Current Events > (ex)bf beat the shit out of me last night. Moved home. Ama.

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kbelfisBACK 11/28/21 2:25:56 PM #1:	Nt goes in the topic title <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960429343] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Nt goes in the topic title </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RedLuigi 11/28/21 2:28:41 PM #2:	Fuck that, hope you never consider going back did you call the cops? --- It's-a-me! Green Mario! <cite>RedLuigi posted [p:960429433] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Fuck that, hope you never consider going back did you call the cops? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kbelfisBACK 11/28/21 2:29:27 PM #3:	RedLuigi posted... Fuck that, hope you never consider going back did you call the cops? no and no unfortunately I did not bc I knew if I did he would probably bait them into killing him at this point <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960429454] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>RedLuigi posted... </cite> <quote>Fuck that, hope you never consider going back did you call the cops?</quote>no and no unfortunately I did not bc I knew if I did he would probably bait them into killing him at this point </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
a-c-a-b 11/28/21 2:29:48 PM #4:	That's pretty shitty. Are you ok? --- Save for your doomed future <cite>a-c-a-b posted [p:960429464] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>That's pretty shitty. Are you ok?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kbelfisBACK 11/28/21 2:31:02 PM #6:	a-c-a-b posted... That's pretty shitty. Are you ok? Just a little sore and shaken up <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960429488] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>a-c-a-b posted... </cite> <quote>That's pretty shitty. Are you ok?</quote>Just a little sore and shaken up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AldousIsDead 11/28/21 2:31:12 PM #7:	Stay safe and far the fuck away from him. --- In simplicity, utility. Through utility, simplicity. <cite>AldousIsDead posted [p:960429497] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Stay safe and far the fuck away from him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton 11/28/21 2:32:06 PM #8:	I'm sorry. --- https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton Heartomaton for President 2028. <cite>Heartomaton posted [p:960429522] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
1337toothbrush 11/28/21 2:32:35 PM #9:	Curse that piece of shit. --- https://imgur.com/a/FU9H8 - https://imgur.com/ZkQRDsR - https://imgur.com/2x2gtgP <cite>1337toothbrush posted [p:960429538] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Curse that piece of shit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 11/28/21 2:34:13 PM #10:	That's.......fuck, I'm sorry Don't ever talk to him again <cite>Zikten posted [p:960429585] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>That's.......fuck, I'm sorry Don't ever talk to him again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
clyde_frog 11/28/21 2:34:50 PM #11:	Wtf. Did you contact the police or write up a report? Im sorry you had to experience this Tc. RedLuigi posted... Fuck that, hope you never consider going back did you call the cops? @RedLuigi youre indifferent to calling women sluts and them suffering from verbal abuse. Get out of topics like this. --- https://imgur.com/UFOAF http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m71fpsIYJA1qf1116o1_500.jpg ~Formerly known as BabeFAQs~ <cite>clyde_frog posted [p:960429601] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Wtf. Did you contact the police or write up a report? Im sorry you had to experience this Tc. RedLuigi posted... </cite> <quote>Fuck that, hope you never consider going back did you call the cops?</quote> @RedLuigi youre indifferent to calling women sluts and them suffering from verbal abuse. Get out of topics like this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CommonStar 11/28/21 2:34:57 PM #12:	Why did he do it? <cite>CommonStar posted [p:960429606] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Why did he do it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Norman_Smiley 11/28/21 2:35:14 PM #13:	You can still go to the police now. Even if you don't do it for yourself, he will do this to someone else in the future. --- https://imgur.com/BVBQC The big wiggle equals ratings. <cite>Norman_Smiley posted [p:960429611] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>You can still go to the police now. Even if you don't do it for yourself, he will do this to someone else in the future. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_MorningStar 11/28/21 2:35:35 PM #15:	kbelfisBACK posted... he would probably bait them into killing him at this point Jesus fucking christ I'm sorry. --- https://imgur.com/UM1VO2V https://imgur.com/fd6WS3f <cite>_MorningStar posted [p:960429626] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>he would probably bait them into killing him at this point</quote>Jesus fucking christ I'm sorry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJPurple 11/28/21 2:37:11 PM #16:	Whats his name? Asking for a friend --- Devil's Advocate <cite>SSJPurple posted [p:960429677] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Whats his name? Asking for a friend </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eat More Beef 11/28/21 2:39:46 PM #17:	That's some bullshit. I'm sorry this happened to you, TC. I too was in an abusive relationship. Since you're able to post about it on a message board, I hope you're in a sound enough mind to never go back to that piece of detritus. And as someone said, you should file a report, because if they did it to you, they will probably do it to a future SO. --- I wrote a horror short story collection. You can check it out, and other free short stories at http://www.aarondeck.com <cite>Eat More Beef posted [p:960429777] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>That's some bullshit. I'm sorry this happened to you, TC. I too was in an abusive relationship. Since you're able to post about it on a message board, I hope you're in a sound enough mind to never go back to that piece of detritus. And as someone said, you should file a report, because if they did it to you, they will probably do it to a future SO. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 11/28/21 3:07:45 PM #18:	Dang Kbelf.. I'm really sorry, nobody deserves that. Are you safe at your parents? Do they know what happened? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:960430628] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Dang Kbelf.. I'm really sorry, nobody deserves that. Are you safe at your parents? Do they know what happened? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trumpo 11/28/21 3:08:02 PM #19:	Don't put up with up with domestic violence, there's lots of resources that can help victims. <cite>Trumpo posted [p:960430634] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Don't put up with up with domestic violence, there's lots of resources that can help victims. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheOtherMike 11/28/21 3:13:50 PM #21:	kbelfisBACK posted... no and no unfortunately I did not bc I knew if I did he would probably bait them into killing him at this point You really shouldn't take that into consideration. If you don't press charges then it's just going to be the next partner he beats, or he may come after you again in the future. How he reacts to the police is out of your control, and you have to do what's right for you. Violent people need to get the message and/or be removed from the streets. I know it's fucking hard, I've had friends in abusive relationships and the solution is never easy. But he could seriously hurt or kill someone. Can't fuck around with that. <cite>TheOtherMike posted [p:960430813] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>no and no unfortunately I did not bc I knew if I did he would probably bait them into killing him at this point</quote> You really shouldn't take that into consideration. If you don't press charges then it's just going to be the next partner he beats, or he may come after you again in the future. How he reacts to the police is out of your control, and you have to do what's right for you. Violent people need to get the message and/or be removed from the streets. I know it's fucking hard, I've had friends in abusive relationships and the solution is never easy. But he could seriously hurt or kill someone. Can't fuck around with that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ElatedVenusaur 11/28/21 3:20:31 PM #22:	I understand everyone recommending filing a police report and it makes some sense, but: 1- Its valid if belf doesnt want to do this. Shes in rough shape. Shes in a fragile state. Its ok if she cant/doesnt feel up to doing this and dwelling further on what happened. 2- The cops probably wouldnt do much, if anything. --- I'm Queen of Tomorrow baby! She/her <cite>ElatedVenusaur posted [p:960431023] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I understand everyone recommending filing a police report and it makes some sense, but: 1- Its valid if belf doesnt want to do this. Shes in rough shape. Shes in a fragile state. Its ok if she cant/doesnt feel up to doing this and dwelling further on what happened. 2- The cops probably wouldnt do much, if anything. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitt 11/28/21 3:21:49 PM #23:	:( --- I'm a little teapot blowing off steam. https://imgur.com/pmc9XsI https://imgur.com/p6Wfowq <cite>Kitt posted [p:960431059] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>:( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AngelicRadiance 11/28/21 3:22:06 PM #24:	I hope you can stay away from him my sister went back to her abuser --- She/Her <cite>AngelicRadiance posted [p:960431071] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I hope you can stay away from him my sister went back to her abuser </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pojr 11/28/21 3:26:07 PM #26:	really glad you took the initiative to move out. not an easy choice to make because you have to have to change your life around a bit, but it's worth it. it's never okay to do what he did, regardless of whether he was happy in the relationship or not. --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. <cite>pojr posted [p:960431187] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>really glad you took the initiative to move out. not an easy choice to make because you have to have to change your life around a bit, but it's worth it. it's never okay to do what he did, regardless of whether he was happy in the relationship or not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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a-c-a-b 11/28/21 3:27:27 PM #28:	kbelfisBACK posted... Just a little sore and shaken up Well I hope you're at least in a safe place. Has he tried to call or see you since it happened? --- Save for your doomed future <cite>a-c-a-b posted [p:960431232] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted...</cite> <quote> Just a little sore and shaken up </quote> Well I hope you're at least in a safe place. Has he tried to call or see you since it happened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RedLuigi 11/28/21 3:46:17 PM #29:	clyde_frog posted... Wtf. Did you contact the police or write up a report? Im sorry you had to experience this Tc. @RedLuigi youre indifferent to calling women sluts and them suffering from verbal abuse. Get out of topics like this. Not the time or place to continue some fucked up perception you have from another topic --- It's-a-me! Green Mario! <cite>RedLuigi posted [p:960431851] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>clyde_frog posted... </cite> <quote>Wtf. Did you contact the police or write up a report? Im sorry you had to experience this Tc. @RedLuigi youre indifferent to calling women sluts and them suffering from verbal abuse. Get out of topics like this.</quote> Not the time or place to continue some fucked up perception you have from another topic </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
brestugo 11/28/21 3:49:51 PM #30:	Re-consider a police report. Get a restraining order. Cut all contact with him. And good luck. --- Newsom 2022 <cite>brestugo posted [p:960431954] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Re-consider a police report. Get a restraining order. Cut all contact with him. And good luck. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 11/28/21 3:51:35 PM #31:	While in spirit I agree with "Report him to help someone else." it's also absolutely, 100% NOT on you to report him, an it's NOT on you if he hurts anyone else. <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:960431996] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>While in spirit I agree with "Report him to help someone else." it's also absolutely, 100% NOT on you to report him, an it's NOT on you if he hurts anyone else. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ving_Rhames 11/28/21 3:54:14 PM #32:	Get a restraining order at least. Cops are generally useless in domestic violence cases until its far, FAR too late, so its good you got out. Just remember that if you for whatever reason ever consider going back to this dude, that YOUR well being is irrelevant to him, and he proved it last night. I only say that cuz Ive known plenty of domestic violence victims who just treated this type of shit as a one off incident, and later go back after a couple of months and ended up hurt even worse or outright dead. It needs to be crystal clear, he does not care about your well being no matter what he says. Stay safe. And dont at any point think of it being anyones fault but his. --- the real Irving Rameses https://imgur.com/A7f6F9h <cite>Ving_Rhames posted [p:960432063] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Get a restraining order at least. Cops are generally useless in domestic violence cases until its far, FAR too late, so its good you got out. Just remember that if you for whatever reason ever consider going back to this dude, that YOUR well being is irrelevant to him, and he proved it last night. I only say that cuz Ive known plenty of domestic violence victims who just treated this type of shit as a one off incident, and later go back after a couple of months and ended up hurt even worse or outright dead. It needs to be crystal clear, he does not care about your well being no matter what he says. Stay safe. And dont at any point think of it being anyones fault but his. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bad_Mojo 11/28/21 3:56:47 PM #34:	I used to work with a guy that had a boyfriend that beat him. I just recently found out that that he ended up killing the boyfriend. He's now in jail, and the abusive boyfriend is dead without any worries. TC, I hope you can get into a better place. That's horrible and I'm happy that you're in a safe place --- https://i.imgtc.com/hQ5SuG6.gif https://i.imgtc.com/QrhAq36.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Yjov9DU.gif <cite>Bad_Mojo posted [p:960432149] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I used to work with a guy that had a boyfriend that beat him. I just recently found out that that he ended up killing the boyfriend. He's now in jail, and the abusive boyfriend is dead without any worries. TC, I hope you can get into a better place. That's horrible and I'm happy that you're in a safe place </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 11/28/21 3:59:00 PM #35:	How are you holding up? <333 --- CE'S ANONYMOUS CONFESSIONARY https://forms.gle/uXFgi1noFj3qn8PTA <cite>Harpie posted [p:960432213] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>How are you holding up? <333 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 11/28/21 4:27:32 PM #36:	Woozul posted... do not go by yourself. best way is to have a police officer escort you on the premises so you can retrieve your things. they can perform this service if asked. --- Explorers In The Further Regions Of Experience, demons to some, Angels To Others: Pinhead <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:960433206] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Woozul posted...</cite> <quote>do not go by yourself.</quote> best way is to have a police officer escort you on the premises so you can retrieve your things. they can perform this service if asked.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kbelfisBACK 11/28/21 4:28:24 PM #37:	Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally I feel bad but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing. <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960433231] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally I feel bad but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AldousIsDead 11/28/21 4:34:45 PM #38:	kbelfisBACK posted... Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally I feel bad but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing. Look, that's magnanimous and all, but he laid hands on you and put you in fear. Growth for you is recognizing that you owe him no compassion. I daresay some consequences would drive the lesson home for him. --- In simplicity, utility. Through utility, simplicity. <cite>AldousIsDead posted [p:960433410] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally I feel bad but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing.</quote>Look, that's magnanimous and all, but he laid hands on you and put you in fear. Growth for you is recognizing that you owe him no compassion. I daresay some consequences would drive the lesson home for him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 11/28/21 4:38:50 PM #39:	I hate the criminal justice system . I think it is one of the worst things that America does. However people who BEAT the people that they profess to love. Should be in there. I hope you think about pressing charges. No one should ever be hurt like that. --- To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships. W.E.B. Du Bois <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:960433518] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I hate the criminal justice system . I think it is one of the worst things that America does. However people who BEAT the people that they profess to love. Should be in there. I hope you think about pressing charges. No one should ever be hurt like that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaZooo 11/28/21 4:42:51 PM #40:	brestugo posted... Re-consider a police report. Get a restraining order. Cut all contact with him. And good luck. This I don't mean to sound dismissive but just do what's necessary for yourself at this point. Forget this guy and his own fragility --- Competing every night, both ends, shoot inside/outside, fast break, transition, Monta Ellis have it all <cite>KaZooo posted [p:960433652] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>brestugo posted... </cite> <quote>Re-consider a police report. Get a restraining order. Cut all contact with him. And good luck.</quote>This I don't mean to sound dismissive but just do what's necessary for yourself at this point. Forget this guy and his own fragility </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kbelfisBACK 11/28/21 4:44:59 PM #41:	well some good can come out of this I can make an account on THAT site now ;) <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960433722] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>well some good can come out of this I can make an account on THAT site now ;) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Hat 11/28/21 4:48:23 PM #42:	Sorry to hear that happened to you Belf. I would like to mirror the advice of others to file a restraining order for your own protection. Good luck, stay safe. --- --- <cite>The_Hat posted [p:960433818] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that happened to you Belf. I would like to mirror the advice of others to file a restraining order for your own protection. Good luck, stay safe. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zombiexdeathx 11/28/21 4:51:19 PM #43:	kbelfisBACK posted... no and no unfortunately I did not bc I knew if I did he would probably bait them into killing him at this point do it anyway - let them --- Chogon Macaque <cite>zombiexdeathx posted [p:960433917] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>no and no unfortunately I did not bc I knew if I did he would probably bait them into killing him at this point</quote> do it anyway - let them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 11/28/21 4:52:47 PM #44:	What's your current favorite album? --- Momentai <cite>KainWind posted [p:960433963] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>What's your current favorite album? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blue_Dream87 11/28/21 4:54:28 PM #45:	You only show mercy because its difficult to completely detach feelings from someone like that, even after such a horrible event. That mentality will get you killed. --- Peace Love Dope <cite>Blue_Dream87 posted [p:960434006] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>You only show mercy because its difficult to completely detach feelings from someone like that, even after such a horrible event. That mentality will get you killed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flauros 11/28/21 4:56:20 PM #46:	You really should call the cops. --- https://imgur.com/EX6Md7k https://imgur.com/ygAzHKBYim/Yum https://imgur.com/c84omp7 https://imgur.com/Hj9RrC6 <cite>Flauros posted [p:960434065] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>You really should call the cops. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HA4e 11/28/21 4:58:28 PM #47:	That guy shouldn't be free --- "They don't decide who you are, you do. You are who you choose to be." "Who cares about the quantity, if all you just need is the quality." <cite>HA4e posted [p:960434140] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>That guy shouldn't be free </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pandamonic 11/28/21 5:13:03 PM #48:	I'm sorry kbelf :( --- Ich wollte nur zur aussicht gehen Und in den abendhimmel sehen <cite>Pandamonic posted [p:960434590] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry kbelf :( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kakapo 11/28/21 5:13:42 PM #49:	Im glad you did the sensible thing and got of there. Just realise hes probably going to make all kinds of promises to become a better person and beg you to come back. ~~He wont change. Stay strong and tell him to get stuffed~~ --- Did my singing please you? No, the words you sang were wrong 24 hour party parrot <cite>Kakapo posted [p:960434606] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Im glad you did the sensible thing and got of there. Just realise hes probably going to make all kinds of promises to become a better person and beg you to come back. He wont change. Stay strong and tell him to get stuffed </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Harpie 11/28/21 5:23:15 PM #50:	kbelfisBACK posted... well some good can come out of this I can make an account on THAT site now ;) Wanna collab? --- CE'S ANONYMOUS CONFESSIONARY https://forms.gle/uXFgi1noFj3qn8PTA <cite>Harpie posted [p:960434900] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>well some good can come out of this I can make an account on THAT site now ;)</quote>Wanna collab? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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