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Garabandal 07/03/23 11:55:24 PM #1: |
Im addressing several posts that have come across my dash. https://radtransfem.tumblr.com/post/36133450973/troubles-with-kinkfetish-imo Is it just me or does this read dangerously close to how homophobic Christians talk about LGBT people? --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ricemills 07/03/23 11:58:37 PM #2: |
No kink shaming, bro --- You have the right to remain silent. Anything you posted will be misquoted, then be used against you. http://error1355.com/ce/Ricemills.html ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Super_Slash 07/03/23 11:59:59 PM #3: |
They raise some decent points but some of it does sound like hogwash. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Anteaterking 07/04/23 12:00:40 AM #4: |
People want society to be less puritanical and what better way than *increasing* kink shaming. People should treat my (fill in the blank) kink the same way I treat people who choose to be Eagles fans. --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doe 07/04/23 12:01:57 AM #5: |
Garabandal posted... deconstruct WHY they have these fetishesWell this starts from the assumption that a fetish concretely and logically fills some psychological need for the fetishist, particularly in an unhealthy manner. You need a lot of evidence to establish this, which has not been provided. --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 12:05:28 AM #6: |
Anteaterking posted... People want society to be less puritanical and what better way than *increasing* kink shaming.I'd assume you're joking but you have some serious hangups with kink. I've regularly seen you talk about your dislike for kink in general --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GuerrillaSoldier 07/04/23 12:16:04 AM #7: |
shame is learned --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TaylorHeinicke 07/04/23 12:20:51 AM #8: |
Ok --- St. Louis Battlehawks (7-3) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Anteaterking 07/04/23 12:33:12 AM #9: |
Garabandal posted... I'd assume you're joking but you have some serious hangups with kink. I've regularly seen you talk about your dislike for kink in general I went back and looked and I could only find three posts in the last year about it in other people's topics. Maybe you've just been in those three topics? My only "hang up" with kinks is people who treat them as being on the same level as sexual orientation, gender identity, etc. and get defensive when someone thinks it's weird that they want to be smashed by a giant woman. --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 12:35:55 AM #10: |
Anteaterking posted... I went back and looked and I could only find three posts in the last year about it in other people's topics. Maybe you've just been in those three topics?I don't think anyone's telling you that you can't find it weird. Just don't be an asshole to someone over it --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 4:21:49 PM #12: |
I guess at the end of the day i wonder if kink is even compatible with progressive politics. Since most feminist theory is anti-kink --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ChocoboMog123 07/04/23 4:36:27 PM #13: |
100% this person got into kink through 50 Shades. Doe posted... But for many people with fetishes, they discover that fetish before they ever had sex; for fetishes that do not need to explicitly involve a sex act, I've heard of people having a sexual awakening to it before even knowing they're also regular sexual attracted to peopleThat's me. I discovered my fetish somewhere between ages 2-5. That's more important to me than "vanilla" sexual attraction. It's just an unchangeable facet of who I am. You can have a "growing desensitization" to just about anything. Vanilla sex, another person, hobbies, jobs, family members, food, and so on, as well as vices like alcohol and drugs. Having that experience doesn't mean it's somehow bad for you, you just need to come to terms with how it's affecting your life and how you'd like it to change (or not). Garabandal posted... I guess at the end of the day i wonder if kink is even compatible with progressive politics. Since most feminist theory is anti-kinkWhy? Kink can be just as egalitarian as anything else. --- "You're sorely underestimating the power of nostalgia goggles." - adjl http://www.smbc-comics.com/comics/20110218.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 4:57:47 PM #14: |
ChocoboMog123 posted... 100% this person got into kink through 50 Shades.Many feminists argue that kink, particularly BDSM, eroticizes domination/submission and that's bad for obvious reasons. And the pro-kink feminist arguments have never convinced me otherwise no matter how much I want them to. --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 4:59:28 PM #15: |
Garabandal posted... I guess at the end of the day i wonder if kink is even compatible with progressive politics. Since most feminist theory is anti-kinkThis is stupid. You sound like a redcap. Who rans on "anti kink" but the GoP? Take LGBQT. Pull your pants up TC, your ass, I mean bias is showing. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 5:01:33 PM #16: |
EthanSilver posted... This is stupid.A lot of lesbian feminists are against kink too --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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flussence 07/04/23 5:03:04 PM #17: |
Garabandal posted... I guess at the end of the day i wonder if kink is even compatible with progressive politics. Since most feminist theory is anti-kink don't mistake "loudest" for "most" --- Editor's note: The sound of children screaming has been removed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 5:04:41 PM #18: |
Garabandal posted... A lot of lesbian feminists are against kink tooWho gives a shit. There's gay people against gay people too. Cherry picking incidents is fucking dumb. No progressive of worth is running on that shit. Meanwhile, it's part of the platform on the right. Never you mind random nobodies that can easily be false flags nobody votes for. Clown shoes with this dude. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 07/04/23 5:04:51 PM #19: |
Why is kink a gender issue? Some men are submissive. Some women are submissive. its all good as long as both parties know what theyre getting into and consent. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 5:10:21 PM #21: |
Glob posted... Why is kink a gender issue? Some men are submissive. Some women are submissive.Pretty much. So long as it's two consenting adults, peeps should mind their own business. "Live, and let live." ...and all that. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KitKats 07/04/23 5:10:59 PM #22: |
Garabandal posted... A lot of lesbian feminists are against kink tooLol, just how much time do you spend in lesbian spaces? What a joke. --- her/she ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 5:17:09 PM #23: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Not really. A lot of feminist theory is anti-BDSM https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Against_Sadomasochism --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KitKats 07/04/23 5:18:34 PM #24: |
Garabandal posted... Not really. A lot of feminist theory is anti-BDSMJust stop already, youre out of your depth. edit: that book was published in 1982 --- her/she ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 5:23:31 PM #26: |
KitKats posted... Just stop already, youre out of your depth.Audre Lorde, one of the most cited feminist theorists, was vocally against S/M: https://www.feminist-reprise.org/docs/lordesm.htm --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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flussence 07/04/23 5:24:48 PM #27: |
I think if you try to move the goalposts with a link to a wall of text three times in a row you automatically lose the argument --- Editor's note: The sound of children screaming has been removed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 5:26:03 PM #28: |
You're a clown TC. "Let me take the most niche possible take on a group of people I don't like and slam em with it. I'm so smart and good at coping!" ~ TC probably. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 5:26:35 PM #29: |
EthanSilver posted... You're a clown TC.Where did I say I was criticizing feminism? I'm talking abiut my own personal hangups that I've had for over a decade and people ITT are assuming the worst shit about me --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KitKats 07/04/23 5:27:12 PM #31: |
flussence posted... I think if you try to move the goalposts with a link to a wall of text three times in a row you automatically lose the argumentI dont think he is even reading what he is linking. decontextualize is the word of the day --- her/she ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 5:27:57 PM #32: |
Garabandal posted... I guess at the end of the day i wonder if kink is even compatible with progressive politics. Since most feminist theory is anti-kink Are you low "IQ" enough to to think it only counts as criticizing if you say your criticizing? Because that's not how it works. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 5:30:28 PM #33: |
I'm thinking out loud. I have dom/sub kinks and feminist theory like the stiff I've posted ITT makes me feel like I'm a bad person if I don't repress this shit and go vanilla. But yeah, I'm totally a GOPer --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 5:34:40 PM #35: |
Garabandal posted... I have dom/sub kinks and I keep feeling I'm a bad person if I don't repress this s***.You're not. As long as it's two consenting adults, it doesn't really matter... "Live, and let live." Couldn't name the "objective wrong" in that, if so. Right? Garabandal posted... I'm thinking out loud.If it was legit just "thinking out loud," or "shooting the breeze.." and didn't mean to purposely maliciously stereotype a group of people. Than no worries, nobody really words, or thinks about everything perfectly. Sorry, it's just hard to tell over the internet, who is genuine, or not. Consider me just full of hot gas then and don't worry about it too much. =P ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garabandal 07/04/23 5:34:54 PM #36: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Look it was a dumb generalization to make. Sorry. I sure as hell wasn't trying to bash feminism like everyone ITT is assuming of me. --- Side? I am on nobody's side, because nobody is on my side. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EthanSilver 07/04/23 5:43:29 PM #38: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Tbf, sometimes when peeps get "attacked," going on the defense is kind of an instinct that one thinks not much of, just does. "Let's use google to back me up.." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doe 07/04/23 5:59:40 PM #40: |
Garabandal posted... Audre Lorde, one of the most cited feminist theorists, was vocally against S/M: https://www.feminist-reprise.org/docs/lordesm.htmThere was a time when Karl Marx's body of work was the most cited in academia, period. --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ChocoboMog123 07/05/23 12:49:09 AM #41: |
A lot of well published feminists are also anti-trans because it "diminishes the experience of women" or some shit, does that make it right? They are judging an issue/people/community without being apart of or understanding it. Most of the arguments you've presented also apply to vanilla sex. Guy penetrates girl IS "patriarchal sexual ideology." How do you resolve that cognitive dissonance? In a community where M/F, F/M, F/F, and M/M are all equally accepted, how is that any less egalitarian than a community which necessarily cordons off mates into pairs? Is a lesbian couple less lesbian for using a strap-on? That's just a step away from the logic used in the essays you linked. If you're into kink, just read the first sentence of this interview, I spent June and July of 1980 in rural Vermont, an idyllic, green, vital world, alive in a short summer season. I teach there summers and winters. One afternoon, Sue (another teacher) and I lay sunbathing on a dock in the middle of a small pond. I suddenly imagined what it would be like to see someone dressed in black leather and chains, trotting through the meadow, as I am accustomed to seeing in my urban neighborhood in San Francisco I started laughing as one of the parameters of the theater of sadomasochism became clear; it is about cities and a created culture, like punk rock, which is sustained by a particularly urban technology.Does that sound like someone who understands the dynamics of kink? Who understands topping from the bottom, safewords, or boundaries? Seriously, if you understand kink just read the article and look at how ridiculously it portrays kink. It has all the understanding of an episode of CSI - maybe less. It's far more concerned with its portrayal in the media, connection to perceptions of lesbianism, and possible personal misunderstanding than it is concerned with what actually happens. And it's pretty fair to attack them for their age considering they're mostly talking about kink culture in their area rather than play that happens behind the bedroom door. But if some old names are going to guilt you for what you like without you actually questioning what they've written, I don't see how I can change that opinion. --- "You're sorely underestimating the power of nostalgia goggles." - adjl http://www.smbc-comics.com/comics/20110218.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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loafy013 07/05/23 1:10:36 AM #42: |
Finally Kink is very, very materialistic. It sure involves owning a lot of STUFF. And a lot of technical know how. Theres very little spontaneous and organic about it.I really like searching out lactation videos. Don't think that involves having a lot of stuff or technical know-how. --- The ball is round, the game lasts 90 minutes. That's fact. Everything else, is theory. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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