Poll of the Day > Anyone else hate people that are super friendly but don't want to be your friend

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Muscles
08/16/21 9:49:21 PM
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It's like, stop getting my hopes for friendship up and give me one word, monotone answers if we must talk for whatever reason

I'm so sick of thinking I'm developing friendships with people for them to just blow me off when I try to hang out. Why can't people be straightforward with whet they want?

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wwinterj25
08/16/21 9:54:44 PM
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I don't trust folk easy so can see through others bullshit.

Muscles posted...
Why can't people be straightforward with whet they want?
I don't know what others motives are but all I want is folk who are honest. I'd respect them more for that at least.

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Mensis
08/16/21 9:55:57 PM
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Im friendly to everyone but also an introvert loner

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JOExHIGASHI
08/16/21 9:58:53 PM
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I like it because that means I don't have to spend time with them but I can have a short pleasant interaction with them.

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Gaawa_chan
08/16/21 10:02:18 PM
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Yeah, I had a co-worker who did this to a degree. She would put on this over the top phony friendly voice (literally do the drawn out "hiiiiiiiiiiiiii" thing and such), and she was super handsy, like assuming that people would be okay with her grabbing and hugging what were basically complete strangers... and of course she was talking shit about everyone else TO everyone else (which, I mean... did she think we wouldn't tell each other what she was doing?). After she made one of our teenage employees cry, no one would tolerate her bullshit anymore.

She was in, like... her 40's, maybe? And she behaved like a grade-school bully, it was ridiculous.

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helIy
08/16/21 10:06:28 PM
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some people are just friendly

that doesn't mean they want to be your friend, it's just their personality

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Blighboy
08/16/21 10:10:54 PM
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For the last time Muscles, they're waiters, it's their job

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Muscles
08/16/21 10:12:17 PM
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Blighboy posted...
For the last time Muscles, they're waiters, it's their job
I don't mean people in the service industry

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party_animal07
08/17/21 1:20:08 AM
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Not gonna lie. I've been guilty of this on multiple occasions.

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Mead
08/17/21 1:51:38 AM
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No. I have never felt this. I like it when people are kind and friendly but people deserve their privacy too if they want it.

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Mead
08/17/21 1:52:36 AM
#11:


Mensis posted...
Im friendly to everyone but also an introvert loner

thats okay man, it doesnt mean you arent liked

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Muscles
08/17/21 1:56:06 AM
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Mead posted...
No. I have never felt this. I like it when people are kind and friendly but people deserve their privacy too if they want it.
Being nice is good but I'm talking about people that act like your friend but aren't

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Metalsonic66
08/17/21 2:44:08 AM
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helIy posted...
some people are just friendly

that doesn't mean they want to be your friend, it's just their personality
This.

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Mead
08/17/21 2:55:00 AM
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Muscles posted...
Being nice is good but I'm talking about people that act like your friend but aren't

I dont really understand what you mean. You mean people that pretend to be nice but they dont actually care?

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metalXgear
08/17/21 3:21:30 AM
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Most people keep their close friend loop very small, just because they go around being all friendly and "likeable" doesn't mean anything. They still don't want just any creep invading their personal space, but at the same time want others to think they are important and a worthy valuable person. Do your self a favor and don't acknowledge these types of people. They will never have any interest in becoming your friend and will never value you or any thing your good at that you have skill with. They have their own group that is their clique and won't budge from it. They know every one will take their side over anything they have a problem with and they are even good at pretending like they aren't a mob when they definitely are.

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KodyKeir
08/17/21 3:49:05 AM
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Because people can only psychologically handle so many people in their lives, the average being about 150, ( 50 on the low end and 300 on the high end) anything beyond that and the brain just forgets people.

It might just be that they already lead a full life and don't want to risk losing the memory of a cherished love one.

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Sarcasthma
08/17/21 5:10:23 AM
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Blighboy posted...
For the last time Muscles, they're waiters, it's their job
lmao

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Smiffwilm
08/17/21 8:32:26 AM
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Every overly friendly person I've met so far has turned out to be a huge scumbag so.... I immediately don't trust those types. It's like they overcompensate to hide their true nature I guess.

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Revelation34
08/17/21 9:52:13 AM
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Muscles posted...
It's like, stop getting my hopes for friendship up and give me one word, monotone answers if we must talk for whatever reason

I'm so sick of thinking I'm developing friendships with people for them to just blow me off when I try to hang out. Why can't people be straightforward with whet they want?


Stop assuming females want to be your friend.
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Nanaue
08/17/21 9:55:10 AM
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metalXgear posted...
Most people keep their close friend loop very small, just because they go around being all friendly and "likeable" doesn't mean anything. They still don't want just any creep invading their personal space, but at the same time want others to think they are important and a worthy valuable person. Do your self a favor and don't acknowledge these types of people. They will never have any interest in becoming your friend and will never value you or any thing your good at that you have skill with. They have their own group that is their clique and won't budge from it. They know every one will take their side over anything they have a problem with and they are even good at pretending like they aren't a mob when they definitely are.
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Jen0125
08/17/21 10:02:41 AM
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No? I don't care if people are friendly. I wish more people would be friendly.

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pionear
08/17/21 10:55:51 AM
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Sounds like most Californians...
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faramir77
08/17/21 11:03:38 AM
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I've never heard of someone being clingy in a friendship before like TC sounds lmao

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fettster777
08/17/21 11:23:05 AM
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No, I hate the people that say things like "Turn that frown upside down!" and are just like happy in their life 100% of the time. People who are generally friendly, but not in an overbearing way, are fine.
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wpot
08/17/21 1:43:25 PM
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pionear posted...
Sounds like most Californians...
Nah, Minnesotans have the patent on this one: Minnesota Nice (but not your friend).

Let's keep things civil, but we don't need to hang out.

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kangolcone
08/17/21 1:45:08 PM
#26:


Muscles posted...
It's like, stop getting my hopes for friendship up and give me one word, monotone answers if we must talk for whatever reason

I'm so sick of thinking I'm developing friendships with people for them to just blow me off when I try to hang out. Why can't people be straightforward with whet they want?

Ever consider that the problem is you?


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Mead
08/17/21 1:46:39 PM
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Honestly muscles I get the impression that you put way too many expectations on other people. Everyone is just trying to live their lives

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BlackScythe0
08/17/21 1:49:28 PM
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Wasn't the last time he was complaining about people not being friends when he was upset some girl didn't want to hang out with him and came across really creepy and overbearing?
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pionear
08/17/21 2:43:51 PM
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wpot posted...
Nah, Minnesotans have the patent on this one: Minnesota Nice (but not your friend).

Let's keep things civil, but we don't need to hang out.

Personally I don't think I've ever met someone from there...(just know about the Floyd Mess that Happened in that State)
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Muscles
08/17/21 3:11:44 PM
#30:


Revelation34 posted...
Stop assuming females want to be your friend.
Its not just girls, guys do this too.

Nanaue posted...
muscles is not a creep though.
I definitely used to be, but I'd like to think I have gotten a lot better. I've been trying to better myself at least

kangolcone posted...
Ever consider that the problem is you?
I consider it all the time, I'm not sure what to do besides just trying to get better socially, which I have been slowly but not fast enough

Mead posted...
Honestly muscles I get the impression that you put way too many expectations on other people. Everyone is just trying to live their lives
Most of my life only friends have really been friendly to me and everyone else ranged from polite to being a dick so it feels so weird and foreign that someone would act super cool and friendly with me just because

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wpot
08/17/21 3:14:32 PM
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pionear posted...
Personally I don't think I've ever met someone from there...(just know about the Floyd Mess that Happened in that State)
Yes...that's our claim to fame now, unfortunately. At least we convicted the bastard.

We're a half-outdoorsy, half-rural, half-urban state kinda like Colorado or Washington...but more mellow. We're friendly, but also passive-aggressive.

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Revelation34
08/18/21 10:22:05 PM
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fettster777 posted...
No, I hate the people that say things like "Turn that frown upside down!" and are just like happy in their life 100% of the time. People who are generally friendly, but not in an overbearing way, are fine.


Those people are great if you're constantly surrounded by cynicism and misery.
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Dark_SilverX
08/18/21 10:52:09 PM
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Gotta beg them to hang out. Don't let the friendship fall apart.

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Muscles
08/19/21 12:47:32 AM
#34:


Dark_SilverX posted...
Gotta beg them to hang out. Don't let the friendship fall apart.
Come on, I'm socially inept but not that socially inept

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ReggieTheReckless
08/19/21 8:05:59 AM
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IDK, man

Seems kind of normal to be a nice friendly person to me but not want to make friends with literally everyone

I have like less than 10 close friends and I'm completely happy with that amount
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Lokarin
08/19/21 10:50:38 AM
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> Anyone else hate people that are super friendly but don't want to be your friend

r/niceguys

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DirtBasedSoap
08/19/21 10:51:14 AM
#37:


Lokarin posted...
> Anyone else hate people that are super friendly but don't want to be your friend

r/niceguys
imagine being so socially awkward that even lokarin is dunking on you

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Muscles
08/19/21 2:15:06 PM
#38:


Lokarin posted...
> Anyone else hate people that are super friendly but don't want to be your friend

r/niceguys
I should go visit there to make myself feel better for not being that bad

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Revelation34
08/19/21 9:29:45 PM
#39:


Muscles posted...

I should go visit there to make myself feel better for not being that bad


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Muscles
08/19/21 9:40:04 PM
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I'm still not sure why wanting people to be real and not fake nice is a bad thing

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Nanaue
08/19/21 10:49:30 PM
#41:


the bullies in this thread enrage me and muscles there are two kinds of people in this capitalist hellscape. The users and the being used. When people use their charm to bedazzle you than you are being used. Try to resist verbal and intellectual hypnosis by deceitful scoundrels.
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CoorsLight
08/19/21 10:50:03 PM
#42:


Do you want them to be assholes instead?

There is such a thing as insincere niceness, but some people just like to be nice because it feels good. Even if it is sincere, they don't owe you something just because they were nice to you. Sounds like you're the problem honestly. I know you're lonely but don't project your insecurities onto everyone you meet
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Nanaue
08/19/21 10:52:08 PM
#43:


CoorsLight posted...
Do you want them to be assholes instead?

There is such a thing as insincere niceness, but some people just like to be nice because it feels good. Even if it is sincere, they don't owe you something just because they were nice to you. Sounds like you're the problem honestly. I know you're lonely but don't project your insecurities onto everyone you meet
Why dont you back off, buddy.

Muscles already learned his lesson earlier in the topic and you are jumping on the muscles hating bandwagon. You are enraging me btw.

People should not be so cruel, cold, and calculating.
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Muscles
08/19/21 10:54:06 PM
#44:


CoorsLight posted...
Do you want them to be assholes instead?
Yes well either that or cold and distant, it's what I've come to expect from anyone that's not family/friends so I would like to keep knowing what people think of me based on how they treat me

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Revelation34
08/19/21 11:58:06 PM
#45:


Nanaue posted...

Why dont you back off, buddy.

Muscles already learned his lesson earlier in the topic and you are jumping on the muscles hating bandwagon. You are enraging me btw.

People should not be so cruel, cold, and calculating.


Ok totally new user.
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Mead
08/20/21 12:01:02 AM
#46:


Nanaue posted...
the bullies in this thread enrage me and muscles there are two kinds of people in this capitalist hellscape. The users and the being used. When people use their charm to bedazzle you than you are being used. Try to resist verbal and intellectual hypnosis by deceitful scoundrels.

stop trying to recruit muscles into your weird alt right cult

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ClarkDuke
08/20/21 12:16:55 AM
#47:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
imagine being so socially awkward that even lokarin is dunking on you


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Muscles
08/20/21 12:25:41 AM
#48:


Mead posted...
stop trying to recruit muscles into your weird alt right cult
He's doing a terrible job if that's what he's trying to do. I took it as trolling at my expense

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Revelation34
08/20/21 12:44:45 AM
#49:


Mead posted...


stop trying to recruit muscles into your weird alt right cult


Is that Whiskey?
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Muscles
08/20/21 2:32:56 AM
#50:


Well had 2 people hit me up out of the blue, 1 to hang out and another just to see what's up. Both of which I assumed didn't want to talk to me so haven't talked to them, now I feel stupid. I'm really bad at understanding people but somehow leave good enough impressions on some.

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