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gamepimp12 04/30/24 10:49:03 PM #1:	She was my first adult love almost 10 years ago, and even though we had a rough 3 year period where i actually hated her for how we broke up,(Ill tell this story if someones interested) were decently close friends for awhile now. Basically even though Im much older now and a little better at it I still have the exact core problems with women I did then. I put who ever Im in love with on a pedestal, and get emotional/ my feelings hurt when they dont live up to that unrealistic expectation. its unfair to them. its some more more personal stuff as well. But yeah I feel Iike an asshole. I dont know how I forgot all that stuff (weve had this convo before years ago) --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980180111] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>She was my first adult love almost 10 years ago, and even though we had a rough 3 year period where i actually hated her for how we broke up,(Ill tell this story if someones interested) were decently close friends for awhile now.Basically even though Im much older now and a little better at it I still have the exact core problems with women I did then. I put who ever Im in love with on a pedestal, and get emotional/ my feelings hurt when they dont live up to that unrealistic expectation. its unfair to them. its some more more personal stuff as well. But yeah I feel Iike an asshole. I dont know how I forgot all that stuff (weve had this convo before years ago) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crimson_Corsair 04/30/24 10:51:32 PM #2:	Shut the fuck up --- My head's not torn off, my sunglasses aren't broken. Amen, hallelujah, peanut butter. <cite>Crimson_Corsair posted [p:980180140] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Shut the fuck up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 04/30/24 10:52:51 PM #3:	Crimson_Corsair posted... Shut the fuck up No --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980180158] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Crimson_Corsair posted... </cite><quote>Shut the fuck up</quote>No </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GuerrillaSoldier 04/30/24 10:54:02 PM #4:	Crimson_Corsair posted... Shut the fuck up --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>GuerrillaSoldier posted [p:980180170] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Crimson_Corsair posted... </cite><quote>Shut the fuck up</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 04/30/24 11:02:54 PM #5:	This is an odd post did you mistype something? --- Biden is the greatest President ever. <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:980180283] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>This is an odd post did you mistype something? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 04/30/24 11:17:32 PM #6:	cjsdowg posted... This is an odd post did you mistype something? I might of. Ill re read it later. Basically my first adult love. Ripped me to shreds about how i treat women, and how after all these years I still treat women the same. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980180462] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>cjsdowg posted... </cite><quote>This is an odd post did you mistype something?</quote>I might of. Ill re read it later.Basically my first adult love. Ripped me to shreds about how i treat women, and how after all these years I still treat women the same. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 04/30/24 11:28:54 PM #7:	gamepimp12 posted... I might of. Ill re read it later. Basically my first adult love. Ripped me to shreds about how i treat women, and how after all these years I still treat women the same. Gotcha are you going to do better? --- Biden is the greatest President ever. <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:980180591] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>I might of. Ill re read it later.Basically my first adult love. Ripped me to shreds about how i treat women, and how after all these years I still treat women the same.</quote>Gotcha are you going to do better? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Scardude 04/30/24 11:34:36 PM #8:	People tend to recreate relationships when they haven't learned why the previous ones failed. You are part of a statistic. --- Above all things, never be afraid. The enemy who forces you to retreat is himself afraid of you at that very moment. <cite>Scardude posted [p:980180659] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>People tend to recreate relationships when they haven't learned why the previous ones failed. You are part of a statistic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 04/30/24 11:35:37 PM #9:	cjsdowg posted... Gotcha are you going to do better? gonna try. V i was doing some fucked up stuff. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980180674] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>cjsdowg posted... </cite><quote>Gotcha are you going to do better?</quote>gonna try. Vi was doing some fucked up stuff. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 04/30/24 11:44:41 PM #10:	Scardude posted... People tend to recreate relationships when they haven't learned why the previous ones failed. You are part of a statistic. I mean that isnt WHY our relationships fell apart. But yeah looking back the situation is extremely similar to my current situation with women. me with a Vacillators love style, dating a self sabotaging woman. its also something consistent in my other lesser relationships in general, I dont necessarily put them on a pedestal, but I get very upset when Im let down even by the smallest thing. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980180781] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Scardude posted... </cite><quote>People tend to recreate relationships when they haven't learned why the previous ones failed. You are part of a statistic.</quote>I mean that isnt WHY our relationships fell apart. But yeah looking back the situation is extremely similar to my current situation with women. me with a Vacillators love style, dating a self sabotaging woman. its also something consistent in my other lesser relationships in general, I dont necessarily put them on a pedestal, but I get very upset when Im let down even by the smallest thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 04/30/24 11:56:12 PM #11:	https://youtu.be/XWBIbWjtyq8?si=AvUIAVwlhwLukG2b --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:980180886] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>https://youtu.be/XWBIbWjtyq8?si=AvUIAVwlhwLukG2b </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArkhamOrigins 04/30/24 11:56:43 PM #12:	Crimson_Corsair posted... Shut the fuck up --- The <cite>ArkhamOrigins posted [p:980180890] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Crimson_Corsair posted... </cite><quote>Shut the fuck up</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
projectpat72988 05/01/24 12:41:47 AM #13:	gamepimp12 posted... gonna try. V i was doing some fucked up stuff. like? <cite>projectpat72988 posted [p:980181325] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>gonna try. Vi was doing some fucked up stuff.</quote>like?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 05/01/24 1:23:22 AM #14:	projectpat72988 posted... like? just a quick run down. After me and my first ex broke up, I borrowed almost a grand from her with no intentions of giving it back, as my get back for how we broke up. (She was pretty well off at the time and became a successful social media influencer because of stuff I taught her) My next notable casual fling. I would literally tell her I would never love her but she was fun and I enjoyed fucking her but I could see myself falling for this girl she knows, that Im pretty close to and she wont be her to me. Have literally ditched women to hang out with other women, and told them what I was doing. Multiple affairs with married women, (granted they where my exs and heading to separation, I would of done that if I didnt know they where going to separate, but still they didnt actually separate yet) all the shit with my ex yall are tried of me talking about --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980181723] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>projectpat72988 posted... </cite><quote>like?</quote>just a quick run down. After me and my first ex broke up, I borrowed almost a grand from her with no intentions of giving it back, as my get back for how we broke up. (She was pretty well off at the time and became a successful social media influencer because of stuff I taught her) My next notable casual fling. I would literally tell her I would never love her but she was fun and I enjoyed fucking her but I could see myself falling for this girl she knows, that Im pretty close to and she wont be her to me. Have literally ditched women to hang out with other women, and told them what I was doing. Multiple affairs with married women, (granted they where my exs and heading to separation, I would of done that if I didnt know they where going to separate, but still they didnt actually separate yet)all the shit with my ex yall are tried of me talking about </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
projectpat72988 05/01/24 1:37:36 AM #15:	Why are you even trying to get married? If you go that far with being shit to women. What is the point? I wasn't an angel. But I don't see the point in tearing random women down tf lol. <cite>projectpat72988 posted [p:980181839] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Why are you even trying to get married? If you go that far with being shit to women. What is the point? I wasn't an angel. But I don't see the point in tearing random women down tf lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 05/01/24 2:17:52 AM #16:	projectpat72988 posted... Why are you even trying to get married? If you go that far with being shit to women. What is the point? I wasn't an angel. But I don't see the point in tearing random women down tf lol. Outside of the Affairs and my ex all of this is at least 5 years old. Ive gotten significantly better, especially about hiding being mean behind being honest. Im just still not great at not holding grudges and not putting women I love on pedestals. Even the women on pedestals thing I feel like Ive gotten a lot more realistic about stuff. it mainly resurfaced with my ex and her being self sabotaging. Like you have a man who idolizes his girl, and gets really hurt and upset when she doesnt live up to that. and you have a girl who self sabotages most of her relationships, but doesnt actually want to lose the person. thats like like a match made in hell. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980182129] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>projectpat72988 posted... </cite><quote>Why are you even trying to get married? If you go that far with being shit to women. What is the point? I wasn't an angel. But I don't see the point in tearing random women down tf lol.</quote>Outside of the Affairs and my ex all of this is at least 5 years old. Ive gotten significantly better, especially about hiding being mean behind being honest. Im just still not great at not holding grudges and not putting women I love on pedestals. Even the women on pedestals thing I feel like Ive gotten a lot more realistic about stuff. it mainly resurfaced with my ex and her being self sabotaging.Like you have a man who idolizes his girl, and gets really hurt and upset when she doesnt live up to that. and you have a girl who self sabotages most of her relationships, but doesnt actually want to lose the person.thats like like a match made in hell. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Arcanine2009 05/01/24 2:22:23 AM #17:	I don't get it. You said, "just" ripped you to shreds. So she came back into your life to rip you to shreds about the relationship you had with her 10 years ago? gamepimp12 posted... just a quick run down. After me and my first ex broke up, I borrowed almost a grand from her with no intentions of giving it back, as my get back for how we broke up. (She was pretty well off at the time and became a successful social media influencer because of stuff I taught her) My next notable casual fling. I would literally tell her I would never love her but she was fun and I enjoyed fucking her but I could see myself falling for this girl she knows, that Im pretty close to and she wont be her to me. Have literally ditched women to hang out with other women, and told them what I was doing. Multiple affairs with married women, (granted they where my exs and heading to separation, I wouldnt of done that if I didnt know they where going to separate, but still they didnt actually separate yet) all the shit with my ex yall are tried of me talking about You're kind of a PoS for taking money from her like that with zero intention of paying her back. Who paid for most of the expenses anyway.. Was she a good partner at least? --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. <cite>Arcanine2009 posted [p:980182156] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>I don't get it. You said, "just" ripped you to shreds. So she came back into your life to rip you to shreds about the relationship you had with her 10 years ago?gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>just a quick run down. After me and my first ex broke up, I borrowed almost a grand from her with no intentions of giving it back, as my get back for how we broke up. (She was pretty well off at the time and became a successful social media influencer because of stuff I taught her) My next notable casual fling. I would literally tell her I would never love her but she was fun and I enjoyed fucking her but I could see myself falling for this girl she knows, that Im pretty close to and she wont be her to me. Have literally ditched women to hang out with other women, and told them what I was doing. Multiple affairs with married women, (granted they where my exs and heading to separation, I wouldnt of done that if I didnt know they where going to separate, but still they didnt actually separate yet)all the shit with my ex yall are tried of me talking about</quote>You're kind of a PoS for taking money from her like that with zero intention of paying her back. Who paid for most of the expenses anyway.. Was she a good partner at least? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SHRlKE 05/01/24 2:30:40 AM #18:	Good for you man. I see parallels in my own previous relationships I have had with what youve said. Good news is Ive been with my wife almost 15 years and a lot of the insecurities I used to have for whatever reason I dont have with my wife. Sometimes you have issues like me and it does make life more difficult because you need someone who cares enough about you to want to care about actually helping you deal with those feelings rather than using it as a criticism / negative. You got this. If you have taken learnings from your previous relationship then thats a very adult and mature approach. Especially accepting them in the first place. You got this. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles <cite>SHRlKE posted [p:980182198] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Good for you man. I see parallels in my own previous relationships I have had with what youve said. Good news is Ive been with my wife almost 15 years and a lot of the insecurities I used to have for whatever reason I dont have with my wife. Sometimes you have issues like me and it does make life more difficult because you need someone who cares enough about you to want to care about actually helping you deal with those feelings rather than using it as a criticism / negative. You got this. If you have taken learnings from your previous relationship then thats a very adult and mature approach. Especially accepting them in the first place. You got this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 05/01/24 2:33:26 AM #19:	Arcanine2009 posted... I don't get it. You said, "just" ripped you to shreds. So she came back into your life to rip you to shreds about the relationship you had with her 10 years ago? You're kind of a PoS for taking money from her like that with zero intention of paying her back. Who paid for most of the expenses anyway.. Was she a good partner at least? So no, we werent really talking about our relationship in the sense it was any anger or ill will Behind it, if anything we where talking about more my current relationship issues and she basically ripped into me for continuing the same trends. we resolved our own issues completely in like 2018. So no she wasnt a good partner, and I paid for most things but that kind of goes into why we broke up and why I was so angry and had to get my revenge. Basically me her and her best friend went to a music festival. (As two separate groups, as I had friends performing, and she was getting to see her best friend she never gets to see) So the whole trip I just had a bad feeling about stuff with her best friends. Basically after the trip I found out while she was with her best friend and I was hanging with my friends who performed. She cheated on me with a different artist performing. So yeah I wanted pay back, I basically got the same amount of money from I spent on the trip. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980182211] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Arcanine2009 posted... </cite><quote>I don't get it. You said, "just" ripped you to shreds. So she came back into your life to rip you to shreds about the relationship you had with her 10 years ago?You're kind of a PoS for taking money from her like that with zero intention of paying her back. Who paid for most of the expenses anyway.. Was she a good partner at least?</quote>So no, we werent really talking about our relationship in the sense it was any anger or ill will Behind it, if anything we where talking about more my current relationship issues and she basically ripped into me for continuing the same trends.we resolved our own issues completely in like 2018.So no she wasnt a good partner, and I paid for most things but that kind of goes into why we broke up and why I was so angry and had to get my revenge.Basically me her and her best friend went to a music festival. (As two separate groups, as I had friends performing, and she was getting to see her best friend she never gets to see)So the whole trip I just had a bad feeling about stuff with her best friends.Basically after the trip I found out while she was with her best friend and I was hanging with my friends who performed. She cheated on me with a different artist performing.So yeah I wanted pay back, I basically got the same amount of money from I spent on the trip. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 05/01/24 1:34:06 PM #20:	Bump --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:980188509] in My ex (not... [t:80759609]...</cite> <quote>Bump </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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