

wolfy42 posted...

Heya Mead/VC (Still think of you as Mead sorry).

Sounds like you have been homeless for awhile (I have not been on here much the last few years). I'm curious if you have a car you live out of or anything? I have thought off and on about buying a van and setting it up to live in. Getting a couple Jackerly power stations so I can run my laptop non-stop, running of just my cell phone for internet and using YMCA or Planet Fitness for showers.

Mainly have not done so because it's alot of work, and i'm comfortable enough where I am, even if it's not exactly great (live on steamboat island so never see people unless I drive 30-40 minutes into town....which I rarely do).

Just seems like you got things figured out so you can post on here etc, and would love to her how you do it. Not sure if i'll ever get the energy up to actually do something like that myself, but if I didn't have to pay rent, I could eat out alot more, travel and do some fun things, and you know, just basically live instead of endlessly watching shows, reading books, playing video games and mainly scrolling through reels on facebook lol.

My life is kinda sad. I was homeless from 16-17 when I joined the Air Force, and lived on rooftops. Sadly that seems like much greater times than my last few years. Pretty sad when being homeless seems like such a step up in your life.

hi wolfy! I meant to respond to this post earlier

its pretty easy to survive out here as long as you have a few reliable friends and know how to not make the police angry

VampireCoyote posted...

hi wolfy! I meant to respond to this post earlier

its pretty easy to survive out here as long as you have a few reliable friends and know how to not make the police angry

Lol, damn, no friends (total loner now, literally don't talk to anyone for months sometimes). I've never been good at making people angry either lol.

Getting cold here so def not the time for me to test things out. I keep PLANNING on ripping out my passenger seat in my car every summer and try living in it (I'd upgrade to a van eventually), but then I never do it (been like 3 years I planned on doing it...almost start.....find out it's not as easy as I thought, plan on getting better tools and never do it).

Probably just end up continuing to barely exist here I guess. It's easy/comfortable and time goes by in and endless stream of mindless entertainment.

Not really alive, but then again I don't really have motivation to live life anyway so I guess it's cool. We all get through it eventually and at least this way I am not constantly stressed etc.

Living in a van/can might be more stimulating and have more enjoyable experiences, but it probably would have a ton more stress as well.

Anyway, nice to see you (and a buncha other people on here) are still around and posting. Damn the constant freaking advertisements are annoying on here now though.

Has she proven to you that she has $10,000 in the bank and more coming? I'd be a little concerned that she might be misrepresenting things like this, otherwise she'd just already have a new place. Same with going to rehab. Why would those things depend on you moving in with her to an apartment?

I'm a 5 hr drive/boat away from you @wolfy42

ReturnOfFa posted...

I'm a 5 hr drive/boat away from you @wolfy42

Nice, but I barely do the 30 min drive now adays lol:)

ReturnOfFa posted...

Has she proven to you that she has $10,000 in the bank and more coming? I'd be a little concerned that she might be misrepresenting things like this, otherwise she'd just already have a new place. Same with going to rehab. Why would those things depend on you moving in with her to an apartment?

nothing depends on anything, she isnt going to rehab she is moving into an apartment for herself, and asked me to live with her

VampireCoyote posted...

nothing depends on anything, she isnt going to rehab she is moving into an apartment for herself, and asked me to live with her

Generally speaking one is usually required to show they make a minimum of 2x the rent each month in order to get into a place to live. I mean you haven't mentioned it I don't think but what does she do for work? 10 grand isn't as much money as it sounds like. Also, living with a drug addict is an entirely different situation, than simply dating/seeing one. It could be outright dangerous depending on what her particular vice is. What is this lady on anyway? I'm just saying, that from your perspective of having been homeless for a considerable amount of time now, any type of situation may look appealing to you, but have you really taken a good long look at it?

Think I messed up

she came by last night with this guy and a dog and I didnt react beyond shaking the guys hand and telling him it was good to meet him, but he squeezed my hand insane hard if I could still feel pain I would have felt troubled

i thought it was just some guy so I had jealous feelings and she left before much time passed I sorta just put on some music and spaced out, she asked me what I was doing and I said just kicking it

the more I think about it though, I think the guy is one of her sons. They even had the same dog with them, it was so happy to see me again!

wolfy42 posted...

Lol, damn, no friends (total loner now, literally don't talk to anyone for months sometimes). I've never been good at making people angry either lol.

Getting cold here so def not the time for me to test things out. I keep PLANNING on ripping out my passenger seat in my car every summer and try living in it (I'd upgrade to a van eventually), but then I never do it (been like 3 years I planned on doing it...almost start.....find out it's not as easy as I thought, plan on getting better tools and never do it).

Probably just end up continuing to barely exist here I guess. It's easy/comfortable and time goes by in and endless stream of mindless entertainment.

Not really alive, but then again I don't really have motivation to live life anyway so I guess it's cool. We all get through it eventually and at least this way I am not constantly stressed etc.

Living in a van/can might be more stimulating and have more enjoyable experiences, but it probably would have a ton more stress as well.

Anyway, nice to see you (and a buncha other people on here) are still around and posting. Damn the constant freaking advertisements are annoying on here now though.

I really did not like living in my car in hindsight, it was an annoying and expensive responsibility I feel better and safer just sleeping in hidden places and rooftops

VampireCoyote posted...

Think I messed up

she came by last night with this guy and a dog and I didnt react beyond shaking the guys hand and telling him it was good to meet him, but he squeezed my hand insane hard if I could still feel pain I would have felt troubled

i thought it was just some guy so I had jealous feelings and she left before much time passed I sorta just put on some music and spaced out, she asked me what I was doing and I said just kicking it

the more I think about it though, I think the guy is one of her sons. They even had the same dog with them, it was so happy to see me again!

Seems like a reasonable interaction to me. Friend comes by with a stranger, you shook hands and exchanged pleasantries, then made yourself scarce so the two of them could do what it was they were there to do. Not sure how that's messing up.

VampireCoyote posted...

nothing depends on anything, she isnt going to rehab she is moving into an apartment for herself, and asked me to live with her

Fair enough! Do you know when she has the apartment?

ReturnOfFa posted...

Fair enough! Do you know when she has the apartment?

no I dont ask her questions about anything

if she wants me to know something she will tell me

careful they don't take ya kidney!

https://youtu.be/OFz48myQ2lw?si=rMxbz0UGefeFbYN_

I can't help but feel like this isn't going to end well for tc.

I want the best for him but I'm getting vibes like he's going to get fucked over by this lady, or her family.

VampireCoyote posted...

no I dont ask her questions about anything

if she wants me to know something she will tell me

That's an interesting approach...