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the_pika 03/02/23 8:27:00 PM #1: |
I want to talk about something I have been noticing lately they use of they this topic is not about trans individuals. I am fully aware that using they/them is the correct way to refer to trans individuals. This topic is about cis people. imagine there is some dude, with a name such as CisMAGAchadJake or even better, an actual cis, male-born person known everywhere to be cis and male-born, say, Michael Jordan. imagine he makes a topic in CE and gets banned, and someone posts CisMAGAchadJake got banned. then someone replies what did they do? why use they in this case instead of what did he do? I am seeing this usage or them/they more and more and more frequently now, and it wasnt really a common thing a few years ago. why is this happening? Some people get weirdly upset when this question is made (to clarify, I mean in the contest of using they for a single clearly cis individual), and they make present odd reasonings such as Shakespeare did it too or it was this way in the 19th century, which is odd, since they also used words such as thee, thy and thine. I am legit curious ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gamingsince1989 03/02/23 8:28:17 PM #2: |
Easier to just use "they" instead of assuming anything. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smackems 03/02/23 8:28:23 PM #3: |
--- Common sense says it may not taste good, but it'll make a turd. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 03/02/23 8:29:22 PM #4: |
dats bait --- This is signature Not waste of data at all ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sariana21 03/02/23 8:29:27 PM #5: |
Now that the MLA allows it, I figure Ill try to use it to avoid accidental misgendering or outing someone, which could be illegal since Im a teacher in CA. --- ___ Sari, Mom to DS (07/04) and DD (01/08); Pronouns: she/her/hers ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 8:29:57 PM #6: |
Smackems posted... this is what drives me insane. Why is this even considered popcorn? This is about referring to a single clear cis person that considers himself or herself to be the same sex and gender they were born into ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Akagami_Shanks 03/02/23 8:30:07 PM #7: |
sometimes it just rolls off the tongue, also theres a lot of unisex names and its easier than getting corrected. --- yes ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 03/02/23 8:30:48 PM #8: |
the_pika posted... this is what drives me insane. Why is this even considered popcorn? This is about referring to a single clear cis person that considers himself or herself to be the same sex and gender they were born into dats bait --- This is signature Not waste of data at all ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TaylorHeinicke 03/02/23 8:31:09 PM #9: |
Tag --- St. Louis Battlehawks (3-2) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ratchetrockon 03/02/23 8:31:29 PM #10: |
ill just refer to them as they cuz i feel like it --- I'm a Taurus. Currently playing: The Longest Journey series ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 8:31:30 PM #11: |
Dakimakura posted... dats baitBlocked in 5 minutes (posting so u see it) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 03/02/23 8:31:53 PM #12: |
the_pika posted... Blocked in 5 minutes (posting so u see it) Don't be too mad I am calling out your obvious bait. --- This is signature Not waste of data at all ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 03/02/23 8:40:28 PM #13: |
Gamingsince1989 posted... Easier to just use "they" instead of assuming anything. I've stuck my foot in my mouth here like twice, because I default to "he". Im getting better but it doesn't feel good to misspeak and have someone tell you you're doing it intentionally to troll >_>. Lucky for me the person I did it to was super cool about it and didn't try to assume a bunch of reasoning behind it. She didn't have to do that and could of just watched me drown lol --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 8:43:00 PM #14: |
Lost_All_Senses posted... I've stuck my foot in my mouth here like twice, because I default to "he". Im getting better but it doesn't feel good to misspeak and have someone tell you you're doing it intentionally to troll >_>. Lucky for me the person I did it to was super cool about it and didn't try to assume a bunch of reasoning behind it. She didn't have to do that and could of just watched me drown lol why do people get so mad over my question, though? some dude attacked me over it the other day, and now I had to block someone already ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gamingsince1989 03/02/23 8:43:06 PM #15: |
Lost_All_Senses posted... I've stuck my foot in my mouth here like twice, because I default to "he". Im getting better but it doesn't feel good to misspeak and have someone tell you you're doing it intentionally to troll >_>. Lucky for me the person I did it to was super cool about it and didn't try to assume a bunch of reasoning behind it. She didn't have to do that and could of just watched me drown lolI live in Las Vegas, and it's really hard to know what people identify as sometimes, so I learned to just default to "they" when referring to anyone. I won't even ask them what they identify as, they're free to tell me if they choose, but I don't pry into their business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheLiarParadox 03/02/23 8:43:24 PM #16: |
I was raised in a very gossipy family who thought they were being vague, so I never thought twice about this usage. --- Spongebob is not a contraceptive. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 03/02/23 8:47:54 PM #17: |
the_pika posted... why do people get so mad over my question, though? I think it comes off disingenuous? People probably don't understand why it would bother you so much if you're not trying to prove something --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Murphiroth 03/02/23 8:50:04 PM #18: |
the_pika posted... it wasnt really a common thing a few years ago. Yes, it was ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MarcyWarcy 03/02/23 8:50:31 PM #19: |
https://youtu.be/USBq9vKPwn8 --- Looks like this gamer's paradise has turned into a gamer's hell............................................... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 8:52:11 PM #20: |
Lost_All_Senses posted... I think it comes off disingenuous? People probably don't understand why it would bother you so much if you're not trying to prove something perhaps. People are too quick to judge nowadays ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 8:53:09 PM #21: |
Murphiroth posted... Yes, it was alright feel free to show me some 1999 or 2002 examples ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DKBananaSlamma 03/02/23 8:53:36 PM #22: |
Smackems posted... --- Neon >_> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doe 03/02/23 8:54:16 PM #23: |
people who pretend to be incapable of understanding 'they' are so tiresome. Don't engage with it. --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Murphiroth 03/02/23 8:55:08 PM #24: |
the_pika posted... alright feel free to show me some 1999 or 2002 examples Nah ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 8:55:33 PM #25: |
Murphiroth posted... Nah rekt ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 03/02/23 9:00:45 PM #26: |
the_pika posted... perhaps. People are too quick to judge nowadays I agree with that. There's a lot of disingenuous people too tho. So, judging them for being paranoid from those people is also judging too quickly, no? 2 way street --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The-Apostle 03/02/23 9:19:56 PM #27: |
I find it annoying that the commentary team in WWE 2k22 constantly says they/their instead of the wrestler's actual gender. --- http://goo.gl/mnO36O #GoPackGo Not changing sig until EA brings a good create a team mode back to Madden. Started 9/10/2021 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 03/02/23 9:20:51 PM #28: |
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/9/0/AACE4xAADM1O.jpg --- Fate rarely calls on us at a moment of our choosing. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 03/02/23 9:22:48 PM #29: |
Using they to refer to an individual isnt a new thing that came with awareness of trans people, no matter how much some people like to pretend that it is. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gwynevere 03/02/23 9:26:34 PM #30: |
the_pika posted... I am fully aware that using they/them is the correct way to refer to trans individuals.No, the correct way to refer to them is with their preferred pronouns like you would a cis person --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream [She/they] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smackems 03/02/23 9:29:04 PM #31: |
This board actually got me to understand they/them and I'll use em now --- Common sense says it may not taste good, but it'll make a turd. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tripleh213 03/02/23 9:29:40 PM #32: |
Grabs popcorn --- Bucks World Champions 2021 PS4 looks great ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Skype 03/02/23 9:30:28 PM #33: |
Glob posted... Using they to refer to an individual isnt a new thing that came with awareness of trans people, no matter how much some people like to pretend that it is. This. This is pretty common unless you don't talk to people in person...like at all <_< --- Dead websight ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Stallion_Prime 03/02/23 9:33:08 PM #34: |
It's sad that you can't even question ANYthing regarding the subject without someone claiming you're trying to stir shit up. --- -Hunter1534 http://abload.de/img/powercdkcb.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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McMarbles 03/02/23 9:35:09 PM #35: |
and weve reached the whats everyones problem, Im just asking questions part of the thread. --- Currently playing: Stardew Valley (Switch) Never befriend a man in sandals and always measure twice, cut once. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 03/02/23 9:35:51 PM #36: |
I swear this has been explained to you in excruciating detail several times. --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 9:36:16 PM #37: |
Glob posted... Using they to refer to an individual isnt a new thing that came with awareness of trans people, no matter how much some people like to pretend that it is. I didnt say it was. I dont even think thats the case ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 03/02/23 9:36:36 PM #38: |
the_pika posted... I want to talk about something I have been noticing lately they use of they The singular they isn't really uncommon though and I bet you've seen it used in the past a lot, but you have just never noticed it. --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 9:36:42 PM #39: |
Gwynevere posted... No, the correct way to refer to them is with their preferred pronouns like you would a cis person true ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 9:40:21 PM #41: |
Stallion_Prime posted... It's sad that you can't even question ANYthing regarding the subject without someone claiming you're trying to stir shit up. agreed DrizztLink posted... I swear this has been explained to you in excruciating detail several times. exhibit A - this is a lie. Show proof emblem-man posted... The singular they isn't really uncommon though and I bet you've seen it used in the past a lot, but you have just never noticed it. perhaps? Hmmm. [LFAQs-redacted-quote] ok, I hope youre being truthful and think this is the case instead of just being disingenuous ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Turtlebread 03/02/23 9:41:29 PM #42: |
Nothing wrong with a singular they --- http://i.imgur.com/yCW15Zn.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 9:43:26 PM #43: |
Turtlebread posted... Nothing wrong with a singular they I mean why even have all these pronouns then? lets use I for well, I and not-I for everything else. lets get rid of verb tenses then while were at it. Infinitive for everything!!! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 03/02/23 9:45:06 PM #44: |
the_pika posted... exhibit A - this is a lie. Show proof the_pika posted... I mean why even have all these pronouns then?Hard pass on that. --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 9:45:26 PM #45: |
DrizztLink posted... Hard pass on that. so you got no proof, got it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 03/02/23 9:48:34 PM #46: |
the_pika posted... I mean why even have all these pronouns then? Not sure what you're trying to say. Singular they is a grammatical part of English. Using it is not being dismissing of the other pronouns --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate ... Copied to Clipboard!
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the_pika 03/02/23 9:49:57 PM #47: |
emblem-man posted... Not sure what you're trying to say. Singular they is a grammatical part of English. Using it is not being dismissing of the other pronouns but wouldnt he and she be redundant now? They might as well go the way of thine and thee? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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C_Pain 03/02/23 9:50:21 PM #48: |
my girlfriend refers to they as an ominous force that are out to get her --- How quaint. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Axiom 03/02/23 9:50:53 PM #49: |
They as a singular has been used long before you were born. Get over it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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