Current Events > i'm 32. should i be ashamed that i'm not married yet?

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Blastia 05/01/24 10:40:59 AM #1:	or have a family? i just feel like i'm supposed to. idk --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:980185980] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>or have a family?i just feel like i'm supposed to. idk </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doe 05/01/24 10:41:20 AM #3:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/d/d2bb5c54.jpg --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY <cite>Doe posted [p:980185984] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/d/d2bb5c54.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 05/01/24 10:42:23 AM #4:	Doe posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/d/d2bb5c54.jpg that's the cutest fucking thing i've ever seen in my life --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:980186003] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Doe posted... </cite><quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/d/d2bb5c54.jpg</quote>that's the cutest fucking thing i've ever seen in my life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doe 05/01/24 10:43:13 AM #5:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/0/0ea76470.jpg --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY <cite>Doe posted [p:980186017] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/0/0ea76470.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Spiderman23J 05/01/24 10:43:50 AM #6:	Nah --- buss on life <cite>Spiderman23J posted [p:980186025] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Nah </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kai_Laguna 05/01/24 10:43:52 AM #7:	Blastia posted... or have a family? i just feel like i'm supposed to. idk If it makes you feel better, I'm 41 and never been married. <cite>Kai_Laguna posted [p:980186028] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Blastia posted... </cite><quote>or have a family?i just feel like i'm supposed to. idk</quote>If it makes you feel better, I'm 41 and never been married.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
maling2000ayam 05/01/24 10:48:00 AM #8:	you shouldn't bring new lives into this world because people tell you to get married and have children you're just going to make your children suffer --- your right <cite>maling2000ayam posted [p:980186092] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>you shouldn't bring new lives into this world because people tell you to get married and have childrenyou're just going to make your children suffer </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PraetorXyn 05/01/24 10:48:29 AM #9:	Ill be 38 in June and I dont have any relationship prospects whatsoever, so as long as you could get a relationship of some sort if you wanted to, Id say no. --- https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198052113750 <cite>PraetorXyn posted [p:980186099] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Ill be 38 in June and I dont have any relationship prospects whatsoever, so as long as you could get a relationship of some sort if you wanted to, Id say no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CE_gonna_CE 05/01/24 10:50:13 AM #10:	Not one bit --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey <cite>CE_gonna_CE posted [p:980186126] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Not one bit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 05/01/24 10:50:35 AM #11:	Kai_Laguna posted... If it makes you feel better, I'm 41 and never been married. do you ever feel bad about it though? --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:980186130] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Kai_Laguna posted... </cite><quote>If it makes you feel better, I'm 41 and never been married.</quote>do you ever feel bad about it though? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kaldrenthebold 05/01/24 10:50:48 AM #12:	I got married at 31. My friend got married at 37 and just had his first kid at 40. Your life is your life, don't compare it to others. Do what is best for you. --- http://i169.photobucket.com/albums/u223/chocolateFRESH/arts/kraid.png - Thanks GP cosmonaut! http://i.imgur.com/TuJWAR8.jpg <cite>Kaldrenthebold posted [p:980186136] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>I got married at 31. My friend got married at 37 and just had his first kid at 40.Your life is your life, don't compare it to others. Do what is best for you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kai_Laguna 05/01/24 10:53:40 AM #13:	Blastia posted... do you ever feel bad about it though? Not really, but after a particularly bad break up I was pretty much done with relationships for nearly 15 years. <cite>Kai_Laguna posted [p:980186169] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Blastia posted... </cite><quote>do you ever feel bad about it though?</quote>Not really, but after a particularly bad break up I was pretty much done with relationships for nearly 15 years.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 05/01/24 10:59:22 AM #14:	37 myself... what my cards dealt in life gives a very low likelihood of landing a woman in this lifetime. --- currently playing: crash bandicoot N Sane Trilogy (ps4) 3rd game atm RIP Sophie the dog: February 2011-april 2024. we'll miss you alot. <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:980186248] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>37 myself...what my cards dealt in life gives a very low likelihood of landing a woman in this lifetime. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Westernwolf4 05/01/24 11:01:12 AM #16:	Absolutely not. I have been married for 25 years with two kids and that works for me. I have a twin brother who never even wants to think about marriage or kids. That works for him. And plenty of others are somewhere in between. It is all good. I always respond to these kind of statements because my brother always worries that marriage and family is what he is supposed to do. According to who? People should care much less about outside pressure (from family, society, friends etc.) and more about what works for them. As long as people treat those around them with respect and care, doing what works for your life is all for the best. TC, your choices are great as long as they work for you! --- An opinion does not turn into a fact simply because the person holding it feels strongly about it. <cite>Westernwolf4 posted [p:980186269] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Absolutely not.I have been married for 25 years with two kids and that works for me. I have a twin brother who never even wants to think about marriage or kids. That works for him. And plenty of others are somewhere in between. It is all good.I always respond to these kind of statements because my brother always worries that marriage and family is what he is supposed to do. According to who? People should care much less about outside pressure (from family, society, friends etc.) and more about what works for them. As long as people treat those around them with respect and care, doing what works for your life is all for the best. TC, your choices are great as long as they work for you! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kai_Laguna 05/01/24 11:03:56 AM #17:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I am dating now and have been seeing them for the last 5 years. But I didn't really miss dating during those previous 15 years. <cite>Kai_Laguna posted [p:980186315] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I am dating now and have been seeing them for the last 5 years. But I didn't really miss dating during those previous 15 years.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 05/01/24 11:36:03 AM #18:	If it's bothering you, take steps. If it isn't, don't worry about it. 32 isn't even old. It's about the average age for a guy's first marriage in the UK, though I believe it's younger in the US. Probably because of the greater prevalence of religious belief. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. <cite>ai123 posted [p:980186790] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>If it's bothering you, take steps.If it isn't, don't worry about it.32 isn't even old. It's about the average age for a guy's first marriage in the UK, though I believe it's younger in the US. Probably because of the greater prevalence of religious belief. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
reincarnator07 05/01/24 12:32:30 PM #19:	No? Work on your own timeline rather than what randos think you "should" do. If you measure your life by someone else's, you're always gonna be disappointed. --- Fan of metal? Don't mind covers? Check out my youtube and give me some feedback http://www.youtube.com/sircaballero <cite>reincarnator07 posted [p:980187641] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>No? Work on your own timeline rather than what randos think you "should" do.If you measure your life by someone else's, you're always gonna be disappointed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doe 05/01/24 12:33:45 PM #20:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/f/fc774bc3.jpg --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY <cite>Doe posted [p:980187663] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/f/fc774bc3.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LtZim 05/01/24 12:39:06 PM #21:	I'm 42 and have never been in a relationship <cite>LtZim posted [p:980187745] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>I'm 42 and have never been in a relationship </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeoRavus 05/01/24 12:42:16 PM #22:	People stopped asking me if I'm getting married in my 30s. I always hated those intrusive questions at family dinners and shit. Eventually you mature to a point where people respect you enough to shut the fuck up and mind their business. --- This is where cool people write stuff. <cite>LeoRavus posted [p:980187789] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>People stopped asking me if I'm getting married in my 30s. I always hated those intrusive questions at family dinners and shit. Eventually you mature to a point where people respect you enough to shut the fuck up and mind their business. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpawnShadow 05/01/24 12:44:15 PM #23:	If I tell you "no", maybe I can gaslight myself into not feeling so ashamed about myself, too. <cite>SpawnShadow posted [p:980187810] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>If I tell you "no", maybe I can gaslight myself into not feeling so ashamed about myself, too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam 05/01/24 12:44:45 PM #24:	Run your own race --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:980187815] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Run your own race </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 05/01/24 12:45:38 PM #26:	Blastia posted... i just feel like i'm supposed to. idk Society needs to stop pushing this --- Shplendid! <cite>rexcrk posted [p:980187829] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Blastia posted... </cite><quote>i just feel like i'm supposed to. idk</quote>Society needs to stop pushing this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UndefeatedGOAT 05/01/24 12:47:30 PM #27:	Some amount of shame is healthy <cite>UndefeatedGOAT posted [p:980187858] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Some amount of shame is healthy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Korey 05/01/24 12:53:32 PM #28:	Maybe if you actually decided that's what you wanted decades ago and have been trying and failing this whole time... and even then, that's a stretch. But no, you should absolutely not be ashamed of not making a big lifetime kommitment you don't even want. --- Philosophy major in the academy of Nope. <cite>The_Korey posted [p:980187945] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Maybe if you actually decided that's what you wanted decades ago and have been trying and failing this whole time... and even then, that's a stretch. But no, you should absolutely not be ashamed of not making a big lifetime kommitment you don't even want. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheSuperSilver 05/01/24 2:58:26 PM #29:	Let's see... I married at 32 My older brother married at 35 and my younger brother also married at 32 In the last 2 years I've attended 4 weddings - everyone who married was over 30 (oldest was a 39/40 couple for their first marriage) My brother-in-law is engaged - he and his fiance are 35 I'm going to France this August for another wedding - yep, the couple getting married is over 30 --- When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. - Confucius <cite>TheSuperSilver posted [p:980189787] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Let's see...I married at 32My older brother married at 35 and my younger brother also married at 32In the last 2 years I've attended 4 weddings - everyone who married was over 30 (oldest was a 39/40 couple for their first marriage)My brother-in-law is engaged - he and his fiance are 35I'm going to France this August for another wedding - yep, the couple getting married is over 30 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ratchetrockon 05/01/24 3:34:33 PM #30:	Nope Although in my early 20s many of my friends ages like 19 to 23 were getting married and all that (military environment) so I felt childish compared to them at the time haha. But I later realized it is common to not be married that young!! I was just in a specific bubble at the time where it was common --- I'm a Taurus. Currently playing: Carol Reed Mystery Dead Drop. He/Him <cite>Ratchetrockon posted [p:980190351] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>NopeAlthough in my early 20s many of my friends ages like 19 to 23 were getting married and all that (military environment) so I felt childish compared to them at the time haha. But I later realized it is common to not be married that young!! I was just in a specific bubble at the time where it was common </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trumpo 05/01/24 3:35:34 PM #31:	No, it's normal --- Lancool II \| Z690 Tomahawk \|12700K \| Fuma 2 \| RTX 3070Ti \| 16GB 3600MHz \| FireCuda 530 1TB \| Inland NVMe 1TB \| RM750x <cite>Trumpo posted [p:980190373] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>No, it's normal </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FinalBraveNUT 05/01/24 3:56:07 PM #32:	I'm 40! It's lovely but lonely sometimes but I got a daughter so --- FFBE friend ID 958,168,629 Rank 156 <cite>FinalBraveNUT posted [p:980190716] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>I'm 40! It's lovely but lonely sometimes but I got a daughter so </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Antiyonder 05/01/24 3:58:49 PM #35:	Kai_Laguna posted... If it makes you feel better, I'm 41 and never been married. Same, but 42. --- Amalgam Universe resident Born in 82. <cite>Antiyonder posted [p:980190759] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>Kai_Laguna posted... </cite><quote>If it makes you feel better, I'm 41 and never been married.</quote>Same, but 42. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlueTigerLion 05/01/24 4:00:15 PM #36:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gfonp4WvZrg --- Hey now. <cite>BlueTigerLion posted [p:980190790] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gfonp4WvZrg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cuticrusader09 05/01/24 4:00:17 PM #37:	My husband was 44 when we got married. <cite>Cuticrusader09 posted [p:980190792] in i'm 32. sh... [t:80759904]...</cite> <quote>My husband was 44 when we got married. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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