Current Events > "She's mature for her age."

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No, shes not. Date people your own age or else its creepy.

She really could be. But at the end of the day she's still 18. And most people will judge you on that.

Unless someone is doing a crime don't worry about who people date .

"Im too immature for girls my age" doesn't have the same ring to it.

cjsdowg posted...

Unless someone is doing a crime don't worry about who people date .

This, you fucking puritans.

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18 is legal. There's nothing you can do. Haters can kiss my ass.

Hey, guys. There's a rule that was made specifically for old people to try to fuck people fresh out of high school with no real world experience yet. There's definitely no other reason that rule would exist. Also, try not to pay attention to the fact it was also not frowned upon for grown men to fuck 14 year olds back when it was put in place. Nothing weird going on over here. It's not a crime. I have no ability to create independent thought that strays away from rules made during a time pedophilia was mostly ok. Or wait, I probably do. I just choose not to attempt to use independent thought when it becomes inconvenient for me to fuck people who are just learning how not to be kids anymore. If I give them a few years in the real world, they might realize Im a fuckin loser with nothing to offer anyone.

Lol. I went extra.

Im actually fine with age gaps that aren't intentional. I just know the world well enough to know that's not the case a lot of the time. And when you mix these conversations in with how god damn creepy this place can get, my mind is gonna go certain places.

Im not trying to offend anyone who found their love and happened to be of different ages.

But, anyone who spends their time defending age gaps that go near high school age are probably the creeps and not one the people that would just organically meet a younger girl without trying and base the relationship around any actual depth. They'd be smart enough to understand how creepy they look to women by taking such a hard stand of fucking young women.

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Majority of my posts have edits. My mind tends to overlap itself.

Questionmarktarius posted...

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If there was ever a face begging for some facial cream that one is it.

What if I don't care that you think it's creepy?

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In the end, I believe love is love. If it works it works. But how many people are in relationships that actually functional? And when a dysfunctional 30-something uses his largely extended world experience to convince a 18-19 year old (20 still pushing it to me, but it gets slightly less creepy to me after they have a couple years to try to adjust to real life) that he's not a dysfunctional person and he's the norm, you're just standing watching these girls be eaten by the sharks.

In the end, they can make their own decisions and I can't do shit but attempt to borrow their ear, which is completely fair. But you bet your ass I'll tell them all this same shit if I get the opportunity. In a lot lighter of a tone tho >_>.

Also, the biggest tell to me is that men will never actually have these conversations about how they feel with actual women face to face. They deep down know what it implies and what they're doing. And the few weirdos that have done that have gotten humiliated. They also tend to be cowards

KeeperOfShadows posted...

What if I don't care that you think it's creepy?

That's up to you man. I only talk to make people maybe rethink their stances. Sometimes I get too emotional about the topic to be able to not namecall. Probably doesn't help. But I got nieces about to hit that age. Luckily one of them has me to put her on game. But guess what, the other already had an older guy over to her house while she was 15. Went to court and everything. And the ones preying on 18 year olds are the same as that guy but they're just too big of cowards to break the law to fulfill their fucked up wants. They don't go over a magical change on the day they turn 18. They just become more available to the wolves.

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We're on the same page.

Hell, if my niece turned 18-19 met a 30 year old and somehow he/she (not sure if she's locked in on this yet lol) was completely on the up and up and I couldn't find any reasons to be suspicious of their intentions, Id show my support. It would take me awhile to really get comfortable with it. But Id try, if she was happy. And this niece is pretty much a daughter to me at this point. There's weeks she's at my house more than her own. In the end, I just want the best chances for people to end up happy. That's my only goal. Rather they're my niece or a random stranger.

It would definitely need to start off with something better than "We met on the internet" >_>.

Nah fam, I'ma be pounding 20 year old ass til' the day I die.

Shit's just too good.

I dated an 18 year old last year(i was 33 at the time). We had similar life stories and would talk for hours on end and it led to us dating for awhile. But of course we both wanted different things in our lives. Age gaps do matter to some extent

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Yeah man. Shits scary. You don't have to be an idiot to be led astray by someone. Smart people do stupid things all the time. All you can do is try to better the odds when you're able to influence them.

Funny thing is, her mom is always on stories about the worst shit happening to people. So, Im actually the balance of trying to make my niece see the world as less scary. I wouldn't be like "Look out! There's pedophiles around every corner! BOO!" lol. I try to to put her on that there's also a lot of nice people worth meeting too.

"But it's legal" implies "I'd date even younger if I was legally allowed."

Mistere Man posted...

If there was ever a face begging for some facial cream that one is it.

*sigh* unzips

Lots of kids are mature for their age
Some due to things like being involved in activities like scouts and taking up leadership positions and some others like being the kid of a single mom who has to work 3 jobs and the kid is stuck being the 'parent' for the younger siblings.

But that's not what people mean when they say it

My girl is mature for her age. She's 22. I'm 34.