Current Events > Is it fatphobic to not want to date a fat person?

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DeroIin 12/29/22 12:55:05 PM #1:	Been talking/seeing this girl off Bumble and while shes a nice person, it just affects my attractiveness to her and when it comes to intimacy, as a result, theres been some issues. so is it fatphobic? Am I fatphobic? --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:970482741] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Been talking/seeing this girl off Bumble and while shes a nice person, it just affects my attractiveness to her and when it comes to intimacy, as a result, theres been some issues.so is it fatphobic? Am I fatphobic? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenstar 12/29/22 12:57:13 PM #2:	DeroIin posted... so is it fatphobic? no DeroIin posted... Am I fatphobic? maybe --- Just a dead, cold, round ball in the middle of nowhere. <cite>frozenstar posted [p:970482780] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted... </cite><quote>so is it fatphobic?</quote>noDeroIin posted... </cite><quote>Am I fatphobic?</quote>maybe</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 12/29/22 1:02:58 PM #3:	It is, but it's personal, and no one's going to call you out on it unless you do something ill-advised like talk about it on a message board. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:970482907] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>It is, but it's personal, and no one's going to call you out on it unless you do something ill-advised like talk about it on a message board.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
superman_2000 12/29/22 1:04:04 PM #4:	No, its not fatphobic. Youre just not attracted to fat people. --- I don't hold grudges. Let's vehemently argue today and casually have a beer together tomorrow. <cite>superman_2000 posted [p:970482928] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No, its not fatphobic. Youre just not attracted to fat people. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shiby_with_it 12/29/22 1:04:08 PM #5:	No. Not being physically attracted to someone because of a physical feature is not a phobia. --- ...I knew this 45 year old guy, goes by the name of Uncle Slappy, used to hang out on the corner of 56th and Rucker... -SArmstr0ng <cite>shiby_with_it posted [p:970482930] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No. Not being physically attracted to someone because of a physical feature is not a phobia.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 12/29/22 1:04:23 PM #6:	No. Seek out and date a person with whatever body type and personality you prefer as long as it is legal and ethical. It's your life, fuck what everybody else thinks. There is nothing wrong with preferring a more lean partner, especially if it seems like they are healthier and can be and remain more independent when it comes to physical activities. <cite>Number090684 posted [p:970482941] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No. Seek out and date a person with whatever body type and personality you prefer as long as it is legal and ethical. It's your life, fuck what everybody else thinks. There is nothing wrong with preferring a more lean partner, especially if it seems like they are healthier and can be and remain more independent when it comes to physical activities.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 12/29/22 1:04:37 PM #7:	Fatphobia isnt a thing. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:970482947] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Fatphobia isnt a thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 12/29/22 1:06:11 PM #9:	No, it is not fatphobic if it is only a dating preference thing and not more. Just as there are guys who only date fatter women. Anyone who tells you differently is wrong. And yes, there are people on CE who say differently. --- Currently playing: Neon White <cite>bsp77 posted [p:970482992] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No, it is not fatphobic if it is only a dating preference thing and not more. Just as there are guys who only date fatter women.Anyone who tells you differently is wrong. And yes, there are people on CE who say differently.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadBankerDream 12/29/22 1:07:00 PM #10:	It's not and claiming otherwise as an automatic response is delusional. --- "That thick shaft that causes women to shudder!" <cite>DeadBankerDream posted [p:970483007] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>It's not and claiming otherwise as an automatic response is delusional. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solution_45 12/29/22 1:07:05 PM #11:	no and no <cite>Solution_45 posted [p:970483012] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>no and no</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 12/29/22 1:07:21 PM #12:	@cuttin_in_farm #7, Yikes. <cite>Number090684 posted [p:970483019] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>@cuttin_in_farm#7, Yikes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 12/29/22 1:08:46 PM #13:	Is it racist to not date someone because of their race? Yes to both. --- I am the Cheese! I am the best character on the show! I am better than both the salami and the bologna *COMBINED!* <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:970483047] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Is it racist to not date someone because of their race? Yes to both. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
frozenstar 12/29/22 1:09:05 PM #14:	Number090684 posted... @cuttin_in_farm #7, Yikes. Oof! --- Just a dead, cold, round ball in the middle of nowhere. <cite>frozenstar posted [p:970483053] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Number090684 posted... </cite><quote>@cuttin_in_farm#7, Yikes.</quote>Oof!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 12/29/22 1:09:11 PM #15:	No we all have taste. And if you are not just being mean to big ppl. You are cool. --- To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships. W.E.B. Du Bois <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:970483056] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No we all have taste. And if you are not just being mean to big ppl. You are cool.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oubliettes 12/29/22 1:09:19 PM #16:	implying that someone must have a major character flaw if they dont find you attractive is the realm of incels and pussy vultures --- Your anus can't read. - Heartomaton <cite>Oubliettes posted [p:970483059] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>implying that someone must have a major character flaw if they dont find you attractive is the realm of incels and pussy vultures</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bigblu89 12/29/22 1:11:07 PM #18:	I say no. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. That being said... if you won't even THINK about talking to someone because they've been described to be on the heavier side, even though you've never seen them yourself, that isn't right, as they may have other physical or personality traits that counterbalance things you may not be entirely attracted to. In my opinion. To me, there's a difference between saying "I'm usually not attracted to heavier girls" and "I refuse to date heavier girls". --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:970483107] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>I say no.You're attracted to who you're attracted to.That being said... if you won't even THINK about talking to someone because they've been described to be on the heavier side, even though you've never seen them yourself, that isn't right, as they may have other physical or personality traits that counterbalance things you may not be entirely attracted to.In my opinion.To me, there's a difference between saying "I'm usually not attracted to heavier girls" and "I refuse to date heavier girls".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 12/29/22 1:13:17 PM #19:	Yes But at that level it's fine. --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:970483149] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>YesBut at that level it's fine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
superman_2000 12/29/22 1:18:45 PM #20:	EndOfDiscOne posted... Is it racist to not date someone because of their race? Yes to both. If you are generally not attracted to black people (we do tend to have distinctive physical features, like every other race), then no, thats not racist. If you just think lowly of black people, then yes, thats racist. Nuance, man. Critical thinking is the cure. --- I don't hold grudges. Let's vehemently argue today and casually have a beer together tomorrow. <cite>superman_2000 posted [p:970483254] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>EndOfDiscOne posted... </cite><quote>Is it racist to not date someone because of their race? Yes to both.</quote>If you are generally not attracted to black people (we do tend to have distinctive physical features, like every other race), then no, thats not racist. If you just think lowly of black people, then yes, thats racist.Nuance, man. Critical thinking is the cure.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 12/29/22 1:19:40 PM #21:	superman_2000 posted... If you are generally not attracted to black people (we do tend to have distinctive physical features, like every other race), then no, thats not racist. If you just think lowly of black people, then yes, thats racist. Nuance, man. Critical thinking is the cure. 100% <cite>Number090684 posted [p:970483277] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>superman_2000 posted... </cite><quote>If you are generally not attracted to black people (we do tend to have distinctive physical features, like every other race), then no, thats not racist. If you just think lowly of black people, then yes, thats racist.Nuance, man. Critical thinking is the cure.</quote>100%</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bass_X0 12/29/22 1:42:52 PM #22:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Fatphobia isnt a thing. just like spiderphobia doesnt exist; its called arachnophobia. Im not a fan of this modern trend to add phobia to the end of any regular word that you or someone else is accused of disliking. --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN <cite>Bass_X0 posted [p:970483745] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite><quote>Fatphobia isnt a thing.</quote>just like spiderphobia doesnt exist; its called arachnophobia.Im not a fan of this modern trend to add phobia to the end of any regular word that you or someone else is accused of disliking.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VeggetaX 12/29/22 1:46:09 PM #23:	Man, people should stop throwing around the term phobic so easily these days. I hate to sound like a nerd but it's one of those words that shouldn't be casuallized --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>VeggetaX posted [p:970483817] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Man, people should stop throwing around the term phobic so easily these days. I hate to sound like a nerd but it's one of those words that shouldn't be casuallized </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fony 12/29/22 1:48:37 PM #24:	DeroIin posted... Been talking/seeing this girl off Bumble and while shes a nice person, it just affects my attractiveness to her and when it comes to intimacy, as a result, theres been some issues. so is it fatphobic? Am I fatphobic? Why are you speaking to her? Serious question. Sit, think and answer. Why? Are you that lonely or horny? It makes no sense. --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. <cite>Fony posted [p:970483865] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>DeroIin posted... </cite><quote>Been talking/seeing this girl off Bumble and while shes a nice person, it just affects my attractiveness to her and when it comes to intimacy, as a result, theres been some issues.so is it fatphobic? Am I fatphobic?</quote>Why are you speaking to her? Serious question. Sit, think and answer. Why? Are you that lonely or horny? It makes no sense. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
superman_2000 12/29/22 1:49:50 PM #25:	Fony posted... Why are you speaking to her? Serious question. Sit, think and answer. Why? Are you that lonely or horny? It makes no sense. Maybe he sees the potential in how shed look as a thinner person. --- I don't hold grudges. Let's vehemently argue today and casually have a beer together tomorrow. <cite>superman_2000 posted [p:970483893] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Fony posted... </cite><quote>Why are you speaking to her? Serious question. Sit, think and answer. Why? Are you that lonely or horny? It makes no sense.</quote>Maybe he sees the potential in how shed look as a thinner person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 12/29/22 1:51:51 PM #26:	Fony posted... Why are you speaking to her? Serious question. Sit, think and answer. Why? Are you that lonely or horny? It makes no sense. Sometimes you have to date someone to know. I have dated overweight women. Some ultimately kept me turned on and some didn't. For me, it depended on how much weight, where the weight is, the attractiveness of their mannerisms and facial features, and their personality. Ultimately, I am either attracted or not and I can't control that. But you also can't always tell by a simple pic, as attractiveness is so much more than that. --- Currently playing: Neon White <cite>bsp77 posted [p:970483931] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Fony posted... </cite><quote>Why are you speaking to her? Serious question. Sit, think and answer. Why? Are you that lonely or horny? It makes no sense.</quote>Sometimes you have to date someone to know. I have dated overweight women. Some ultimately kept me turned on and some didn't. For me, it depended on how much weight, where the weight is, the attractiveness of their mannerisms and facial features, and their personality. Ultimately, I am either attracted or not and I can't control that. But you also can't always tell by a simple pic, as attractiveness is so much more than that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Fony 12/29/22 2:04:42 PM #28:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/0/7/AAMz0hAAEChb.jpg --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. <cite>Fony posted [p:970484190] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/0/7/AAMz0hAAEChb.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheLiarParadox 12/29/22 3:32:03 PM #29:	There are some pretty clear manifestations of fatphobia out there but this isn't one of them. --- Spongebob is not a contraceptive. <cite>TheLiarParadox posted [p:970485930] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>There are some pretty clear manifestations of fatphobia out there but this isn't one of them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GreenCookie 12/29/22 3:32:48 PM #30:	Absolutely 100% --- Pronouns: **They/Them #ProtectTransKids, #BLM, #ADHD, #CapitalismSucks <cite>GreenCookie posted [p:970485943] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Absolutely 100%</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
garan 12/29/22 3:36:28 PM #31:	shiby_with_it posted... No. Not being physically attracted to someone because of a physical feature is not a phobia. This /topic. <cite>garan posted [p:970486017] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>shiby_with_it posted...</cite><quote>No. Not being physically attracted to someone because of a physical feature is not a phobia.</quote>This /topic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 12/29/22 3:39:33 PM #32:	Nope. Humans speaking very generally, are attracted to people who are in good shape. It's not like you're being mean to her because of her weight or anything. You're just saying you would prefer not to be in a relationship with her, correct? --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:970486074] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Nope. Humans speaking very generally, are attracted to people who are in good shape. It's not like you're being mean to her because of her weight or anything. You're just saying you would prefer not to be in a relationship with her, correct?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MetroidGamer666 12/29/22 3:49:27 PM #33:	No but if youre not attracted to her call things off now <cite>MetroidGamer666 posted [p:970486253] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No but if youre not attracted to her call things off now </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VampireCoyote 12/29/22 3:51:01 PM #34:	Theres nothing phobic about attraction or lack thereof boink who you wanna boink --- She/her <cite>VampireCoyote posted [p:970486282] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Theres nothing phobic about attraction or lack thereofboink who you wanna boink </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caelthus 12/29/22 3:54:09 PM #35:	No, but you shouldn't string along somebody you're not attracted to. --- http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/3853476/ Neo Yokio is a masterpiece. - Popcorn_Fairy <cite>Caelthus posted [p:970486343] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>No, but you shouldn't string along somebody you're not attracted to. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kimberly 12/29/22 3:54:29 PM #36:	Depends on why you don't wanna. Dr. CE is sadly not trained as a therapist. --- My love, we'll make it. My hands, you can leave or take them We're strong enough to face our fears. Now watch time disappear, oh, oh <cite>Kimberly posted [p:970486351] in Is it fatp... [t:80293869]...</cite> <quote>Depends on why you don't wanna. Dr. CE is sadly not trained as a therapist.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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