Current Events > We should stop treating sexuality as something that HAS to be announced

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Damn, I can't believe someone would go on the internet and tell lies!

Damn, I can't believe someone would go on the internet and tell lies!

This has devolved into a shit show, so I'm just gonna wish everyone itt a blessed Ramadhan and a pre-emptive Eid Mubarak for Wednesday and go to work :)

Honestly, props for this. Atleast you admitted you hopped on your alts via meme. Respec.

I'm literally doing that! That's what this topic is about! Being gay or trans or whatever should be normal and utterly unexceptional! That's what my second post in this topic was about!

The 9-1-1 topic, obviously, but I know nothing about the context. I'm talking much more generally about angry mobs of terminally online people demanding that authors stop "queer baiting" by not explicitly stating a character's identities, and even more specifically about that demand actual human beings announce their identities because they're otherwise "appropriating" an identity that they may be in proximity to. If we want to treat not being straight or cis like the unexceptional things that they are, we should not have the expectation that they MUST be announced.

No. I am not teep why are you so insisting on 2 random users showing their face and post decent amount are the same person?!?!

Can you really not see why I would be suspect of two people who just happened to both enter a topic at the exact same time, saying the exact same thing, and their only defense is "Look both of us posted selfies in the same topic, which "one" of us created, on the internet, where anybody can steal any pic and claim it's them!"

Really? Do you not see how weird this defense is, completely unprovoked?

Or will I have to record myself livestream talking to this teep person at the same time who I never interact with before this much

I dont care if anyone wants to announce it but I dont care either way. None of my business.

Actually yeah please do that

I'm literally doing that! That's what this topic is about! Being gay or trans or whatever should be normal and utterly unexceptional! That's what my second post in this topic was about!

If you go on the vocaroo topic still up you can hear my British mixed race voice is that sufficient to you?

There's a high power group that wants to limit the number of queer characters because of bigotry and they are often successfully able to point at international marketing to to justify their bigotry as a business decision. This pressures a lot of creators to change their story from intended purposes and hide that a character is queer. The people on twitter are sick of that and complain. You are taking aim at those complaints.

If you actually want it normalized, representation is a huge factor in normalizing it. A character just being queer without it being a plot point or a joke just as they could be British without it being a plot point or a joke is normalization.

That being said, good representation and normalization also includes making these depictions (or at least a lot of them) mundane and without attention called to them

I used to feel very much the same way growing up as a Latino kid knowing how much better others had it. I spent some of my youth punching kids in the park. I spent my youth getting jumped every now and then by my own kind. Books, celebrity roles, tweets, spotlights, and cameras. What does any of that have to do with my experience as a young man? What does any of that have to do with me changing the trajectory of my life just to say I am here

I realized something

its not about this generation, its about the next. Its about the kids. The kids who will take over. The kids who want to be something else other than what their same identifying peers want them to be. To be much more than just your group (although its fine to be within it) and what they try and sell you. Its about mixing all of these learned lessons and hoping that a child says were not so unlike eachother.

there is an actual good and even wholesomeness to learn in creating symbols that represent many. I wouldnt have empathized with whats going on now hadnt I took the scrutiny of my own peers the day I said youre being racist to the white kid, what the fuck is that years ago

And imagine the garbage I hear now lol

But it is good
and it is worth doing

remove yourself from the circle that keeps trying to close you in, you dont have to be with the status quo

just align yourself with it as a means to a greater end

the discussion you want to have will come.. eventually

Again, this one was done without attention being called to them. The only reason attention was called to them is because people like you flipped out over seeing a guy kiss another guy on TV. So why did you make a topic about it, in the first place, if you don't think attention should be called to it?

I do not care about the specifics of this because that's not what the topic is about. This is a completely different subject. The 9-1-1 topic PROMPTED this one; that doesn't mean this one is also about 9-1-1 or anything discussed in the topic because, again, I have not read it and I do not care about it. You keep putting these intentions that I don't have into my mouth for absolutely no reason despite my explaining over and over exactly what I mean.

I'll believe you, since I have no reason not to. Which makes me question why both Teep and Felicia felt like defending TC and Guide in an obvious bait topic.

We know TC isn't acting in good faith, based on their post history, at the very least. Guide certainly isn't much better. So... Why defend them in this topic?

This, quite literally, makes no sense. If you don't care about the other topic, why did it "prompt" this topic?

The subject of the topic reminded me of a related (but not the same) subject. I explicitly said this 150 posts ago and it appears that none of you have the ability to read and have been dumping vitriol on me for absolutely no reason.

We can read. The problem for you is that, no matter how many times you say "I swear I didn't make this topic for bigoted reasons," your complete and utter lack of ability to defend or make sense of the topic says otherwise, since you keep using alt right buzzwords.

The thing with SJWs is that they like to make extreme comparisons. For example, the worst among them might say, "You speak German? You know who else spoke German? HITLER! You're obviously a Nazi. Please stop contaminating our perfect non-Nazi world with your filth."

It's weird how certain users seem desperate to defend a poster with a very bad faith history.

Well, I guess it's not that weird, seeing who they are, but...

Even the term "bad faith" can be completely weaponised online though

I mean, we already know your take on things, specialkid.

Oh wow you actually still think I'm that dudes alt even with the way that topic ended up going.

Is there anyway for a mod to like, prove me and this other random dude who I hadn't heard of before that day aren't alts?

I like defending people when it's 10 on 1. Deal with it

I like defending people when it's 10 on 1. Deal with it

Why do you feel you need to prove anything to him? Just don't engage with people who think their opinions are so profound and act like some gatekeepers of morality.

Oh, trust me, we know you use this excuse, since you routinely defend alt righters under the guise of "you guys dog piled them!"

Why do you feel you need to prove anything to him? Just don't engage with people who think their opinions are so profound and act like some gatekeepers of morality.

Are you gonna just block me, yet, or are you gonna keep whining in every topic since I disagreed with you once or twice?

Talk about a pot calling the kettle black

Whatever you say, specialkid.

By your logic I should be this TC's alt too right? Since I made a single post defending him

Really gross behaviour by you tbh

You, quite literally, choose to defend racists and homophobes simply because "I always defend the 1 in a 10 v 1!"

You have no room to talk.

No, I can see a potentially edgy at worse and poorly explained opinion at best get treated like the person killed a puppy before making the topic

You aren't even denying what I said, you're just attempting to defend it.

You play devil's advocate for literal racist and homophobic users, who regularly get suspended. You've earned the reputation you have.