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Admiral_Zero
09/25/23 10:06:26 AM
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Mostly for these 4 people that dont like me (none of them are managers or anything important)

Should I be cordial and shake their hand? Do nothing? Cuss them out and call them peasants? Im most likely never going to see them again.

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Returning_CEmen
09/25/23 10:07:44 AM
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Ignore them

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teep_
09/25/23 10:09:47 AM
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Success is the best revenge

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R1masher
09/25/23 10:11:34 AM
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What would Machiavelli do?

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Villain_S_Fiend
09/25/23 10:11:50 AM
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Pretend they don't exist.

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LoveLikeJazz
09/25/23 10:11:58 AM
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No need to kiss ass on your way out, but never intentionally burn a bridge.

Going down gracefully is stylish.

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EmilyTheCEman
09/25/23 10:12:43 AM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Ignore them

This. It sends the message that theyre not worth even acknowledging as you leave forever.

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CyricZ
09/25/23 10:15:47 AM
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teep_ posted...
Success is the best revenge
This.

There is a way for grace AND style, but it's not easy. You'll have to figure this out on your own because only you know the place best.

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EyeWontBeFooled
09/25/23 10:17:16 AM
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LoveLikeJazz posted...
No need to kiss ass on your way out, but never intentionally burn a bridge.

Going down gracefully is stylish.

teep_ posted...
Success is the best revenge


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accord
09/25/23 10:18:04 AM
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i really hated my boss on my previous job, at first i wish i did something terible before i left but now im just glad i didnt make any enemies.
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BlazinBlue88
09/25/23 10:18:20 AM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Ignore them
This. You say they aren't important so why even waste a single thought on them?

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divot1338
09/25/23 10:19:22 AM
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LoveLikeJazz posted...
No need to kiss ass on your way out, but never intentionally burn a bridge.

Going down gracefully is stylish.


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UnsteadyOwl
09/25/23 10:19:39 AM
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Don't burn any bridges. Even if the odds are you'll never see them again you don't know that. One of them could be interviewing you for a job one day.

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Sariana21
09/25/23 10:24:12 AM
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Never burn bridges. Sorry to hear about your layoff. I hope you find something better.

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Goldenguy
09/25/23 11:21:32 AM
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I would dress in the most ridiculous outfit I had. Something memorable and funny. But I'm also speaking through my general experiences at my own work, where I usually keep things lighthearted.

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Naysaspace
09/25/23 11:22:42 AM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Ignore them
yeah...if you dont like them why spend your last time there engaging with them? engage with the people you like. sorry to hear about the layoff, they can be tough if its never happened before
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Admiral_Zero
09/27/23 6:08:14 PM
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On the bright side, now I can go find a higher paying job with better co workers.

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boomgetchopped3
09/27/23 6:11:03 PM
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They told you in advance? I didnt know that was a thing
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Jiek_Fafn
09/27/23 6:11:56 PM
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The people that are telling you to not burn bridges because of what ifs don't know how to live life. Burn every bridge that you can. Make a wonderful memory for yourself. That's worth more than any reference could ever be.

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Sephiroth_C_Ryu
09/27/23 6:18:05 PM
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Hopefully you actually do a lot of menial stuff that needs instructions to pick back up with someone else.

Be nice, leave. But don't leave any instructions or hints for the next guy to figure out what you were doing to keep the rest of those goons afloat. And naturally, block their numbers. Oh, and if they call to beg you for help, well, tough beans for them. They can find someone to rewrite the main stack again themselves.


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ironman2009
09/27/23 6:20:43 PM
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take all the pens

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LoveLikeJazz
09/28/23 9:12:15 AM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
The people that are telling you to not burn bridges because of what ifs don't know how to live life. Burn every bridge that you can. Make a wonderful memory for yourself. That's worth more than any reference could ever be.
Oh please lol I hope you're kidding.

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SlamVook
09/28/23 9:17:53 AM
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Take all the stationery you can with you

Its better to kinda ignore them as other people said, that way you will show them they arent that important for you to even say goodbye for them

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LeCh0nk
09/28/23 9:35:45 AM
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Hire a mariachi band to walk you out

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Tyranthraxus
09/28/23 9:37:28 AM
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https://gist.github.com/aras-p/6224951

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Pau_Gasol_Trade
09/29/23 8:12:17 PM
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When I got laid off I took off my shirt and walked out.
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KINDERFELD
09/29/23 8:16:17 PM
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teep_ posted...
Success is the best revenge

This.
I was fired by a religious homophobic pos at my last job.
Now I have another job paying more than I was making at that old one.
Keep your head up and utilize your energy to making your future better.

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StealThisSheen
09/29/23 8:18:43 PM
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Go out gracefully.

Even somebody that laid you off, a coworker you didn't necessarily get along with, etc., can be a useful reference.

EDIT: This is because, when businesses call for a reference, they typically do so in a way where they go "Did you work with X," and even somebody that disliked you isn't going to think quick enough to lie, or even want to, for something so simple.

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StealThisSheen
09/29/23 8:23:17 PM
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And, to be clear, I have personal experience with this. At my last job, they got a new development lead that I, to put it simply, didn't see eye to eye with. I still did my work well and on time, but they just flat out didn't like me and wanted to replace me with a friend of theirs. Thus, when the opportunity for cuts came, I was one of the first ones they selected for layoffs, and they defended it with "We're paying them too much as it is."

However, I used the company as a reference, even knowing potential new employers may end up speaking with the person in question. And, since the person in question was asked basic questions ("Did you work with X," "Were they laid off for poor work," etc.) they couldn't really lie, so they served as a useful reference, regardless.

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Lukey_Bug
09/29/23 8:24:16 PM
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The only time Ive been laid off they told me first thing when I came in. And they expected me to actually fucking do my job. Like you could have said that at the end of the day and you wouldn't have gotten a day of wasted labor.

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StealThisSheen
09/29/23 8:25:10 PM
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Lukey_Bug posted...
The only time Ive been laid off they told me first thing when I came in. And they expected me to actually fucking do my job. Like you could have said that at the end of the day and you wouldn't have gotten a day of wasted labor.

Now this is dumb, yeah. There's a reason layoffs usually happen end of day, Friday.

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masticatingman
09/29/23 8:28:24 PM
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boomgetchopped3 posted...
They told you in advance? I didnt know that was a thing
I was laid off (it was a technicality - but its a good thing for unemployment if you want to ask for it) at my first office job and was told on Monday but that it wasnt effective until Friday.

Ive seen a guy with young kids be given a 2 weeks notice before too.

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Lukey_Bug
09/29/23 8:29:29 PM
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StealThisSheen posted...
Now this is dumb, yeah. There's a reason layoffs usually happen end of day, Friday.

Funniest part about this is it happened when the economy collapsed in 07. They made a big speech at Christmas about how the company was doing strong and noone was losing their job. Then a month later laid off 5/6 of the company. Lol

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creativeme
09/29/23 8:32:18 PM
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ignore them. but be graceful and hopefully you can use your manager as reference for your next job. plus get that unemployment till then.

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StealThisSheen
09/29/23 8:33:13 PM
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Lukey_Bug posted...
Funniest part about this is it happened when the economy collapsed in 07. They made a big speech at Christmas about how the company was doing strong and noone was losing their job. Then a month later laid off 5/6 of the company. Lol

That's similar to how I was laid off, though I was given a 2 week "notice," basically.

Last fall, we were told the company was going strong. Then, in December, we were told there may be cuts, but they'd be "small" cuts, mostly part time/new employees.

Then, lo and behold, in January, I was laid off. And I pretty much immediately knew it was because I was, at the time, the highest paid developer on staff. That said, like I said, they gave me what was basically a two week notice, so it was whatever. A betrayal, but not a total one.

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Homeless_Waifu
09/29/23 8:33:27 PM
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Post 2D anime girls/hentai everywhere

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