Current Events > I'm a trans girl who had a bad day but a great month, AMA!

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White or wheat bread?

White or wheat bread?

bagel with reg cream cheese or some type of fancy cream cheese

What was the best thing that happened this month for you?

Sorry you had a bad month. What went wrong? Hope everything starts looking up soon.

Hmm. Probably playing show-and-tell with my girlfriend.

It was more of a "show" than "tell", if you catch my drift. She was wondering if I needed panties, and asked if maybe I would like the ones she had gotten. Rather than go upstairs and get one, she just pulled down her pants and showed them to me. They were nice blue boyshorts.

They were also sheer.

Then I showed her my panties, then she wanted to see my bra, so I showed her that too, and she came over to touch the fabric and "accidentally" brushed my tit. Then she showed me her bra.

Then she just goes, "I might as well just show you my titty" and legit popped a boob out. I admired it for a few moments, then realized I couldn't let this stand, even though I didn't want to take my shirt off *again*. So I popped out my titty, and she spent the next five minutes gushing about how big and perfect it was.
That does great things for a girl's ego.

I gotta say, I did not see this answer coming lol. Honestly, Im jealous of the moment. Cause I know exactly what you're talking about. I also like all the flirty build up instead of just rushing things. Sounds like a fun night to remember. I need to get out more again and open up my door to opportunities. I want those experiences again >_<.

1. Why was your day bad?

2. Why was your month great?

3. Did you get anything fun for Xmas?

How do you deal when you get panic attacks?

She's very playful, but I don't think she has any interest in sex, likely due to her various health problems.

Which isn't a problem, because we're ethically poly. In fact, she literally encouraged me to get with a classmate (who happens to look a bit like Courtney Barnett, who is extremely hot, FYI) and I joked that if I had sex with her she would want me to tell her every detail.

Because she totally would, the fucking weirdo that she is. And I would tell her, because I tell her everything. To the extent that my enby coworker, before talking about their latest drama a while back, went, "And it's okay to tell your girlfriend, I just kind of assume I'm confiding in both of you."

I'm afraid to ask this question on so many levels, but I've wanted to ask this every time I've seen an "ask a trans girl anything" topic. I'm not trying to delve into your personal life, so I want to ask this as a general question of etiquette.

Let's say that a father has two cisgendered children and a transgendered child -- all of whom are grown adults. Papa keeps childhood photos of his three offspring on display in the hallway of his house, including a pre-transition photo of his trans daughter. Would you consider this to be uncouth -- like deadnaming someone -- or is it natural for a parent to want to display photos of their children from all stages of life? Let's say for the sake of argument that the daughter makes no attempt to hide or advertise the fact that she's trans. If people know, they know. If they don't, they don't. Her friends, her lover, and the family members that matter all know and accept it.

Are your nails currently painted, and if so, what color?

Ah. I see. When you say "likely", is that because you just don't want to prod? At what point would you get to know for sure what it is? Seems important in the longrun.

Why no dil? Are you allergic?

Thoughts on ham

Meh

don't think I get it. If she would prefer the photo not be displayed, it shouldn't. If it's not a big deal, it's not a big deal.

My girlfriend saw a photo of me pre-transition once and responded, "I don't even know who that person is, 'cause it's certainly not you."

I'll do a food question too. What's your go to light-medium snack/s? Im getting sick of my routine ones and suck at shopping in the moment and mixing it up once I get there. I just mean anything. From sonething you just go grab, to something with 5-10 minute prep.

Congrats Girl!!!!! :)

Rye

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When was your last dentist appointment?

My year has been utter shit. And next year isnt looking much better. Woo.

Top five favorite animes. GO!

I have a terrible weakness for Combos, which conveniently come in smallish bags, so its easy to rationalize eating the entire bag. Im now very much a lover of salt.

And pickles.
If I had to prepare snacks, I probably would snack much less, because that sounds like work and Im looking for low effort.

LOL I don't even remember at this point. My teeth are probably terrible.

https://twitter.com/the_debijackson/status/1608197554637869056

Are you M2F or F2M and have you had all the surgery yet?

I respect you that there are some areas you dont feel comfortable covering but its not really an AMA.

My question was going to be if post op then how does sex work - without going into any details that would be moddable obviously. Like can you climax once youve had the chop?

And unlike those male ******-chasers who say they like T-girls because we are supposedly the best of both worlds, I am attracted to trans women because we are all woman! My femaleness is so intense that it has overpowered the trillions of lame-ass Y chromosomes that sheepishly hide inside the cells of my body. And my femininity is so relentless that it survived thirty years of male socialization and twenty years of testosterone poisoning. Some kinky-identified thrill-seekers may envision trans women as androgyne fuck fantasies, but thats only because they are too self-absorbed to appreciate how completely fucking female we are.

Then I replied it is almost always their (trans womens) eyes. When I look into them, I see both endless strength and inconsolable sadness. I see someone who has overcome humiliation and abuses that would flatten the average person. I see a woman who was made to feel shame for her desires and yet had the courage to pursue them anyway. I see a woman who was forced against her will into boyhood, who held onto a dream that everybody in her life desperately tried to beat out of her, who refused to listen to the endless stream of people who told her that who she was and what she wanted was impossible.

When I look into a trans womans eyes, I see a profound appreciation for how fucking empowering it can be to be female, an appreciation that seems lost on many cis women who sadly take their female identities and anatomies for granted, or who perpetually seek to cast themselves as victims instead of instigators. I see a wisdom that can only come from having to fight for your right to be recognized as female, a raw strength that only comes from unabashedly asserting your right to be feminine in an inhospitable world. In a trans womans eyes, I see someone who understands that, in a culture seemingly fueled on male homophobic hysteria, choosing to be female and openly expressing ones femininity is not a sign of frivolousness, weakness, or passivity, it is a fucking badge of courage. Everybody loves to say drag queens are fabulous, but nobody seems to get the fact that trans women are fucking badass!

How big are your girlfriend's tits?

Will you be able to do any cosplay?

CE, if I have a sweet mommy gf, does that make me a bottom?

Take your basic ass questions to Google.

I can see her being a top.
Lie down and let mommy take care of everything...

Leave me the fuck out of this.