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Dungeater
09/25/23 12:48:45 PM
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like am i just a prude or what? the only, only *chance* i could ever see myself attending is if I'm close or close-ish with multiple people going that im already attracted to

but practically speaking, it's just a hard no. even threesomes are a mostly-hard no, i cant imagine opening the floor to randos, voyeurs, in a loud sweaty shared space

also im not hater, if it's ur thing then go balls out, kido. i think it's great people can get to do these sorts of niche things

just speaking from my own pov

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tremain07
09/25/23 12:49:33 PM
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Plap plap plap apparently

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ArkhamOrigins
09/25/23 12:49:47 PM
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Are you hot?

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Jagr_68
09/25/23 12:50:28 PM
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You have sex.

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EmilyTheCEman
09/25/23 12:52:40 PM
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Thats like saying can someone tell me the appeal of free cash giveaway parties?

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Intro2Logic
09/25/23 12:53:42 PM
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Probably the sex

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Heineken14
09/25/23 12:53:48 PM
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I mean, what's NOT the appeal? Parties are fun. Sex is fun. The sound of making macaroni is fun. It's fun all around!

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Dungeater
09/25/23 12:53:52 PM
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ArkhamOrigins posted...
Are you hot?
i would say so

EmilyTheCEman posted...
Thats like saying can someone tell me the appeal of free cash giveaway parties?
yeah but like, everyone wants cash. not everyone wants group sex or to be watched or involved with strangers

i understand everyones different, im just trying to find the articulation for it i spose

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Bigpapaplut
09/25/23 12:54:32 PM
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Some people like to increase the chance of getting the clap

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bsp77
09/25/23 12:55:59 PM
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The appeal seems pretty obvious, as does the reasons for someone NOT wanting to be involved as well.

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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:01:08 PM
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bsp77 posted...
The appeal seems pretty obvious, as does the reasons for someone NOT wanting to be involved as well.
ig im just looking for the why's behind "likes group sex/being watched/seeing&hearing others go at it/etc etc"

also i dont even like being nude with partner, or completely by myself. i dont know how people do it man

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ai123
09/25/23 1:01:11 PM
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You get to have no-strings sex with a bunch of strangers.

Some people like to be watched, but if you don't, private rooms are available.

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ModernPost
09/25/23 1:02:19 PM
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Truly one of life's greatest mysteries.

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TendoDRM
09/25/23 1:02:37 PM
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If you really need it explained to you, they're probably just not for you, which is perfectly OK and understandable.

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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:08:00 PM
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i understand they aren't for me, I'm just trying to wrap my head around it regardless. it would make my partner happy if i were to be into and attend them, and i dont understand why. i talk about it with them too, this is more just to cast a wider feeler net

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bsp77
09/25/23 1:08:12 PM
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Dungeater posted...
also i dont even like being nude with partner, or completely by myself. i dont know how people do it man
That's not normal

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KitKats
09/25/23 1:10:09 PM
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The hors d'oeuvres are my favorite part

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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:11:21 PM
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bsp77 posted...
That's not normal
maybe in the sense most people dont feel that way, but i dont think theres anything wrong with it. i beat myself up for it for a long time, and ive been discussing it in therapy

some people just arent comfortable being nude

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emblem-man
09/25/23 1:11:29 PM
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Dungeater posted...
voyeurs

I'd be pretty open to the voyeurism aspect of it

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emblem-man
09/25/23 1:12:50 PM
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Dungeater posted...
also i dont even like being nude with partner, or completely by myself. i dont know how people do it man


Did we find a never nude?

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orcus_snake
09/25/23 1:13:11 PM
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Dungeater posted...
i understand they aren't for me, I'm just trying to wrap my head around it regardless. it would make my partner happy if i were to be into and attend them, and i dont understand why. i talk about it with them too, this is more just to cast a wider feeler net

shocker, I can't wrap my head around why you wouldn't enjoy it. anything else?

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ai123
09/25/23 1:13:38 PM
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Dungeater posted...
i understand they aren't for me, I'm just trying to wrap my head around it regardless. it would make my partner happy if i were to be into and attend them, and i dont understand why. i talk about it with them too, this is more just to cast a wider feeler net
Is your partner an exhibitionist?

Perhaps they want to play around with a taboo. Particularly one that is very out there for you. Some people find that a thrill in itself.

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bsp77
09/25/23 1:16:04 PM
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Dungeater posted...
maybe in the sense most people dont feel that way, but i dont think theres anything wrong with it. i beat myself up for it for a long time, and ive been discussing it in therapy

some people just arent comfortable being nude
I think it is the opposite. Many people do feel that way, so it is somewhat common, but it also is not "normal", as in it is something that should be worked on. You are going to therapy, so that is good.

I don't mean that as a dig btw, as I have issues too. Most of us do, and this just happens to be one of yours. This also explains why you can't understand why others see appeal in it.

For the record, I don't want to go to a sex party either. My fiance and I have discussed the idea of a threesome, but not sure we would ever actually try for it.

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Irony
09/25/23 1:16:18 PM
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Ask Stewie about his sexy parties

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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:16:39 PM
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emblem-man posted...
Did we find a never nude?
nah i get naked to fuck and bathe. and rarely sleep (alone i mean, if im sharing the bed im probs nude)

ai123 posted...
Is your partner an exhibitionist?

Perhaps they want to play around with a taboo. Particularly one that is very out there for you. Some people find that a thrill in itself.
somewhere in that arena. and like, i dont mind it to a point either. my ex and i fucked on her porch in front of a bunch of drunk bar goers one superbowl, i was into that. or doin it in the hotel with the window curtains wide open

but like, with ppl in the same room, i draw my line there

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kingdrake2
09/25/23 1:18:30 PM
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Bigpapaplut posted...
Some people like to increase the chance of getting the clap


somebody i know gotten the clap from a dirty girl.
actually she slept with someone before that... while infected.

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InTheEyesOfFire
09/25/23 1:18:49 PM
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Depending on which ones you go to theres an orphan sashimi possibly available.

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TheLiarParadox
09/25/23 1:19:18 PM
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the smell

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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:20:59 PM
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TheLiarParadox posted...
the smell
just the idea of it really puts me off

InTheEyesOfFire posted...
Depending on which ones you go to theres an orphan sashimi possibly available.
as in like

a chopped up orphan...? i imagine its actually just typical catered fare or some shit. charcuterie

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InTheEyesOfFire
09/25/23 1:22:20 PM
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Dungeater posted...
just the idea of it really puts me off

as in like

a chopped up orphan...? i imagine its actually just typical catered fare or some shit. charcuterie

lol, its a reference to Venture Bros. I honestly dont know what, if any, food would be served at something such as a sex party.

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Super_Slash
09/25/23 1:23:48 PM
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I think it's one of those things that sounds good on paper, but the average person is not hygienic, and on top of that you don't know what kind of diseases people have.
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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:24:59 PM
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InTheEyesOfFire posted...
lol, its a reference to Venture Bros. I honestly dont know what, if any, food would be served at something such as a sex party.
speaking of, i was streaming Fallout Old World Blues the other day and Dr. O's voice sounds so familiar, and my boy's like holy shit thats dr venture! and he was! good voice actor

anyway i forgot what thread i was in

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ai123
09/25/23 1:27:43 PM
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Super_Slash posted...
I think it's one of those things that sounds good on paper, but the average person is not hygienic, and on top of that you don't know what kind of diseases people have.
Most sex parties are well regulated by the hosts. People won't come back if everyone's unhygienic or riddled with STDs.

So they vet the clientele, use a recommendation system, couples only, troublemakers get kicked out etc.

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gasgpmo
09/25/23 1:27:59 PM
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emblem-man posted...
Did we find a never nude?
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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:29:10 PM
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ai123 posted...
Most sex parties are well regulated by the hosts. People won't come back if everyone's unhygienic or riddled with STDs.

So they vet the clientele, use a recommendation system, couples only, troublemakers get kicked out etc.
yea from what he tells me, ofc there are risks that youre just going to have to make ur peace with, but there is effort and structure dedicated to being safe and proactive

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Torgo
09/25/23 1:35:35 PM
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Party

and

Sex

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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:38:54 PM
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Pecs Sarty would be an amazing name for a space hero cadet character

i should make him

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Kradek
09/25/23 1:48:56 PM
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If you don't understand the appeal from the very name alone then there's certainly nothing we can say to make you see the appeal.

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MrResetti
09/25/23 1:51:03 PM
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TC is upset their partner wants to fuck other people.
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Dungeater
09/25/23 1:59:50 PM
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nah im okay with that, i don't see why he shouldnt get to

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Dungeater
09/25/23 3:40:39 PM
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bruh i just learned about folsom street fair good lord

i am such a poor representation of my demographic jeez >_>

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Dungeater
09/26/23 1:24:13 PM
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final bump before the wastes claim me

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