Current Events > This girl keeps telling me how amazing she feels after getting divorced.

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/13/22 5:22:43 PM
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She brings it up randomly in like every conversation for 2 weeks straight.

I can't tell if she's actually happy about it or just putting up a front so it makes it hard to react to. I just keep playing it off and changing the subject but now I think she might be calling for help and I'm just being dumb.

Any divorcees here who can give me advice? I've never been married.

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voldothegr8
07/13/22 5:24:29 PM
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Sounds like she's trying to throw you the p

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garan
07/13/22 5:28:22 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
Sounds like she's trying to throw you the p


She's single, so she might be trying to drum up interest.
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Ryuko_Chan
07/13/22 5:28:40 PM
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she wants the D

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thronedfire2
07/13/22 5:31:10 PM
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you haven't asked if she wants to celebrate?

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/13/22 5:31:50 PM
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garan posted...
She's single, so she might be trying to drum up interest.
I don't think so.

She's just had a baby (one of the reasons they broke up) I don't think she's looking for a relationship right now

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Nerevar791
07/13/22 5:33:23 PM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I don't think she's looking for a relationship right now
Note that nobody has mentioned a relationship ITT, lol.

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ClockworkHare
07/13/22 5:59:14 PM
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TC wants to "date" her, but is still sizing her up as an option.

The woman thinks he's a good listener to blog to, which doesn't necessarily mean she sees the interactions as anything more than platonic.

You're welcome.

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SauI_Goodman
07/13/22 5:59:48 PM
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Def trying to get that d

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kinetika_
07/13/22 6:01:52 PM
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Just roll with it and ask her why. I never play into anyone's game, I just ask why and let them talk
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Smiffwilm
07/13/22 6:02:02 PM
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Sometimes people repeat things over and over not because they're trying to convince others but rather they are attempting to convince themselves.

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/13/22 6:06:33 PM
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Smiffwilm posted...
Sometimes people repeat things over and over not because they're trying to convince others but rather they are attempting to convince themselves.
Yeah that's what I am concerned about

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Kitt
07/13/22 6:06:52 PM
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babynames.com

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/15/22 9:00:00 AM
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I think I may have fucked up

She's not talking to me now

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Touch
07/15/22 9:01:18 AM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I think I may have fucked up

She's not talking to me now
What you do

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Big_Nabendu
07/15/22 9:03:14 AM
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You had her tc
You blew it
Dumbass

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/15/22 9:05:01 AM
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I told her its okay to be upset or angry and that I'm always there if she ever wants to talk about it.

She got defensive and hasn't spoken to me since (usually she contacts me)

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rexcrk
07/15/22 9:10:54 AM
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Ugh. Why do girls do shit like that? She couldve just been like thanks for that, I appreciate it


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VigorouslySwish
07/15/22 9:13:57 AM
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So glad I never married

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R1masher
07/15/22 9:14:05 AM
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This is probably why shes divorced

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Guns_of_Verdun
07/15/22 9:17:46 AM
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R1masher posted...
This is probably why shes divorced
Well relationships are complicated but I think the big issue was the baby.

I don't think daddy wanted to keep it, they broke up just after he was born.

It was a pretty amicable break up tho. No lawyers or screaming. He's a cool guy.

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MrDrMan
07/15/22 9:19:02 AM
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Smiffwilm posted...
Sometimes people repeat things over and over not because they're trying to convince others but rather they are attempting to convince themselves.

This 100%. If she was truly happy and over it she wouldnt feel the need to talk about it.

Just had a baby too? Fuck no. Avoid.

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--Zero-
07/15/22 9:20:08 AM
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ClockworkHare posted...
TC wants to "date" her, but is still sizing her up as an option.

The woman thinks he's a good listener to blog to, which doesn't necessarily mean she sees the interactions as anything more than platonic.

You're welcome.

This while the rest is CE immediately thinks with their dick lol


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Oubliettes
07/15/22 9:20:27 AM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I told her its okay to be upset or angry and that I'm always there if she ever wants to talk about it.

She got defensive and hasn't spoken to me since (usually she contacts me)


if yer doin the whole nice guy schtick but youve got ulterior motives involving optional clothing, girls can smell that shit a mile away and it smells like asscheese and desperation

not saying be a dick to her or any PUA bullshit, but dont ride up like a knight in shining armor with your dick hanging out the fly iykwim


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MasterVading
07/15/22 9:55:47 AM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I don't think so.

She's just had a baby (one of the reasons they broke up) I don't think she's looking for a relationship right now

Single mother. Avoid anyway.

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DuneMan
07/15/22 10:16:27 AM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I told her its okay to be upset or angry and that I'm always there if she ever wants to talk about it.
It's actually a good thing you threw out a feeler like that. Now you definitely know that she didn't have such an interest in you and can go about the rest of your life, minus her presence.

Life is too short to worry about ambiguity. By presenting someone with a noncommittal response you more or less force them to reveal more about why they're interacting with you.

In this case her response to move on and avoid you means she was probably using you as a fallback person to 'vent' to, and never intended things to go beyond that. She'll find someone else to vent to in the future.

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Robot2600
07/16/22 12:32:22 PM
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TC how can u be so dense.

she dtf

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