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Guns_of_Verdun
07/14/23 2:06:42 PM
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My ex just tried to guilt trip me because she found out I fucked someone after we broke up.

And this isn't an isolated incident, girls do this all the time and I don't get it.

What you're supposed to never have sex again because you broke up with someone? That's absurd?

I don't get it.

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action52
07/14/23 2:48:17 PM
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Sounds like you've been dating people who are inappropriately possessive even after they've broken up with you. Either they're not over you or they are psychologically abusive people who need to control those around them. Or both, I suppose.

You've got to tell them that they have no say over who you do or do not fuck now that you're not a couple. And if they can't stop, then you stop being friends and block them.

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Ryven
07/14/23 2:48:53 PM
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They dont like the idea that you're 'over them'. Thats basically it.

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action52
07/14/23 2:53:05 PM
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I personally have never had this happen BTW. Only one ex girlfriend was friends with me after we broke up, and after it was over she soon started dating someone and encouraged me to date other people.

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darkmaian23
07/14/23 4:06:49 PM
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Jealousy or insecurity about the value or your previous relationship, I'd wager.

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SauI_Goodman
07/14/23 4:07:49 PM
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why do you even care what she thinks at this point

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Sufferedphoneix
07/14/23 4:39:01 PM
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If it happens shortly after I'm sure some are just upset because the realization how easily replaced they where. Literally seen a girl upset saying "what's she got that I don't have"

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rexcrk
07/14/23 4:52:10 PM
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Depends on who breaks up with whom.


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LordMarshal
07/14/23 4:54:03 PM
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Thats what a "break up" means! Ugh. I hate this. Like i dont know how interpret it any other way. Means you can fuck others now.

Btw: They WERE on a break.

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ellis123
07/14/23 4:54:29 PM
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The same reasons that guys do.

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NoxObscuras
07/14/23 4:55:33 PM
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I could understand being upset if it happens right away. Like you break up and then you're with someone new within a few days. Most people need time to get over a break up. So she would be mad because she feels like you moved on too fast. This is especially true if your ex was hoping you'd get back together.

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LordMarshal
07/14/23 4:57:07 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
I could understand being upset if it happens right away. Like you break up and then you're with someone new within a few days. Most people need time to get over a break up. So she would be mad because she feels like you moved on too fast. This is especially true if your ex was hoping you'd get back together.

Thats someone who doesnt understand what a break up means.

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NoxObscuras
07/14/23 5:09:05 PM
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LordMarshal posted...
Thats someone who doesnt understand what a break up means.
My guy have you ever been in a long relationship before? They know full well what a break up means. Doesn't change the fact that it's hard to just immediately move on.

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Skankhair
07/14/23 5:10:16 PM
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Girls? Do you mean women?
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Dark_Arbron
07/14/23 5:10:30 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
I could understand being upset if it happens right away. Like you break up and then you're with someone new within a few days.

Because it suggests (even if not true) that you were already seeing that new person.

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k1zzl3_82
07/14/23 5:16:35 PM
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I dated a friend once. We both worked at the same bar. When we broke up, she said I was not allowed to sleep with any customer that came in the bar, or any of the bartenders, nor could I bring any girl to the bar we mutually worked at. She however could sleep with anyone she pleased or bring whomever to the bar. Needless to say I thought her stipulations were bullshit and I did what I wanted. There was a girl I met at another bar and we started talking. She applied to the bar that I worked at and got hired. Immediately my friend started talking shit saying she didnt like her for whatever reason. She said that I better not go out with her. I told her that we were already talking and she said I had to break it off or I am not a loyal friend. We kind of ended our friendship right there
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garan
07/14/23 5:16:36 PM
#17:


Ryven posted...
They dont like the idea that you're 'over them'. Thats basically it.


This. Especially if you were the one who dumped her.
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Have_A_Cigar
07/14/23 5:19:09 PM
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Skankhair posted...
Girls? Do you mean women?

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cuttin_in_farm
07/14/23 5:21:33 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
I could understand being upset if it happens right away. Like you break up and then you're with someone new within a few days. Most people need time to get over a break up. So she would be mad because she feels like you moved on too fast. This is especially true if your ex was hoping you'd get back together.

Dark_Arbron posted...
Because it suggests (even if not true) that you were already seeing that new person.

Its these two.

If you so easily hook up with someone after a break up, it implies the relationship didnt mean much since you didnt need time and/or the person you hooked up with was so available it must have meant it wasnt someone you met after the breakup.

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/14/23 6:18:03 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
I could understand being upset if it happens right away. Like you break up and then you're with someone new within a few days. Most people need time to get over a break up. So she would be mad because she feels like you moved on too fast. This is especially true if your ex was hoping you'd get back together.
But we broke up!

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brestugo
07/14/23 6:21:12 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
why do you even care what she thinks at this point

...and still discussing intimate issues?

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FolkenRawr
07/14/23 6:22:18 PM
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Ryven posted...
They dont like the idea that you're 'over them'. Thats basically it.


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brestugo
07/14/23 6:24:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHl8kwTNhxk


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lolife67
07/14/23 6:25:16 PM
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darkmaian23 posted...
Jealousy or insecurity about the value or your previous relationship, I'd wager.
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Glob
07/14/23 6:27:17 PM
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The last time a partner and I broke up I went and had sex with two girls in the same day (as each other, not the break up) just to see if I could. It helped me get it out of my system.
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Sufferedphoneix
07/14/23 8:08:50 PM
#26:


NoxObscuras posted...
My guy have you ever been in a long relationship before? They know full well what a break up means. Doesn't change the fact that it's hard to just immediately move on.

Sometimes you've been done way before it's officially done

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Revelation34
07/17/23 12:24:08 AM
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k1zzl3_82 posted...
I dated a friend once. We both worked at the same bar. When we broke up, she said I was not allowed to sleep with any customer that came in the bar, or any of the bartenders, nor could I bring any girl to the bar we mutually worked at. She however could sleep with anyone she pleased or bring whomever to the bar. Needless to say I thought her stipulations were bullshit and I did what I wanted. There was a girl I met at another bar and we started talking. She applied to the bar that I worked at and got hired. Immediately my friend started talking shit saying she didnt like her for whatever reason. She said that I better not go out with her. I told her that we were already talking and she said I had to break it off or I am not a loyal friend. We kind of ended our friendship right there

She sounds like a moron.

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VeggetaX
07/17/23 12:30:49 AM
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Prolly have nothing to do with this topic but some do be moving on quick as off after a relationship. Makes them look suspicious

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Revelation34
07/17/23 12:45:53 AM
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VeggetaX posted...
Prolly have nothing to do with this topic but some do be moving on quick as off after a relationship. Makes them look suspicious


What if they call you ugly?

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Kamen_Rider_Blade
07/17/23 12:51:33 AM
#30:


LordMarshal posted...
Thats what a "break up" means! Ugh. I hate this. Like i dont know how interpret it any other way. Means you can fuck others now.

Btw: They WERE on a break.
Ross was right, Rachel was wrong.

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sonichu
07/19/23 12:43:50 AM
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My ex was so certain she would get a bf right after we broke up that 3 months later when she got word I was going on a day date with a girl she called me all crying saying she wanted me back and made a mistake etc.

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Dark_Arbron
07/19/23 12:46:50 AM
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Revelation34 posted...
What if they call you ugly?

Not as bad as being called ugky.
Thats when shots have been fired.

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Notti
07/21/23 7:42:21 AM
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Guys get jealous, women get jealous.

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Vyrulisse
07/21/23 7:43:56 AM
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LordMarshal posted...
Thats what a "break up" means! Ugh. I hate this. Like i dont know how interpret it any other way. Means you can fuck others now.

Btw: They WERE on a break.
Ross was absolutely right about that.

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ai123
07/21/23 7:47:50 AM
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It's just part of human behaviour. Basic jealousy. It's not nice, but both sexes do it.

Don't tell me you've never seen a guy pissed at his ex for moving on.

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Jiek_Fafn
07/21/23 7:55:13 AM
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I've only experienced this if I immediately bang their bff or a girl that I was friends with beforehand.

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HANGtheDJ_86
07/21/23 8:00:33 AM
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They're testing you to see how you truly feel about it

And it sounds like you failed said test

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famfam
07/21/23 8:01:57 AM
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the bigger question is why are you telling your ex about who you are having sex with?
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Guns_of_Verdun
07/22/23 5:44:40 PM
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famfam posted...
the bigger question is why are you telling your ex about who you are having sex with?
We're still friends and have mutal friends. We know what each other are up too.

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Sufferedphoneix
07/23/23 7:06:34 AM
#40:


Guns_of_Verdun posted...
We're still friends and have mutal friends. We know what each other are up too.

And sometimes they stalk your social media too.

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Carljank
07/23/23 7:14:33 AM
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Depends on who did the breaking up because she might not be over you even if you dumped her. If she broke with you or it was mutual then she's being a bit ridiculous.

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MrMallard
07/23/23 7:15:49 AM
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If it's like 48 hours after you break up, that's one thing. Someone might think you were fucking around behind their back for longer than the break-up, or it could just be way too fresh and they feel like you never really loved them. From that point on I'd say you're getting further and further away from that feeling.

If it's like a month later and they're guilt tripping you over being in another relationship, then yeah I'd say they're just angry, bitter people who haven't gotten over it and are fucked off that you did.
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Sufferedphoneix
07/23/23 7:17:10 AM
#43:


Carljank posted...
Depends on who did the breaking up because she might not be over you even if you dumped her. If she broke with you or it was mutual then she's being a bit ridiculous.

Yeah but some girls want you to fight to get them back/keep them etc.

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Carljank
07/23/23 7:18:20 AM
#44:


Sufferedphoneix posted...
Yeah but some girls want you to fight to get them back/keep them etc.
I guess but that's pretty manipulative so I dunno...

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Sufferedphoneix
07/23/23 7:20:48 AM
#45:


Carljank posted...
I guess but that's pretty manipulative so I dunno...

Not justifying it just trying to offer an explanation on why it can happen. It's definitely a person I'd want to avoid. If someone wants me to fight to keep them they ought to be doing the same

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Carljank
07/23/23 7:21:41 AM
#46:


Sufferedphoneix posted...
Not justifying it just trying to offer an explanation on why it can happen. It's definitely a person I'd want to avoid. If someone wants me to fight to keep them they ought to be doing the same
Agreed

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lilORANG
07/23/23 7:25:36 AM
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How did she find this out anyways?

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Revelation34
07/24/23 10:41:40 AM
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totalnerdken posted...
I feel like that's a very normal, human reaction. I see guys getting salty at that all the time too.


It is most definitely not normal.

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twanderer
07/24/23 10:43:52 AM
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