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I4NRulez
09/19/21 4:05:26 PM
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Essentially I left another discord because some of our IRL friends were starting to show true colors and being overly racist. in my new discord it started off with 10 of my friends and I limited who can give invites. Months pass and I'm more lenient to who can invite. It was cool for a bit, no matter what game you played you have friends to do activities with.

Eventually one of my friends invites his childhood friend. He's a generally reserved guy and just kinda sits in silence gaming. At some point, he decides to start being overly friendly to the girls that hop in. None of them really return the sentiment just a courtesy hello or something back to him. He started aggressively trying to befriend them on Steam and other games. Offered to buy them a ton of games. The women just stopped coming in when he was there and eventually stopped altogether. Since they were all friends with me and my friends they started going to other discords. Now there's a bunch of discords with like 2-5 people in them and we cant coordinate playing in games.

Some men just need to be normal around women :(

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Blue_Inigo
09/19/21 4:07:39 PM
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Kick the creep

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Fam_Fam
09/19/21 4:12:38 PM
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I4NRulez posted...
Essentially I left another discord because some of our IRL friends were starting to show true colors and being overly racist. in my new discord it started off with 10 of my friends and I limited who can give invites. Months pass and I'm more lenient to who can invite. It was cool for a bit, no matter what game you played you have friends to do activities with.

Eventually one of my friends invites his childhood friend. He's a generally reserved guy and just kinda sits in silence gaming. At some point, he decides to start being overly friendly to the girls that hop in. None of them really return the sentiment just a courtesy hello or something back to him. He started aggressively trying to befriend them on Steam and other games. Offered to buy them a ton of games. The women just stopped coming in when he was there and eventually stopped altogether. Since they were all friends with me and my friends they started going to other discords. Now there's a bunch of discords with like 2-5 people in them and we cant coordinate playing in games.

Some men just need to be normal around women :(

this is completely normal, sadly
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Hexenherz
09/19/21 4:15:06 PM
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Unrelated but related note, it seems like everyone has a Discord server these days and it is impossible to keep track of. I'm in a special interest discord server and this one guy is like "I'm gonna run a stream for a DIFFERENT discord group that has the SAME topic of discussion as its primary focus if you want to join", like why do we need two different groups.;

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I4NRulez
09/19/21 4:15:41 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
Kick the creep

i did but the damage was done.

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Tappor
09/19/21 4:16:30 PM
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Ban

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metralo
09/19/21 4:16:32 PM
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Fam_Fam posted...
this is completely normal, sadly

this


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I4NRulez
09/19/21 4:20:02 PM
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Hexenherz posted...
Unrelated but related note, it seems like everyone has a Discord server these days and it is impossible to keep track of. I'm in a special interest discord server and this one guy is like "I'm gonna run a stream for a DIFFERENT discord group that has the SAME topic of discussion as its primary focus if you want to join", like why do we need two different groups.;

This was just one for my friends to come and go from. We have friends all over the world and we'd always have at least 3 people in at all times. It was really cool.

Now its almost dead always. Luckily, i can hop into most of the other discords and just play with my friends still but its hard to do big activities in games. Plus our jack box nights were lit and someone would always be streaming games.

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YellowSUV
09/19/21 4:30:15 PM
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Discord is only good for very small groups. Once it gets too big it runs into a lot of problems.

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trillgully
09/19/21 4:31:38 PM
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Woozul posted...
It's super uncomfortable and awkward to have someone in your server aggressively flirting with someone who is demonstrably uninterested and it is even more uncomfortable to be on the receiving end

I'm sorry. Shit sucks all around

I apologize Ill stop


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Gobstoppers12
09/19/21 5:01:09 PM
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I don't know why guys are so weird with women. Women are just people.

Edit: Rather, I know why, I just wish they weren't that way.

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Hexenherz
09/19/21 5:36:48 PM
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I remember I met a girl and her friend (boyfriend? I don't remember) on Counter-Strike and we would join games and she would trip people up just by saying "hello" over the mic. The reactions were hilarious and the fact that she enjoyed it was hilarious but I do feel bad for people who are like... just trying to play and enjoy a game and can't because of dumb shit like guys drooling on themselves because of the pitch of someone's voice.

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TheRadiant
09/19/21 5:39:26 PM
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I haven't been on Discord in months because I'm afraid to confront one of my friends

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trillgully
09/19/21 5:40:39 PM
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Woozul posted...
dunno who you're talking about given I don't have discord

not for my discord behavior for my gamefaqs behavior.

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Simp
09/19/21 5:42:12 PM
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you just need more normal guys to increase your ratio
like me, add me and you'll be amazed at how normal I can act

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Lost_All_Senses
09/19/21 5:42:30 PM
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Damn. You gotta snuff that shit out early. At least walk away with that lesson. You give these dude's an inch and they'll try to fuck a mile.

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Noumena
09/21/21 12:57:59 AM
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I think I addressed them all?
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Buzz Killjoy
09/21/21 1:00:34 AM
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How old are you all?

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TetsuoS2
09/21/21 1:12:02 AM
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yea im a mod in an 11k server, i am pretty close to quitting

big servers suck

im sorry your server died

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teep_
09/21/21 1:21:59 AM
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YellowSUV posted...
Discord is only good for very small groups. Once it gets too big it runs into a lot of problems.

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Number090684
09/21/21 1:26:39 AM
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YellowSUV posted...
Discord is only good for very small groups. Once it gets too big it runs into a lot of problems.

This. If you guys all can't agree coordinate and do specific things and stick to the plan unless something important comes up, it goes to shit.
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