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Kitt
05/31/23 7:46:08 PM
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And now I think I don't want to see them like that anymore...

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Requiem
05/31/23 7:46:48 PM
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You shouldn't have gotten her pregnant, then.

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DrizztLink
05/31/23 7:46:49 PM
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Close your eyes.

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bnui_ransder
05/31/23 7:47:20 PM
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It sucks for everyone, but if that's your genuine feelings....

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Kitt
05/31/23 7:47:39 PM
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Requiem posted...
You shouldn't have gotten her pregnant, then.
I'm not sure that's how it works.

DrizztLink posted...
Close your eyes.
Shit, I should have though of that!

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wackyteen
05/31/23 7:48:37 PM
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Drastic weight change? Like 30+ lbs since the start of the year?

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Requiem
05/31/23 7:48:46 PM
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Seriously, though, if you do think that person is gaining unreasonable amounts of weight in a short amount of time, that person may be going through personal issues or have a medical issues that needs to be looked at.

So.... probably not the best time to abandon that person.

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KINDERFELD
05/31/23 7:48:57 PM
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Tc just be happy someone wants your shameful wiener.

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ironman2009
05/31/23 7:49:02 PM
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Slap her ass and say you can fit so many 'her favorite food' in here

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NeonTentacles
05/31/23 7:49:33 PM
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lol completely reasonable. You just gotta think of a good excuse to jet out tho >_>

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ironman2009
05/31/23 7:50:24 PM
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Requiem posted...
Seriously, though, if you do think that person is gaining unreasonable amounts of weight in a short amount of time, that person may be going through personal issues or have a medical issues that needs to be looked at.

So.... probably not the best time to abandon that person.

Nah if you're just dickin her down you can leave whenever. If you care then ask about it.

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havean776
05/31/23 7:50:28 PM
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Requiem posted...
Seriously, though, if you do think that person is gaining unreasonable amounts of weight in a short amount of time, that person may be going through personal issues or have a medical issues that needs to be looked at.

So.... probably not the best time to abandon that person.
Yeah most weight gain is a very slow change so you barely notice it until you look at old pictures.
If it's happening fast I think you should talk with them about it.

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Nirvanas_Nox
05/31/23 7:50:45 PM
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Requiem posted...
Seriously, though, if you do think that person is gaining unreasonable amounts of weight in a short amount of time, that person may be going through personal issues or have a medical issues that needs to be looked at.

So.... probably not the best time to abandon that person.

This. Don't just give up on this person because they are gaining weight. There might be some other reason for it. Maybe ask about it first before you go to the nuclear option

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Kitt
05/31/23 7:53:31 PM
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wackyteen posted...
Drastic weight change? Like 30+ lbs since the start of the year?
Put it like this. She use to go to the gym regularly and played a sport on the side and was in pretty good shape overall. I think she took a break some time between January and February, and that "break" basically just went on and on now she's very visibly getting up there in weight

Requiem posted...
Seriously, though, if you do think that person is gaining unreasonable amounts of weight in a short amount of time, that person may be going through personal issues or have a medical issues that needs to be looked at.

So.... probably not the best time to abandon that person.
She's a nice, sweet person. I'd still like to be friends with her and hang out, but as far as sexual attraction goes; yeah...

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_Angel_
05/31/23 8:09:31 PM
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tell her you're at a point in your life where you need to be alone to figure out who you wanna be and shit

wear a no fat chicks shirt while you do that

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AloneIBreak
05/31/23 8:10:28 PM
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Is the fat going to her feet?

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NeonTentacles
05/31/23 8:10:56 PM
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_Angel_ posted...
wear a no fat chicks shirt while you do that

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_Angel_
05/31/23 8:14:59 PM
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Neon, my guy

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NeonTentacles
05/31/23 8:15:28 PM
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Kitt
05/31/23 8:17:14 PM
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AloneIBreak posted...
Is the fat going to her feet?
Genuinely, yes. Developing cankles and whatever the arm equivalent is called. Wrarms?

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ironman2009
05/31/23 8:17:40 PM
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Yeah time to shit or get off the pot then

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bfslick50
05/31/23 8:27:29 PM
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Kitt posted...
Put it like this. She use to go to the gym regularly and played a sport on the side and was in pretty good shape overall. I think she took a break some time between January and February, and that "break" basically just went on and on now she's very visibly getting up there in weight

That's not that long of a break. I mean I'm sure she put on weight in that time, but it's unlikely she shifted from fit to obese in that short of a time frame. If so then something deeper is going on. You may have unrealistic expectations but at the same time if you don't want to be with her anymore then that's all there is to it. Time to break up.

She's a nice, sweet person. I'd still like to be friends with her and hang out, but as far as sexual attraction goes; yeah...

That's up to her, and awesome if you can make it work out, but don't count on it.

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NeonTentacles
05/31/23 8:29:48 PM
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I remember reading a topic someone posted on CE where after they got engaged to their gf, they gained like 70 lbs afterwards and he was thinking of breaking it off >_> I don't remember what he ended up doing.

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wackyteen
05/31/23 8:34:15 PM
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There is this as well.

Don't be mean or harsh. Sometimes we put on weight and aren't really aware of it. If we have someone we trust make us aware of it in a productive, non-judgemental manner then it can help us get back on the (right) path

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Gobstoppers12
05/31/23 8:38:16 PM
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You should passively aggressively start gaining weight, too, just to see if they say anything about it. Then you can make it about you instead of them but still get your point across.

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Kitt
05/31/23 8:47:28 PM
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wackyteen posted...
Don't be mean or harsh. Sometimes we put on weight and aren't really aware of it. If we have someone we trust make us aware of it in a productive, non-judgemental manner then it can help us get back on the (right) path
Yeah, I don't want to be mean or anything. I think she's aware of her weight gain to a point. She makes references to it here and there. I know she's also talked about being overweight in the past and that her goal for a while was to slim down more/maintain where she currently was.
I don't doubt she'll get back into working out again eventually. But man, at the moment, I just feel like I want to break it off here and just be friends.

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YourBestFrenemy
05/31/23 8:54:12 PM
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Just tell her what you're telling us. You need to respect her enough to be truthful. It doesn't mean things still can't work out, (no pun intended).

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nativengine
05/31/23 8:56:41 PM
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Bail

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AloneIBreak
05/31/23 8:56:57 PM
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YourBestFrenemy posted...
Just tell her what you're telling us. You need to respect her enough to be truthful. It doesn't mean things still can't work out, (no pun intended).
Exactly, just be like youve gained weight and now I dont want to see you like that and youre getting cankles and the arm equivalent of cankles

Shell understand.

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Requiem
05/31/23 9:01:28 PM
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nativengine posted...
Bail

How well did that work for you, senator?

Anyways, if you're her friend, as a decent human being, I think you at least owe it to her to express your concerns for her health and whatever your decision may be.


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AI_TechGam3FAQS
05/31/23 9:05:50 PM
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Offer to go work out with them

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bfslick50
05/31/23 9:15:07 PM
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Requiem posted...
How well did that work for you, senator?

Anyways, if you're her friend, as a decent human being, I think you at least owe it to her to express your concerns for her health and whatever your decision may be.

Depends on where shes at. If it is about her health then yea but if its about her hotness Shes probably not in the range of medical concern. For all we know she couldve been underweight beforehand. Pretending its about her health is very manipulative if its someone he respects.

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YourBestFrenemy
05/31/23 9:15:34 PM
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AloneIBreak posted...
Exactly, just be like youve gained weight and now I dont want to see you like that and youre getting cankles and the arm equivalent of cankles

Shell understand.

Tact is a thing that exists.

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Kitt
05/31/23 9:18:08 PM
#37:


AI_TechGam3FAQS posted...
Offer to go work out with them
We use to do that semi-regularly

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SwordMaster13X
05/31/23 10:08:44 PM
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How did the way you look at her change so drastically over the past couple of months?

like how much weight was gained that it just got bad?

while weight might be one thing, is there anything else that changed that got you thinking about this? Is it weight alone?

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Kitt
05/31/23 11:17:58 PM
#39:


SwordMaster13X posted...
How did the way you look at her change so drastically over the past couple of months?

like how much weight was gained that it just got bad?

while weight might be one thing, is there anything else that changed that got you thinking about this? Is it weight alone?
She gained a lot of weight, and over the past few months. Aside from that, over time I suppose I've just been leaning more towards wanting to be her friend in general. I guess this was the thing that really solidified it.

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Nirvanas_Nox
06/01/23 1:35:38 AM
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Kitt posted...
Put it like this. She use to go to the gym regularly and played a sport on the side and was in pretty good shape overall. I think she took a break some time between January and February, and that "break" basically just went on and on now she's very visibly getting up there in weight

She's a nice, sweet person. I'd still like to be friends with her and hang out, but as far as sexual attraction goes; yeah...

If that's the case just break up with her but NEVER mention it's because of her gaining weight. That break doesn't sound that long though so if she's put on that kind of weight there's definitely an underlying issue she's not addressing.

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deoxxys
06/01/23 1:39:35 AM
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AI_TechGam3FAQS posted...
Offer to go work out with them


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Kitt
06/01/23 4:10:32 AM
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^ We use to do that semi-regularly.

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Questionmarktarius
06/01/23 4:17:26 AM
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I was 105 in high school, 235 now.

Humans get large over time. That's what we do, especially in decent countries where food is infinite.
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Kitt
06/01/23 12:11:19 PM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
I was 105 in high school, 235 now.

Humans get large over time. That's what we do, especially in decent countries where food is infinite.
That sounds more like a you problem, tbh.

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SwordMaster13X
06/01/23 12:42:27 PM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
I was 105 in high school, 235 now.

Humans get large over time. That's what we do, especially in decent countries where food is infinite.

how tall are you?

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Aztex
06/01/23 1:58:45 PM
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130 in high school, I'm 140 now that was 16 years ago my weight gain is muscle mostly with a bit of fat if you even want to say that.

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bsp77
06/01/23 2:02:46 PM
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I did that with last major relationship. That was a travesty.

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CSCA33
06/01/23 2:14:30 PM
#49:


I would never end a committed, loving relationship simply over weight gain. But thats just me.

It sounds like there are other issues going on that have been ignored and healthy communication is vital. You can only do your part, though, and it takes two to tango.

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