Current Events > Dating apps are trash

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When I was in my mid 20s and broke and could barely afford my apartment, I had absolute no problems getting dates. I didn't lie about who I was or pretend to have money either. A lot of the dates I backed away from after a while because there weren't enough similar interests. And I have gone on dates who did share similar interests. I've even went on a couple dates with an extremely cute girl who was a bigger gamer than me.

As women, you all absolutely have a ton of options. A fat ugly woman has far more options to meet and date men, compared to a fat and ugly guy. Women are born with value. Men need to create it by shaping up their personality and how they talk to people. Getting a stable job, and home, etc. A man needs to fill up a bunch of prerequestics in order to date a woman. It's the womans job to make sure she provides value to him in order to keep him because men like exercising options

The dangerous things just seems like a victim mindset. Men are the victims of violent crime too from other men. If I walk in a street, I'm still susceptible to being robbed or jumped or killed

Dating isn't the same thing as someone who actually loves or cares about you. Keeping or maintaining the relationship is a diff story and if you're a mid 20's broke dude, the woman is going to get tired and leave for a better option(someone who makes more money)

Sex with strangers is often times unsatisfying. We have an easier time having an orgasm on our own

Getting potentially naked with..? Being alone with..? Yeah, that's why caution and filtering is so important. That's why this argument of yours is weak and doesn't stand on it's own. It's, quite frankly, boring. I've defeated these arguments before. I've posted pages of links to data that back up my statements. You're rehashing tired and defeated arguments that don't have any basis in reality.

I know a man can easily overpower me and I'm aware rape statistics are pretty high so if someone raises any red flags I'll bail out and try my chances elsewhere" is just being safe.

Yep. Full of shit.

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I cant take folks seriously who say men have it harder.

Like stop dating online. Or in Miami.

In the dating market, men absolutely have it harder.

And no, "stop dating online" isn't an option. Cold approaching women irl can have you put in jail or accused of being a predator if you're not good looking.

It wouldn't matter if I "win" or "lose" some dumb gamefaqs debate, the reality is that men have it harder than women in modern dating, and as a result, men must deal with that and become the best version of themselves that they can be(like making tons of $$$)

Has it ever occurred to you that maybe the fact that women arent into you is down to being an insufferable fantasist who wont stop spouting laughable nonsense?

Ive never struggled to get girls and Ive only been a high earner for about 7% of my adult life. At times Ive been absolutely broke.

There men out there who are short or poor or fat or whatever other excuse you want to lean on who have got themselves partners. Yes, being tall is an advantage, as is being in shape (though if youre not that is on you) or being wealthy, but other people are able to overcome not ticking all these boxes. Regularly. Its really common.

The game isnt rigged against you. Youre just a bad player. You like to put the blame everywhere but yourself, but you are the common factor in all your failed attempts at a relationship.

An average woman has a better chance of getting laid than an average man.

Its like, dudes can only think about ease of sex and just stop thinking there.

You literally just proved my point. Women generally don't care about men. Women's standards tend to be that the guy must make 6 figures, be taller(or avg height), have a good personality, be well kept, and have a bunch of hobbies.

On the flip side, Women don't need to make anywhere near as much effort. Most women don't care about a woman having a career. Because as a woman, you automatically get attention and options. Even some of the least attractive women can get a man/

There is no bad player. There is only facts and reality. Women go for the best option. If you're a guy, you be the best you can be. Bringing in short or someone whose broke doesn't make much sense here. Since said guy will have dramatically less options compared to a normal woman.

Where do you get these statistics because literally everyone hates dating apps, despite their gender. Sounds like something someone was paid to promote.

*refutes you*
You: you just proved my point!

No, I didnt, and to claim so is moronic.

You claim that women are only after wealthy, tall and all those other criteria. I point out that theres loads of people who dont fit those criteria, including myself for most of my life, who do not have the problems you claim they should have. You keep harping on about reality but youre incredibly detached from it.

Put it this way: any woman who saw how you talk in this thread would have no interest in you, not because of some sort of impossible standards of women, but because youre fucking annoying.

*refutes you*
You: you just proved my point!

No, I didnt, and to claim so is moronic.

You claim that women are only after wealthy, tall and all those other criteria. I point out that theres loads of people who dont fit those criteria, including myself for most of my life, who do not have the problems you claim they should have. You keep harping on about reality but youre incredibly detached from it.

Put it this way: any woman who saw how you talk in this thread would have no interest in you, not because of some sort of impossible standards of women, but because youre fucking annoying.

Women don't care about most men. You proved my point by labeling a lot of guys as creepy or dangerous.

The terms 'honor' and integrity are specifically tied to men because that's how they are grown and told to be.

Women go after better options because women want the best. Men can separate emotions after sex. Women cant

That's the equivalent to a fish telling a fisherman how to fish

Men know how to attract woman because we are told from a young age on what they want. Which is someone who dresses well. Someone who can have a conversation. Someone who doesn't come across as a weirdo irl. Someone who has money and brings some sort of value. Along with being taller, being assertive and being masculine A woman can't tell a man how to attract a woman because she isn't going out there attracting or approaching men or woman.

A man needs to know how to attract a woman.A woman doesn't need To know how to attract a man.

Women will say that a man should talk to a woman in a grocery store. But this is bad advice because it's socially unaccefor men to approach women coldly