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MarcyWarcy 09/01/23 8:16:27 PM #50: |
yeah there are some really stupid people out there.
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FortuneCookie 09/01/23 8:16:54 PM #51: |
I know this is the internet, but must everything be a fight? https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/7/3/AAdlC_AAEzcJ.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/01/23 8:21:38 PM #54: |
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Okay, thank you. I get the trolling from them now, so that whole exchange is less bothersome. Thanks for not throwing a fit about what I said 10+ years ago either, especially since I'm mature enough now to realize that it was a shitty thing to say to her back then. Walk in peace and kindness, shock. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/01/23 8:35:42 PM #57: |
FortuneCookie posted...
I know this is the internet, but must everything be a fight? Okay, this made me laugh. Thanks for breaking the tension. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Torgo 09/01/23 8:37:14 PM #58: |
The "discrimination" that bisexual people may feel and receive from within the queer community is nothing at all like the external discrimination that LBGTQ people receive in general from conservatives and religious groups.
Not even close... there is no "both sides" here. Bisexual people may feel un-included and some "gate-keeping" from other members of the queer community, and that can feel hurtful and is unfortunate. However, nobody in the queer community is advocating for the loss of human rights, legal status, being fired from jobs and loss of livelihood, vigilante violence, state violence, or genocide against bisexual people the way conservative and religious groups are advocating against LGBTQ people right now in speeches, sermons, in laws and proposed legislation. So do not let the bigots pull a fast one here. --- If what you believe is truthful and just, you shouldn't have to posture as someone or something else. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/01/23 8:41:20 PM #59: |
Torgo posted...
The "discrimination" that bisexual people may feel and receive from within the queer community is nothing at all like the external discrimination that LBGTQ people receive in general from conservatives and religious groups. Never did I ever say or think this. Of course it's different from people who actively want you to be a second class citizen or worse. It just hurts in a visceral way when it comes from your own people. You expect that kind of bigotry from the cishets, but from your own people? It's like a knife in the back. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MarcyWarcy 09/01/23 9:02:06 PM #60: |
Torgo posted...
The "discrimination" that bisexual people may feel and receive from within the queer community is nothing at all like the external discrimination that LBGTQ people receive in general from conservatives and religious groups. comparing it to the worst of the worst out there and then just belittling the experiences of bi people as "gatekeeping that feels hurtful" is kind of weird. bigotry is bigotry, you don't have to break out a tier list of the amount of suffering people feel to come to that conclusion. especially considering said bi people are often experiencing the stuff in your bolded paragraph in addition to biphobia and erasure --- Looks like this gamer's paradise has turned into a gamer's hell............................................... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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andel 09/01/23 9:11:48 PM #61: |
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you showed up shitposting with an obvious alt itt. of course no one is going to take you seriously fyi --- I am thinking about just walking into the river now that Megaupload is gone and condoms are in porn.-Fubonis ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrMallard 09/01/23 9:22:49 PM #63: |
Torgo posted...
The "discrimination" that bisexual people may feel and receive from within the queer community is nothing at all like the external discrimination that LBGTQ people receive in general from conservatives and religious groups.Of course, there's a shared struggle that the broader queer community have banded together to weather together. There's still intra-community conflict, and that shit hurts. That's kind of the gist of that post I made earlier about infighters being "feds" - it sows division within the community and fractures us. But even saying that, trans people are perfectly justified feeling insulted by other people being transphobic, as are bi people justified being upset at biphobia and ace people about acephobia, etc. etc. The broader struggle doesn't mean "cheer up emo kid, we got a war to win", it exists parallel with that intra-community conflict and it's worth commenting on and getting past. Root out the feds and form stronger bonds, but that doesn't mean downplaying and dismissing the different forms of queerphobia present within the broader community. --- All I can eat is the poisonous apple, and that's not a story that I'm meant to survive. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Robot2600 09/01/23 9:27:24 PM #65: |
yes, as a bi person i feel like most monosex ppl are likely going to microaggress as hard as they possibly can
bi people, or their partners, are honestly 100% of my friends as an adult. --- --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/01/23 9:33:28 PM #66: |
Robot2600 posted...
yes, as a bi person i feel like most monosex ppl are likely going to microaggress as hard as they possibly can How in the world did you manage that? I almost feel like I should be jealous. Most of the people in my life are cishet. Allies to be sure, but still cishet. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DementedDurian 09/01/23 9:39:25 PM #67: |
I'm bi-romantic. I get flack from family members for "not understanding the situation".
Simply put, while I prefer female bodies, it's not hard to show platonic love to anyone I am fond of. They don't get that, being cisgendered people of so-called faith. --- (She/Her) I'm a succubus. Don't worry, I'm not going to hurt you. <3 Video Game IGN: Mystic. Ask me for a joke, I come up with some good ones. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bfslick50 09/01/23 9:41:49 PM #68: |
A lot of people get insecure hearing their romantic partner has a type they dont fit.
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flussence 09/01/23 9:41:59 PM #69: |
Torgo posted...
nobody in the queer community is advocating for the loss of human rights, legal status, being fired from jobs and loss of livelihood, vigilante violence, state violence, or genocide against bisexual people the way conservative and religious groups are oh you sweet summer child --- Editor's note: The sound of children screaming has been removed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 09/01/23 9:57:48 PM #71: |
This topic sure took a turn. Divides like this are what keeps people distracted while the ruling elite continues to screw everyone over.
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flussence 09/01/23 10:03:37 PM #72: |
Xenogears15 posted...
How in the world did you manage that? I almost feel like I should be jealous. Most of the people in my life are cishet. Allies to be sure, but still cishet. you gotta stop hanging around this website for a start --- Editor's note: The sound of children screaming has been removed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 09/01/23 10:17:44 PM #73: |
flussence posted...
you gotta stop hanging around this website for a startAlso depends on where he lives. Red States, for example, he'd have an incredibly hard time finding lgbtq out in the open. Even supposed liberal havens like California are difficult outside of obvious counties. That said, some places, like Colorado, have a lot of lgbtq people out in the open. --- --I understand your opinion. I just don't care about it. ~Jedah-- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Henry_Townsend 09/01/23 10:20:25 PM #74: |
Im a gay man and Id date/marry a bi man. I know Im just one person, so it probably doesnt mean very much, but if someone out there wants to love me who am I to stop them? The thing to remember is that anyone, at any time, can find someone better and leave you. Or just leave you for any reason at all, altogether.
Im sorry that anyone and everyone within our community has a hard time, at all. --- "i read the first one. it was so bad that my skin turned inside out and I rolled in a pile of salt just to make myself feel better."- AyumiSqueezetoy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Robot2600 09/01/23 10:42:26 PM #75: |
Xenogears15 posted...
How in the world did you manage that? I almost feel like I should be jealous. Most of the people in my life are cishet. Allies to be sure, but still cishet. i get along great with bi people and with people who also get along with queer bi/ppl i have work friends who i have no idea if they are straight or queer or nb, but i dont hang out with work people, out of principle. it's more like I used to have straight friends but when i came out to everyone 6 years ago i suddenly had no more straight friends within 6 months. my sibling-in-law just came out to me and my partner (their sibling) as genderqueer, them and their wife were my only "straight" friends. honestly im super pumped that im not the only one in the family xD it really does make me feel normal --- --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/01/23 10:53:40 PM #76: |
nocturnal_traveler posted...
Also depends on where he lives. Red States, for example, he'd have an incredibly hard time finding lgbtq out in the open. Even supposed liberal havens like California are difficult outside of obvious counties. That said, some places, like Colorado, have a lot of lgbtq people out in the open. I literally live in Chicago. Maybe it's from when I just stopped hanging out in Boystown, but the only queer people I know are one of my sisters and my step-mother. I guess my wife's childhood gay friend, too? But he gives me bad vibes, so I avoid him if at all possible. Robot2600 posted... i get along great with bi people and with people who also get along with queer bi/ppl Nice, man! Happy for you. Nothing feels better than being validated. Be sure to help guide that baby gay on their journey. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BritKnee 09/02/23 12:52:20 AM #78: |
Xenogears15 posted...
I hate this so much, I didn't know people were like this as most of my transfem friends are sappic (I'm also a transfem gynesexual). --- :3 she/they ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Robot2600 09/03/23 11:15:03 AM #79: |
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 11:25:43 AM #80: |
What's a gynesexual?
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hockeybub89 09/03/23 11:28:10 AM #81: |
Lukey_Bug posted...
What's a gynesexual?Someone who's attracted to females --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png he/him/they/them ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/03/23 11:28:37 AM #82: |
Lukey_Bug posted...
What's a gynesexual? Attraction to people who present as fem, regardless of their assigned sex or gender. So that would include people like ciswomen, transwomen, crossdressers, femboys, etc., etc.. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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R_Jackal 09/03/23 11:30:14 AM #83: |
It's part of life. Anything "different" is discriminated against in some capacity. Being openly gay only very recently became widely acceptable in the mainstream, which means they can join in on the "They're different! Point at them!" Mindset. Not to say this is a blanket judgement, but it's just it's a thing that happens because humans don't like change. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 11:34:57 AM #84: |
Oh so straight than? I was dating a transwoman a few years ago and I asked her what that meant for me and she just said if you're dating a girl you're straight. Why do we need these complicated ass terms to describe something no one should have any problem with?
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Xenogears15 09/03/23 11:38:22 AM #85: |
Lukey_Bug posted...
Oh so straight than? Dating femboys (and other effeminate men) makes you not straight, as they are men. Effeminate men, but still men. Ergo, it is still under the bi umbrella and gets its own label. Why do we need these complicated ass terms to describe something no one should have any problem with? People will label themselves how they want, because that's kind of how our brains work. We like to categorize things. If it doesn't affect you, then don't worry too much about it. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 11:41:49 AM #86: |
Xenogears15 posted...
Dating femboys (and other effeminate men) makes you not straight, as they are men. Effeminate men, but still men. Ergo, it is still under the bi umbrella and gets its own label. Ok I'm not hp to all the current terminology but I wish we didn't have to use any of it in the first place. People are people, let them live how they want,ya know? --- I don't want this man's life, I want his sandwiches. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 09/03/23 11:44:43 AM #87: |
Lukey_Bug posted...
Ok I'm not hp to all the current terminology but I wish we didn't have to use any of it in the first place. People are people, let them live how they want,ya know? See the second part of my post (albeit, probably edited after you started making yours). To some people, labels are an important part of their identity. To others, they are not. To me, my label is important. To you they are not. Both are 100% valid and important. The last sentence of your post is my general thoughts on life in general, and I wish that more both within and without (but especially without) the community felt that way. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 11:47:15 AM #88: |
Xenogears15 posted...
Yeah but I kinda have to because some people who identify as something get offended when you mislabel them. And sometimes its hard to tell. I work in restaurant management and Ive had my fair share of people get mad at me for using wrong terminology --- I don't want this man's life, I want his sandwiches. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 11:54:50 AM #90: |
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You've never worked in food service. I can tell from this post. You're literally seeing hundreds of people a day that just based on looks have to decide how to talk to them. Sometimes you get it wrong. But whatever, like I've said I honestly do not care about what your sexuality is. You do you. --- I don't want this man's life, I want his sandwiches. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 11:59:16 AM #92: |
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You literally just said I'm trying to erase people's identities. You're one to fucking talk. --- I don't want this man's life, I want his sandwiches. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lukey_Bug 09/03/23 12:08:13 PM #94: |
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Have you read my posts in this topic? I try to use what people prefer cause if that's what they wanna use sure, no problem. I just hate that we have to actually use them in the first place. Idgaf how you identify because no matter what you're just another human being to me. --- I don't want this man's life, I want his sandwiches. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 09/03/23 12:21:14 PM #95: |
If you're working in customer service, it's best to avoid gender pronouns for the best results. "How are you doing?". "Excuse me? You in the blue shirt." Nowadays you even have to do it with race unless it's an emergency situation.
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Sufferedphoneix 09/05/23 7:37:48 PM #96: |
Xenogears15 posted...
...and it pisses me off to no end. And by bisexual I mean all those who fall under rhe bi umbrella. In my case it would be gynesexual, but it's easier to tell people I'm bi for clarity and ease of understanding. Yes. I had a boy friend that didnt want me having friends cause I was bi. I was potentially cheating on him with anyone I hung around. I pretty much told him good luck finding someone else. We lived in a very redneck community and this was before dating sites/apps where big. Also got told being bi was just being gay with training wheels. It also sucks that I pass for straight easily and gay guys just assume I'm straight or a woman knows I fucked a dude and just assumes I'm gay. Walking up to someone and just announcing your sexuality just seems weird to me so it's made the dating scene more complicated --- I put my heart and soul into my work and I fear I have lost my mind in the process ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shadow20201 09/05/23 7:57:28 PM #97: |
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Rotterdammerung 09/05/23 8:10:54 PM #98: |
When I was in the dating scene, I was too gay for many straight girls, too straight for some gay guys.
It was interesting the number of girls who thought it meant Id get this irresistible craving for doodle even if was in a relationship at the time. Its like, no, it doesnt work like that. --- This space left intentionally blank ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Robot2600 09/05/23 8:12:14 PM #99: |
Sufferedphoneix posted...
Yes. Those are at the nicer end of what I've experienced, from others in the LGBTQ+ community. I honestly have no idea if I pass for straight or not. I think I pass most of the time, but I don't hide my queerness and I'm sure some people pick up on it. I don't want to "pass" either; I'd rather people saw me as who i am: someone who is neither gay nor straight. that's not even getting into gender identity/gender presentation Other bi problems include hypersexualization: basically mentioning your are bi is inherent perceived as more "sexual" than gay/straight. People have a lot of questions, which is fine...but they are like TOO curious. LIke jfc it's a standard thing, go read the wikipedia article on bisexuality. not the most coherent post but ive been waiting all day to play FFVII and so i gotta go And im someone who generally enjoys being objectified/sexualized. But not at work or something :/ --- --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sufferedphoneix 09/05/23 9:38:17 PM #100: |
Robot2600 posted...
Those are at the nicer end of what I've experienced, from others in the LGBTQ+ community. Yeah I'm not very sexual at all. I can take it or leave it. Not gonna work for it --- I put my heart and soul into my work and I fear I have lost my mind in the process ... Copied to Clipboard!
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