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epik_fail1 08/29/22 1:05:53 PM #1: |
... exclusively in heterosexual relationship? I have seen quite a few people saying that can be hetero and queer and to me it makes no sense. Am I getting old or what? --- Dragaux for smash! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garioshi 08/29/22 1:09:10 PM #2: |
Not every queer person is bi or pan, and even then, you can be bi or pan and still exclusively be in straight relationships. There's a lot of hatred and erasure towards bi and pan people in the gay/lesbian community specifically, and I'd rather you not be a part of it. --- "I play with myself" - Darklit_Minuet, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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epik_fail1 08/29/22 1:10:32 PM #3: |
Garioshi posted... Not every queer person is bi or pan, and even then, you can be bi or pan and still exclusively be in straight relationships. There's a lot of hatred and erasure towards bi and pan people in the gay/lesbian community specifically, and I'd rather you not be a part of it. That's not what I was referring to. I was talking about people who claimed straight people who are also cis can be queer --- Dragaux for smash! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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g0ldie 08/29/22 1:10:42 PM #4: |
iirc, it no longer means gay, but something that doesn't fit cleanly anywhere under the LGBTQ+ umbrella --- https://streamable.com/zrtjki ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 08/29/22 1:10:47 PM #5: |
I like the word queer because it covers a lot of bases tbh --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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epik_fail1 08/29/22 1:13:38 PM #6: |
pinky0926 posted... I like the word queer because it covers a lot of bases tbh You should ask people in they like the word or not before using it because it was used as a slur not that long ago and it exclusively targeted gay men. --- Dragaux for smash! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ElatedVenusaur 08/29/22 1:23:46 PM #7: |
epik_fail1 posted... You should ask people in they like the word or not before using it because it was used as a slur not that long ago and it exclusively targeted gay men.Yeah, and they specifically reclaimed it literal decades ago (IIRC, ACT UP was primarily responsible) and it has since evolved to be a broadly applicable term for some one who doesn't fit in a cisnormative and/or heteronormative roles. It's really not hard to find this information, either. --- I'm Queen of Tomorrow baby! Remember: heat from fire, fire from heat! She/her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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epik_fail1 08/29/22 1:30:45 PM #8: |
ElatedVenusaur posted... Yeah, and they specifically reclaimed it literal decades ago (IIRC, ACT UP was primarily responsible) and it has since evolved to be a broadly applicable term for some one who doesn't fit in a cisnormative and/or heteronormative roles. It's not really hard to not be entitled and not use a word that might make people who suffered from homophobia while using said slur from past bullying. It was still used as a slur in msn messenger day. The n word had been reclaimed by black people, but you would not say it would you? --- Dragaux for smash! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gunplagirl 08/29/22 1:31:34 PM #9: |
TC, shut the hell up. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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myzz7 08/29/22 1:42:14 PM #10: |
it looks good on a essay submission to university. i encourage it. --- ''If I knew how to dox people, and you lived close to me, I would beat you with a bat.'' Bad_Mojo 8/24/2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LincolnDuncan 08/29/22 1:43:36 PM #11: |
I'm not straight, but do not feel comfortable using that word personally, as it still feels loaded with slur energy in my mind. --- "I'm not a very nostalgic person, I neither have regrets nor occasions for self-congratulations." - Leonard Cohen ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MedeaLysistrata 08/29/22 1:44:06 PM #12: |
I might have to think about them the same way I think about people who claim sexuality and have no sexual relations... I think someone would try to validate that and consider doing so unethical --- Please join the 100 Presidents community board and contribute to the project! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 08/29/22 1:48:51 PM #13: |
epik_fail1 posted... It's not really hard to not be entitled and not use a word that might make people who suffered from homophobia while using said slur from past bullying. It was still used as a slur in msn messenger day. The n word had been reclaimed by black people, but you would not say it would you?Wtf are you on about? It was literally just explained to you that the word was reclaimed and now people use it to describe themselves. I have multiple friends that identify as queer. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dreepapult 08/29/22 1:58:08 PM #14: |
So you can be straight and be queer? --- Entropy happens ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ryangrad 08/29/22 2:05:10 PM #15: |
NoxObscuras posted... Wtf are you on about? It was literally just explained to you that the word was reclaimed and now people use it to describe themselves. I have multiple friends that identify as queer.Nothing needed to be explained to him. He knows this. He is a gay man. He knows people identify that way. He was saying to check with others before using the term if they themselves haven't already done so or calmed to be okay with it. Not everyone is alright being labeled so. Anyway, the topic is talking about people that are cishet but say they are queer with no real explanation behind why they identify that way. --- http://i.imgur.com/v3SzL0d.gif http://i.imgur.com/n8MtRqd.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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silverpine 08/29/22 2:06:24 PM #16: |
maybe they have gay fantasies ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 08/29/22 2:25:00 PM #17: |
epik_fail1 posted... You should ask people in they like the word or not before using it because it was used as a slur not that long ago and it exclusively targeted gay men. Ask what people? Non straight people, presumably. I'd get a hundred different answers. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WalkingLobsters 08/29/22 2:26:38 PM #18: |
myzz7 posted... it looks good on a essay submission to university. i encourage it.lol this --- http://i.imgur.com/fsYJcFn.jpg http://i.imgur.com/SZie71I.jpg Starcraft 2 Username = Gears ... Copied to Clipboard!
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epik_fail1 08/29/22 2:41:16 PM #19: |
NoxObscuras posted... Wtf are you on about? It was literally just explained to you that the word was reclaimed and now people use it to describe themselves. I have multiple friends that identify as queer. And you have multiple gay friends who hate the label. Your friend identify as queer, but others hate it due to it's history. Just don't call some gay dude a queer if he doesn't like it. It's not hard --- Dragaux for smash! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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epik_fail1 08/29/22 2:42:12 PM #20: |
pinky0926 posted... Ask what people? Non straight people, presumably. I'd get a hundred different answers. Which is exactly the reason you should ask --- Dragaux for smash! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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g0ldie 08/29/22 2:45:19 PM #21: |
epik_fail1 posted... And you have multiple gay friends who hate the label. Your friend identify as queer, but others hate it due to it's history. Just don't call some gay dude a queer if he doesn't like it. It's not hardfrom my experience, people self-identify as "queer" or refer to someone else as "queer" if it's something that the other person disclosed to them. I know it's anecdotal, but I don't randomly hear anyone refer to anyone else as "queer" these days. --- https://streamable.com/zrtjki ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AmericaTheBrave 08/29/22 2:45:23 PM #22: |
Ryangrad posted... Anyway, the topic is talking about people that are cishet but say they are queer with no real explanation behind why they identify that way. It is kind of trendy to some people who use it to make themselves look more interesting. Depends on the area you live of course. --- https://imgur.com/h74Kc6W ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BustedLavaLamp 08/29/22 2:58:28 PM #23: |
I'm a gay man, but I'm not queer. And if anybody called me that, I'd consider it a slur and they'd get decked. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 08/29/22 3:12:08 PM #24: |
Ryangrad posted... Nothing needed to be explained to him. He knows this. He is a gay man. He knows people identify that way. He was saying to check with others before using the term if they themselves haven't already done so or calmed to be okay with it. Not everyone is alright being labeled so.I wouldn't know that from the topic. All i saw was one person commented that they liked the word because it covers a lot of bases and TC went on this weird rant. epik_fail1 posted... And you have multiple gay friends who hate the label. Your friend identify as queer, but others hate it due to it's history. Just don't call some gay dude a queer if he doesn't like it. It's not hard"It's not hard" Why are you talking to me like I'm out here just labeling people however I want? I only use the labels that my friends want to be identified as. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 08/29/22 3:32:13 PM #25: |
epik_fail1 posted... Which is exactly the reason you should ask I mean I fairly regularly attend events labelled as queer, maybe its different in the UK but it doesn't seem a derogatory term here, anymore than gay is --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Scintillant 08/29/22 3:33:28 PM #26: |
I think it's some sorta phobic to think anything negatively about someone who does that Unless you're trying to describe queerbaiting which is very common on social media apps in which case I think it's really fucking lame and idiotic. --- whats cat up to ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 08/29/22 3:34:19 PM #27: |
I only care enough to tell you I don't care. Out of all the things you could get offended by, if you wanna choose something this dumb, that's up to you. This isn't directed at TC. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought ... Copied to Clipboard!
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superman_2000 08/29/22 3:36:26 PM #28: |
I don't get what any of these words mean anymore. I come from a simpler time when you either liked men, women, both, or neither. --- I don't hold grudges. Let's vehemently argue today and casually have a beer together tomorrow. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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