Poll of the Day > "I don't need your approval to be happy."

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Solid Sonic
10/11/21 12:54:23 PM
#1:


Why do people say this when it's such an obvious lie?

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Entity13
10/11/21 1:07:08 PM
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Sometimes bitter people lash out without much thought beyond the need for catharsis or relief, so perhaps part of it is them trying to make others hurt? Sometimes people lie to themselves in an attempt to convince themselves they're doing better than they are, so perhaps par of it is that as well.

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blackhrt
10/13/21 9:44:04 PM
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I haven't heard that before TC. where did you hear that?

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Zeus
10/21/21 1:37:22 PM
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I don't need your happy to be approval, tbh.

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Kimbos_Egg
10/21/21 1:39:10 PM
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I don't need your approval to be happy


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Mead
10/21/21 1:40:00 PM
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blackhrt posted...
I haven't heard that before TC. where did you hear that?

from someone that did not want to be talking to him at all

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PunishedOni
10/21/21 1:44:55 PM
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i don't need your approval to be unhappy. ill be miserable either way, thanks

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Muscles
10/21/21 1:47:55 PM
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I mean, not getting the approval might suck for a bit but I don't think there is anyone that can't move on and be happy, well there might be some stalkers that can't but for most people I would assume so. I have gotten over every person that has rejected me in some manner so if I can do it I can't see why others couldn't.

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wwinterj25
10/21/21 1:54:35 PM
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How is a lie? Maybe they just don't care about your existence at all.

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Mead
10/21/21 1:58:06 PM
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No one said its a lie

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helIy
10/21/21 2:00:12 PM
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i get happy with no ones approval

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Sage_assassin20
10/21/21 2:28:23 PM
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I hate being on my alt because I have to block all the annoying like TC again.
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wwinterj25
10/21/21 2:29:07 PM
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Mead posted...
No one said its a lie
True. The TC is no one.

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ParanoidObsessive
10/21/21 4:35:17 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
Why do people say this when it's such an obvious lie?

If you repeat a lie often enough, sometimes you might be able to convince yourself that it's actually true.



Mead posted...
No one said its a lie

Generally speaking, if you have to talk about how little other people's perception of you matters, it matters a great deal.

Because people who actually don't care probably wouldn't bother even wasting their breath telling you how little you matter to them. Because you don't matter to them.

It's not always true, but contextually, if people feel like they're going out of their way to tell you they don't care, it's likely they're doing it because they care a lot but feel self-conscious about it, feel like you're judging them for it, or are otherwise deflecting.
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Mead
10/21/21 4:37:41 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
True. The TC is no one.

all Im saying is that its a statement that probably nobody thinks about others

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wwinterj25
10/21/21 4:54:59 PM
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Mead posted...
all Im saying is that its a statement that probably nobody thinks about others

You would be surprised. Some folk think they matter so much that others MUST care about what they think when they actually don't. Just because they tell you they don't care doesn't change that. I'm one of those people who will tell you if I don't care about your existence at all.

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blackhrt
10/22/21 12:45:14 AM
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Sage_assassin20 posted...
I hate being on my alt because I have to block all the annoying like TC again.

hehe

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