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Toonstrack 07/02/23 11:17:11 PM #304:	EthanSilver posted... This is very true. Also, and I don't know how generally true this is... but some people have to "lower" their standards somewhat. Had a friend who, not to be mean, wasn't much of a looker, or even in shape... but wanted to date "model" type girls... which wouldn't be much of an issue, but the dude rejected perfectly fine girls because of "looks." So yeah... Just thought it was worth mentioning. Dude was single for most of the time I saw him. Also, wasn't "loaded.." or didn't have money to fall back on. Though beyond me why you would date someone that wants you for your money. Yeah if you're not living in LA and already conventionally attractive set decent standards and you'll probably find someone eventually. Women are often times way more interested in emotional connection than looks anyway. I see a ton of dudes who aren't all that great looking get people interested. --- This post didn't exist to you until you read it. You willed it into existence in your psyche by choosing to observe it. Thats the power you have. Use it well. <cite>Toonstrack posted [p:974587873] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>EthanSilver posted... </cite><quote>This is very true. Also, and I don't know how generally true this is... but some people have to "lower" their standards somewhat. Had a friend who, not to be mean, wasn't much of a looker, or even in shape... but wanted to date "model" type girls... which wouldn't be much of an issue, but the dude rejected perfectly fine girls because of "looks." So yeah... Just thought it was worth mentioning. Dude was single for most of the time I saw him. Also, wasn't "loaded.." or didn't have money to fall back on. Though beyond me why you would date someone that wants you for your money.</quote>Yeah if you're not living in LA and already conventionally attractive set decent standards and you'll probably find someone eventually.Women are often times way more interested in emotional connection than looks anyway. I see a ton of dudes who aren't all that great looking get people interested.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sillyface_Mcdum 07/02/23 11:17:26 PM #305:	Toonstrack posted... Skull shape ain't the issue. Skin care, weight control, a decent style sense can do wonders. As well as confidence. No, not everyone is gonna look like the above guy. And not every woman is only looking for the above guy either. Self-improvement only takes you so far but anyway, the meme resonates because it's just a fact that the treatment people receive is largely affected by how good-looking they are. Most of that is the face, if we're being honest <cite>Sillyface_Mcdum posted [p:974587878] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Toonstrack posted... </cite><quote>Skull shape ain't the issue.Skin care, weight control, a decent style sense can do wonders. As well as confidence.No, not everyone is gonna look like the above guy. And not every woman is only looking for the above guy either.</quote>Self-improvement only takes you so far but anyway, the meme resonates because it's just a fact that the treatment people receive is largely affected by how good-looking they are. Most of that is the face, if we're being honest</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IceCreamOnStero 07/03/23 4:09:08 AM #306:	Sillyface_Mcdum posted... People keep saying this but offer no solutions, lol. Very much akin to the "uhh, just stop being sad?" advice given to depressed people Dude, privileged men will have been given compliments (validation), them coming in and saying its unimportant is super tone deaf and not helpful. If someone's never been given a compliment by the opposite sex and they're like 30 years old and still a virgin, OF COURSE THEY CRAVE VALIDATION There's literally nothing wrong with needing validation (or love, or belonging, or food, or water) My advice isn't some get rich quick grift, nor is it an attempt at being all holier than thou. I'm just speaking from experience, it being something I've struggled with, and something that's made me much happier and a better person once I overcame it. Yes, its hard and the path isn't clear, but I do think its significantly more helpful than chasing validation from others with glorified "life hacks" --- Dokkan ID: 2365415872 <cite>IceCreamOnStero posted [p:974591098] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Sillyface_Mcdum posted... </cite><quote>People keep saying this but offer no solutions, lol. Very much akin to the "uhh, just stop being sad?" advice given to depressed peopleDude, privileged men will have been given compliments (validation), them coming in and saying its unimportant is super tone deaf and not helpful. If someone's never been given a compliment by the opposite sex and they're like 30 years old and still a virgin, OF COURSE THEY CRAVE VALIDATION There's literally nothing wrong with needing validation (or love, or belonging, or food, or water)</quote>My advice isn't some get rich quick grift, nor is it an attempt at being all holier than thou. I'm just speaking from experience, it being something I've struggled with, and something that's made me much happier and a better person once I overcame it. Yes, its hard and the path isn't clear, but I do think its significantly more helpful than chasing validation from others with glorified "life hacks"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Toonstrack 07/03/23 2:22:13 PM #307:	Sillyface_Mcdum posted... Self-improvement only takes you so far but anyway, the meme resonates because it's just a fact that the treatment people receive is largely affected by how good-looking they are. Most of that is the face, if we're being honest That goes for everyone. Including women lmfao. The meme paints women as a bad guy for doing this when that same guy would probably reject and ugly girl coming onto him. Yes, hot people have it easier to get attention. Like... duh. Thats just life. You gotta work within the framework of that instead of feeling bad you weren't blessed with perfect genes. Because plenty of people with not perfect genes have gotten their dick wet --- This post didn't exist to you until you read it. You willed it into existence in your psyche by choosing to observe it. Thats the power you have. Use it well. <cite>Toonstrack posted [p:974600003] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Sillyface_Mcdum posted... </cite><quote>Self-improvement only takes you so far but anyway, the meme resonates because it's just a fact that the treatment people receive is largely affected by how good-looking they are. Most of that is the face, if we're being honest</quote>That goes for everyone. Including women lmfao. The meme paints women as a bad guy for doing this when that same guy would probably reject and ugly girl coming onto him. Yes, hot people have it easier to get attention. Like... duh. Thats just life. You gotta work within the framework of that instead of feeling bad you weren't blessed with perfect genes. Because plenty of people with not perfect genes have gotten their dick wet</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sillyface_Mcdum 07/03/23 5:17:55 PM #308:	Toonstrack posted... That goes for everyone. Including women lmfao. The meme paints women as a bad guy for doing this when that same guy would probably reject and ugly girl coming onto him. The meme's not about rejection. <cite>Sillyface_Mcdum posted [p:974603313] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Toonstrack posted... </cite><quote>That goes for everyone. Including women lmfao. The meme paints women as a bad guy for doing this when that same guy would probably reject and ugly girl coming onto him.</quote>The meme's not about rejection.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Toonstrack 07/03/23 6:29:10 PM #309:	Sillyface_Mcdum posted... The meme's not about rejection. Yea it is. Its just framing rejection in a similar light to being accused of harassment because Redpillers think that's the same thing. --- This post didn't exist to you until you read it. You willed it into existence in your psyche by choosing to observe it. Thats the power you have. Use it well. <cite>Toonstrack posted [p:974604630] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Sillyface_Mcdum posted... </cite><quote>The meme's not about rejection.</quote>Yea it is. Its just framing rejection in a similar light to being accused of harassment because Redpillers think that's the same thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sillyface_Mcdum 07/03/23 7:12:12 PM #310:	Toonstrack posted... Yea No, look at the last image <cite>Sillyface_Mcdum posted [p:974605452] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Toonstrack posted... </cite><quote>Yea</quote>No, look at the last image</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DepreceV2 07/03/23 8:52:19 PM #311:	AverageDude9 posted... Fresh & Fit taught that men should be having multiple options and that men should be talking with multiple women, rather than focusing on one specific person(when it comes to dating) they've also outlined the big differences between sexes and why men and women tend to look for different things in an ideal relationship. Fresh & Fit have helped give me purpose and strength. I was reading through this and had to stop here. I know you arent unironically hyping up Fresh and Fit. They are a couple of idiots who give men bad advice more often than not. Toxic advice at that --- Atlanta Falcons choking a 28-3 lead in the 3rd qtr: https://youtu.be/gY8exXZgyqc Atlanta Falcons choking a 26-10 lead in the 4th qtr: https://youtu.be/BYJHgyXiwvs <cite>DepreceV2 posted [p:974607464] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>AverageDude9 posted... </cite><quote>Fresh & Fit taught that men should be having multiple options and that men should be talking with multiple women, rather than focusing on one specific person(when it comes to dating) they've also outlined the big differences between sexes and why men and women tend to look for different things in an ideal relationship.Fresh & Fit have helped give me purpose and strength.</quote>I was reading through this and had to stop here. I know you arent unironically hyping up Fresh and Fit. They are a couple of idiots who give men bad advice more often than not. Toxic advice at that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Toonstrack 07/03/23 9:05:07 PM #312:	Sillyface_Mcdum posted... No, look at the last image Yea, read my post --- This post didn't exist to you until you read it. You willed it into existence in your psyche by choosing to observe it. Thats the power you have. Use it well. <cite>Toonstrack posted [p:974607750] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Sillyface_Mcdum posted... </cite><quote>No, look at the last image</quote>Yea, read my post</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sillyface_Mcdum 07/03/23 11:24:24 PM #313:	Toonstrack posted... Yea, read my post no <cite>Sillyface_Mcdum posted [p:974610348] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Toonstrack posted... </cite><quote>Yea, read my post</quote>no</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 07/04/23 1:36:51 AM #314:	One day when Im an old man, Im going to sit back and read this topic. --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:974612117] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>One day when Im an old man, Im going to sit back and read this topic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gatorsPENSbucs 07/04/23 1:42:12 AM #315:	No, but women havent either. Its always been both sides making the first move, were all just led to believe its a guy thing. --- https://imgur.com/ZFt3WwT http://error1355.com/ce/gatorsPENSbucs.html https://i.imgur.com/pqMQZyw.gif <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted [p:974612152] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>No, but women havent either. Its always been both sides making the first move, were all just led to believe its a guy thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 07/04/23 2:23:41 PM #316:	Summary. Now. --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:974620942] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>Summary. Now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Euripides 07/04/23 2:26:28 PM #317:	I only make the third move You know the move I mean ~~The third one~~ --- people who car cars a whip are so cringe <cite>Euripides posted [p:974620993] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>I only make the third moveYou know the move I meanThe third one</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/04/23 2:56:37 PM #318:	dj1200 posted... Summary. Now. Red pills arguing with "nice guys" arguing with trolls arguing with the occasional useful comment --- Currently playing: Final Fantasy XVI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:974621544] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>dj1200 posted... </cite><quote>Summary. Now.</quote>Red pills arguing with "nice guys" arguing with trolls arguing with the occasional useful comment</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AverageDude9 07/04/23 3:27:18 PM #319:	DepreceV2 posted... I was reading through this and had to stop here. I know you arent unironically hyping up Fresh and Fit. They are a couple of idiots who give men bad advice more often than not. Toxic advice at that what bad advice? --- I'm trying to explain a movie made for kids to an adult. I am failing because some adults cannot keep up with really basic things made for kids- Advice Man <cite>AverageDude9 posted [p:974622147] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>DepreceV2 posted... </cite><quote>I was reading through this and had to stop here. I know you arent unironically hyping up Fresh and Fit. They are a couple of idiots who give men bad advice more often than not. Toxic advice at that</quote>what bad advice?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 07/04/23 6:21:11 PM #320:	bsp77 posted... Red pills arguing with "nice guys" arguing with trolls arguing with the occasional useful comment thx. Whats a red pill. Will the urban dictionary teach me? I know the red pill from the matrix but not the slang meaning. --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:974625661] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite><quote>Red pills arguing with "nice guys" arguing with trolls arguing with the occasional useful comment</quote>thx. Whats a red pill. Will the urban dictionary teach me? I know the red pill from the matrix but not the slang meaning. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NatsuSama 07/05/23 9:08:40 AM #321:	dj1200 posted... thx. Whats a red pill. Will the urban dictionary teach me? I know the red pill from the matrix but not the slang meaning. Slang has unfortunately taken over the actual meaning of red and blue pill with that Tate shit. The real meaning of red and blue pill is exactly the matrix meaning you know. So now you have to unfortunately clarify you aren't talking about the version that was morphed into misogyny. --- WAAAH, I CAN'T BEAT THIS GUY WITH HIS TACTICS, I'M GONNA CALL IT SPAM AND CONDEMN HIM FOR USING IT <cite>NatsuSama posted [p:974636496] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>dj1200 posted... </cite><quote>thx. Whats a red pill. Will the urban dictionary teach me? I know the red pill from the matrix but not the slang meaning.</quote>Slang has unfortunately taken over the actual meaning of red and blue pill with that Tate shit.The real meaning of red and blue pill is exactly the matrix meaning you know. So now you have to unfortunately clarify you aren't talking about the version that was morphed into misogyny.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IceCreamOnStero 07/05/23 9:23:39 AM #322:	NatsuSama posted... Slang has unfortunately taken over the actual meaning of red and blue pill with that Tate shit. The real meaning of red and blue pill is exactly the matrix meaning you know. So now you have to unfortunately clarify you aren't talking about the version that was morphed into misogyny. Hehe --- Dokkan ID: 2365415872 <cite>IceCreamOnStero posted [p:974636688] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>NatsuSama posted... </cite><quote>Slang has unfortunately taken over the actual meaning of red and blue pill with that Tate shit.The real meaning of red and blue pill is exactly the matrix meaning you know. So now you have to unfortunately clarify you aren't talking about the version that was morphed into misogyny.</quote>Hehe</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
greenjeans 07/05/23 9:24:42 AM #323:	IceCreamOnStero posted... Hehe Heehee <cite>greenjeans posted [p:974636712] in Have men s... [t:80495456]...</cite> <quote>IceCreamOnStero posted... </cite><quote>Hehe</quote>Heehee</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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