Current Events > Motivation to struggling Ceman in their early to mid twenties

(+) Yeah! (+)

I suffered from low confidence because I was black and had to live around a lot of privileged people. To keep it simple, my head wasn't in the right place and I had bad grades, became overweight, was obsessed with finding sex, so basically a black incel lol. After graduation, I saw all of my privileged friends/peers get decent jobs out of college, married, and move to decent cities. I had to take my ass to the middle of North Dakota to work in a factory making basically minimum wage for my first job. Six months in I got a point where I briefly considered jumping in to the frozen lake and I said I have to do something and Got the **** out. It was a struggle for the next 3-4 years (quarter life crisis is a ***** btw) but I was able to get the point now where I'm making above six figures, have a six pack, getting laid consistently every week, in a city that I want to live in, and able to pursue and expand my hobbies. All of these privileged people that I was jealous of became complacent and dropped out or some couldn't handle the first ounce of a challenge to ever occur to them and are in a much much worse place.

Find one thing you can start improving about yourself right now and work on it. For example, if it's your weight then start on that and don't worry about your job, women, or anything bugging you right now lol.

---

It gets worse if you don't work to make it better.

---