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04/12/24 8:02:06 PM
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SaccharineSmile
04/12/24 8:35:48 PM
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I heard once youre in your 30s its tough

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Mechu
04/12/24 8:36:34 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/6/6ecf7a7d.jpg

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Irony
04/12/24 8:36:58 PM
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Not really, once you hit your 30s basically everyone that's in your range is a single mom.

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Giacomo_Hawkins
04/12/24 8:38:51 PM
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I'm married, so it would be very out of character to get a girlfriend.

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MangaBroski
04/12/24 8:40:38 PM
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I dont think I emotionally developed enough to have a girlfriend.
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bsp77
04/12/24 8:40:41 PM
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Irony posted...
Not really, once you hit your 30s basically everyone that's in your range is a single mom.
Not at all true

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Mistere_Man
04/12/24 8:42:47 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Not at all true

Exactly some of those moms arent single. Wink wink.

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Enclave
04/12/24 8:43:46 PM
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I sure hope not, it would mean I am not married any more.

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BlackOmnimon
04/12/24 8:45:16 PM
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You basically need to look for younger girls attracted to your money and stability after a certain point

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Talas
04/12/24 8:46:13 PM
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Girls have cooties.

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KainWind
04/12/24 8:47:03 PM
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No thanks

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bsp77
04/12/24 8:47:14 PM
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BlackOmnimon posted...
You basically need to look for younger girls attracted to your money and stability after a certain point
Hmm. Is that how I got my wife?

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Enclave
04/12/24 8:54:45 PM
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BlackOmnimon posted...
You basically need to look for younger girls attracted to your money and stability after a certain point

Or you can just, you know, be fine with dating a single mom. Women tend to not object to dating single dads.

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NoxObscuras
04/12/24 9:00:49 PM
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Topics like this make me kind of sad for CE. So many of you believe you'll never have a girlfriend? Have more faith in yourselves dudes, there's lots of great women out there.

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falayyou01
04/12/24 9:01:32 PM
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Enclave posted...
Or you can just, you know, be fine with dating a single mom. Women tend to not object to dating single dads.
and take care of another dudes seed ? Hell naw

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projectpat72988
04/12/24 9:02:41 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Topics like this make me kind of sad for CE. So many of you believe you'll never have a girlfriend? Have more faith in yourselves dudes, there's lots of great women out there.

I know, FFS the negativity on here is insane. I hope its satire most of the time....

Amazing women exist out there that aren't part of some cynical stereotype some influencer giving you bad news described.
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Cemith
04/12/24 9:08:08 PM
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I'm a fucking goofy nerd weirdo but even I have met several women, including the one I'll probably marry.

I don't mean to disparage CEmen about this, but like,

Be social
Be clean
Be kind
Have passion for things

That's literally all you really need.

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DementedDurian
04/12/24 9:26:53 PM
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Seven imaginary ones.

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Full_Pokedex
04/12/24 9:29:03 PM
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I have had one for 8 years and counting.

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bsp77
04/12/24 9:31:06 PM
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Cemith posted...
Be social
Based on what I hear from people on CE, this is the primary problem

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KogaSteelfang
04/12/24 9:31:40 PM
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No.

NoxObscuras posted...
there's lots of great women out there.
It's not them that's the problem.

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MartavisBryant
04/12/24 9:35:03 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Topics like this make me kind of sad for CE. So many of you believe you'll never have a girlfriend? Have more faith in yourselves dudes, there's lots of great women out there.
It hasn't happened in 32 years, and it never will because
Cemith posted...
Be social
I'm incapable of this


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Xatrion
04/12/24 9:36:47 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/8/8c7af18c.jpg

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TommyVercetti
04/12/24 9:37:09 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
I heard once youre in your 30s its tough
can't you date women in their 20s, then?
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uwnim
04/12/24 9:39:25 PM
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I don't have any actual interest in finding one, but sometimes girls like me for some reason. So maybe.

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bsp77
04/12/24 9:40:03 PM
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TommyVercetti posted...
can't you date women in their 20s, then?
Yeah. Even in my 40s I could date women in their 20s. It gets easier for men as they get older.

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TommyVercetti
04/12/24 9:41:50 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Yeah. Even in my 40s I could date women in their 20s. It gets easier for men as they get older.
really? you were dating women in their 20s?
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Hornswoggled
04/12/24 9:43:05 PM
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I don't have one because I fucking hate being around people, and no amount of CBT is gonna beat that out of me.
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Vokrent
04/12/24 9:43:34 PM
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nah. i don't leave my house ever and i'm chronically unemployed.

hard to meet people that way.

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TommyVercetti
04/12/24 9:43:47 PM
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Hornswoggled posted...
I don't have one because I fucking hate being around people, and no amount of CBT is gonna beat that out of me.
you do? so how do you work, you live all by yourself?
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bsp77
04/12/24 9:45:06 PM
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TommyVercetti posted...
really? you were dating women in their 20s?
Well, I started dating my now wife when I was 43/44 and she was 28. 47 and 31 now.

Also dated a couple other women in their upper 20s when I was 40.

I wasn't doing it on purpose, but I was going out a lot and my social circle ended up mostly being a mix of men and women in their 20s and 30s. I think I was having a post divorce midlife crisis. So yeah, it's my second marriage.

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Hornswoggled
04/12/24 9:50:11 PM
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TommyVercetti posted...
you do? so how do you work, you live all by yourself?

I don't work. I'm on disability. I live with family.
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KainWind
04/12/24 9:52:12 PM
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Cemith posted...
Be social

You don't lead off by saying it's impossible

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falayyou01
04/12/24 9:55:03 PM
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i havent found the right woman yet. Its usually a case of me being attracted to a woman, but it not being reciprocated. Its gone the other way too. Some women that have been attracted to me, but I havent really been into them. So I have to get that right match.

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bsp77
04/12/24 9:56:03 PM
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falayyou01 posted...
i havent found the right woman yet. Its usually a case of me being attracted to them but it not being reciprocated on their side. Its gone the other way too. Some women that have been attracted to me I havent really been into. So I have to get that right match.
Are your standards too high?

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falayyou01
04/12/24 9:58:07 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Are your standards too high?
Im not sure it may be the case that Im looking for someone at least close somewhere close to my ex wifes level. I consider her to be a 10 in the looks department, but thats all subjective I suppose. I will definitely need to scale down. I try my best to focus on goodness of fit before looks but I just cant bring myself to do it. Im a shallow dude I guess.

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bsp77
04/12/24 10:00:38 PM
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falayyou01 posted...
Im not sure it may be the case that Im looking for someone at least close somewhere close to my ex wifes level. I consider her to be a 10 in the looks department, but thats all subjective I suppose. I will definitely need to scale down.
Ah, fellow divorced dude. Yeah, my ex wife looked really good too. It was also not a good marriage. Personality & communication & vibing together > physical appearance. This is especially true because when all that other stuff is there, they become even more attractive to you.

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falayyou01
04/12/24 10:04:31 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Ah, fellow divorced dude. Yeah, my ex wife looked really good too. It was also not a good marriage. Personality & communication & vibing together > physical appearance. This is especially true because when all that other stuff is there, they become even more attractive to you.
im with ya there. My ex had a crazy controlling mother, with either full blown NPD or narcissistic traits at the very least, some of which may have extended over to my ex, who was probably a golden child. Some narcs tend to be incredibly good looking, as my ex was. But i also did not have a good marriage. The goal posts kept on being moved and she couldnt take no for an answer. So right now Im looking for someone more stable personality wise.

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bsp77
04/12/24 10:07:11 PM
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falayyou01 posted...
im with ya there. My ex had a crazy controlling mother, with either full blown NPD or narcissistic traits at the very least, some of which may have extended over to my ex, who was probably a golden child. Some narcs tend to be incredibly good looking, as my ex was. But i also did not have a good marriage. The goal posts kept on being moved and she couldnt take no for an answer. So right now Im looking for someone more stable personality wise.
Then just aim for someone who is more like a 7. Seriously. They are much more likely to give you a stable relationship, and as I said, she will seem more attractive to you if things are going really well.

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Glob
04/12/24 10:07:29 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
I heard once youre in your 30s its tough

Its even easier in your thirties.
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falayyou01
04/12/24 10:09:46 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Then just aim for someone who is more like a 7. Seriously. They are much more likely to give you a stable relationship, and as I said, she will seem more attractive to you if things are going really well.
Oh for sure, lesson learned.

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Gobstoppers12
04/12/24 10:29:29 PM
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Irony posted...
Not really, once you hit your 30s basically everyone that's in your range is a single mom.
Why do people actually think this?

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deoxxys
04/12/24 10:30:31 PM
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I have one and her name is Miss Bushyhead

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apocalyptic_4
04/12/24 10:31:09 PM
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Should be hitting your peak if not working towards it in your 30's

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Glob
04/12/24 10:31:15 PM
#48:


Gobstoppers12 posted...
Why do people actually think this?

Because they dont talk to women.
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LightningThief
04/12/24 10:34:26 PM
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Irony posted...
Not really, once you hit your 30s basically everyone that's in your range is a single mom.
This isn't true unless you are in a small town or something, which maybe...

There's plenty of single men and women without children over 30. Plenty.

Too any men and women who think their answer is no, the problem is likely your standards. If you got some high, unrealistic or ridiculous standards it tends to limit your pool of men and women. Especially if everyone is shooting for those same standards, or you're always in the back of your mind thinking you can do better.
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