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gamepimp12
12/06/21 4:33:13 PM
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Its more accurate to say she loved the way I treated her than it is to say she loved me. So you guys are right.

Granted Im right in the sense that I said you guys could only be right if she was actively lying to me in some fashion.

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g0ldie
12/06/21 4:34:43 PM
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that sucks, man.

hopefully now that you know, you can focus on yourself, healing, and what not before looking for the next one.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 4:40:23 PM
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g0ldie posted...
that sucks, man.

hopefully now that you know, you can focus on yourself, healing, and what not before looking for the next one.


yeah it is what it is

Im still trying to find out if she was lying to herself or lying to me but I feel like thats mainly semantics at this point.

apparently when she said she wasnt ready for a relationship she meant any romantic feelings at all. But she spent 6 months calling me pet names and saying how lucky she is to have me around telling me Im so good to her etc etc.

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One_Day_Remains
12/06/21 4:43:12 PM
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You spent an exorbitant amount of money on her while barely even knowing the girl
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gamepimp12
12/06/21 4:48:09 PM
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One_Day_Remains posted...
You spent an exorbitant amount of money on her while barely even knowing the girl

Ehh it wasnt a large amount of money to me.

I knew her for almost 2 years

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 6:06:58 PM
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Im honestly surprised people arent rubbing it in more.


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Jiggy101011
12/06/21 6:10:37 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Im honestly surprised people arent rubbing it in more.

I dont get the cuck lifestyle

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nfearurspecimn
12/06/21 6:12:20 PM
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sorry to hear, tc

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Lost_All_Senses
12/06/21 6:14:33 PM
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Damn. I tried to be optimistic in that topic. I already know CE is gonna come hard with the jadedness, so I try to give the alternative perspective.

Anyway, hope you don't get tok broken up over it. Don't let shitty people make you jaded against good people.

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nfearurspecimn
12/06/21 6:18:35 PM
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alternate perspective: let this sideline you and make you give up on every trying anything ever again forever

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 6:36:19 PM
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Jiggy101011 posted...
I dont get the cuck lifestyle


its not as much cuck as much as CE was super jaded in the original topic. So Im surprised they arent saying I told you so

Lost_All_Senses posted...
Damn. I tried to be optimistic in that topic. I already know CE is gonna come hard with the jadedness, so I try to give the alternative perspective.

Anyway, hope you don't get tok broken up over it. Don't let shitty people make you jaded against good people.


Ehh it is what is its, I kinda felt after the last topic we weren't gonna work out, or it would be a rough couple of months to get back right if we did work out . But finding out someones not who you think they are sucks.

Im not to angry at her, at least right now, probably because I feel like she was lying to herself as well. But thats probably me caping for the person I thought she was.

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TheOtherMike
12/06/21 6:42:06 PM
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Allanon23
12/06/21 6:44:22 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Im honestly surprised people arent rubbing it in more.

Why? People here are dicks but they aren't soulless.

Kicking someone while they are done is fucked up.

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CanuckCowboy
12/06/21 6:53:33 PM
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Allanon23 posted...
Why? People here are dicks but they aren't soulless.

Kicking someone while they are done is fucked up.

This plus I dont remember you being a dick in that topic at all so why would anyone be a dick to you?

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Spiderman23JII
12/06/21 6:54:30 PM
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are you the guy who spent a couple grand in like 6 months or something?

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 6:58:04 PM
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Allanon23 posted...
Why? People here are dicks but they aren't soulless.

Kicking someone while they are done is fucked up.

they were jaded about it (saying she was likely just using me or that she didnt like me ) and I responded by being really rude to them because thats not in her character and if she was using me that would mean she actively lied to me and I dont see her ever doing that, especially considered how much we talked about a relationship.

turns out she was dishonest somewhere.

cause I now I know

She claims to have loved the way I made her feel

She claims to have never had any sort of romantic feelings for me myself

She claims to felt obligated to see me as much as she possibly could, and that she had to dedicate time to me I never asked for.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 6:58:24 PM
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Spiderman23JII posted...
are you the guy who spent a couple grand in like 6 months or something?
Yeap

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NoxObscuras
12/06/21 7:02:13 PM
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Damn. I remember seeing the last topic, but I didn't want to jump in because people were already being super negative.

But yeah, I've been there. I once tried to date a "we're going on dates, but we're not 'dating'" girl, who really just wanted the attention. It sucks, but it's better to just move on, instead of dealing with more pain, hoping she comes around.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 7:14:14 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Damn. I remember seeing the last topic, but I didn't want to jump in because people were already being super negative.

But yeah, I've been there. I once tried to date a "we're going on dates, but we're not 'dating'" girl, who really just wanted the attention. It sucks, but it's better to just move on, instead of dealing with more pain, hoping she comes around.

Yeah, I got everything I wanted to say out, unless she has another confusing reply, I dont see us speaking again for awhile, if ever.

Like literally 3 weeks ago or so now we had a convo about how I dont like driving to our dates the main reason being my car sucks, especially compared to hers. She Replied with you know Im not that kind of girl and she doesnt care about the car I drive.

for her to say now she never had feelings for me feels like a lie.

But it makes sense with the obligation quotes Ive been getting lately.

I dont know what to think other than the fact she lied to someone here.


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gamepimp12
12/06/21 7:21:45 PM
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metallica846 posted...
Im shocked because i have tc tagged as friendzone simp.

Ill take that.

I will request the asterisk that I was lied to, like actively shes acknowledged us dating out of her own mouth lied to.

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Lorenzo_2003
12/06/21 7:27:32 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Like literally 3 weeks ago or so now we had a convo about how I dont like driving to our dates the main reason being my car sucks, especially compared to hers. She Replied with you know Im not that kind of girl and she doesnt care about the car I drive.

Sorry about your experience.

Only thing I can offer is that I knew when I met women worth spending my time and money on when they were the ones who wanted to pursue me. Im not saying relationships do not work unless shes the one initiating things. But I am saying that you wont really know where you stand with girls who dont show the same enthusiasm and sacrifice that you do. If you lose your job, lose your car or whatever, those women could show you a different side of themselves that no amount of pretty can make up for. Taking your example, I knew this one girl was different when she would drive miles to see me. Sure, I also drove to see her. But she had that same Hell yes Id drive for you attitude that I had for her.

Good luck with future dating.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 7:32:13 PM
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metallica846 posted...
Alright thats all well and good but now you know the signs of a person in the friendzone and you have the experience not to get stuck again. Right?

Now get out there and brush yourself off. Stop spending money on a girl unless you are actively having sex with her.

i havent spent a dime on her since that giant ass red flag in the word obligation came up, prior to that I dont think anyone would consider me friendzoned and I definitely pushed the subject when she tried to be dismissive about continuing the convo.


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gamepimp12
12/06/21 7:36:40 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Sorry about your experience.

Only thing I can offer is that I knew when I met women worth spending my time and money on when they were the ones who wanted to pursue me. Im not saying relationships do not work unless shes the one initiating things. But I am saying that you wont really know where you stand with girls who dont show the same enthusiasm and sacrifice that you do. If you lose your job, lose your car or whatever, those women could show you a different side of themselves that no amount of pretty can make up for. Taking your example, I knew this one girl was different when she would drive miles to see me. Sure, I also drove to see her. But she had that same Hell yes Id drive for you attitude that I had for her.

Good luck with future dating.

i genuinely thought she was that kind of person, she regularly expressed minor frustration in her inability to return the favor. She regularly drove both across town and across state to see me.

things where moving slow but at what seemed like a genuine pace, I didnt think anything of it until she felt obligated to me, and I pushed the topic till she said exactly what she means.


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Lorenzo_2003
12/06/21 7:40:50 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
i genuinely thought she was that kind of person, she regularly expressed minor frustration in her inability to return the favor. She regularly drove both across town and across state to see me.

Ok, my bad, maybe I missed that part. Sounds like she lost interest along the way. I wonder if she was approached by other guys, so figured she had more options.

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Spiderman23JII
12/06/21 7:52:16 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Yeap

well lesson learn'd

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 7:52:57 PM
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metallica846 posted...
Did you guys have sex? If yes then you were not in the FZ. If you didnt then you were. Simple as that.

Thats a really strict way to look at the friendzone

but I got Head and thats it

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daynlokki
12/06/21 7:54:07 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Its more accurate to say she loved the way I treated her than it is to say she loved me. So you guys are right.

Granted Im right in the sense that I said you guys could only be right if she was actively lying to me in some fashion.
I am sorry to hear that, but I also called her actively lying to you.
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Lorenzo_2003
12/06/21 7:55:34 PM
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gamepimp12 posted...
Thats a really strict way to look at the friendzone

but I got Head and thats it

Yo that counts and deserves a

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Ruvan22
12/06/21 7:56:11 PM
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Allanon23 posted...
Why? People here are dicks but they aren't soulless.

Kicking someone while they are done is fucked up.
This really here is one of CEs great qualities
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_MorningStar
12/06/21 7:57:53 PM
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daynlokki
12/06/21 7:57:56 PM
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Allanon23 posted...
Why? People here are dicks but they aren't soulless.

Kicking someone while they are done is fucked up.
Id rather kick them while they are done then when they are down.
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Ruvan22
12/06/21 7:59:32 PM
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Was this the "should I buy a coffee subscription for the year" girl/thread?
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Akagami_Shanks
12/06/21 8:00:07 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Yo that counts and deserves a
you could consider it a BJ that costed thousands of dollars

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nfearurspecimn
12/06/21 8:05:52 PM
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Akagami_Shanks posted...
you could consider it a BJ that costed thousands of dollars
lol

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Simp
12/06/21 8:10:07 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that, hope next time goes better for you.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 8:11:38 PM
#40:


Ruvan22 posted...
Was this the "should I buy a coffee subscription for the year" girl/thread?


yeah but I was trolling in that thread.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 8:13:57 PM
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daynlokki posted...
I am sorry to hear that, but I also called her actively lying to you.

fair, a lot of people thought I was being an oblivious idiot which wasnt the case.

it was either she was telling the truth or she was lying to me for 6 months.

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g0ldie
12/06/21 8:15:08 PM
#42:


gamepimp12 posted...
yeah but I was trolling in that thread.


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gamepimp12
12/06/21 8:18:49 PM
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g0ldie posted...

nah the coffee topic I was trolling in.

I thought about doing it but had realized the logistics of it doesnt work, nor was she staying on campus long enough for it to matter before I posted the topic.

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BlingBling22947
12/06/21 8:30:14 PM
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Well, experience gained. Now you can do you.

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smoke_break
12/06/21 8:40:07 PM
#45:


gamepimp12 posted...
but I got Head and thats it
I face palmed IRL, lol. At least you learned from it.

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gamepimp12
12/06/21 11:18:57 PM
#46:


smoke_break posted...
I face palmed IRL, lol. At least you learned from it.


its not much to learn from it, i gave, and did more for her than I typically do, because after being friends for as long as we were friends I didnt question her intentions.

im not gonna stop trusting my friends, and Im not gonna stop having faith in the character people constantly have shown me.

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Unsugarized_Foo
12/06/21 11:22:13 PM
#47:


I had a teacher in middle school teach me this:

Women you cant live with them, you cant live without them, and you cant shoot them

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Flockaveli
12/07/21 12:16:11 AM
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But hoes gone be hoes so I couldn't blame Tammy.

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KaZooo
12/07/21 12:49:27 AM
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You were the best she ever had. Let that regret sink in her

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Bishop9800
12/07/21 12:52:02 AM
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lesson learned.

move on.......

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