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clyde_frog 01/08/22 9:33:25 PM #1:	Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961589631] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xue1 01/08/22 10:06:57 PM #2:	What happened with your sister? It sounds like you should try to work things out with your sister <cite>xue1 posted [p:961590489] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>What happened with your sister? It sounds like you should try to work things out with your sister </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ivany2008 01/08/22 10:17:25 PM #3:	I didn't read all that, but family are people who support you throughout your life, not necessarily the ones your directly blood-linked to. I consider my best friend to be like a brother to me, as he's helped me out with a ton of things in my life, meanwhile my aunt who isn't blood-related but related through marriage, accused my adoptive father of some pretty nasty things. We don't talk to her side of the family anymore. <cite>Ivany2008 posted [p:961590711] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>I didn't read all that, but family are people who support you throughout your life, not necessarily the ones your directly blood-linked to. I consider my best friend to be like a brother to me, as he's helped me out with a ton of things in my life, meanwhile my aunt who isn't blood-related but related through marriage, accused my adoptive father of some pretty nasty things. We don't talk to her side of the family anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 10:46:55 PM #4:	xue1 posted... What happened with your sister? It sounds like you should try to work things out with your sister I asked why her and my dad havent visited me in the 2 years that Ive lived in Norcal. She said it works both ways and I could visit them too, but I was just in Arizona to visit them 6 months ago. It felt like such a backhanded thing to say to me, especially since it was my birthday and they were choosing to go on a road trip for the weekend instead of seeing me. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961591345] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>xue1 posted... </cite> <quote>What happened with your sister? It sounds like you should try to work things out with your sister</quote> I asked why her and my dad havent visited me in the 2 years that Ive lived in Norcal. She said it works both ways and I could visit them too, but I was just in Arizona to visit them 6 months ago. It felt like such a backhanded thing to say to me, especially since it was my birthday and they were choosing to go on a road trip for the weekend instead of seeing me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 01/08/22 10:47:56 PM #5:	Reminds me of my family. Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks. --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:961591370] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Reminds me of my family. Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 10:48:15 PM #6:	Ivany2008 posted... I didn't read all that, but family are people who support you throughout your life, not necessarily the ones your directly blood-linked to. I consider my best friend to be like a brother to me, as he's helped me out with a ton of things in my life, meanwhile my aunt who isn't blood-related but related through marriage, accused my adoptive father of some pretty nasty things. We don't talk to her side of the family anymore. No offense, but not reading the topic and replying with some generic BS that Ive heard many times over doesnt do anything for me. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961591383] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Ivany2008 posted... </cite> <quote>I didn't read all that, but family are people who support you throughout your life, not necessarily the ones your directly blood-linked to. I consider my best friend to be like a brother to me, as he's helped me out with a ton of things in my life, meanwhile my aunt who isn't blood-related but related through marriage, accused my adoptive father of some pretty nasty things. We don't talk to her side of the family anymore.</quote> No offense, but not reading the topic and replying with some generic BS that Ive heard many times over doesnt do anything for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 10:49:06 PM #7:	No_U_L7 posted... Reminds me of my family. Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks. Holy shit, you are actually a jackass for this. What the fuck dude. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961591400] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>No_U_L7 posted... </cite> <quote>Reminds me of my family. Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks.</quote> Holy shit, you are actually a jackass for this. What the fuck dude. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 01/08/22 10:51:57 PM #8:	clyde_frog posted... Holy shit, you are actually a jackass for this. What the fuck dude. lol come on, you know at least one person had to do it --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:961591457] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted...</cite> <quote> Holy shit, you are actually a jackass for this. What the fuck dude. </quote> lol come on, you know at least one person had to do it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 10:53:31 PM #9:	No_U_L7 posted... lol come on, you know at least one person had to do it Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961591489] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>No_U_L7 posted... </cite> <quote>lol come on, you know at least one person had to do it</quote> Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 01/08/22 10:55:26 PM #10:	welcome to 2022 mf --- I missed the part where that's my problem. <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:961591534] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>welcome to 2022 mf </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 01/08/22 10:56:05 PM #11:	No_U_L7 posted... lol come on, you know at least one person had to do it No one with any common sense. --- I often wonder if we are growing as a people... or in fact, regressing. <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:961591558] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>No_U_L7 posted... </cite> <quote>lol come on, you know at least one person had to do it</quote>No one with any common sense. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 10:56:54 PM #12:	And for the record, my brother had my sister give him oral when he was between 11-13 years old and she was 4-6 years old. I dont fucking know what to do with this information. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961591574] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>And for the record, my brother had my sister give him oral when he was between 11-13 years old and she was 4-6 years old. I dont fucking know what to do with this information. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MJOLNRVII 01/08/22 10:56:59 PM #13:	clyde_frog posted... Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE. You shouldn't be taking any posts from that user seriously ever, or pay attention to them. --- https://i.imgtc.ws/WBp3VHL.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/aGc8opg.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/tQBwJ35.gif <cite>MJOLNRVII posted [p:961591575] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE.</quote>You shouldn't be taking any posts from that user seriously ever, or pay attention to them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clyde_frog 01/08/22 10:59:25 PM #15:	MJOLNRVII posted... You shouldn't be taking any posts from that user seriously ever, or pay attention to them. I know Im aware of @No_U_L7 s trolling, but now isnt the time for it. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961591633] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>MJOLNRVII posted... </cite> <quote>You shouldn't be taking any posts from that user seriously ever, or pay attention to them.</quote> I know Im aware of @No_U_L7 s trolling, but now isnt the time for it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MedeaLysistrata 01/08/22 10:59:51 PM #16:	I'm sorry you had to go through all that and are still going through it TC. Maybe as you get older things will get easier. Scofield how do you manage to find the worst time to try to be funny. --- "Why is ontology so expensive?" - JH [Is this live?][Joyless planet...] <cite>MedeaLysistrata posted [p:961591642] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry you had to go through all that and are still going through it TC. Maybe as you get older things will get easier. Scofield how do you manage to find the worst time to try to be funny. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 01/08/22 11:02:52 PM #17:	MedeaLysistrata posted... I'm sorry you had to go through all that and are still going through it TC. Maybe as you get older things will get easier. Scofield how do you manage to find the worst time to try to be funny. didn't even read the post tbh --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:961591700] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>MedeaLysistrata posted...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry you had to go through all that and are still going through it TC. Maybe as you get older things will get easier. Scofield how do you manage to find the worst time to try to be funny. </quote> didn't even read the post tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoomSwell 01/08/22 11:15:57 PM #18:	@clyde_frog Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE. This might not be the best place to open your heart... But I can relate... After our mom passed away I was cleaning her room and found the police records of what my brother did to my sister. I didnt read, only skimmed, never knew the details cause it was treated like no big deal... He's in prison for doing similar stuff to his neighbor's daughter. Mom died believing he was framed. I dunno what to think. We kept in touch till I found the papers but now Ive just kinda gone awkwardly silent. Kinda wanna destroy'em but maybe I shouldn't? Don't really wanna bring it up to my sister... --- http://www.backloggery.com/doomswell <cite>DoomSwell posted [p:961591999] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>@clyde_frog <quote>Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE.</quote> This might not be the best place to open your heart... But I can relate... After our mom passed away I was cleaning her room and found the police records of what my brother did to my sister. I didnt read, only skimmed, never knew the details cause it was treated like no big deal... He's in prison for doing similar stuff to his neighbor's daughter. Mom died believing he was framed. I dunno what to think. We kept in touch till I found the papers but now Ive just kinda gone awkwardly silent. Kinda wanna destroy'em but maybe I shouldn't? Don't really wanna bring it up to my sister... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 01/08/22 11:20:57 PM #19:	sorry, blame it on the covid. i deleted the post --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:961592091] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>sorry, blame it on the covid. i deleted the post</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CinderLock 01/08/22 11:22:47 PM #20:	Clyde Frog we gotta rescue princes pollypants wicky wicky wild wild west --- Kathy Bates inspires fear in the soul, hence the validity of humanity. - Wolfy42 <cite>CinderLock posted [p:961592132] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Clyde Frog we gotta rescue princes pollypants wicky wicky wild wild west </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 11:46:39 PM #21:	No_U_L7 posted... sorry, blame it on the covid. i deleted the post thats actually commendable of you --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961592524] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>No_U_L7 posted... </cite> <quote>sorry, blame it on the covid. i deleted the post</quote> thats actually commendable of you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clyde_frog 01/08/22 11:49:52 PM #23:	DoomSwell posted... @clyde_frog This might not be the best place to open your heart... But I can relate... After our mom passed away I was cleaning her room and found the police records of what my brother did to my sister. I didnt read, only skimmed, never knew the details cause it was treated like no big deal... He's in prison for doing similar stuff to his neighbor's daughter. Mom died believing he was framed. I dunno what to think. We kept in touch till I found the papers but now Ive just kinda gone awkwardly silent. Kinda wanna destroy'em but maybe I shouldn't? Don't really wanna bring it up to my sister... I know its not the best place, but where would be the best place exactly? I dont feel comfortable sharing these things with people I know. And I sorry to hear about your brother as well. That must have been real painful reading the police records --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961592584] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>DoomSwell posted... </cite> <quote>@clyde_frog This might not be the best place to open your heart... But I can relate... After our mom passed away I was cleaning her room and found the police records of what my brother did to my sister. I didnt read, only skimmed, never knew the details cause it was treated like no big deal... He's in prison for doing similar stuff to his neighbor's daughter. Mom died believing he was framed. I dunno what to think. We kept in touch till I found the papers but now Ive just kinda gone awkwardly silent. Kinda wanna destroy'em but maybe I shouldn't? Don't really wanna bring it up to my sister...</quote> I know its not the best place, but where would be the best place exactly? I dont feel comfortable sharing these things with people I know. And I sorry to hear about your brother as well. That must have been real painful reading the police records </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SauI_Goodman 01/08/22 11:54:05 PM #24:	Robot2600 posted... welcome to 2022 mf he said 202 not 2022 --- If you can see this message it's a wonder why it hasn't been modded yet by the snowflakes. <cite>SauI_Goodman posted [p:961592643] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Robot2600 posted... </cite> <quote>welcome to 2022 mf</quote>he said 202 not 2022 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/08/22 11:55:43 PM #25:	SauI_Goodman posted... he said 202 not 2022 lmao that was supposed to say 2020 but enough time lapsed so I wasnt able to edit the original post --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961592674] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>SauI_Goodman posted... </cite> <quote>he said 202 not 2022</quote> lmao that was supposed to say 2020 but enough time lapsed so I wasnt able to edit the original post </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wetterdew 01/09/22 12:06:56 AM #26:	clyde_frog posted... I know its not the best place, but where would be the best place exactly? I dont feel comfortable sharing these things with people I know. And I sorry to hear about your brother as well. That must have been real painful reading the police records reddit.com/r/trueoffmychest is pretty much exactly what you're asking for. idk what the commenters there are like but the place exists for people to share stories like this <cite>Wetterdew posted [p:961592863] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>I know its not the best place, but where would be the best place exactly? I dont feel comfortable sharing these things with people I know. And I sorry to hear about your brother as well. That must have been real painful reading the police records</quote>reddit.com/r/trueoffmychest is pretty much exactly what you're asking for. idk what the commenters there are like but the place exists for people to share stories like this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ivany2008 01/09/22 12:12:41 AM #27:	clyde_frog posted... No offense, but not reading the topic and replying with some generic BS that Ive heard many times over doesnt do anything for me. One of my aunts was a full on schizophrenic who during the same day threatened my entire family and also questioned why no one wanted to be around her. My other aunt, was a psychopath who tried to sue my entire family because we put flowers on my grandfathers grave. The first 3 woman I'd ever gone on dates with were complete nutjobs that turned me off from dating for a good few years. The first one during our 3rd date proceeded to flip out at me when I gave her a rose, threatened to make me disappear if I ever cheated on her, and when I told her to get out of my car, asked me to come back to her place to get her pregnant. All in the same conversation. Meanwhile my best friends wife took him to therapy convincing him that he was depressed and that same therapist prescribed him medication for depression, all the while she was having sex with a co-worker that was selling her weed. This same woman after he found out and divorced her attempted to sue him for half the stuff he owned, not realizing that she signed a prenup. She then asked him over the phone to pay for 50 percent of the lawyers bills, which obviously he laughed at. He's doing much better now. This doesn't even touch what happened with his mother, which is by far more messed up. Are any of these as bad as what you listed? absolutely not. But we all have our demons. Talk to a therapist. They are paid as an impartial medium to listen to you and give you their thoughts on the matter and believe you me, if you find a good one, they are extremely effective at providing you advice that can and will change your life. I've had to use one in the past and it helped me out a ton during a very depressing time in my life, the same one told me to cut the negative influences out of my life that were affecting me personally. <cite>Ivany2008 posted [p:961592970] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>No offense, but not reading the topic and replying with some generic BS that Ive heard many times over doesnt do anything for me.</quote> One of my aunts was a full on schizophrenic who during the same day threatened my entire family and also questioned why no one wanted to be around her. My other aunt, was a psychopath who tried to sue my entire family because we put flowers on my grandfathers grave. The first 3 woman I'd ever gone on dates with were complete nutjobs that turned me off from dating for a good few years. The first one during our 3rd date proceeded to flip out at me when I gave her a rose, threatened to make me disappear if I ever cheated on her, and when I told her to get out of my car, asked me to come back to her place to get her pregnant. All in the same conversation. Meanwhile my best friends wife took him to therapy convincing him that he was depressed and that same therapist prescribed him medication for depression, all the while she was having sex with a co-worker that was selling her weed. This same woman after he found out and divorced her attempted to sue him for half the stuff he owned, not realizing that she signed a prenup. She then asked him over the phone to pay for 50 percent of the lawyers bills, which obviously he laughed at. He's doing much better now. This doesn't even touch what happened with his mother, which is by far more messed up. Are any of these as bad as what you listed? absolutely not. But we all have our demons. Talk to a therapist. They are paid as an impartial medium to listen to you and give you their thoughts on the matter and believe you me, if you find a good one, they are extremely effective at providing you advice that can and will change your life. I've had to use one in the past and it helped me out a ton during a very depressing time in my life, the same one told me to cut the negative influences out of my life that were affecting me personally. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 01/09/22 12:18:34 AM #28:	No_U_L7 posted... sorry, blame it on the covid. i deleted the post ...Are you serious? --- I often wonder if we are growing as a people... or in fact, regressing. <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:961593097] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>No_U_L7 posted... </cite> <quote>sorry, blame it on the covid. i deleted the post</quote>...Are you serious? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/09/22 12:35:27 AM #29:	Ivany2008 posted... One of my aunts was a full on schizophrenic who during the same day threatened my entire family and also questioned why no one wanted to be around her. My other aunt, was a psychopath who tried to sue my entire family because we put flowers on my grandfathers grave. The first 3 woman I'd ever gone on dates with were complete nutjobs that turned me off from dating for a good few years. The first one during our 3rd date proceeded to flip out at me when I gave her a rose, threatened to make me disappear if I ever cheated on her, and when I told her to get out of my car, asked me to come back to her place to get her pregnant. All in the same conversation. Meanwhile my best friends wife took him to therapy convincing him that he was depressed and that same therapist prescribed him medication for depression, all the while she was having sex with a co-worker that was selling her weed. This same woman after he found out and divorced her attempted to sue him for half the stuff he owned, not realizing that she signed a prenup. She then asked him over the phone to pay for 50 percent of the lawyers bills, which obviously he laughed at. He's doing much better now. This doesn't even touch what happened with his mother, which is by far more messed up. Are any of these as bad as what you listed? absolutely not. But we all have our demons. Talk to a therapist. They are paid as an impartial medium to listen to you and give you their thoughts on the matter and believe you me, if you find a good one, they are extremely effective at providing you advice that can and will change your life. I've had to use one in the past and it helped me out a ton during a very depressing time in my life, the same one told me to cut the negative influences out of my life that were affecting me personally. Thank you. When you put it that way, maybe I should find a therapist to talk to. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961593451] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Ivany2008 posted... </cite> <quote>One of my aunts was a full on schizophrenic who during the same day threatened my entire family and also questioned why no one wanted to be around her. My other aunt, was a psychopath who tried to sue my entire family because we put flowers on my grandfathers grave. The first 3 woman I'd ever gone on dates with were complete nutjobs that turned me off from dating for a good few years. The first one during our 3rd date proceeded to flip out at me when I gave her a rose, threatened to make me disappear if I ever cheated on her, and when I told her to get out of my car, asked me to come back to her place to get her pregnant. All in the same conversation. Meanwhile my best friends wife took him to therapy convincing him that he was depressed and that same therapist prescribed him medication for depression, all the while she was having sex with a co-worker that was selling her weed. This same woman after he found out and divorced her attempted to sue him for half the stuff he owned, not realizing that she signed a prenup. She then asked him over the phone to pay for 50 percent of the lawyers bills, which obviously he laughed at. He's doing much better now. This doesn't even touch what happened with his mother, which is by far more messed up. Are any of these as bad as what you listed? absolutely not. But we all have our demons. Talk to a therapist. They are paid as an impartial medium to listen to you and give you their thoughts on the matter and believe you me, if you find a good one, they are extremely effective at providing you advice that can and will change your life. I've had to use one in the past and it helped me out a ton during a very depressing time in my life, the same one told me to cut the negative influences out of my life that were affecting me personally.</quote> Thank you. When you put it that way, maybe I should find a therapist to talk to. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 01/09/22 12:50:27 AM #30:	Solar_Crimson posted... ...Are you serious? yes i have covid and had fever chills all night. it's affected my thinking ability and left in me no mood to read, think or analyze the OP --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:961593797] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Solar_Crimson posted...</cite> <quote> ...Are you serious? </quote> yes i have covid and had fever chills all night. it's affected my thinking ability and left in me no mood to read, think or analyze the OP</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ivany2008 01/09/22 1:07:14 AM #31:	clyde_frog posted... Thank you. When you put it that way, maybe I should find a therapist to talk to. yw. I didn't mean any harm by my previous message. <cite>Ivany2008 posted [p:961594090] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>Thank you. When you put it that way, maybe I should find a therapist to talk to.</quote> yw. I didn't mean any harm by my previous message. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AgentCoulson 01/09/22 1:09:57 AM #32:	Funny how it didn't stop you from making that post though... Ivany2008 posted... The first 3 woman I'd ever gone on dates with were complete nutjobs that turned me off from dating for a good few years. The first one during our 3rd date proceeded to flip out at me when I gave her a rose, threatened to make me disappear if I ever cheated on her, and when I told her to get out of my car, asked me to come back to her place to get her pregnant. All in the same conversation. ...Bro, what the fuck --- I haven't set a signature for the message boards yet <cite>AgentCoulson posted [p:961594137] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Funny how it didn't stop you from making that post though... Ivany2008 posted... </cite> <quote>The first 3 woman I'd ever gone on dates with were complete nutjobs that turned me off from dating for a good few years. The first one during our 3rd date proceeded to flip out at me when I gave her a rose, threatened to make me disappear if I ever cheated on her, and when I told her to get out of my car, asked me to come back to her place to get her pregnant. All in the same conversation. </quote> ...Bro, what the fuck </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
berlyman101 01/09/22 1:10:57 AM #33:	wow, that sucks Therapy couldn't hurt --- http://www.lukesurl.com/comics/2010-02-24-determinism.png <cite>berlyman101 posted [p:961594147] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>wow, that sucks Therapy couldn't hurt </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AngelsNAirwav3s 01/09/22 1:28:37 AM #34:	First time I have laughed at a No_U_L7 post I think, very inappropriate lol but that took some balls What in investment TC? Put a lot of money into GameStop at $400? --- Hello world! <cite>AngelsNAirwav3s posted [p:961594428] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>First time I have laughed at a No_U_L7 post I think, very inappropriate lol but that took some balls What in investment TC? Put a lot of money into GameStop at $400? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/09/22 1:32:18 AM #35:	AngelsNAirwav3s posted... First time I have laughed at a No_U_L7 post I think, very inappropriate lol but that took some balls What in investment TC? Put a lot of money into GameStop at $400? Nope. Held alot of Nvidia options and lost $118k --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961594476] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>AngelsNAirwav3s posted... </cite> <quote>First time I have laughed at a No_U_L7 post I think, very inappropriate lol but that took some balls What in investment TC? Put a lot of money into GameStop at $400?</quote> Nope. Held alot of Nvidia options and lost $118k </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AngelsNAirwav3s 01/09/22 1:34:27 AM #36:	clyde_frog posted... Nope. Held alot of Nvidia options and lost $118k Ah damn thats rough, Im also bag holding some pretty hefty losses, does not feel great --- Hello world! <cite>AngelsNAirwav3s posted [p:961594514] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>Nope. Held alot of Nvidia options and lost $118k</quote> Ah damn thats rough, Im also bag holding some pretty hefty losses, does not feel great </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/09/22 1:35:49 AM #37:	AngelsNAirwav3s posted... Ah damn thats rough, Im also bag holding some pretty hefty losses, does not feel great Damn Im sorry as well. And yea I pretty much lost all my savings, although much of it had been gains from the market. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961594534] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>AngelsNAirwav3s posted... </cite> <quote>Ah damn thats rough, Im also bag holding some pretty hefty losses, does not feel great</quote> Damn Im sorry as well. And yea I pretty much lost all my savings, although much of it had been gains from the market. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ivany2008 01/09/22 3:06:00 AM #38:	AgentCoulson posted... ...Bro, what the fuck Trust me... she wasn't the first nutjob. There was about 4 women that turned me off from dating for a good 6-7 years. I'm an introvert by nature, so having to deal with clashing personalities just isn't good for me. I went on a date with a girl where she brought her friend. I didn't think much of it. And it went fine the first date, though there was a bit of a warning that I didn't pay much attention to, which was that she smoked when her messages to me said she didn't. We went to see a movie. Didn't talk to her until a couple days later when she messaged me asking to drop by my place as she was at a party and things got out of hand, and she didn't feel comfortable going home. So she dropped over and stayed the night (I didn't sleep with her, lord knows I wanted to). In the middle of making out, she literally went into a full on seizure, which passed after half a minute, but I gave her a blanket/pillow and she fell asleep on my living room floor. So I went to bed, woke up and she was passed out on my couch. Later that day she apologized, and she hung out with me until the next night it happened again. This time it didn't pass, and the ambulance was called. I find out from the EMT that she was having a full on Alcohol induced seizure. Do you have any idea how much booze you have to drink to have one of those? That wasn't even the most fucked up part. At some point during the day when I wasn't watching her, she downed half a 40 of Vodka that I had in my cupboard (which I use for mix). Didn't ask me if she could have my liquor. EMTs went through her purse for ID, only to find 4 different IDs with 4 different names/addresses on them. They bring her to the hospital (we live in Canada, its free), and she has the nerve the next morning to check herself out by telling the nurse that I was going to be picking her up. I literally told her that wasn't happening and that was the last I saw of her, outside of getting my shirt back from her, which she slept in. Too bad too.... she was easily a 9/10. 5'6, Goth and a very nice body. <cite>Ivany2008 posted [p:961595638] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>AgentCoulson posted... </cite> <quote>...Bro, what the fuck</quote> Trust me... she wasn't the first nutjob. There was about 4 women that turned me off from dating for a good 6-7 years. I'm an introvert by nature, so having to deal with clashing personalities just isn't good for me. I went on a date with a girl where she brought her friend. I didn't think much of it. And it went fine the first date, though there was a bit of a warning that I didn't pay much attention to, which was that she smoked when her messages to me said she didn't. We went to see a movie. Didn't talk to her until a couple days later when she messaged me asking to drop by my place as she was at a party and things got out of hand, and she didn't feel comfortable going home. So she dropped over and stayed the night (I didn't sleep with her, lord knows I wanted to). In the middle of making out, she literally went into a full on seizure, which passed after half a minute, but I gave her a blanket/pillow and she fell asleep on my living room floor. So I went to bed, woke up and she was passed out on my couch. Later that day she apologized, and she hung out with me until the next night it happened again. This time it didn't pass, and the ambulance was called. I find out from the EMT that she was having a full on Alcohol induced seizure. Do you have any idea how much booze you have to drink to have one of those? That wasn't even the most fucked up part. At some point during the day when I wasn't watching her, she downed half a 40 of Vodka that I had in my cupboard (which I use for mix). Didn't ask me if she could have my liquor. EMTs went through her purse for ID, only to find 4 different IDs with 4 different names/addresses on them. They bring her to the hospital (we live in Canada, its free), and she has the nerve the next morning to check herself out by telling the nurse that I was going to be picking her up. I literally told her that wasn't happening and that was the last I saw of her, outside of getting my shirt back from her, which she slept in. Too bad too.... she was easily a 9/10. 5'6, Goth and a very nice body. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 01/09/22 3:13:27 AM #39:	Ivany2008 posted... Trust me... she wasn't the first nutjob. There was about 4 women that turned me off from dating for a good 6-7 years. I'm an introvert by nature, so having to deal with clashing personalities just isn't good for me. I went on a date with a girl where she brought her friend. I didn't think much of it. And it went fine the first date, though there was a bit of a warning that I didn't pay much attention to, which was that she smoked when her messages to me said she didn't. We went to see a movie. Didn't talk to her until a couple days later when she messaged me asking to drop by my place as she was at a party and things got out of hand, and she didn't feel comfortable going home. So she dropped over and stayed the night (I didn't sleep with her, lord knows I wanted to). In the middle of making out, she literally went into a full on seizure, which passed after half a minute, but I gave her a blanket/pillow and she fell asleep on my living room floor. So I went to bed, woke up and she was passed out on my couch. Later that day she apologized, and she hung out with me until the next night it happened again. This time it didn't pass, and the ambulance was called. I find out from the EMT that she was having a full on Alcohol induced seizure. Do you have any idea how much booze you have to drink to have one of those? That wasn't even the most fucked up part. At some point during the day when I wasn't watching her, she downed half a 40 of Vodka that I had in my cupboard (which I use for mix). Didn't ask me if she could have my liquor. EMTs went through her purse for ID, only to find 4 different IDs with 4 different names/addresses on them. They bring her to the hospital (we live in Canada, its free), and she has the nerve the next morning to check herself out by telling the nurse that I was going to be picking her up. I literally told her that wasn't happening and that was the last I saw of her, outside of getting my shirt back from her, which she slept in. Too bad too.... she was easily a 9/10. 5'6, Goth and a very nice body. My kinda woman Well, apparently, looking at my dating history anyway --- Tennessee's a brother to my sister Carolina where they're gonna bury me. And I ain't ready to go. I'm never ready to go. <cite>Smackems posted [p:961595713] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Ivany2008 posted... </cite> <quote>Trust me... she wasn't the first nutjob. There was about 4 women that turned me off from dating for a good 6-7 years. I'm an introvert by nature, so having to deal with clashing personalities just isn't good for me. I went on a date with a girl where she brought her friend. I didn't think much of it. And it went fine the first date, though there was a bit of a warning that I didn't pay much attention to, which was that she smoked when her messages to me said she didn't. We went to see a movie. Didn't talk to her until a couple days later when she messaged me asking to drop by my place as she was at a party and things got out of hand, and she didn't feel comfortable going home. So she dropped over and stayed the night (I didn't sleep with her, lord knows I wanted to). In the middle of making out, she literally went into a full on seizure, which passed after half a minute, but I gave her a blanket/pillow and she fell asleep on my living room floor. So I went to bed, woke up and she was passed out on my couch. Later that day she apologized, and she hung out with me until the next night it happened again. This time it didn't pass, and the ambulance was called. I find out from the EMT that she was having a full on Alcohol induced seizure. Do you have any idea how much booze you have to drink to have one of those? That wasn't even the most fucked up part. At some point during the day when I wasn't watching her, she downed half a 40 of Vodka that I had in my cupboard (which I use for mix). Didn't ask me if she could have my liquor. EMTs went through her purse for ID, only to find 4 different IDs with 4 different names/addresses on them. They bring her to the hospital (we live in Canada, its free), and she has the nerve the next morning to check herself out by telling the nurse that I was going to be picking her up. I literally told her that wasn't happening and that was the last I saw of her, outside of getting my shirt back from her, which she slept in. Too bad too.... she was easily a 9/10. 5'6, Goth and a very nice body.</quote>My kinda woman Well, apparently, looking at my dating history anyway </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Michael_Booth 01/09/22 3:24:41 AM #40:	clyde_frog posted... Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks. How'd you get into an argument over the finances? Did you ask for money, or something? <cite>Michael_Booth posted [p:961595822] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>Quick backstory. Growing up my family looked a typical suburban white upper middle class family. Despite this aesthetic, both my parents were verbally abusive and my mom would hit me and dig her finger nails into my arms whenever she would get upset at me. I would sometimes go to school with bloody wrists and forearms from where she would grab me. In the past she had slapped me across the face, thrown my model cars and legos at me, and so on. Fast forward to when I was in middle school, my parents get a divorce and Im forced to live with my mom. After several horrific years living with her I moved in with my dad, which to my surprise was just as bad of a living situation. From 13-17 I had the worst years of my life. I was depressed every day, had zero self confidence, and both of my parents were contributing to my mental collapse and depression. I eventually turned things around during the last year of high school, made some quality friends, and began loving life again. I owe the current man I am today to those experiences I had when I was 17-18. When I was 22 I moved out permanently and my relationship with both my parents improved ten fold. I would speak to them on the phone nearly every day, I regularly got lunch with my mom, and my relationship with my siblings was solid. However, this all changed a couple years ago when my sister had a situation occur with my moms boyfriend, causing her to run out of the house and moving in with my dad. My sister and mom do not have a talking relationship from this point on. During Christmas of 202 my mom and I get into a large fight regard a large sum of money that I lost in investments. The argument was so bad that I left her place and ended my vacation early. I have since only spoken to her on the phone 3 times in the last year. My brother decided 6 months ago that he will not talk to me unless I maintain a relationship with my mom. Him and I only exchange shallow texts on holidays and birthdays nowadays. We used to talk often through text, send each other memes, videos, talk about music. We were somewhat close. Shortly after my brother stopped talking to me, my sister began seeing a therapist and she remembered a memory she had suppressed since the age of 4. She says my brother would do things with her when she was 3-4 and he was 10-11. Around 13 years ago my sister originally brought this up to my family and it caused some awkward tension, but the situation kind of.fizzled out. Sadly, everyone moved on like it never happened. Hell, I even forgot that it happened. In the rare times the situation popped in my head, I would think of it like a strange dream that never actually happened. Its not like I could talk with my parents about it, the subject was so taboo. But now the cat is out of the bag. My stepmom does not want my brother to see my sister, my dads relationship with him is fractured, and I dont talk with him. I dont talk with my mom. My relationship with my sister was improving the last couple years, but tonight she threw that all away so now were not on good terms. My grandmas dementia is so bad that she forgot my name after singing me happy birthday on the phone, and mentioning my name during the song. It feels like I only have a connection with my dad as of now. When I was growing up I had this big family with many distant relatives in the picture, and somehow I lost all of that. This really sucks.</quote> How'd you get into an argument over the finances? Did you ask for money, or something? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/09/22 3:26:57 AM #41:	Michael_Booth posted... How'd you get into an argument over the finances? Did you ask for money, or something? I mentioned it earlier but I ended up losing a significant amount of money. She was upset that I didnt mention it sooner, as it happened months earlier. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961595843] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Michael_Booth posted... </cite> <quote>How'd you get into an argument over the finances? Did you ask for money, or something?</quote> I mentioned it earlier but I ended up losing a significant amount of money. She was upset that I didnt mention it sooner, as it happened months earlier. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Machete 01/09/22 3:53:32 AM #42:	Polly Prissypants is a traitor. Rumpletumpskin is a weirdo. Peter Panda is a tryhard. The GI Joe looking motherfucker I can't remember his name is an irrelevant follower. I'm not surprised you feel this way, tc. --- I do not receive notifications, so using the @ feature will not do anything. I might see your post and respond though if I have already been in the topic. <cite>Machete posted [p:961596065] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Polly Prissypants is a traitor. Rumpletumpskin is a weirdo. Peter Panda is a tryhard. The GI Joe looking motherfucker I can't remember his name is an irrelevant follower. I'm not surprised you feel this way, tc. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 01/09/22 4:04:11 AM #43:	clyde_frog posted... Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE. I am sorry. I don't have any words that can help. But this. Take care of you. Don't go into a situation that will hurt or harm you.Mentally or anything else. --- To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships. W.E.B. Du Bois <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:961596165] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote> Im not in the mood for it right now. This is too personal for me and the first time Ive ever opened my heart out like this on CE.</quote> I am sorry. I don't have any words that can help. But this. Take care of you. Don't go into a situation that will hurt or harm you.Mentally or anything else. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrMallard 01/09/22 4:27:22 AM #44:	I'm sorry that your family hasn't been good to you throughout your life. It's tempting to just say "family ain't shit, go and live your life", but I can understand how despite the hardships and the alienation, you would want to be close to them. Family, for better or for worse, is a connection that you can fall back on. It sounds like you're really trying, although you realise how toxic their influence and their direct interactions with you have been. That's a hard fucking pill to swallow - I'm sorry, and I hope the realisation hasn't been too destabilizing. With that being said, all I can really offer beyond what I've already said is something I brought up earlier. Family ain't shit. You're your own person, a completely unique individual, and you need to live your life if the relationship with your family is as toxic as you're saying it is. If this stuff is weighing you down, fuckin cut ties and bail if you can. I can't speak for the quality of your other relationships, and I get that it's harder to meet new people and make new friends the older you get, but in this case the blood of the covenant seems like it'd be thicker than the water of the womb. You deserve better than to be dragged down by decades of trauma and abuse, capped off by a family unit that to this day is such a source of despair and dysfunction that you're realising there's little to no redeeming qualities to being around them. Burn your bridges, live your life on your own merits and be free. It may not be a popular choice, people may be upset by it, but you deserve to live your life on your own merits and find happiness the way you want to. --- But for you I came this far across the tracks, 10 miles above the limit with no seatbelt Now Playing: Minecraft, Pokemon BD, World Flipper <cite>MrMallard posted [p:961596397] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry that your family hasn't been good to you throughout your life. It's tempting to just say "family ain't shit, go and live your life", but I can understand how despite the hardships and the alienation, you would want to be close to them. Family, for better or for worse, is a connection that you can fall back on. It sounds like you're really trying, although you realise how toxic their influence and their direct interactions with you have been. That's a hard fucking pill to swallow - I'm sorry, and I hope the realisation hasn't been too destabilizing. With that being said, all I can really offer beyond what I've already said is something I brought up earlier. Family ain't shit. You're your own person, a completely unique individual, and you need to live your life if the relationship with your family is as toxic as you're saying it is. If this stuff is weighing you down, fuckin cut ties and bail if you can. I can't speak for the quality of your other relationships, and I get that it's harder to meet new people and make new friends the older you get, but in this case the blood of the covenant seems like it'd be thicker than the water of the womb. You deserve better than to be dragged down by decades of trauma and abuse, capped off by a family unit that to this day is such a source of despair and dysfunction that you're realising there's little to no redeeming qualities to being around them. Burn your bridges, live your life on your own merits and be free. It may not be a popular choice, people may be upset by it, but you deserve to live your life on your own merits and find happiness the way you want to. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/09/22 4:30:17 AM #45:	Machete posted... Polly Prissypants is a traitor. Rumpletumpskin is a weirdo. Peter Panda is a tryhard. The GI Joe looking motherfucker I can't remember his name is an irrelevant follower. I'm not surprised you feel this way, tc. How dare you do Muscle Man Mark like that --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961596429] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Machete posted... </cite> <quote>Polly Prissypants is a traitor. Rumpletumpskin is a weirdo. Peter Panda is a tryhard. The GI Joe looking motherfucker I can't remember his name is an irrelevant follower. I'm not surprised you feel this way, tc.</quote> How dare you do Muscle Man Mark like that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 01/09/22 4:32:23 AM #46:	cjsdowg posted... I am sorry. I don't have any words that can help. But this. Take care of you. Don't go into a situation that will hurt or harm you.Mentally or anything else. thank you Im trying to keep that mindset. MrMallard posted... I'm sorry that your family hasn't been good to you throughout your life. It's tempting to just say "family ain't shit, go and live your life", but I can understand how despite the hardships and the alienation, you would want to be close to them. Family, for better or for worse, is a connection that you can fall back on. It sounds like you're really trying, although you realise how toxic their influence and their direct interactions with you have been. That's a hard fucking pill to swallow - I'm sorry, and I hope the realisation hasn't been too destabilizing. With that being said, all I can really offer beyond what I've already said is something I brought up earlier. Family ain't shit. You're your own person, a completely unique individual, and you need to live your life if the relationship with your family is as toxic as you're saying it is. If this stuff is weighing you down, fuckin cut ties and bail if you can. I can't speak for the quality of your other relationships, and I get that it's harder to meet new people and make new friends the older you get, but in this case the blood of the covenant seems like it'd be thicker than the water of the womb. You deserve better than to be dragged down by decades of trauma and abuse, capped off by a family unit that to this day is such a source of despair and dysfunction that you're realising there's little to no redeeming qualities to being around them. Burn your bridges, live your life on your own merits and be free. It may not be a popular choice, people may be upset by it, but you deserve to live your life on your own merits and find happiness the way you want to. I basically did this with my mom and brother already, but I guess Ill have to do the same with my sister too. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961596454] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>cjsdowg posted... </cite> <quote>I am sorry. I don't have any words that can help. But this. Take care of you. Don't go into a situation that will hurt or harm you.Mentally or anything else.</quote> thank you Im trying to keep that mindset. MrMallard posted... </cite> <quote>I'm sorry that your family hasn't been good to you throughout your life. It's tempting to just say "family ain't shit, go and live your life", but I can understand how despite the hardships and the alienation, you would want to be close to them. Family, for better or for worse, is a connection that you can fall back on. It sounds like you're really trying, although you realise how toxic their influence and their direct interactions with you have been. That's a hard fucking pill to swallow - I'm sorry, and I hope the realisation hasn't been too destabilizing. With that being said, all I can really offer beyond what I've already said is something I brought up earlier. Family ain't shit. You're your own person, a completely unique individual, and you need to live your life if the relationship with your family is as toxic as you're saying it is. If this stuff is weighing you down, fuckin cut ties and bail if you can. I can't speak for the quality of your other relationships, and I get that it's harder to meet new people and make new friends the older you get, but in this case the blood of the covenant seems like it'd be thicker than the water of the womb. You deserve better than to be dragged down by decades of trauma and abuse, capped off by a family unit that to this day is such a source of despair and dysfunction that you're realising there's little to no redeeming qualities to being around them. Burn your bridges, live your life on your own merits and be free. It may not be a popular choice, people may be upset by it, but you deserve to live your life on your own merits and find happiness the way you want to.</quote> I basically did this with my mom and brother already, but I guess Ill have to do the same with my sister too. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clyde_frog 01/09/22 10:08:21 PM #48:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I think one of my best traits is not allowing really negative things affect me long term. Despite having a thin skin and having my fair share of depressive episodes, Im able to find a way to go on having a normal life. --- http://i.imgur.com/UFOAF.gif http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:961618656] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I think one of my best traits is not allowing really negative things affect me long term. Despite having a thin skin and having my fair share of depressive episodes, Im able to find a way to go on having a normal life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rioushu 01/11/22 8:35:12 AM #49:	Huh, I think No U got purged for that --- engligh <cite>Rioushu posted [p:961655551] in I just rea... [t:79845532]...</cite> <quote>Huh, I think No U got purged for that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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