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10/28/23 7:02:47 PM
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Chunky
10/28/23 8:56:37 PM
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I'm dating this girl and she's okay, but nothing special. I'm not attracted to her, and she has a mediocre personality, but for the time being it's the best I can achieve right now, and something is better than nothing. If your car's in the shop and you don't have reliable transportation, sometimes you have to settle for McDonald's rather than going all the way to Five Guys, for example.

Anyway, I was on Tinder the other day, and a coworker noticed and called me out on it. She claims it's shitty that I'm on tinder while in a relationship. For one, it's really not her business what I'm doing on my phone, but secondly, what I'm doing is really not that bad. I'm not happy where I'm at in the relationship, so I'm essentially looking elsewhere. If you're looking for a new job, you don't immediately quit. You apply elsewhere, interview at other places and put your 2 week notice when something becomes available. No, the girl doesn't know I'm doing this, the same way that your current employer doesn't know when you're trying to leave.

I'm not gonna hold it against my friend though. She's younger and doesn't understand how most of us do things. Plus, I would imagine your employer would be upset if they caught you on Indeed, so this is basically the same thing. I have no issue with the coworker.

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Turbam
10/28/23 8:57:24 PM
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Yes, that's very shitty

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BearlyWilling
10/28/23 8:58:13 PM
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2/10 for minimal effort here. Youll get some bites, Im sure.

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Jeff_AKA_Snoopy
10/28/23 8:58:37 PM
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I mean, if you're not happy just break up.

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Cemith
10/28/23 8:59:02 PM
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Chunky posted...
I'm dating this girl and she's okay, but nothing special. I'm not attracted to her, and she has a mediocre personality, but for the time being it's the best I can achieve right now

Probably because, based on this bait, you have a horrible personality.

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FurryPhilosifer
10/28/23 8:59:17 PM
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Is this bait?? Plz be made up

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bnui_ransder
10/28/23 8:59:28 PM
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Incredibly shitty

Doubly so that you view a relationship as instead a business transaction, letting it run on while you look elsewhere, with no intent to actually have a lasting relationship

If it ain't working, it ain't working. Shut that shit down.

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DrizztLink
10/28/23 8:59:45 PM
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Have you told your for-now girl that she's a meh placeholder until you manage a better Tinder bite?

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Heineken14
10/28/23 8:59:55 PM
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Chunky posted...
I'm dating this girl and she's okay, but nothing special. I'm not attracted to her, and she has a mediocre personality,


You sound like a not good person.

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Which makes sense.

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StealThisSheen
10/28/23 9:00:42 PM
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Incredibly shitty, bad bait, go away.

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Chunky
10/28/23 9:00:57 PM
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Turbam posted...
Yes, that's very shitty
How so? You don't quit a job without one lined up. Your current employer might think you're shitty, but that's just their bias.

BearlyWilling posted...
2/10 for minimal effort here. Youll get some bites, Im sure.
I'm not sure what you mean, but I was a little careless about having Tinder out while my coworker found it. But it's still really not her business.

Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted...
I mean, if you're not happy just break up.
Do you quit a job you don't like when you don't have another one lined up?

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bnui_ransder
10/28/23 9:01:11 PM
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"Oh hey, wanna get something to eat for dinner Ms. Temp?"

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Jeff_AKA_Snoopy
10/28/23 9:02:34 PM
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Chunky posted...
Do you quit a job you don't like when you don't have another one lined up?

You need a job to live. You don't need a relationship. Your comparison is bad.

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bnui_ransder
10/28/23 9:03:30 PM
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NPC
10/28/23 9:04:32 PM
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It sounds like you're not fulfilled in your current relationship, but it's important to consider the feelings and respect of everyone involved. While seeking something better is natural... being on dating apps while in a relationship might not align with ethical or committed behavior. It could be beneficial to evaluate what you truly want and have an open conversation with your current partner about your feelings before seeking alternatives.
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Bass
10/28/23 9:04:58 PM
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I have him tagged as "expected successor" from some other troll relationship topic.

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Chunky
10/28/23 9:05:13 PM
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DrizztLink posted...
Have you told your for-now girl that she's a meh placeholder until you manage a better Tinder bite?
No, why on earth would I do that?

Cemith posted...
Probably because, based on this bait, you have a horrible personality.
I know my place in society, and I know I'm not the best looking or most charismatic person out there, which is why I chose this girl.

Heineken14 posted...
You sound like a not good person.

Which makes sense.
What does this have to do with anything? I'm not very active on GameFAQs.

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FurryPhilosifer
10/28/23 9:07:26 PM
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Would you like to find out that she thinks you suck but is only dating you until she finds someone better?

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Horith
10/28/23 9:08:39 PM
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Chunky posted...
Do you quit a job you don't like when you don't have another one lined up?

Low effort trolling, but yes I have just this year. Last place was so toxic it was affecting my health. Just like you're clearly so toxic that your girlfriend should absolutely leave you without having another boyfriend set up.
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bnui_ransder
10/28/23 9:09:27 PM
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Really hope its trolling

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Chunky
10/28/23 9:13:28 PM
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FurryPhilosifer posted...
Would you like to find out that she thinks you suck but is only dating you until she finds someone better?
I definitely wouldn't like that, but 99% of the time we don't get a reason when someone breaks up with us (not that we're entitled to that).

Horith posted...
Low effort trolling, but yes I have just this year. Last place was so toxic it was affecting my health. Just like you're clearly so toxic that your girlfriend should absolutely leave you without having another boyfriend set up.
Okay you're the exception, but most people don't just quit like that.

I4NRulez posted...
Youre a piece of a shit and dating a girl just to cheat on her.

People arent cars and if youre so unhappy just dump her
I said this earlier, but you don't quit a job immediately if you don't like it, you look around for something better, then put in your 2 week notice. That's not cheating, that's business. In this case, I would be parting my ways with her if I found someone new.

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rexcrk
10/28/23 9:14:10 PM
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Chunky posted...
but for the time being it's the best I can achieve right now, and something is better than nothing.


I truly feel sorry for people who cant handle not being romantically involved with someone.

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Horith
10/28/23 9:15:39 PM
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Chunky posted...
I definitely wouldn't like that

TC: I'm looking for another girlfriend while saying my current one sucks

Also TC: But if she did it to me, I'd hate it.

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Chunky
10/28/23 9:16:23 PM
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rexcrk posted...
I truly feel sorry for people who cant handle not being romantically involved with someone.
A meh relationship is better than no relationship. There might be a physiological reason for why I want a relationship, it could be my need to fit in with crowds, but I get what you're saying. However, that's a topic for another day. This isn't a therapy session.

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Evillink2000
10/28/23 9:16:25 PM
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Chunky
10/28/23 9:17:46 PM
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Horith posted...
TC: I'm looking for another girlfriend while saying my current one sucks

Also TC: But if she did it to me, I'd hate it.

It's sad that I know that whether this is parody or not, people this oblivious and shitty really do exist.
I get what you're saying, but I personally don't believe in the golden rule. We have to deal with things we don't like, that's life. Doesn't matter if I wouldn't like it. Every man for themselves.

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Goldenguy
10/28/23 9:18:20 PM
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BearlyWilling posted...
2/10 for minimal effort here. Youll get some bites, Im sure.


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StealThisSheen
10/28/23 9:19:31 PM
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Spoilers: TC isn't in a relationship at all. He's writing this from his mom's basement.

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Kim_Seong-a
10/28/23 9:21:02 PM
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Depends on what you've told your current partner.

If both parties know that it's just a casual thing/non-exclusive then it's no problem.

If you're leading them on and looking for a new partner behind their back, it's super shitty.

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rexcrk
10/28/23 9:21:20 PM
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Chunky posted...
A meh relationship is better than no relationship.

Lmfao. Absolutely not. You cant be serious with this shit.

Again, I truly feel sorry for people so incapable of being on their own. Get some legit help, dude.

Assuming this is for real. Which its probably not. So, good job. Ya got me.

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Rika_Furude
10/28/23 9:21:31 PM
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StealThisSheen posted...
Spoilers: TC isn't in a relationship at all. He's writing this from his mom's basement.
Hes writing this from the welfare office
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bfslick50
10/28/23 9:21:50 PM
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Chunky posted...
I'm dating this girl and she's okay, but nothing special. I'm not attracted to her, and she has a mediocre personality, but for the time being it's the best I can achieve right now, and something is better than nothing. If your car's in the shop and you don't have reliable transportation, sometimes you have to settle for McDonald's rather than going all the way to Five Guys, for example.

My car doesnt have feelings. If you dont give a shit about her feelings than you should just dump her. Being in a relationship just to use her like that is pretty shitty thing to do.

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Chunky
10/28/23 9:24:01 PM
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bfslick50 posted...
My car doesnt have feelings. If you dont give a shit about her feelings than you should just dump her. Being in a relationship just to use her like that is pretty shitty thing to do.
I'm not using her. While I'm still around for her, she still has my service. And I might not (and probably will not) have any luck on Tinder anyway.

rexcrk posted...
Lmfao. Absolutely not. You cant be serious with this shit.

Again, I truly feel sorry for people so incapable of being on their own. Get some legit help, dude.

Assuming this is for real. Which its probably not. So, good job. Ya got me.
Absolutely yes. Otherwise the statement that StealThisSheen made above wouldn't make any sense.

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creativeme
10/28/23 9:43:40 PM
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it is shitty. but it's also super common. i've know lots of guys and girls that do the same thing. it's why none of them can stay in a relationship.

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Pogo_Marimo
10/28/23 9:46:47 PM
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BearlyWilling posted...
2/10 for minimal effort here. Youll get some bites, Im sure.


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Slayer_22
10/28/23 9:52:35 PM
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What about that other girl? Didn't you say you were the expected successor? Did that work out? Same girl?

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potdnewb
10/28/23 9:53:40 PM
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12 amp
whose sixteen year old alt is this

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bfslick50
10/28/23 9:54:35 PM
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Chunky posted...
I'm not using her. While I'm still around for her, she still has my service.

Does she know this isn't a long-term thing or is she expecting a committed relationship? Does she want you around if it's only for the short-term? Does she get a say? Do you give a shit about her feelings, about her long-term desires, about her expectations? If not then you're using her.

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potdnewb
10/28/23 9:55:19 PM
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also if you treat your relationships like jobs and your jobs like relationships your probably bad at both

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UnholyMudcrab
10/28/23 9:56:06 PM
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Chunky posted...
I'm dating this girl and she's okay, but nothing special. I'm not attracted to her, and she has a mediocre personality, but for the time being it's the best I can achieve right now, and something is better than nothing.
I don't even need to read any more than this to know that, yes, whatever you have done was a shitty thing to do.

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David1988
10/28/23 10:02:24 PM
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is TC one of those stolen accounts like Orlando Jordan used to steal?

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bnui_ransder
10/28/23 10:08:20 PM
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Last post from me in here, you got me t

TC: Am I garbage?
Everyone: yes
TC: But I'm not

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bsp77
10/28/23 10:08:45 PM
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Yes, you are a piece of shit for multiple reasons

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A_Good_Boy
10/28/23 10:13:54 PM
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Chunky posted...
I personally don't believe in the golden rule.

bsp77 posted...
Yes, you are a piece of shit for multiple reasons


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Luteo
10/28/23 10:21:03 PM
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Shitty. I believe in monogamy so I cant understand your perspective as a cheater.

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