Current Events > Paramore's Hayley Williams apologizes: "I abused my platform"

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ZannoL
06/05/23 9:03:52 PM
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Do you agree with her that cancel culture doesn't create good dialogue? That all it creates is even more resentment?



https://variety.com/2023/music/news/hayley-williams-apologizes-shaming-fans-paramore-1235633830/

Paramores Hayley Williams has expressed regret and apologized for the way she removed two arguing concert-goers from one of the bands recent shows in a pensive note uploaded to Discord. I am sorry for whatever shame or embarrassment I may have caused you, she wrote.

Footage of the confrontation at the Madison Square Garden gig showed the spotlighted attendees at a loss for words when Williams told them they needed to find somewhere else to take care of that shit because thats not happening here tonight, this is our house.

Williams has routinely dedicated a portion of the bands This is Why tour stops to encourage fans to be themselves in the safety and comfortability of their shows, and she wasted no time in making a similar statement at the bands appearance in New York.

Yes, I will embarrass both of you. Both of you need to find somewhere else to take care of that shit because thats not happening here, Williams told the misbehaving fans.

In the Discord statement posted days after the altercation, Williams laid out her regrets in writing after having seen the videos that have flooded apps like TikTok where fans and spectators applauded Williams and the band for removing the fans from the show.

Without the opportunity for a proper back and forth (and with a looming, strict show-curfew in the back of my mind), I bared my teeth like a mother wolf, Williams wrote.

I embarrassed the hell out of these two people, without truly knowing what the situation was. Then, as a group all 25,000 of us or so exiled these people from the show in record time.

She said she had not been able to shake the feeling that I abused my responsibility and my platform in that moment, and proceeded to personally apologize to the pair.

When I saw their faces in the video, I didnt see the smug smiles that some commenters criticized them for, she said. I saw embarrassment and I cried for them. Im telling you, I havent stopped thinking about it. So, if you are those two people I am sorry for whatever shame or embarrassment I may have caused you. Im not telling you that its perfectly fine to act entitled or ignorant at a show Im just saying that Im sorry that I handled the whole situation like the arbiter of the same type of cancel culture that doesnt often teach or lead in any productive way.

The post also touched on Williams own personal experiences that she says triggered her initial response, along with the pressure to protect the familial spaces we are co-creating with audiences around the world, she said. It feels like my duty to help people feel a sense of safety and belonging enough to let go and be completely present at a Paramore show.

Elsewhere in the post, Williams also referenced a statement she told her audiences while headlining Adjacent Music Festival last weekend. Im very fucking comfortable talking politics, and if you vote for [Republican presidential candidate] Ron DeSantis, youre fucking dead to me, she said at the time.

Reflecting on the inflamed statement, Williams said: I hate that the only thing I really know to say to people I deem racist or bigoted in any way is youre dead to me when I know that message isnt the kind thats going to change a hateful heart.

Looking ahead, Williams closed her note by reminding her fans that she doesnt want us to have to stop a show for physical aggression ever again, and said she would still have a person removed if necessary. Ill just try with all my heart not to make it seem like some biblical era public execution next time.

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ZannoL
06/05/23 9:06:27 PM
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Shes seems super intelligent and self-aware.

Props to her for her maturity.
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Lairen
06/05/23 9:07:40 PM
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She sounds like a complete idiot....

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DD_Divine
06/05/23 9:07:55 PM
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She was right the first time

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CruelBuffalo
06/05/23 9:08:33 PM
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They the couple that was being rude and pushing everyone right?
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VirtuousWrath
06/05/23 9:08:45 PM
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Newest album was so bad she's taking it out on fans

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DarkChozoGhost
06/05/23 9:09:45 PM
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What we they doing?

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rexcrk
06/05/23 9:13:23 PM
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Shes hot so its ok.


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Kombucha
06/05/23 9:13:24 PM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
What we they doing?

can't believe i wasted my time looking this up but here

https://youtu.be/4YvN3vZOShQ

she's just over-analyzing the situation and trying to go back on doing the right thing by kicking two idiots out of a show

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ForsakenHermit
06/05/23 9:13:38 PM
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Cancel culture has its uses but it is misused in instances when trying to reform or correct someone would be better.

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au_gold
06/05/23 9:14:39 PM
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Hows her ass?

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KaZooo
06/05/23 9:22:50 PM
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Kombucha posted...
can't believe i wasted my time looking this up but here

https://youtu.be/4YvN3vZOShQ

she's just over-analyzing the situation and trying to go back on doing the right thing by kicking two idiots out of a show
Maybe at worst she hung on it a bit long, but generally she seems to just say more than she needs to before moving on in that sequence..

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lilORANG
06/05/23 9:36:57 PM
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Thought this was going to be about bringing that politician on stage to yell "fuck Ron desantis" lol

Glad it's just something mundane like this. Hayley is cool.

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viewmaster_pi
06/05/23 9:41:17 PM
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this is why i don't leave the house

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itachi15243
06/05/23 9:42:12 PM
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Is Paramore making a come back or something?

I've hardly heard them spoken about in the last 10 or so years until now. Haley Williams is cool though

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Turbam
06/05/23 9:44:58 PM
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itachi15243 posted...
Is Paramore making a come back or something?

I've hardly heard them spoken about in the last 10 or so years until now. Haley Williams is cool though
I'm almost positive that they just put a new album out?
Maybe that's why.

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JKwaffle
06/05/23 9:48:32 PM
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DD_Divine posted...
She was right the first time


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LightHawKnight
06/05/23 10:13:55 PM
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DD_Divine posted...
She was right the first time


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