Poll of the Day > I got stood up today :(

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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

We were supposed meet at one of the Disney parks and hangout for the day. I got there and just kind of did my own thing for a few hours. She then texted me apologizing and mentioned she was going to be at the park later and said "maybe" we would run into each other.

So I just did what I wanted to do and left.

that really really sucks.

I'm not trying to make this about me, but its happened to me before, and it completely broke my heart. For one, I knew this girl really well, and we were close. And because of that i made the excuse for her that she really had something urgent in her life that she had to postpone our meetings. But it kept happening.

what i'm really trying to say is that it really sucks and i hope it doesn't happen to you again, from her or anyone else.

Revelation34 posted...

No you haven't. No woman has said those exact words to you.

You're right, they were actually even more crude about describing the shit they could smell.

iwasapoetonce posted...

that really really sucks.

I'm not trying to make this about me, but its happened to me before, and it completely broke my heart. For one, I knew this girl really well, and we were close. And because of that i made the excuse for her that she really had something urgent in her life that she had to postpone our meetings. But it kept happening.

what i'm really trying to say is that it really sucks and i hope it doesn't happen to you again, from her or anyone else.

hope all you want but life = sometimes people won't show up when you make plans

better to learn how to deal with it than to hope and be disappointed

joemodda posted...

Sheesh, leave it to one innocuous comment about the hardships men face in the dating world, and people need to shoehorn in their "women too!" virtue signalling

within 10 posts there were dudes whining that women are the ones who primarily 'bail' on dates, and that men objectively have it worse when dating. it isn't virtue signaling to refute something that is demonstrably untrue.

literally everyone I know regardless of gender has had people bail on them. suggesting that women are inherently flakier is moronic.

It's also so fucking stupid when people decide to just give a bunch sadsack bad advice to someone who goes through something like this. They need good advice so they can pull themselves up, not be told that they should mope around and feel sorry for themselves over a common occurrence. It's such self-victimization BS.

Jen talking shit again I see. She isn't even attractive herself so why she thinks her opinion matters is beyond me. Wait.... her fanclub will surely approve.

AWinterJ posted...

Jen talking shit again I see. She isn't even attractive herself so why she thinks her opinion matters is beyond me. Wait.... her fanclub will surely approve.

I like your schtick of attacking the person instead of refuting the idea since it's nice and easy to see through.

ReturnOfFa posted...

I like your schtick of attacking the person instead of refuting the idea since it's nice and easy to see through.

I'm not here for your approval. Woman have it more easy than men and Jen hates men so will obviously type anything she can to project that. Now off you pop back to the Discord group or whatever shit the fanclub has.

AWinterJ posted...

I'm not here for your approval. Woman have it more easy than men and Jen hates men so will obviously type anything she can to project that. Now off you pop back to the Discord group or whatever shit the fanclub has.

I did most of the blabbing in this topic, and I presented more examples than Jen did to refute what you just claimed. Once again, fairly telling where your focus (obsession) lies.

JigsawTDCII posted...

sucks you got stood up, but whats up with the mad incel energy in this thread

Ive never been stood up once in my life. Maybe women doing this to you has more to do with you than it does with them?

\_()_/

I like how women will just show up in a topic about a man's woes and just completely turn it into a topic about themselves and shame the men for having the problems to begin with. Like y'all literally get internet clout for just having boobs. Y'all don't have to put in anywhere near as much work in this kind of shit as men do.

Lmao incel energy

Again you equate attention with success. Very weird.

@ReturnOfFa you're a woman now dill with it

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

I like how women will just show up in a topic about a man's woes and just completely turn it into a topic about themselves and shame the men for having the problems to begin with. Like y'all literally get internet clout for just having boobs. Y'all don't have to put in anywhere near as much work in this kind of shit as men do.

I want attention because I have half a boob. Give me attention.

Jen0125 posted...

Lmao incel energy

Again you equate attention with success. Very weird.

go post boobs on /r/GoneWild again.

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

go post boobs on /r/GoneWild again.

Is that supposed to upset me? Lol you're mad at me when I didn't even start the conversation. The fact that you said women came in here when it was Fa that began the conversation against the rhetoric is telling of your misogyny.

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

I like how women will just show up in a topic about a man's woes and just completely turn it into a topic about themselves and shame the men for having the problems to begin with. Like y'all literally get internet clout for just having boobs. Y'all don't have to put in anywhere near as much work in this kind of shit as men do.

oh no

Jen0125 posted...

Is that supposed to upset me? Lol you're mad at me when I didn't even start the conversation. The fact that you said women came in here when it was Fa that began the conversation against the rhetoric is telling of your misogyny.

I don't hate women I hate snooty bitches that make everything about themselves and their problems when it's irrelevant to the conversation?

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

I don't hate women I hate snooty bitches that make everything about themselves and their problems when it's irrelevant to the conversation?

Where did I make Fa make this about me? Where did I comment first? Lmao

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

I like how women will just show up in a topic about a man's woes and just completely turn it into a topic about themselves and shame the men for having the problems to begin with. Like y'all literally get internet clout for just having boobs. Y'all don't have to put in anywhere near as much work in this kind of shit as men do.

Enjoy getting less dates with this self-victim attitude when something extremely basic and normal occurred. You take this opportunity to piss on Jen when I brought up the majority of points and responses to you. You're blabbering about boobs. Literally just sad.

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

I don't hate women I hate snooty bitches that make everything about themselves and their problems when it's irrelevant to the conversation?

Go touch grass my guy. You need to be off the Internet for awhile.

THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

I don't hate women I hate snooty bitches that make everything about themselves and their problems when it's irrelevant to the conversation?

You're the one being snooty. Not everyone exists to kiss your ass. Someone bailed on you. Go to your mom if you want someone to swaddle you.

Unknowingly voluntarily celibate.

I love how I get singled out when I didn't even start it lmao it really shows the mentality of some of the men on here

Jen0125 posted...

I love how I get singled out when I didn't even start it lmao it really shows the mentality of some of the men on here

Telling on yourself 101.

Generally speaking, just getting laid is easier for women than men, but a lot of that stops being true if you add in the caveat of "with somebody who knows what showers and basic manners are" because there are generally more guys than girls that don't hold themselves to any standards of basic hygiene before trying to find hookups (which is mostly a product of centuries of cultural pressure for women to make themselves desirable). Finding a meaningful relationship is more or less equally difficult for men and women, with each facing some challenges and/or having advantages that the other does not. Being stood up or ghosted is pretty much a universal worry; I don't think there's much by way of gender bias there.

He still didn't even answer my question. He just wants to be mad my boobs can get attention lol

Take it from people with social experience - being stood up has nothing to do with gender and you're fucking up your own mind by getting so upset about it and lashing out at women. You'll be lonely forever if you continue acting like this. Get help. Don't listen to the idiots that want you to stay miserable just like them.

Also, I post nudes online a lot more than Jen does. Get bent lmao