Current Events > Have any of you ever seen , kids that were mean to you in school

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....back when you were in school, later on as adults years later? Just out and about like shopping or something? I mean, was it awkward, did you say something to them if it ever happened to you

I moved out of town 10 years, then came back. Ran into one as they were working the till behind the counter at a gas station. All I said was I'm surprised they remembered who I was. They said they never forget a face. I said bye and left. Never saw them again.

Alucard188 posted...

I moved out of town 10 years, then came back. Ran into one as they were working the till behind the counter at a gas station. All I said was I'm surprised they remembered who I was. They said they never forget a face. I said bye and left. Never saw them again.

oh, they were kinda mean to you back when you were in school though?

I've run into a couple. There was one who was still a dick, but the rest were fine. The thing about people is that most of them eventually grow up.

Trumble posted...

I've run into a couple. There was one who was still a dick, but the rest were fine. The thing about people is that most of them eventually grow up.

oh, so you believe that? that most of those kids turn into pretty good adults? idk

GranTurismo posted...

oh, they were kinda mean to you back when you were in school though?

She enjoyed grabbing me, swinging me around by one arm until I was off the ground, then throwing me. She was at least 2 years older than I was. Don't think she ever got in trouble for it. This is back in grade school. I was probably in grade two or three.

My high school bully tried to become "pals" after he graduated. I could always see through him, never trusted the act. He was later my superior at my last job. Technically he was the one that helped me get the job. However after 8 months he just pushed my buttons and I felt I had to quit. I wasn't staying in that environment.

Yeah. This really fat kid that picked on me in high school I saw him at the cell phone store like a year or two after high school when my parents were with me. He was selling us phones so he didn't say anything but we both knew each other, we just never mentioned it. I actually left the school he was at like in in between 10th and 11th grade so it was the first time I saw him in like 3 years or so.

I barely remember anybody from school, and nobody was ever particularly mean to me.

Also I haven't spent much time in my home town in nearly a decade so I don't even really have the opportunity to see them.

GranTurismo posted...

oh, so you believe that? that most of those kids turn into pretty good adults? idk

Yes.

Key word "most".

Thankfully no but I heard from old friends that they ended up doing jail time. Not surprised though I had hoped that they would've grown up in the...fourteen years since graduation.

There was just one kid in middle school but doubt Id even recognize him now if I saw him.

I punched him in the face at one point and he didnt give me trouble after that, and I didnt see him again after that year.

Nobody was truly mean to me in high school, but there were a couple guys who were kinda dicks. The funny thing was when I returned back after being in college for a year or two, then we suddenly got along. But it wasn't that they were suddenly different, but I was. I realized I was my own biggest issue in high school by being weird and asocial with lots of people. They probably would have given me a chance earlier if I had been different.

I have learned this to be true from quite a few other people as well. Usually people who didn't get along with others in high school brought it upon themselves.

Not exactly a bully, but I remember this one asshat. Ended up on the streets begging for change. 1st time I saw him, I gave him 5 bucks. Surprisingly bumped into him again muuuuch kloser to home, with him insisting my name is Paul and asking to borrow 50 or 100 bucks that he'll definitely pay back in a week or two. Last time I saw him, he was high out of his mind, laughing a some random kable he bought, and doing what in his head was smooth flirting with some chick working behind a kounter.

eh ?

There was a girl in high school that sent around an e-mail calling me an idiot

5 years ago, I sat across from her at a restaurant. I know that it was her because the hostess called her name. She didn't recognize me or remember me

I didn't say Hello to her. I simply went off to a different table

xue1 posted...

There was a girl in high school that sent around an e-mail calling me an idiot

5 years ago, I sat across from her at a restaurant. I know that it was her because the hostess called her name. She didn't recognize me or remember me

I didn't say Hello to her. I simply went off to a different table

why were you sitting at her table?

I sat across from her at the entrance of the restaurant, while the hostess called her name to be seated

Dude that bullied me for being a queer shot his self in the head with a .22 and lived as a vegetable for 3 years before his mom finally pulled the plug.

DespondentDeity posted...

Dude that bullied me for being a queer shot his self in the head with a .22 and lived as a vegetable for 3 years before his mom finally pulled the plug.

wow, that's some story

She's my girlfriend's cousin.

Nah I'm quite a few hours away from where I grew up now. It was a small drug riddled town though so I don't imagine anyone that didn't bounce immediately made it very far

No. I've moved several times since high school and i'm pretty sure most of the kids wound up moving out of the area too.