Current Events > Sexless relationships. What do you think?

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Smackems 02/26/24 10:19:07 AM #1:	Everything in the relationship is great, except sex. One person wants it, the other isn't too interested. Do you think it is a doomed relationship? I do --- Common sense says it may not taste good, but it'll make a turd. <cite>Smackems posted [p:979050495] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Everything in the relationship is great, except sex. One person wants it, the other isn't too interested.Do you think it is a doomed relationship? I do </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 02/26/24 10:19:38 AM #2:	Sex is the only reason to be in a relationship --- See profile pic <cite>Irony posted [p:979050509] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Sex is the only reason to be in a relationship </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 02/26/24 10:21:28 AM #3:	Unless you're allowed to go fuck other people, and want to fuck other people, that seems pretty doomed. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:979050549] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Unless you're allowed to go fuck other people, and want to fuck other people, that seems pretty doomed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 02/26/24 10:22:51 AM #4:	https://youtu.be/R1Nd6LU4ImQ?si=tuffMFVv_liwhSQ7&t=2 --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:979050574] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>https://youtu.be/R1Nd6LU4ImQ?si=tuffMFVv_liwhSQ7&t=2 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gmanthebest 02/26/24 10:25:03 AM #5:	I was in a relationship with an asexual woman. She allowed me to fool around with other women, so not exactly sexless, but we never did it more than a handful of times. Ended up splitting up due to her never being able to keep a job and she never really looked for work too hard --- The large print giveth And the small print taketh away <cite>gmanthebest posted [p:979050613] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>I was in a relationship with an asexual woman. She allowed me to fool around with other women, so not exactly sexless, but we never did it more than a handful of times. Ended up splitting up due to her never being able to keep a job and she never really looked for work too hard </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Japanties 02/26/24 10:34:55 AM #7:	Of the handful of people I've personally known in my life who are/were asexual, at least half of them I suspect have never had a good sexual partner or have some trauma involving SA that they haven't worked through. I recognize that this is a shitty and dumb assumption to make of all ace people. It leads to me wonder how representative the ace people I've known are of the broader ace community. <cite>Japanties posted [p:979050802] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Of the handful of people I've personally known in my life who are/were asexual, at least half of them I suspect have never had a good sexual partner or have some trauma involving SA that they haven't worked through.I recognize that this is a shitty and dumb assumption to make of all ace people. It leads to me wonder how representative the ace people I've known are of the broader ace community.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ironman2009 02/26/24 10:35:52 AM #8:	Sounds awful --- THRILLHO <cite>ironman2009 posted [p:979050819] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Sounds awful </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gatorsPENSbucs 02/26/24 10:38:35 AM #9:	Sounds pretty awful and they should find more compatible partners. --- https://imgur.com/ZFt3WwT http://error1355.com/ce/gatorsPENSbucs.html https://i.imgur.com/pqMQZyw.gif <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted [p:979050865] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Sounds pretty awful and they should find more compatible partners. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Villain_S_Fiend 02/26/24 10:39:30 AM #10:	gatorsPENSbucs posted... they should find more compatible partners --- The food here is terrible. My steak was so tough it attacked my coffee and the coffee was too weak to defend itself. <cite>Villain_S_Fiend posted [p:979050882] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>gatorsPENSbucs posted... </cite><quote>they should find more compatible partners</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 02/26/24 10:40:21 AM #11:	Unless both parties are asexual, sounds like a recipe for disaster. An activing and loving sex life is a very important component of a healthy and mature relationship. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:979050900] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Unless both parties are asexual, sounds like a recipe for disaster. An activing and loving sex life is a very important component of a healthy and mature relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 02/26/24 10:40:56 AM #12:	Honestly dont care much about sex, so thatd be fine by me. --- I'll trade with anyone that has a jacuuuuzziiiii <cite>rexcrk posted [p:979050905] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Honestly dont care much about sex, so thatd be fine by me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem-man 02/26/24 10:40:59 AM #13:	/r/deadbedrooms --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem-man posted [p:979050908] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>/r/deadbedrooms </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMaddenDude 02/26/24 10:41:13 AM #14:	Big no. Sex builds intimacy. Even if you're allowed to get it from others it wont be the same because the emotional connection wont be there or you will build that emotional connection with others and youll be emotionally cheating on your significant other. <cite>TheMaddenDude posted [p:979050913] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Big no. Sex builds intimacy. Even if you're allowed to get it from others it wont be the same because the emotional connection wont be there or you will build that emotional connection with others and youll be emotionally cheating on your significant other. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xenogears15 02/26/24 10:48:38 AM #15:	TheMaddenDude posted... Big no. Sex builds intimacy. Even if you're allowed to get it from others it wont be the same because the emotional connection wont be there or you will build that emotional connection with others and youll be emotionally cheating on your significant other. While generally you are correct, in reality it's entirely dependent on the person. There are people who are able to compartmentalize sex and love. Case in point for me are ace people. They generally do not like sex to varying degrees. Going by your definitions above, they are not capable of developing emotional bonds with their partners. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X <cite>Xenogears15 posted [p:979051023] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>TheMaddenDude posted... </cite><quote>Big no. Sex builds intimacy. Even if you're allowed to get it from others it wont be the same because the emotional connection wont be there or you will build that emotional connection with others and youll be emotionally cheating on your significant other.</quote>While generally you are correct, in reality it's entirely dependent on the person. There are people who are able to compartmentalize sex and love. Case in point for me are ace people. They generally do not like sex to varying degrees. Going by your definitions above, they are not capable of developing emotional bonds with their partners. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CE_gonna_CE 02/26/24 10:55:56 AM #16:	ironman2009 posted... Sounds awful It is awful. Truly, it is --- "Creed made better Pearl Jam music than Pearl Jam did" - shockthemonkey <cite>CE_gonna_CE posted [p:979051147] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>ironman2009 posted... </cite><quote>Sounds awful</quote>It is awful. Truly, it is </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pauIie 02/26/24 11:06:21 AM #18:	compatibility is key. if you don't want it, find someone compatible. if you do, find someone compatible. i've been with people that have sex drives but i still wasn't compatible with, and it was a drag. --- http://i.imgur.com/O5APL.jpg http://www.last.fm/user/jaeganja <cite>pauIie posted [p:979051331] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>compatibility is key. if you don't want it, find someone compatible. if you do, find someone compatible. i've been with people that have sex drives but i still wasn't compatible with, and it was a drag. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nemu 02/26/24 11:09:29 AM #19:	Like with open relationships, it's possible to work out if everyone is onboard from the start, but probably going to fail a majority of the time. <cite>Nemu posted [p:979051372] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Like with open relationships, it's possible to work out if everyone is onboard from the start, but probably going to fail a majority of the time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 02/26/24 11:20:00 AM #20:	no sex = you are just friends <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:979051552] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>no sex = you are just friends</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 02/26/24 11:21:57 AM #21:	Other people are free to do whatever makes them happy, but I wouldnt be satisfied in a sexless relationship. <cite>Glob posted [p:979051585] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Other people are free to do whatever makes them happy, but I wouldnt be satisfied in a sexless relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dakimakura 02/26/24 11:23:21 AM #22:	I would prefer to have sex but it isnt required. I do require at least some sexual component in my life though. I imagine life is hell for those people who have a partner who doesnt want to have sex anymore but also considers getting sexual arousal from other sources as cheating. --- Currently Playing: FFXIV, TES games, Baldur's Gate 3, Cyberpunk 2077, Overwatch, Forza Horizon 5, Pokemon, and various random Gamepass games. <cite>Dakimakura posted [p:979051608] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>I would prefer to have sex but it isnt required.I do require at least some sexual component in my life though. I imagine life is hell for those people who have a partner who doesnt want to have sex anymore but also considers getting sexual arousal from other sources as cheating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
boomgetchopped3 02/26/24 11:24:42 AM #23:	when couples get older the sex drops off. I cant imagine my parents still do it but they arent going anywhere. --- More to do with the humidity than heat <cite>boomgetchopped3 posted [p:979051635] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>when couples get older the sex drops off. I cant imagine my parents still do it but they arent going anywhere. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 02/26/24 11:30:15 AM #24:	It works if neither partner desires sex, otherwise that's a compatibility issue. It can lead to a lot of frustration for the one not being fulfilled --- Steam/Xbox/PSN = NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:979051734] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>It works if neither partner desires sex, otherwise that's a compatibility issue. It can lead to a lot of frustration for the one not being fulfilled </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Justin2Krelian 02/26/24 11:31:38 AM #25:	Smackems posted... Everything in the relationship is great, except sex. One person wants it, the other isn't too interested. Do you think it is a doomed relationship? I do I think that second sentence would be the problem. --- -J2K Currently Streaming: The Punisher, Umbrella Academy, Gen V, The Expanse, Reacher, Servant <cite>Justin2Krelian posted [p:979051751] in Sexless re... [t:80706285]...</cite> <quote>Smackems posted... </cite><quote>Everything in the relationship is great, except sex. One person wants it, the other isn't too interested.Do you think it is a doomed relationship? I do</quote>I think that second sentence would be the problem. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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