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IronBornCorps
07/29/22 9:10:29 PM
#1:


Does he smash or pass?





A rare occurrence I know, but here it goes...

I work at a company and I have a team lead. Said team lead is moving to another team within the company. He and I have built a little bit of a report in my 5 or so month tenure there, and I like working with him. We have also gone on walks together, and share similar interests and music tastes (if that matters). We went to a team happy hour, and he just told me that he has talked about me to his wife, and his wife refers to me as his work wife (or something to that effect). He is also one of my stronger advocates at work, and says I should push for a promotion because I deserve it and I'm very intelligent.

Me being me, I am curious if you y'all think he is interested in me sexually? We have gone on walks together also (though team walks are common at our work since a track surrounds our office, but sometimes it's just us too), and we have discussed some deeper topics like what you would talk about with your therapist. Idk, I'm just kind of curious if you guess think he's into me, and also curious if I had anything to do with him moving teams so I wouldn't be a direct report to him anymore. Also, he is married with 3 kids and a beautiful wife, and I am very...not that.

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IronBornCorps
07/29/22 9:33:37 PM
#2:


The thought when more people here would probably recognize me from my ass than my username...
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Far-Queue
07/29/22 9:35:52 PM
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Just sounds like a decent dude to me. I'm not gonna say he's not interested, but from what you've mentioned here he could very well just be a good, friendly dude

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Vidyagamelover
07/29/22 9:38:52 PM
#4:


You posted your ass?

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wpot
07/29/22 9:39:41 PM
#5:


Probably just nice, especially if he's talking to his wife about you.

He might have a bit of the "if things were different I'd be in to her" thing going on, but it doesn't sound like he'd do anything about it.

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SunWuKung420
07/29/22 9:44:29 PM
#6:


You shouldn't even be considering it since he's married, unless you think being a homewrecker is moral.

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IronBornCorps
07/29/22 9:46:00 PM
#7:


I'm also trying to not paint him as a super thirsty into me dude, but he really sets off my intuition that he is into me. However, I have many bias, as he reminds me VERY MUCH SO as one of my ex's, both positives and negatives.
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Lokarin
07/29/22 9:47:05 PM
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He's probably just a rare actual professional who cares about the wellbeing of his entire team


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IronBornCorps
07/29/22 9:47:55 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
You shouldn't even be considering it since he's married, unless you think being a homewrecker is moral.

what are morals?
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IronBornCorps
07/29/22 9:48:50 PM
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Lokarin posted...
He's probably just a rare actual professional who cares about the wellbeing of his entire team

doubtful considering he's kind of aggressive to some other women on the team.
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IronBornCorps
07/29/22 9:51:38 PM
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idk, y'all are probably right, I shouldn't read into it so much...

but why did he leave the team when we were only getting along better and working more together?
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Metalsonic66
07/29/22 10:21:14 PM
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IronBornCorps posted...
He and I have built a little bit of a report in my 5 or so month tenure there
*rapport

But yeah, smash-city

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wpot
07/29/22 10:47:13 PM
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IronBornCorps posted...
but why did he leave the team when we were only getting along better and working more together?
Hard to say. Did his boss ask him to? Different opportunity? ...less temptation?

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Krazy_Kirby
07/30/22 3:27:35 AM
#14:


is he bi

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SunWuKung420
07/30/22 7:17:13 AM
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IronBornCorps posted...
what are morals?
You know, little things like doing the right thing and not the wrong thing.

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Nichtcrawler-X
07/30/22 9:04:35 AM
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IronBornCorps posted...
but why did he leave the team when we were only getting along better and working more together?

Might be a promotion, or upper management just wanting him in charge of another team for some reason.

Maybe you should try to become the teamlead of your current team?


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Far-Queue
07/30/22 9:42:03 AM
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IronBornCorps posted...
what are morals?
The opposite of acting like some enlightened ego-masturbating dickhead, blathering about chakras and breathing and pizza and other dumb shit

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IronBornCorps
07/30/22 9:53:48 AM
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wpot posted...
Hard to say. Did his boss ask him to? Different opportunity? ...less temptation?

No he wasn't asked, it is a different opportunity but he will no longer be a lead, just a Sr member of another team. His new desk is still very close to mine.

SunWuKung420 posted...
You know, little things like doing the right thing and not the wrong thing.

I've literally blown a married dude in a movie theater parking lot and can still sleep, so...

Nichtcrawler-X posted...
Might be a promotion, or upper management just wanting him in charge of another team for some reason.

Maybe you should try to become the teamlead of your current team?

Not really a promotion. Though he probably makes the same amount with less responsibility since the lead over there isn't moving. The new lead for this team is already established, but he said I was the heart of the team and my time will come.

Krazy_Kirby posted...
is he bi
Nope, 90% of the dudes I've been with though we're straight, so this is a weird question.
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JigsawTDCII
07/30/22 10:54:25 AM
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seduce his wife, then pursue him. MAXIMIZE the chaos. or, maybe theyll both be down and you can yourself in some sort of polyamorous situation. I hear thats popular with the kids these days.
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DragonClaw01
07/30/22 11:17:26 AM
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Yeah, your booty about to get smashed.

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Cacciato
07/30/22 12:00:11 PM
#21:


Far-Queue posted...
The opposite of acting like some enlightened ego-masturbating dickhead, blathering about chakras and breathing and pizza and other dumb shit
Lmao
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FatalAccident
07/30/22 12:04:19 PM
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dont think so, sorry

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Krazy_Kirby
07/30/22 12:17:25 PM
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IronBornCorps posted...

Nope, 90% of the dudes I've been with though we're straight, so this is a weird question.


yeah, and a vegetarian who eats meat is still a vegetarian.

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JigsawTDCII
07/30/22 12:25:06 PM
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oh I guess the krazy in krazy-kkkirby means transphobic and not the fun kind of crazy. Bummer!
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IronBornCorps
07/30/22 12:31:45 PM
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JigsawTDCII posted...
seduce his wife, then pursue him. MAXIMIZE the chaos. or, maybe theyll both be down and you can yourself in some sort of polyamorous situation. I hear thats popular with the kids these days.

Admittingly, I'm trying out less chaos these days. I mean I would be lying if I said I haven't wondered how pink his pee pee is, but I haven't acted on it. He's made a couple interesting comments the more I think about it. Like he said I remind him of his wife, and someone else was talking about how I looked like Mayim Bialik, he said he would buy an onlyfans of hers. I really might be over thinking it, but I think he may have smelled my hair one time when we were pair programming.

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IronBornCorps
07/30/22 12:36:09 PM
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Also at this point, Kirby is so obsessed with trans people, I think he actually might just be ashamed he found a pee pee that made his pee pee tingle, and I don't want to encourage that behavior. Kirby, no one cares you hate yourself for watching trans porn.
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Far-Queue
07/30/22 12:41:14 PM
#27:


Ignoramuses can't wrap their heads around sexuality being on a spectrum or scale.

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LaggnFragnLarry
07/30/22 12:56:17 PM
#28:


invite him out for drinks as a congratulations/youre changing positions thing. if he says yes touch his hand or leg friendly like during a conversation while having drinks. his reaction will let you know
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HornedLion
07/30/22 1:03:52 PM
#29:


Its 2022. His wife may be completely fine with letting him smash you. Allowing you to run away with him? Probably not. But to dip his popsicle maybe.

Wear a short skirt and go up a steep staircase with him, making sure youre in front if you catch him looking then youre in! Or hes in! Or however you guys want to do it.

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JixHedgehog
07/30/22 3:20:36 PM
#30:


You got "work-wifed", game over my friend

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wwinterj25
07/30/22 3:54:54 PM
#31:


Probably just being friendly. Although even if folk are married they sometimes just do window shopping and don't act upon it. He's open with his wife about you and she doesn't seem to mind so I don't think he's interested in doing anything with other people. Who knows though? They could have a open marriage or anything.

Krazy_Kirby posted...
is he bi

You do know being attracted the appearance of a woman when you're a bloke doesn't indicate being bisexual right?

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IronBornCorps
07/30/22 6:05:31 PM
#32:


JixHedgehog posted...
You got "work-wifed", game over my friend

Not sure, I get what you mean?
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OhhhJa
07/30/22 6:54:08 PM
#33:


They could be the type to invite you in the bedroom with them. I know some couple like that. Could be hinting that with the whole work wife thing
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HornedLion
07/30/22 9:36:20 PM
#34:


OhhhJa posted...
They could be the type to invite you in the bedroom with them. I know some couple like that. Could be hinting that with the whole work wife thing

I once worked at a sex party and would see tons of couples willing to bang a trans person but 99% of the time the trans woman was only ever interested in just the dude. So it never worked out for them.

@Cacciato im sure would like to know if i reported the money I made off that gig.


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grimhilde00
07/30/22 9:43:20 PM
#35:


not a man but I feel like you're overthinking it. he's talking about you to his wife, not hiding you. People can have friends at work and not want to fuck everyone.

also moving teams isn't that weird

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DirtBasedSoap
07/30/22 9:59:52 PM
#36:


maybe he wants to have a 3 way with you and his wife

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Cacciato
07/30/22 10:29:24 PM
#37:


HornedLion posted...
I once worked at a sex party and would see tons of couples willing to bang a trans person but 99% of the time the trans woman was only ever interested in just the dude. So it never worked out for them.

@Cacciato im sure would like to know if i reported the money I made off that gig.
Why
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