Poll of the Day > I think I angered one of my co-workers today.

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It was near closing, and as such, everyone on our team was heading to the lockers to stuff our things in. The co-worker in question entered first. I followed soon after. Once I entered the locker room, he let out a sigh indicating his disgust, slammed his locker door, then slammed the exit on his way out. I assume that this is because I have a tendency to never acknowledge him whenever we are in the same room, unless the rest of the team is there. I tend never to exchange a hello with him in passing; and as I've reiterated before, I tend not to do so with virtually anyone else in the building. Anyway, his feelings were the only thing in my mind as I drove back home. How I had thoroughly neglected him, and hurt his feelings still lingers in my mind. I would feel better if his actions indicated disappointment that he had not left before I had entered. But now all I feel is guilt. I just despise myself thoroughly for it; I'm just too shy. It's all too nerve-wracking. The only time I care about when others feel bad, is when I am the cause of it. I will not deny that I am selfish in this respect. I just don't know what to do anymore with these tiring social interactions and such. What say you, board?

I must have these answers.

It sounds like coincidental timing and you probably just walked in when he was having a moment honestly

OhhhJa posted...

coincidental

Maybe. I tend to assume that I am to blame whenever something bad happens.

Also, he probably doesn't care that you don't greet him. I know i couldn't care less about that kind of shit

I have to disagree with the the other particular user that posted in this topic. I think you are correct in registering his disgust with you. You should feel ashamed of yourself and should likely dwell on the knowledge that this coworker now despises your presence.

EclairReturns posted...

Maybe. I tend to assume that I am to blame whenever something bad happens.

Dude same!

Were just too hard on ourselves

OhhhJa posted...

It sounds like coincidental timing and you probably just walked in when he was having a moment honestly

This is probably the truth

I doubt it had anything to do with you. And just in case you don't know always ignore cacciato. He thinks bullying is cool.

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That's not the the truth and you know it. I disagreed with someone not pressing charges, that's hardly bullying.

Man, either zang truly can't read or just loves creating false interpretations to perpetuate the lies he tells.

EclairReturns posted...

What say you, board?

Seems like he's just had a shitty shift or something. I don't acknowledge many people and haven't had anyone get mad about it unless they were actually talking to me. The person could have spoke to you first if they had a problem.

Fuck em

Work is stupid and accepting a job doesn't mean you agreed to be friends with anyone

SunWuKung420 posted...

I doubt it had anything to do with you. And just in case you don't know always ignore cacciato. He thinks bullying is cool.

Didnt you make fun of someone for having a seizure?

Im sure you had nothing to do with being in purgatory basically the last 6 to 9 months.

Cacciato posted...
Also seeing a lot of talk about him getting purgd for going off on a rape victim, not that I was around to see it. I just figured it was another one of those drunken tirades that he is so well known for

Pretty sure that kickstarted it. Then he came back and threw a shit fit and got the boot again in less than 24 hours.

he told a victim of rape they shouldnt press charges?

holy shit wtf

pikakaeru posted...

holy shit wtf

There was no attacking and zang is still defending a rapist.

Ah. So this topic has been hijacked. Good stuff.

SunWuKung420 posted...

There was no attacking and zang is still defending a rapist.

Why did you ignore the seizure question?