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SHRlKE
10/05/22 2:52:18 PM
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I always assume they are gay and dont want to make it known. Why not just say boyfriend or girlfriend?
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AlCalavicci
10/05/22 2:53:55 PM
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Does it matter ?

whether they are a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife, they are your partner

I think it should be normalized tbh

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Philip027
10/05/22 2:54:42 PM
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What's wrong with partner? I've used it, because it's accurate.

Boyfriend/girlfriend sounds like terminology high schoolers would use. I'm thankfully long past that age.
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FaultyCircuitry
10/05/22 2:55:43 PM
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Because my partner is not my "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" so partner is far more correct.

It also removes gender from something that doesn't inherently need to have gender involved.

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MICHALECOLE
10/05/22 2:56:03 PM
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I use the term partner

have you tried worrying about your damn self?
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TomClark
10/05/22 2:56:19 PM
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It's possible they're just detectives.

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Flockaveli
10/05/22 2:56:29 PM
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I pretty much call her everything but girlfriend
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Gremlynn
10/05/22 2:56:31 PM
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What a thing to waste your time thinking about.

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silverpine
10/05/22 2:56:33 PM
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everyone knows that some people assume it's gay (which isn't suspicious at all wtf). we just don't care what you think.
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DespondentDeity
10/05/22 2:57:56 PM
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Youve had some other absolutely brain dead takes so this is not surprising at all to see from you.

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SHRlKE
10/05/22 2:58:43 PM
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DespondentDeity posted...
Youve had some other absolutely brain dead takes so this is not surprising at all to see from you.

hell are you on about?
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Its_Time_2_Pray
10/05/22 2:59:17 PM
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"Suspicious" makes it sound like you think being gay is a bad thing.

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Etna
10/05/22 2:59:57 PM
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Ita cringe because it makes people think they are a cop and cops are bad!

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Letron_James
10/05/22 3:00:18 PM
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Lol I called my gf my partner all the time. Seemed demeaning to call someone a Girlfriend as 1. She is a woman not a girl, and 2 we are more than friends...

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TheMikh
10/05/22 3:00:27 PM
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never really know when you're talking to a venture capitalist in disguise

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SHRlKE
10/05/22 3:03:01 PM
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Its_Time_2_Pray posted...
"Suspicious" makes it sound like you think being gay is a bad thing.

quite the opposite. I think people ashamed to admit they are gay is a bad thing. People should be proud of their sexuality. My best mate is gay and wouldnt have it any other way tbh.
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Flockaveli
10/05/22 3:03:49 PM
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Nuh uh my best friend is gay
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SHRlKE
10/05/22 4:00:02 PM
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DespondentDeity posted...
Youve had some other absolutely brain dead takes so this is not surprising at all to see from you.

you actually got anything to say about this @despondentdeity?
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CRON
10/05/22 4:00:58 PM
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I don't like the term "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" as it sounds stupid as fuck.
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frozenstar
10/05/22 4:01:19 PM
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I just assume they are secretly cowboys/cowgirls.

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SHRlKE
10/05/22 4:01:54 PM
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CRON posted...
I don't like the term "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" as it sounds stupid as fuck.

yeah well I dont like cron cause it never fucking works for me.
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frozenstar
10/05/22 4:02:48 PM
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SHRIKE vs CRON!!!!
Who will win?

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Kaiganeer
10/05/22 4:03:29 PM
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partner is fine, significant other is wack
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Number090684
10/05/22 4:04:56 PM
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SHRlKE posted...
I always assume they are gay and dont want to make it known. Why not just say boyfriend or girlfriend?

TC what if their partner doesn't agree with being defined by either of those two words? Hence the term partner is better.
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_DonLorenzo
10/05/22 4:08:55 PM
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same reason folks say their pronouns

to normalize non-gendered nouns.

its not hard. use it. dont use it. just dont get mad when someone does do it. im as liberal as can be but i still call my wife my wife.
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TaylorHeinicke
10/05/22 4:10:48 PM
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I go back and forth on this too. I'm almost 30 and there is definitely something that feels a little odd about using the term girlfriend when I'm this old

However, it feels a little odder to refer to her as a partner because of the gender-neutral implications. Some of my colleagues are older people and I thought I'd try saying "partner" once for poops and giggles, and they immediately started with the gay jokes, as I expected they would. It was kinda funny especially because I knew that's exactly how they would react.

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BuzzKilljoy
10/05/22 4:11:37 PM
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Girlfriend sounds juvenile to me. We own a house together, she is pregnant with my child, we are not married or engaged. She's my partner.

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Gremlynn
10/05/22 4:13:01 PM
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Instead of referring to partners based on gendered terms OR a vague "partner/SO", we should refer to them according to sexual dynamics.

"Sorry, my dom made plans for us to go see a movie today."

"I really would, but I have to go hurry home and walk my sub."

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Flockaveli
10/05/22 4:14:19 PM
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Can't stay late guys I promised my Fuck Hole Cum Bucket that I'd take her out to dinner tonight.
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Umbreon
10/05/22 4:14:32 PM
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It's none of your concern.

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Philip027
10/05/22 7:17:16 PM
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frozenstar posted...
I just assume they are secretly cowboys/cowgirls.

No no, you're thinking of pardners. With a D.
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Gremlynn
10/06/22 1:15:09 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
Can't stay late guys I promised my Fuck Hole Cum Bucket that I'd take her out to dinner tonight.

now THIS is romance.

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Trumble
10/06/22 1:16:14 AM
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SHRlKE posted...
I always assume they are gay and dont want to make it known. Why not just say boyfriend or girlfriend?
Me and my partner are opposite sex, both cisgender, and I still say "partner".

EDIT: And to address the next post, neither of us are super liberal either. Slightly left leaning but far from "super liberal".

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Naysaspace
10/06/22 1:16:43 AM
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super-liberal straight people also use "partner".
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Sariana21
10/06/22 1:19:51 AM
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I understand why because its gender neutral. But someone I know recently referred to their partner and I literally thought they meant professional partner. It didnt really matter, but I was caught off guard when I learned they were spouses. (It was relevant to the conversation because one is the supervisor of the other.)

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g0ldie
10/06/22 1:22:49 AM
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I hear happen more often these days, when it comes to straight couples

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Evening_Dragon
10/06/22 1:26:29 AM
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It's just another term. I don't use the same words for everything all the time. Also, easier to text.

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TetsuoS2
10/06/22 1:27:39 AM
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yehaaaaaaaaaaaaaw pardner!

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gunplagirl
10/06/22 1:30:52 AM
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Easier than saying "this is my love, my life, the person with whom my destiny has become inextricably intertwined and who I could not stand the thought of going a day without"

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gunplagirl
10/06/22 2:10:42 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

;-; I wasn't joking I love my fiance @Ankha

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spikethedevil
10/06/22 4:10:58 AM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/1/0/AAMTIRAADv_i.jpg

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Joelypoely
10/06/22 4:30:56 AM
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Kaiganeer posted...
partner is fine, significant other is wack

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Kakapo
10/06/22 4:34:55 AM
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Im suspicious why youd find that suspicious.

You silly sausage.

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thronedfire2
10/06/22 5:43:07 AM
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This topic is very sus

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Glob
10/06/22 5:47:09 AM
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Girlfriend sounds like its not that serious.

My previous relationship was 11 years long. We were definitely partners for most of that.

My current relationship is just over the two month mark. Shes my girlfriend.
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SHRlKE
10/06/22 5:48:13 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


That they are gay and arent comfortable being open about it. They shouldnt need to feel like that.

Maybe we need new terms for a male partner and female partner.
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spikethedevil
10/06/22 5:51:39 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=l60MnDJklnM

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