Current Events > Girl I Dated, Ghosts Me For SIX MONTHS & Replies TODAY! Should I Respond?!

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DumbQuestion
12/17/22 3:37:31 PM
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-see Girl for 1 Year

-All of a sudden, she stops replying/completely ghosts

-I move on with my life

-6 months later, she sent a text

Should I respond?!
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Etna
12/17/22 3:39:28 PM
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Ask if she's dtf or what.

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Ar0ge
12/17/22 3:39:50 PM
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Uhh... I hate to break it to you, but I don't think you were dating there bud...
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JuanCarlos1
12/17/22 3:41:08 PM
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She found someone, dated and it didnt work out. Youre the rebound.

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DumbQuestion
12/17/22 3:41:18 PM
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Etna posted...
Ask if she's dtf or what.
hmmmm
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DumbQuestion
12/17/22 3:43:58 PM
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JuanCarlos1 posted...
She found someone, dated and it didnt work out. Youre the rebound.
ah, okay!
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whitelytning
12/17/22 3:45:52 PM
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When did you reach out last that she has referring to?

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MabusIncarnate
12/17/22 3:46:30 PM
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Nah, nothing good will come from this.

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XxKrebsxX
12/17/22 3:46:41 PM
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Yeah, she was getting dicked down and something happened. Youre the backup.
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DumbQuestion
12/17/22 3:47:21 PM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
Nah, nothing good will come from this.
I sent a follow up text 5 Months ago! That was the last time i texted her! during that time, still no reply!
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superman_2000
12/17/22 3:50:00 PM
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My notifications are silenced and I dont know how that happened.

I go through some depressive states and dont respond

Which is it?

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DumbQuestion
12/17/22 3:53:08 PM
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superman_2000 posted...
My notifications are silenced and I dont know how that happened.

I go through some depressive states and dont respond

Which is it?
yeah, even i was confused lol
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superman_2000
12/17/22 3:53:50 PM
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DumbQuestion posted...
yeah, even i was confused lol

Shes fickle. If you continue to indulge her, dont be surprised if she ghosts you again.

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Lost_All_Senses
12/17/22 3:54:19 PM
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She did the double excuse. Classic.

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kage_53
12/17/22 3:55:55 PM
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Just smash but dont date. Youre basically viewed as a second option to her.
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Autocraticus
12/17/22 4:07:53 PM
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Blasted by yadda yadda yadda
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WarfireX
12/17/22 4:09:35 PM
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The old "Sorry! I completely forgot about you and never thought about you again then went on with my life as if you didn't exist because of my stupid phone!" excuse, huh? Her dog probably ate a lot of her homework.

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TheMikh
12/17/22 4:16:00 PM
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do not respond

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DumbQuestion
12/18/22 5:25:24 AM
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Understood!
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itachi15243
12/18/22 5:49:26 AM
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I could understand maybe a few weeks a year at max, but half a year? Ask her why she couldn't come up with a better excuse.

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rexcrk
12/18/22 6:15:51 AM
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God, why do girls do shit like that? Legitimately pisses me off and its a big reason why I dont even bother anymore.


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AgentCoulson
12/18/22 6:29:48 AM
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I'm confused. Her notifications have been turned off for half the year? Is she a hermit?

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Makeveli_lives
12/18/22 7:17:06 AM
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2pac dropped a few more tracks from the grave while her notifications were turned off.

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ZangsBeard
12/18/22 7:27:17 AM
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Does she eat booty like groceries?

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MabusIncarnate
12/18/22 7:31:34 AM
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rexcrk posted...
God, why do girls do shit like that? Legitimately pisses me off and its a big reason why I dont even bother anymore.
Maybe it's just been bad luck with experiences, I assure you there are good women out there.

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Makio
12/18/22 9:10:06 AM
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rexcrk posted...
God, why do girls do shit like that? Legitimately pisses me off and its a big reason why I dont even bother anymore.
It is incredibly dangerous to generalize and paint all women under one brush. That'll lead to you hating us. Please judge individual experiences and not an entire gender.

MabusIncarnate posted...
Maybe it's just been bad luck with experiences, I assure you there are good women out there.
Yeah, judging everyone based on your experiences is wrong. It's the equivalent of someone going through bad relationships and then saying that all men are abusive or emotionally unavailable. Generalizations like that are not fair or good

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Makeveli_lives
12/18/22 9:24:56 AM
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Makio posted...
It is incredibly dangerous to generalize and paint all women under one brush. That'll lead to you hating us. Please judge individual experiences and not an entire gender.

Yeah, judging everyone based on your experiences is wrong. It's the equivalent of someone going through bad relationships and then saying that all men are abusive or emotionally unavailable. Generalizations like that are not fair or good
She was probably getting dick from some other guy for 6 months and then it either didnt work out or she got bored and now shes back to her second choice, lets be honest.

If she wanted to make time she wouldve, she didnt. Let it go tc and move on.

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bsp77
12/18/22 9:28:56 AM
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rexcrk posted...
God, why do girls do shit like that? Legitimately pisses me off and its a big reason why I dont even bother anymore.
They don't. Sure, some do this before the date occurs or after a date or two, but this? I find it very hard ro believe you dated for a year. Did you go on like 3 dates 4 months apart while she was dating others? This just doesn't make sense.

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Doom_Art
12/18/22 9:44:31 AM
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I was almost the same position as you about a year ago TC

Seeing a girl for a while then she abruptly ghosts for no apparent reason.

My advice? Don't indulge her. The stuff about "notifications being off" or "being in a depressive state" are just lies to placate you.

Tho even if they weren't, do you wanna chance it?

Cause if she ghosted you once she'll do it again. It's not worth the emotional effort.

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SauI_Goodman
12/18/22 9:45:10 AM
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Nah man. Move on.

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Imit8m3
12/18/22 9:51:52 AM
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Username checks out.

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Jiek_Fafn
12/18/22 9:55:29 AM
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She's dishonest or at best just a mess. That might be your type, but it ain't for me.

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lolife67
12/18/22 10:10:54 AM
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bsp77 posted...
They don't. Sure, some do this before the date occurs or after a date or two, but this? I find it very hard ro believe you dated for a year. Did you go on like 3 dates 4 months apart while she was dating others? This just doesn't make sense.
Right. This situation is just weird and not the norm at all.
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noisetank
12/18/22 10:16:43 AM
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bo_danvers
12/18/22 10:21:02 AM
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The best thing to do is the long play; wait 6 months to text back.
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well-excuse-me
12/18/22 11:10:01 AM
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Makeveli_lives posted...
2pac dropped a few more tracks from the grave while her notifications were turned off.
Lmfao
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